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Question: What is the basics i need to know && be prepared for on sex? && possibly pregnancy. i'm 16 && still a virgin.?

(Posted by: on 2010-02-26 14:49:46)

What are the basics I need to know about sex & & pregnancy? I wanna be prepered & & educated about it. I'm 16 & & still a virgin.

Posted by: Mo on 2010-02-26, 14:50:39

Avoid the drama and don't.

Posted by: Jay93 on 2010-02-26, 14:51:42

Sex: Might lead to pregnancy or std's Make sure you trust your partner before you even do anything ! Make sure your ready for the consequences if anything happens. Use condoms ... or/ and birthcontrol

Posted by: �▀▀▼▀▀▌ ► :D ◄ �▄▄▲▄▄▌ on 2010-02-26, 14:52:45

Don't do it. You have your whole life ahead of you. Haven't you seen "Secret Life of the American Teenager "? That pretty much enplanes it all.

Posted by: sanu k on 2010-02-26, 14:54:54

Just dont do it biggest mistake ever you got all your life to have sex dont feel the need to do it now. there nothing much to it just use condoms.

Posted by: Sara on 2010-02-26, 14:55:43

Dont have sex. I know thats a long shot so use a condemn, make sure he is respectful and dont do anything you dont want to do. Get on birth control, if you dont want your parents to know then go to the health dept and theyll give it to you for free and its confidential. Theres enough teen pregnancies and its bullshit

Posted by: Fake Name on 2010-02-26, 14:56:57

Kay first of all, The secret life of the american teenager is NOTHING like being a teen mom. and second, sweetheart, just be smart about it. use a condom, and don't do it if you think you'll regret it later

Posted by: The Amazing; Not So Confident on 2010-02-26, 15:07:50

To be honest, sex is everything its brought up to be.. its great and fun, and should be enjoyed with someone you truely love. However just because love is involved, doesnt mean you can act careless. Make him wear a condom, or get tested.. so many options.. to be honest, condoms suck ass, this coming from a guy.. they do drop the pleasure considerably. but i rather be safe than to contract something serious

Posted by: Larry on 2010-02-26, 15:10:30

If you have sex before your Married, With your bf, you can prepare that he will not be around long after wards. For if you read on here about all the girls that lost there bf, after thy had sex you would understand what i am saying. If you did have sex and end up pregnant you want be prepare for that. So, your a virgin now, you need to stay that way in till you meet the guy you will spent your Life with, you will be glad you did. This is the only way you will be prepare for sex, and being pregnant, and you will having them both the way God in tented . You do not want to be educated bye some guy that fills your head with lie's, just to sleep with you.

Posted by: Animal Lover x') on 2010-02-26, 15:11:56

Condoms arent 100% secure, so if you did it even with a condom you still can catch std's. You can get herpese threw saliva and mano. You can get pregnant with unprotected sez and if you dont use the condom right it can probably brake or pop depending on how well is put. You can get crabs so be shaved if anything. Andd mae sure you know the person for a good enough time and you tlel him to give you health proof he dont got nothing. Unless you wanna be on medications for doing something wrong..

Posted by: Puppy looove on 2010-02-26, 15:26:06

Slow down there youngin. Once ur pregnant u should go on 16 and pregnant lol.

Posted by: Marisa R on 2010-02-26, 15:35:04

On the real you need to stay a virgin dude...trust me you dont want kids....at that young of age cause all the fun things you plan are done....if you have sex make sure you wear protection cause you dont know if that person has some disease that could really hurt you later on in life...good luck...

Posted by: Esparza90 on 2010-02-26, 15:57:10

Like other people were saying its important to be educated and know the consequences. My mom made me take child development in high school. That class taught me everything you need to know in that aspect. First you should educate yourself on the matter because than you will know what to do. Counselors at school are always there for you if you have a question. I wouldn't have sex either. Its best to wait. When you get into a relationship and the guy wants to have sex. I've always been told simple as that just say NO. Pretty easy. That's if you don't want to. Make sure you use protection. With a condom its not 100% its like 99%. With birth control and condom combined its 100%(my primary care physician told me). Though you can't guarantee your partner isn't infected with an STD. Its always best to test yourselves first that way you know he is not lying to you when you ask because this world is crazy so don't trust anyone but yourself no matter how convincing it may seem. But really ask yourself whether you want to do it because than you don't want to be thinking about it later all the time and be regretful.

Posted by: Christina on 2010-02-26, 17:49:03

Okay sex is important part of your life that really helps you mature, but you never need to do it if you don't feel ready. I waited till i was 17 to have sex because i fell in love. i always wanted and knew that when i shared that part of me with someone i wanted to make sure that they loved and cared about me just as much as i did for them. when you first have sex be fully aware that it is not gonna be like it is in the movies. Your first time is gonna hurt a lot, your gonna bleed like your on your period, and it might be awkward at first. the main things you need to know is be safe!! Whatever you do do not have sex unprotected you are 16 and your not ready to be a mom so think about that before you make a decision like that. To prevent pregnancy you could take birth control or he could wear a condom,but the super safe thing to do is take birth control and for him to wear a condom. i hope this helped.