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I am disappointed in how my wedding plans turned out, how can I make peace w/ it?
I have been obsessing for months. My immediate family went to Vegas with for 5 days along w my fiances immediate family. The first night we were there it poured down rain & one of the bridesmaids got sick so we rescheduled the bachelor bachelorette parties for the next night. Everyone said that was fine. However a few hours later everyone except the sick bridesmaid is telling us that they are furious with us for changing plans & that they refuse to speak to us We called a dozen times & cold never reach anyone 2 days later the wedding day rolls around & 10 minutes before I have to walk down the aisle my family shows up & act like nothing ever happened.Wedding goes great but t after the reception my family goes right back to giving us the silent treatment & we don't see them at all for the rest of the trip b c they won't answer any of our phone calls or accept any of our invitations for spend time together. We had no wedding shower & now we were cheated out of our b b parties. It's been 2 months & STILL we are being given the silent treatment. My mom talks to me now but has basically explained that it was all my fault but she can't go into it anymore & I just need to drop it. No one will tell me what happened. I have begged I had no family support at all during my wedding & they wouldn't spend any time with us during that trip. I feel like they faked all that sentiment during our wedding too which is making me bitter. How do you get over being hurt like that when no one will tell you what you did & they expect you to drop the issue when it nearly ruined your wedding? They seem to callous & uncaring that they did this to me. How can I make peace with this?
What do you think of my wedding plans so far?
flickr.com photos 65594773 N04 sets 72157629175799589 That is just what I have so far.The colors are aqua, chocolate brown, and buttercream yellow or a pale yellow . Evening September wedding in Arkansas. Country Rustic theme.We will be adding our own personal touches to everything, like the cake for instance, we will be changing to meet our ideas wants.
Every time my mother and I discuss wedding plans it ends in a fight?
I always lose my cool when we talk about the subject... I even said to my fianc e on the way over there for a family dinner that I wouldn't lose my cool but I did anyway She has a way of suggesting in a demanding way and I don't know how to handle it. She gets loud and crazy and it gets my adrenaline going and I yell back. if the subject isn't wedding related, I handle the situation quite well. She will yell and I will respond in a normal tone and that works. It's when we get on the wedding subject that I get defensive. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
My wedding plans are not working out because of step-mum please help?
I am 18 years old and I am getting married in June on a beach in Greece to my fiance Lucas. Lucas is 19 and we have been together since I was 13 years old. There are problems with the wedding because of my dads wife Linda. I have a 16 year old sister Sarah and about 6 years ago our mum died. Our dad married Linda 4 years after our mum died, Linda has a 15 year old daughter Amy who was 9 when they met. They also have a daughter together Gracie who is 5 years old and she is the apple of everyone's eye. Lucas and I have always wanted a small beach wedding which is why we decided to go to Greece to get married. We only want at the wedding my dad and Sarah and his parents and brother and his 2 best friends and my 2 best friends. Sarah would be my maid of honor and Lucas's brother Michael the best man. We only want a really small wedding with the people we love to death. I wanted Gracie to be a flower girl but because we don't want Linda and Amy there we have been told no.I am not close to Amy we are more or less strangers and Linda does not get on with Sarah and I. Linda has been having a go at me for not asking Amy to be a bridesmaid but we are not close at all and I don't want her at my wedding. It feels very tough because Lucas's family accept our wishes even though he comes from a family with a lot of aunts and uncles and cousins but its about what we want. Sarah has her dress and everything is sorted dad called me and said Linda is not happy and Amy is upset, but Amy is not my sister and she does not even like me. What should I do, its getting that bad Lucas and I have considered getting married without anybody there. His parents are his actual parents not step parents like Linda and Michael is his brother not Like Amy. Sarah and I are close and that is why she is my maid of honor we have been since we were really little.What should I do help
Why is my friend trying to take over my wedding plans?
