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What would be way of involving in-laws in a pregnancy, even though we are cutting complete contact soon?
My husband has a horribly contentious relationship with his mom and sister, there are issues with abuse, he was in foster care for years because his mom refused to take care of him, etc. When he was 18, his mom went onto disability and he went home to take care of her and help out with his younger sister. Years later we met and got married, they really, really hate me. They still aren't very nice to him either, and use him and stress him out. I am four months along and we have found out some more things about his family that has made him decide that he would prefer our child not be around them and that he wants to cut complete contact. He owns the house his mother lives in she is disabled , so there are some legal issues that he has to sort out while figuring out how to let her go on living there without putting himself in a legal bind if she does something to the house she doesn't take the best care of it, it's paid off and she doesn't pay rent or anything . At this point, I think he feels it would be cruel for his family to know we are expecting and never let them meet the child. But at the same time, we don't want to accept gifts or give them false hope. At this point, they don't know he is lining everything up so that he can sever ties. Is it mean to not tell them until we are ready? Should they be allowed to meet the child and then we cut contact? Or is it better to just cut contact now? And truly, this is not being petty. His family is still abusive to both of us and at this point, we have found out information that his mom is associating with a pedophile. This is to protect us and our daughter.
What should I do? Rushed marriage, pregnancy, abusive husband?
I married a guy I met online, it was all a bit rushed. I am from the UK and he's American, I moved out there and after a couple of months he was very verbally abusive and he got physical with me, so I left and went to stay with a friend. Of course he begged me back the whole week and I thought since I married him, I would give him another chance, so I did and it was fine for a while and then the abuse started again, he'd yell, call me all the names of the day and throw things, he terrified me. I found out I was pregnant, it wasn't planned of course, I would never want to bring a child into an unstable marriage. I knew before I married him, I shouldn't have done it....now I can see why warning bells were going off...of course I didn't listen to them. Anyway to cut a long story short, I came home with him to see my family and he had to go back, but I decided to stay and have the baby here for fear things would get worse and I would be stuck there once baby born there and is automatically an American Citizen....I told him he needs counselling before I would consider going back, of course he's not happy. I just don't trust the whole thing...I have never trusted his character, the funny thing is he confesses to be a christian, as I am, and my pastor told me if he truly repents over this that I have no grounds for divorce. Thing is he so called repented the last time and continued to be that way My pastor did tell me to think of me and baby now of course and for me to have her here, and that I will know if he truly repents....
Upset my boyfriend didnt announced my pregnancy on Facebook?
I am 19 yrs old and 5 weeks pregnant, my BF is 31..he hasn't announced to family or friends on facebook our baby. These are close friends and relatives that some live out of town. Is he embarrassed or scared?we have been together 10 monthsnever asked to marry me yet.
I'm afraid of my boyfriend after his reaction to my unplanned pregnancy?
My boyfriend found out I was pregnant a few days ago when I told him. We're both only sixteen. He responded really negatively, he yelled a lot and said that it was my fault because I forgot to take the pill. I own up to that, because I did forget it on some days, and believe me I regret it now. What scared me was he raised a fist like he was going to hit me, but then ended up putting a hole in his wall in his room. He has never acted violent before. We haven't talked since that day, and I'm afraid to see him again because I don't want to put myself and our baby in danger. I understand he's scared, and believe me, I'm scared too. Should I reach out to him or will he come to me? Do you think he'd be happier if I terminated the pregnancy?
How can I make my wife's pregnancy special?
I have a daughter with my ex girlfriend. My wife has been in my daugther's life since she was 15 months old. She loves and accpets my daughter and in that I am greatful.We found out she is pregnant and I'm super happy. I was talking to a buddy at work and he said that stepmoms need to be made to feel special he is in his second marriage . He says they get insecure about the ex and stepkids. Especially since I've already been through this, this is not my first child. So how do I make her feel super special? How do I make this pregnancy special for her since it's her first but my second? I already feel this pregnancy is special because my daughter was unplanned and a huge surprise for me. I love her but I admit I wasn't ready to be a dad and I had to grow up quick I was 19 when my ex got pregnant . This pregnancy I am ready for and excited about. Plus I know this child will not be uses against me to hurt me or held over my head like a toy like my ex does with my daughter.
