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Question: How to break unplanned pregnancy news?

(Posted by: on 2011-11-02 17:41:17)

How do I tell my boyfriend I'm pregnant? I'm 18 he's 19 it's totally unplanned and he doesn't want kids. Obviously

Posted by: adhmv on 2011-11-02, 17:42:44

Set him down and tell him

Posted by: Ally on 2011-11-02, 17:43:35

Sit him down, be calm, Maybe have dinner then sit down on the couch and tell him calmly something like 'i have to tell you something important' and he'll ask what probably haha and you can just tell him you're pregnant. Good Luck! God Bless!

Posted by: Guadalupe Nunez on 2011-11-02, 17:43:54

There is no easy way to tell him but u shuld just be honest wat he decides to do will tell u about his character maybe show u good or bad

Posted by: lovegaga on 2011-11-02, 17:44:10

Tell him when he's calm........

Posted by: Glenn Irish on 2011-11-02, 17:44:15

ABORTION! TADAAAAAA. jk just tell him, and because of the age maybe you should give the baby up for adaption as hard as that sounds, trust me if you don't all of the dreams you had are well... crushed. If he flips out and leaves you he obviously isn't a good person, so why would you do him in the first place? but yeah I'm not sure, I would stand by adoption.

Posted by: Dr Johnny Skinz on 2011-11-02, 17:44:22

Wait until you're both in the kitchen and find a jar of Strawberry jam. Slam the bottle on the floor and say, "Whoops that wasn't suppose to happen, just like our new baby coming. So do you want an abortion or what? Cause if we go for it it'll end up looking like that. " Then point to the jam on the floor.

Posted by: Erik on 2011-11-02, 17:47:32

Tell him your both going to be parents and that if he didn't want kids, he shouldn't be taking gambles when he's not willing to pay the debt.

Posted by: sabrinab4 on 2011-11-02, 17:52:39

Talk to him. Don't hide it. Regardless of what you think. He has a right to know. You both knew this could happen, now you both need to confront the fact that it happened. and Prepare for more serious issues. Confront the Issue if not it will be just on you. I would suggest that you go to planned Parenthood or a Birth control clinic. They can offer you counselling and help you to sort through what you want to do from this point on and direct you to further resources. Hope you have a a Great Family support. Honey, if fathers dont want to be part of a childs life. It usually becomes the Mothers Life Battle! In the end a worthwihile one! But it will be a Ride up and down.Good LUck "We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts we make the world. "