hey everybody. i have a wedding coming up soon. one of my fiance's and I's friends has been trying to mess everything up. our wedding theme is going to be kinda fairtytale. dragon cupcakes, little dragon flies, etc. NOT LIKE CINDERELLA. anyway, we're trying to keep to blues and greens. but our friend, Rayna, wants to wear a purple dress that will completely go against every color at the wedding. sooo she is trying to make a completely new theme that centers around all purple. here are a few direct quotes she has been saying on facebook " so I should look like I was thrown together Ms. Bridesmaid. If there is one dress out there that will look good on me and is blue then I'll suck it up for one day." " So it's best for me to sit stand and complain the whole damn time and be completely uncomfortable in something and be unhappy on my friend big day, then be completely comfortable and be apart of the wedding in some other way and be happy for them as I was when the first date. Oh yeah totally thinking about myself more than them. I'm done with this." she is only thinking about herself and its not HER wedding its a big day for me and my fiance and she is trying to take it over she has been told by numerous people inluding me that she is just being selfish and self centered. because apparently she doesnt look good in any dress that isnt purple? she was even denied to be a brides maid because of this. but she hasnt gotten the hintwe dont care what she wears. it is HER that says she will clash with all the colors so we have to change the theme
Future mother-in-law being judgmental of wedding plans, told us to just elope?
Let me start by saying I love my mother in law. She likes me too, so there is no issue with that. However, me and my fiance are planning a July 2013 wedding and she suddenly makes snide remarks to him and finds something wrong with everything we mention we might want to do. We want to be married on a Thursday and she said " no one will come to your wedding on a Thursday." We want to be married outside and she keeps mentioning the weather could be bad and we should reconsider. Our venue we are excited about is an outside amphitheater, and instead of saying " oh that's great" or " that's really pretty" it turns into not only the weather thing but also now " oh it looks like your my fiance's grandparents can't come now." Just because there are STAIRS. Like what. the. heck. My fiance does not want his younger brother as his best man, but wants him in the wedding. So of course she freaks about that. He has stood up to her and said that she already had her wedding 26 years ago and now this is his wedding, not hers. He said this without me even asking to, and I am glad he is on my side with this. However, her reply was " Well then why don't you guys just elope then?" Really? Is that so appropriate to say because I don't think so I don't know what her problem is. She told my fiance she is just worried about us and thinks we are not ready for the " real world," which is ridiculous. He told her there is a difference between worrying and being controlling, which led to the eloping comment. I'm so sick of this but I WILL NOT elope, I refuse. I want a ceremony, I want to plan, and my mother eloped so I want her to have that experience with me because I know MY mom won't control the whole damn thing Why can't she just let us be happy? I guess I don't understand. We have gotten along the whole 4 years I have been with my fiance, and now suddenly every minute detail of a day that isn't hers is the end of world. Advice? On a side note I am already very stressed and this is so not helping. I am graduating college next month, and I am dealing with legal issues because my father passed away without a will in the fall and I am handling his estate. If I can resolve this issue at least my life would be easier Thank you for all the good answers, minus the resentful woman with " 58 years experience" who sounds way worse than my mother in law herself. I already understand the risks of an outdoor wedding, it rains I know that. I have a back up plan and should not be assumed I don't just because I didn't write it in my answer. I plan on moving ahead with my plans, Thursday and all, and if someone doesn't like it then they don't have to be there.
Do you know any really famous Wedding planning companies?
I am doing a project about this, and I need some really famous wedding planning company names...Thanks
Tips on how to handle parents during wedding planning?
I'm getting married. Through the months there have been inevitable arguments dealing with the wedding. BUT THIS ONE GAH . The issue I have coome across is that neither of them listen to me after I run down the list of how everything is going or they don't remember what I said or they don't understand what I said. My parents speak Spanish so I have to translate all my thoughts. It has proven to be extremely difficult. This week my fianc e and I have wrapped all the very important things such as the cake, the invitations, programs, except for the catering, which we have explained numerous times about it. I came home after planning the programs and my dad said he was very upset with me and nothing I had said was going the way it should and that he couldn't even talk to me tonight he was so angry. So I sat there thinking what the hell did I do wrong? What have a changed dramatically? The answer NOTHING. I talked to my mother and asked why he was mad at me, she said I don't know. Then she told me " I came back home and told him about the invitations. he asked about your dress and shoes. I said the dress is pearl, those shoes he picked will not go with it. Plus you hate silver and you hate the shoe" First, the dress is offwhite in my opinion the damn dress is white. Second why the hell would you say that to him about some shoes he picked? I never said I hated the specific shoes HE picked. I did express my dislike in the silver selection at a particular store I had gone with her ALONE. Money my fianc e and I planned to pay for the wedding our selves and said we would probably need help with certain things. My mother hated it and would always offer to pay for something. Well, we need their help. Now both tell on each other and say well your blahblah says you told us you'd be able to pay for the wedding. This is why we didn't want to accept financial help in the first place. How do I keep myself from getting hurt, keep my cool and not resent them for this avoidable drama?