My ex-husband promised me he would be there for my pregnancy but there is a new girl in the picture?
Im 25 he is 26 and she is 21. we were together 9 years married 6. as much as my heart ached we got divorced. We were living in different states when i found out i was having his baby since he at the time was in the military. he was supposedly excited about the baby and he promised that once he moved back he was finishing his military term he would be there for me for the remainder of the pregnancy and be part of the experience. After much hesitation from my part, he convinced me that we should try to work out a friendship for the sake of the baby. he told me how he missed me, could not wait to see me, that he enjoyed talking to me because no one had so much with him in common than i did and he even even said that he was not talking to anyone and interested in anyone and although right now he was not trying to pursue a reconciliation with me that maybe one day that we never knew that we might be together again. i always pulled away for fear of a heartbreak and told him he had to be patient with me. The day after he arrives to the state I live in he tells me that he out of respect for me he wanted to let me know that he just got into a relationship with someone and that it was something that was not just a passing thing. I was devastated. The doctors appointments, the lunch meetings we had planned, the lamaze classes we arranged he said he would not go becuase he did not want me to go through anymore emotional pain which to me is an excuse. i found out through his siter that while he was " talking" to me he was already " talking' to the other girl. she is her sister ex best friend and her sister is fearful that there is a hidden agenda from her and that she does not understand why he is crazy about her that he has not been there for me and he is not speaking to her since she does not approve of their relationship. after him being with the girl for a month and not contacting me for that time, he emails me asking about how i was doing and my doctors appointments and that he still wants us to work on a freindship. i cant be friends with someone who cant put his child first so i did not respond. after a month with her, he claims that he is inlove with her and she is wonderful, moved in with her after a week getting with her all the while she still lives with her parents. i want to move on for the sake of my child and focus on the healthy development of my child, but as a woman i am hurt and am trying to understand why would he do this to me after everything him and i been through. his family does not approve of the situation and they say I was very good to him and dont know what happend. im 8 months pregnant now and i havent even gotten a pack of diapers from him. i cannot beleive how a man who used to treat me like a queen now has neglected me during this time. what is happening to him? do men tend to do this a lot to women? will he ever wake up and face the situation?
How can i spice things up in the bedroom when my husband is turned off by the pregnancy?
Why am I still worried about pregnancy...?
My girlfriend and I have sex about 2 times a week. She is on birth control and I use a condom everytime . But after every time we have sex I worry about her getting pregnant. The " what ifs" run through my mind. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy it when it's going on, but a few days after I get worried. Is this natural?clover yes i do thats why i don't want somethin to go wrong
When to take a pregnancy test?
When to take a pregnancy test?I didnt miss my period, so when should i take one? i had my period as normal
How do I start an act to make the age to be an adult to 30 and make pregnancy under 30 illegal?
The Frontal Lobe doesn't reach adult level until age 30 and the risk part isn't mature until age 30.People over 30 would make careful decisions about sex and know what to do to " avoid pregnancy" and I believe that the government is very stupid and blind to reality and fails to look at science and know that 20 something year olds are very immnature today and the drinking age should be 30 worldwide.
For Men: If your wife kills your child by aborting a planned pregnancy, what will be your reaction?
And if she does it only to emotionally cause a hurt or a damage onto during a breakup. What will be your reaction to her?
Im jealous. How is it that my husbands extra marital affairs have resulted in pregnancies yet I cant get ...?
........... by him?Not only do I have to deal with excepting the fact that my husband loves having his affairs with minority women over me, his white wife, but I am also trying to raise his black amd minority kids .... now this? How is it that these women are becoming pregnant by him? We have sex too on occassion when he's not too tired , we've gone to swingers clubs to enhance his view of me yet it doesnt result in pregnancy for me. I want his child too What on earth are we doing wrong?But my bigger problem is trying to convince my husband that I am his wife and better then the minority women he seems to crave. But how can I convince him of this? Im not curvy and my breast are not that big Im no where near a Beyonce yet these are the kind of women he likes.Im sorry I failed to mention he's only had 5 affairs. But how unfair is it that I can't get pregnant?
