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My Fiance just had a miscarriage. How long do I need to wait to break up with her to avoid looking like a jerk?
My girlfriend found out 4 months ago that she was pregnant. After trying everything I could think of to convince her to just do the right thing and get an abortion I finally had to bite the bullet and ask her to marry me because it would be easier than paying her child support. Anyway, it must be my lucky day because the little problem died today. I'm trying to appear sympathetic but inside I'm jumping up and down with joy. The thing is that now I need to break up with her because she showed her true colors, you know, she proved to me that when I needed her, she refused to put my best interests at heart and get an abortion. I love her, but I know that if something happens and she gets pregnant again I know she'll do the same thing again. How long do I need to wait to break off this engagement to avoid looking like an ass, because she has 2 very cute friends and I'd like to move on to one of them so I need to come out out this looking like a good guy. I'll probably tell her " you remind me too much of the child we lost" so I look sympathetic. I was thinking 2 weeks?
Why do men cheat after miscarriage?
I've been married for 2 years, and on february this year i found out i was pregnant, had a miscarriage 8 weeks later, a month later i found out my husband was talking to his ex gf on a facebook that he made just to talk to her, he left his account open and thats how i read all the messages, he promised he wouldnt do it again.. 2 months ago i found out i was pregnant again and had another miscarriage about a month ago, and they were talking again. so why does this happen right after the miscarriages, instead of getting us closer. have this happened to any of you? why do you think hes doing that?his ex gf lives in another country, so they didnt have sex or anything, but i think talking to an ex is considered cheating
My sister in law to be ignored the fact that I had a miscarriage, I was supposed to be her bridesmaid!?
We live just up the road from each other and I thought we got on fairly well. She asked me to be a bridesmaid which I was flattered by but surprised by as she has sisters. I then got pregnant and as luck would have it would be 38 weeks pregnant at the wedding so could not be bridesmaid and could not go to the wedding either as it was in another country. However she seemed cool and said congrats etc. In the meantime I had a miscarriage which I was obviously devastated by. Everyone was so good, texts, calls etc. Not overboard just to say they were thinking of me, etc. Nothing from her for a full week. My brother came over on his own for the first time ever and made excuses for her, ie she s tired, wanted to let me come on my own etc. All fair enough but could she not even send a text? I did not say anything to my brother but he sensed my annoyance and spoke to my mother who played dumb but I think prob said " sure tell her to txt" . Lo and behold got a text that night saying sorry didnt text, not good with words, etc see u at the weekend. No sign of her at the weekend. The following week she had to come in as was in the car with my brother and we needed help with booking hotels for the wedding. She was very cool all my family noticed it I thought I was quite nice to her prob not overly friendly but nice all the same. She barely spoke and have not heard form her since. Now my brother has said to my mother he hopes we dont have a row although I have said nothing to him about it and neither has my mother. I feel really p d off about this and just don t get it??? Am I over reacting. Any advice or comments are appreciated. Thanks.I don t think I m pushing it or obsessing. I actually have spoken to nobody but my husband and briefly to my mother as she asked had my sis in law being in contact. I was only looking for a few opinions on whether I should feel the way I feel or not or have other people had any similar experiences. Also she has not had to find a replacement for me, she already had 2 others along with me and I dont think I should now apologise as I already did when I told her I was pregnant. See I always judge things on how I would do things i probably shouldn t as I know not everyone thinks like me but I just thought it was a bit shit of her. Thats all
Sister in law had miscarriage? how should I react?
My husband and I just had our baby boy two weeks ago and my sister in law absolutely loves him and loves to come visit him. This morning though she lost her baby she was 12 weeks along . she is very devastated and I wanted to come visit her and bring a get well present and my baby because i know she loves him? or would that be too soon or too painful for her?
Girlfriend broke up with me after miscarriage...?
A few weeks ago I made a post regarding my girlfriend being distant after a recent miscarriage. I had felt the break up coming on and when it finally did, I reacted horribly. I first pleaded and then yelled at her. Then I grabbed my things, slammed and kicked the door. I texted her the next day about returning some of her things to witch she responded and I haven't spoken to her since. There was a big episode at my job that Friday and I was so distraught that I reached out to her briefly but got no response. That was the last communication I had with her. I know she needs space but I would really like to talk to her briefly in person and apologize. I'd also like to extend the offer to go to counseling on my dime not really for the relationship piece, but for her to get help dealing with the miscarriage as she took it pretty hard as well as I though I didn't show it . Is there a good way to going about this or should I just leave her be and move on. Any advice would be appreciated...
Can anyone give me any advice on breaking up after a miscarriage?
Hi..I'm 24 years old and i feel like my life has ended 3 years ago i found out that i cant have children naturally and that my only option would be to have ivf Well 2 months ago...as me and my boyfriend now ex had been together 7 years that we would just go for it I dont know if anyones has been through ivf, but i can honestly say that it was the worst experience of my life..daily injections, going through the menopause, worry and depression It was awful Anyway the ivf had finished and i had actually got pregnant I couldnt believe it..i felt like the luckiest women on earth Everything was going well until my 7 weeks The nurse told me that there was a heartbeat but the baby was measuring a bit small She told me not to worry and she would repeat the scan the following week So the following week i went and she told me that the babys heartbeat had stopped I was absolutely devestated After everyhting i had gone through to get here..it was all over I left the clinic and cried hysterically I rang my boyfriend who was at work and he said i'd be ok and he'd call me after work He called me and when i asked when i was coming round he said after football about half 8 I couldnt believe it..as he had asked me to keep the ivf a secret i had no support I basically begged him to come and stay with me and he said no as he was picking people up I told him not to bother at all..so he didnt Then he didnt call for 2 days because i was in a mood for him going I basically had a missed miscarriage and so i was still not bleeding..our baby was inside me for 2 weeks not alive and my boyfriend did not show any kind of support at all I had to go to all the appointments on my own..and even when i started bleeding he was not here with me I was bleeding for over 3 weeks and in this time he called me and said that he doesnt know why he acted like this and that maybe he didnt love me anymore After 7 years i really dont know how someone could treat you like this..its now nearly 7 weeks since he finished it and i havn't even had a text to see if i'm ok or an apology And being dumped over the phone Can anyone please give me some advice on what i should do as i feel like my life is ruined I dont even have the confidence getting into a new relationship as its hard telling a man you cant have children And also i still miss my ex..although he has treated me like this Sorry its so long
Helping her cope with her miscarriage?