Wedding Planning books?
I am planning a wedding for a year from now and I need some kind of book or journal that I can buy to keep everything organized and make sure I get every detail of what I want in my wedding plus a little advice and everything. I am having a DIY wedding so it's not very traditional. I would like anyone who has a book they have bought or received as a gift for planning a wedding to let me know what it is called or where I can find something to help with the wedding process Thank you so much < 3
Wedding planning websites in Australia other than theknot.com?
I signed up to that website, but I'm finding them to be very glitchy and just don't like them much. Are there any other Australia based wedding websites?Thanks I'm not looking for a wedding DRESS website though, I'm looking for a website that has a planner, calendar, website builder forums etc... the idea behind theknot.com.au is great but it's too glitchy
Wedding Planning! Lots of questions!?
I am planning my first wedding and I have a lot of questions It would be sooo awesome if someone could help me out I am also open to ANY suggestions. 1. Does everyone make a wedding website? Weddingwire.com suggests that I should, but I've never heard of anyone else doing this. 2. Fall wedding October , are colors red, yellow and orange tacky? Suggests?3. What is the difference between a 16 and a 16w wedding dress? I am usually a 16 or 17 in jeans, what size dress should I buy?4. I plan on making my own invitations and drink menus, tacky?5. Do all women change their wedding dress to a different one at the reception? I am having an open bar huge party reception. So should I change my dress?6. Are tulle wedding dresses cheap looking?Sorry this is so long
How does this sound for a wedding plan?
So we are trying to figure out ways to have a low budget but meaningful and fun wedding. One idea that we came up with was to have the ceremony dinner at one location and then invite anyone who wants to come back to our apartment afterward for drinks and barhopping. Our family members don't really drink but our friends do so we thought this might be a good compromise...So, tentative ideas Ceremony dinner One idea was to have it as his parents house. They have a huge backyard overlooking a lake so it would be pretty scenery wise. We would have the ceremony in front of the lake and then either grill out or have a catered meal. not a formal sit down meal We would have some alcohol for people to eat with their meal, but because his parents house is located a ways outside the city with no hotels nearby we really don't want people getting drunk and driving home. After party Everyone who wanted to could come back to our apartment where we would have a keg or two wine. We're expecting that only our friends would be interested since our family is very low key and doesn't really drink. Our apartment has huge adjoining porches on each level and we're friends with our neighbors we've already talked to them about the idea and they think its awesome so I don't think space or noise complaints would be an issue. We could then go barhopping or go to a show if there's anything cool going on. How do these ideas sound? Anything you would advise changing or adding? This is just one idea we've had, we've toured a few venues and have a couple favorites but his mom suggested using their backyard so we wanted to see how that would work... Thanks for any input
Wedding planned on sisters birthday! advice?
Okay my little sister is turning 18 on March 24th. I know this may sound horrible but it honestly slipped my mind that her birthday is the day before my wedding. I guess she wanted to go out of town with her friends that weekend but instead she's going to be a bridesmaid. My mom said that Kiana isn't really mad about it, she kinda just was depressed for a minute. It honestly slipped her mind too about how close the dates were. I know its childish but I feel bad I just need some help on what I can do. I was thinking we could go out but honestly the night before our wedding will be hectic. Advice please
What's a good name for a wedding planning business?
Hi everyone,I gave several names a lot of thought. A cute one I thought was " Wedding Bliss" After researching online there is a similar business in KY with the same name. I am in NJ. Can I still have the same name since it's in a different state? Any other name recommendations will be appreciated.Also, as someone just brought to my attention. I am an event planner not limited to weddings.
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