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Question: Does anyone when they greet a pregnant woman ask her?

(Posted by: on 2012-01-22 14:24:25)

Are you hoping for a boy, girl or a homosexual? The fact that I do not celebrate homosexuality does not make me bigoted. I can accept that it is their choice and I can have friends who are but I do not have to agree with their lifestyle choices. Christians for a long time have dwelt among the pagans but were to not compromise their belief. It is governments who promote the wars and start the trouble.

Posted by: G and D's Mommy on 2012-01-22, 14:27:31

Huh? I dont believe homosexuals are born that way, however, they are still a boy or a girl..so asking if you want a boy, girl, or homo makes no sense. Homosexuality isnt a gender.

Posted by: The Phantom Schticky on 2012-01-22, 14:29:44

You're right, your beliefs don't make you a bigot. The fact that you think everyone else should join your cult and think like you is what makes you a bigot. Thanks for the free points, though.

Posted by: SunShine B on 2012-01-22, 14:29:47

Any "religious " group that demands seniority or priority over any other belief are simply delusional. As far as what I'd be hoping for? I would never care what my son's or grandson's sexual preferences ever were. I would only want them to find love in the purest experience. What was your question again??

Posted by: BabeHart on 2012-01-22, 14:30:11

"boy " or "girl " aren't sexual orientations...the appropriate question if sexuality is the inquiry would be "Are you hoping for a heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, or asexual??? " I've never met a <insert >sexual who chose to be whatever sexual orientation they are...did you choose yours??? We choose to act or not act (on our sexual desires) but never did I make the conscious choice to like men and/ or women...I like what I like because that's part of who I am (not because I choose to like or dislike either gender sexually)... Religion IS a choice, so that makes it a much different animal than sexual orientation... Not sure how this relates to Marriage or Divorce regardless...interesting topic though...

Posted by: Grace on 2012-01-22, 14:31:50

What the....? Male and female are genders. Gay is not. No ones asking you to "celebrate " anything having to do with their sexuality-- any more than you are asking anyone to approve of your "cyber lover ". To each his own. No one is asking you to compromise your beliefs. Nor are they asking for your judgment. I may not agree with every view, belief or practice people here choose, but I fully support their right to believe it. With regard to sin, when I am without sin I will have the right to cast the first stone.

Posted by: Lotty on 2012-01-22, 14:31:58

I have never heard anyone say this I usually ask how long they have to the birth ?

Posted by: Beastly on 2012-01-22, 14:32:32

No one else gets ur point but I do it seems that whenever we open our mouths about our beliefs and what we do not co-sign with - we are labeled as close minded bigots but everyone else seems to be "free " to have their own unopposed opinions

Posted by: Blessed on 2012-01-22, 14:32:45

As a fellow Christian, no I don't greet a pregnant woman with that question. Why would I? Christians today get stereotyped as judgmental and two-faced when what we should be is loving of all people and introducing them to Jesus by telling them our testimonies of what He has done for us. I don't agree with homosexuality... but I don't judge it either. I've sinned and still do but the greatest gift Jesus gave me was the gift of forgiveness. When our day comes then we will all stand in front of the same Maker getting the once over.

Posted by: Tracey on 2012-01-22, 14:33:45

No but then we are normal.......

Posted by: sheloves_dablues on 2012-01-22, 14:51:03

No, because homosexuality isn't a gender. And mature people DON'T CARE what other people do behind closed doors. This is such a non-issue I can't believe you wasted five points asking.

Posted by: Triggerhappy on 2012-01-22, 14:52:23

I don't ask her anything about the child cause i don't give a sh*t

Posted by: Liza on 2012-01-22, 14:52:30

Why does anyone need YOU to agree with their lifestyle choices? I'm quite certain that not EVERYONE agrees with your lifestyle choices. Since homosexuals are not hurting anyone why is it your business at all? We are not all on this earth for the same reasons. In my view, we all have different divine purposes, different heroic missions. I don't ask a pregnant woman which gender of a child she is hoping for, both genders are a blessing. I don't ask a pregnant woman which sexuality of a child she is hoping for, gay and straight are both blessings. If she is blessed with a baby of sound physical and mental health she is lucky indeed! Government is simply "the people ". Governments start wars, religions start wars, atheists start wars, PEOPLE start wars. Greed starts wars. Feeling that I'm better than you starts wars. Peace begins in the home. Think: So much fighting within the 4 walls of a typical American home. We can't even figure out our own spouses and in-laws and children...how to communicate and love and compromise and make peace. Yet we expect world peace? You stand in judgment of an entire group of people (this is what you are doing now in your free time) and yet you say that you stand for peace and against war? Are you sure you are displaying a Christian value? Are you sure you are displaying a human value? G-d is love. Life is a miracle. Homosexuals are not a mistake nor an abhorrence. EDIT: There is a lot of research indicating that homosexuality is not a choice btw. A person can choose who they have sex with but it doesn't mean they choose who they are attracted to. In other words, homosexuality may just be something you are born with like the color of your skin or hair or eyes or your height, etc.

Posted by: ArcadianStormcrow on 2012-01-23, 06:41:18

I can understand asking if they are hoping for a boy or a girl... *if* you know them. (Let's face it, that can be a personal question.) But asking if they are hoping for a homosexual? That's a total non-sequitor... you might as well ask if she walked to school or packed her own lunch, for all the sense that it makes. You don't need to celebrate homosexuality, nor do you need to agree with their lifestyle choices. That said, they're here to stay, so I'd recommend having at least some level of acceptance of it. View it like taxes, if you want - something you might not personally like, but something you don't really have the power to change.