My mom 41 had a miscarriage at 5 weeks last Tuesday. It was her second one, she had another one after my dad died 10 years ago. She and my new stepfather are devastated right now, I really don't know what I can do to help them cope. My husband and I have been visiting them everyday now since it happened my mom wants me around 24 7 so i try to be there as much as i can and we helped them as much as we could, but I feel like we're not doing much good right now. Right now were running out of ideas of how to make things a little easier for them right now. Any suggestions?
Should I tell my ex that I had a miscarriage, please any input?
Hi my ex stopped talking to me cz I was keeping the baby .So he had all communication cut with meAs far as I know now he still thinks I'm preg.But I had to get the d& c cz the fetus stoped growing.Should I tell him or not? An if ido it wd be a msg , what shd I say? I dont think it's fairfor him to go on thinking I'm having his baby but the again he starte ignoring me and deleted me and called me all sort of names and etcWhat do u guys think ?Ok ,, I I tell him what should I say in a message? I really don't Wana talk to him if he didn't care about me keeping the baby why would he care about losing it ??
I accidentally told my friend about my best friends miscarriage. Please help me make it right?
So yesterday my friend pulled me aside and told me she thought she was pregnant. All the sings were there but the only problem was she can be a massive bullshitter at times, I like her a lot but I wouldn't believe a lot that she says. As we got deeper into conversation she got herself into more of a state, we were in school but it wasn't a massively public area so she was drawing some attention. As I tried to calm her down I started talking about her options and how many she had in the hope it'd reassure her. Last year one of my closest friends was pregnant and she didn't feel she could tell her parents. Eventually my mum found out and instead of blowing up she was really supportive and useful, and said my friend was free to come to her and sort it out if she didn't feel like she could do so with her parents. A few days later she had a miscarriage. Now my friend started saying how much trouble she'll be in with her mum and how her family will kick her out, so my immediate reaction was to tell her about my friends story with my mum and how she might not even get into a full pregnancy. At the time all I wanted to do was Console my friend, I completely forgot how much she likes to gossip. Today she found out she was pregnant. She also came up to my friend in a lesson and told her how sorry she was she had a miscarriage. She was so upset she had to be taken out. I didn't find out until another one of my best friends had a go at me online. I honestly didn't see this one coming, I know I should of and now I feel like a terrible friend. I tried to call my best friend tonight and talk it out but after a few minutes she told me we should talk about it tomorrow. Please tell me how I can put this right, I don't know what to say, My best friend doesn't trust my friend at all and I'm starting to have doubts as well.
Did I have a miscarriage please help I'm only 16?
Ok I'm 16 had sex the 10th of last month I have already had my period but 4 or 5 days ago my stomach was hurting really bad and not I'm bleeding my stomach isn't hurting now but I still shouldn't be bleeding and don't say go see a doctor cuz I'm not telling my mom please just help I'm really scared
I had a miscarriage aged 15 and can't cope?
It was about 4 months ago. It was a complete accident, our condom split I'm not stupid enough to do it without one . I found out I was pregnant at 4 weeks 5days. A few days later I began to bleed and lost the baby. I didn't tell anyone about this other than my doctor but it hurt me so bad. I didn't want to upset my boyfriend, I'd told him I was late but then just said my period had came.Anyway it's just I had this opportunity to be a mum and then it was snatched away. At first it terrified me but even now it's all I can think about. I hate the way I've been acting, encouraging us to have sex without protection and everything but I can't help myself. I know financially I can't be ready to cope with this and I have such good grades at school it would be a waste to become a mother so young.I want nothing more than to be a mother and am so ready for all the work that entails. I know I sound pathetic and people will say I shouldn't have had sex at all but I did and this is the consequence of that.What should I do? I've tried to get over it but I can't and it's breaking my heart. No one even knows and I just have this huge need to be a mummy. All I can think about is my baby dying inside me and it's so horrible. I feel so guilty and so needy and desperate. My boyfriend would have been there for me and the baby and still would I think. He's 17, I'm 15 almost 16.
A miscarriage two months ago?
Not sure who to side with on this one. She had a miscarriage two months ago. She is scared to be pregnant again. Her husband tells me he is sick of hearing her say she is afraid to get pregnant. She mentioned it last month and then again yesterday. She told me it was too much of an emotional roller coaster for her the first time around and that she isn't ready to be pregnant again. Even though they have used contraceptives every time she feels she might be pregnant again. Her husband tells her to take the test and be done with it so they know and she can stop worrying about it. She is too afraid to take it and seems emotionally fragile. Now he basically told her he doesn't want to hear about it anymore ever and to only let him know if she is positively pregnant not any of her baggage " maybe" scares. She is upset because she feels like he is acting very insensitive to her feelings about it. She is scared and can't help it. She wants to take the test but cries every time she thinks about it. They are both friends and I can't decide how to advise them so they can move forward without fighting? What should I tell them? I think they ask me because I had a miscarriage but they are each hurting in their own way and I can't decide what to tell them.
What do you say to someone who has just suffered a miscarriage?
Apart from sorry By the way its my friends 19 year old little sister
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