False Pregnancy Rumors!?
Ok so I'm a 17 year old Jr. in high school, who is NOT pregnant. Last month me and my b f Alex 19 had sex for the first time. He is a senior Started school late . 2 weeks ago we had our cheer and football tryouts. I made cheer and he is the quarterback. Practice is every week day from 8am to 12pm. Everything was normal until last Wednesday, I went back to the locker room to get my cell phone and found Prenatal vitamins on the floor in front of my locker. I picked up the bottle so i could find a name on it but the sticker was ripped off. I was also most out of the locker room when Meagan The biggest b tch Cheerleader Walked around the corner. She asked what was in the bottle so I told her Prenatal vitamins. And hurried out of the room not wanting to talk to her because like I said she is a b tch. I took the bottle to the office, explained where I found them and was done with it. Over the next few days people started looking at me funny and pointing and me, or the conversation would stop when I got close. On Friday my best friend Kimmy walked up to me after everyone left the locker room and asked me if I was pregnant. I laugh telling her no and asked why she would say something like that. She told me that everyone was saying I was but that I was trying to hide it. I told her it was not true and she said ok and we went home. That afternoon I was going over to Alex's home to hangout and have sex since his parents weren't home. When I got there i walked in like I always do And headed for his room. I opened the door and he was sitting on his bed with his head in his hands I knocked and he looked up at me. He stood up and he looked pissed off, I asked what was wrong. This was our following conversation.Alex " Is there something you have to tell me, because if there is do it now?" " No, why?" " Are you pregnant?" " No?" " Are you sure because more than one guy on the team said that you were taking some sort of pill women take when they are pregnant, Girls in the locker room saw you" " I never took them they are lying" getting very Frustrated " Them? So you do have the pills then" " No I found them, I'm not pregnant " " Ok then, Just to make sure take this" he was calmer now, he handed me a brown paper bag. Inside was an early pregnancy test. I tossed it on his bed refusing to take it. Why should i take it if I know 100 % I'm not Pregnant?" Just take it Becca, so I know for sure" " NO '" Come on then we can get it out of the way" I took the damn thing 3 mins later it came back negativeHe apologized and we watched a movie because I was mad and didn't want to have sex with him while I was.Saturday and Sunday fine, Monday not so great Alex and I told anyone who asked the truth but In a small school stuff gets around. My cheer coach out of concern with the rumors she had heard called my parents They were in complete shock at the rumor. My mother being snoopy went in to my room dug in my trash looking for any sign that I might be pregnant like a test or something. and in the end table found a string of condoms I had recently S IT I walked in the house and could feel something was wrong. Both my parents were sitting at the table the condoms in between them, I about died. You can imagine the conversation. After a while of them asking I admitted to having sex with Alex. Tell the truth get in less trouble right? Wrong Very wrong My mother brought up the phone call from my concerned coach. I told her that I was not pregnant. To that she said " You also lied to me that you and Alex were practicing abstinence So how can I believe you now " She Dragged me to the car and We went to the OBGYN. The whole car ride I tried explaining but she had none of it. I got the the doctor they gave me a urine test that had an unclear reading, They pocked me for a blood test but that takes hours and my mother wanted an answer now so she told the doctor to give me a pelvic examine. I have never felt so violated But my mother got her answer i was not pregnant. On the way out my mother took me to get birth control.Everyone at school still says I'm pregnant how do i get them to stop. And my boyfriend is scared to have sex now thanks to our " Scare" what do i say to him.Alex is not an a hole you jerk. He is an amazing guy, it's just We had a condom break before that and he was scared how would you feel
How do I get over my boyfriends Pregnancy Porn Fetish?
I recently discovered alot of pregnancy fetish websites and pregnancy porn on my boyfriends computer, was not snooping, mine was broken and I was actually Googling how to fix mine .He knows I have discovered it, and he is embarrassed about it, but has said nothing more.I am really upset that he has hidden it from me as now I wonder what else he is capable of hiding from me. We live together, I have 3 kids and he has 1.Our sex life is quite healthy. How do I get over this... I have never felt so betrayed??
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