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Sending ex girlfriend pregnancy advice?
About 8 months ago, I broke up with my girlfriend, we had been together for 11 years met at 17 .Last week I got a message from her saying that she had been seeing a guy for almost 8 months and that she had accidentally become pregnant. She is now 10 weeks gone. She tells me she is happy but I know her very well and I know when she is not being 100 % honest, I also managed to get a bit more information out of one of her sisters and she tells me that she does 'seem' happy but again, she's good at that but that he is quite a dull person and when I saw a photo of him he REALLY is not her type at all.At first I was very jealous and upset but now I've had a week to 'get over it' I am just left feeling worried about her, I made the right choice leaving her she was a terrible girlfriend really and I do not want her back, however after 11 years it's impossible to not care about her.So, my question is I know that her family don't give enough of a crap about her to make sure she is doing the right thing. I almost feel as though it is my responsibilty to do so, if she is truly happy to have this baby then I am all for it but I can't help feeling she was very lonely, rebounded and got pregnant and is now convincing herself that everything is fine.We ended on good terms and although I don't have any contact with her anymore I know I COULD have this talk with her but I'm not sure if I should.Does anyone else have an opinion on this?BTW I am a very tactful person, my plan would be to give her an opportunity to talk things through with me rather than just say " GET AN ABORTION" In reply to the first answer I'm someone who cares about her a great deal and I want her to feel that she has someone to talk to if she needs to. Don't get me wrong, I dont WANT to do it, it would be painful as hell even to see her in that condition but as I said, her family do not care and her new boyfriend who may be lovely for all I know will obviously not want to hear that he may be a rebound.Thanks guys, To be honest I kind of knew I would get this sort of response but I think I needed to hear it.Her family do know but they are a very selfish bunch and don't care enough to give her advice. I'll stay clear, if she asks me which I doubt she will to be honest then I'll be there for her to talk to. I'm not trying to be a 'white knight' or win her back or anything, I've had a girlfriend of my own for a couple of months and I'm already happier with her than I ever was before, however she wasn't a rebound, it took me months and a lot of lonliness to get over my ex and I'd hate to think that she made a life long mistake and ruin her career just because she is lonely, especially if I could help. btw before the comments start, my current girlfriend is aware of the situation and knows I'm just trying to work out the right thing to do, she knows I have no romantic feelings left for my ex . Re The jealousy, it was more jealous that someone had taken my place I guess, it's sor
Seeking pregnancy advice...?
I'm 28 yrs. old, married & have 3 kids my youngest is almost 1. I found out that I am pregnant again. The problem is, everyone is rude to me about it. Instead of family & friends smiling & saying congrats, they say something like, " You're knocked up AGAIN?" or " Are you trying to start an Army of your own?" or " You know what causes that, right?" or " Now you're gonna have FOUR kids? What were you thinking? " These people have no basis for saying things like this because my kids are polite & well behaved my hubby has a good job we are not on welfare and my kids are well loved & cared for and get good grades. What is making this hard on me is that I'm not too happy about being pregnant again unplanned and I really need the support of family & friends hubby & I have a reallygood relationship I havent told my Dad & I know he is going to respond just the way the others have he's done it before . I can't take 1 more person being rude to me. I need my family's support. What do I do?
Need pregnancy advice!!!!?
How do I tell the guy that I have only been dating a few months that I am pregnant? We used protection everytime but I am not really sure what happened. He just got divorced 5 months ago and I already have a 5 year old. I told him we needed to talk and he is coming over tonight, I think he knows somehting is up, but I think he might think I want to break up because he did not ask questions he just said it didnt sound good and that he would be here as soon as he could.
Do men change during pregnancy? advice please!?
Ok im 7 months pregnant, and my boyfriend lives and works away, he's only 20, and ive noticed he's changed so much, he sometimes acts as though he doesnt care, ive never seen him upset or cry, but at our 20 week scan there was a bit of a concern and he walked away from me, and was in tears, i would say it was after that he just kind of went distant, going out with his friends a bit more, started saying about a dna test, apprently he doesnt think ive cheated i NEVER have he just has to make sure? 2 weeks ago i got rushed into hospital, and he didnt even come up to see me, he went out drinking the weekend and then couldnt understand why i ignored him for the whole week, he came to see me last weekend, and took me for a meal, and explained that hes just scared he isnt going to be a good dad and that he wants to move closer, but just wants a good payed job, so we dont have to struggle, but said hes worried i dont feel the same, that i just want the 'family' and dont actually want him, i spoke to him, reassured him, and he's planning to move closer, but he wont tell his parents just in case they try to stop him? then last week i had another scan and i was so worried after it, and i was really upset, i was crying down the phone to him, i told him i needed him to come and see me, and he didnt even ask what was wrong, he like freaked out and ignored me, and then this weekend has gone out again, he said he does feel bad and hes texted me saying sorry, but i just feel he isnt there for me, and i feel like ive made this baby myself, im even preparing to do it without him, he said he'll come up and see me every weekend after this one, when the baby kicks and i ask him to feel he said 'ive felt it before' he doesnt seem to understand i get really tired, and feel really huge, i dont want to make excuses for him, but i would rather understand if men to change and go freedom mad, or whether he is just being a p ck thanks
Teenage pregnancy, advice?
My 17 year old son got a girl pregnant, she is also 17.I have discussed this at length with both of them. All the hurdles and pitfalls. My son seems to be indifferent, she on the other hand, thinks its a great thing. Her father seems to be of no use, and her mother seems all for it, which confuses me, why would she want that for her daughter at such a young age. Since we all reside in Michigan, is there legal liability upon me if she intends to have this child? In other words, will I as a grandfather have to pay child support? Thanking everyone in advance.
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