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Why do men change during pregnancy or after baby is born or you have kids?
I just want to know why men change after they have kids? I find that after a woman has a baby, men continue to just think they can have thier same lifestyle. They continue to do whatever they please. They seem so selfish afterwards and so cheap with money. They seem to become more distant afterwards too. Why do men do this?

What would you do if your wife's personality changed during pregnancy?
First pregnancy, now she gets incredibly worked up to the point of violence, like she's getting ready to have a nervous breakdown. She never sleeps as it is and we're only at 15 weeks. My life is now bent solely on pleasuring her, fulfilling her every whim, and happily taking loads of verbal abuse. God forbid I stand up for myself because when I do, she insists I pack up, never come back and that she'll have a late abortion and '" RIP THIS THING OUT OF MY STOMACHE " What should I do???

Do men change during pregnancy? advice please!?
Ok im 7 months pregnant, and my boyfriend lives and works away, he's only 20, and ive noticed he's changed so much, he sometimes acts as though he doesnt care, ive never seen him upset or cry, but at our 20 week scan there was a bit of a concern and he walked away from me, and was in tears, i would say it was after that he just kind of went distant, going out with his friends a bit more, started saying about a dna test, apprently he doesnt think ive cheated i NEVER have he just has to make sure? 2 weeks ago i got rushed into hospital, and he didnt even come up to see me, he went out drinking the weekend and then couldnt understand why i ignored him for the whole week, he came to see me last weekend, and took me for a meal, and explained that hes just scared he isnt going to be a good dad and that he wants to move closer, but just wants a good payed job, so we dont have to struggle, but said hes worried i dont feel the same, that i just want the 'family' and dont actually want him, i spoke to him, reassured him, and he's planning to move closer, but he wont tell his parents just in case they try to stop him? then last week i had another scan and i was so worried after it, and i was really upset, i was crying down the phone to him, i told him i needed him to come and see me, and he didnt even ask what was wrong, he like freaked out and ignored me, and then this weekend has gone out again, he said he does feel bad and hes texted me saying sorry, but i just feel he isnt there for me, and i feel like ive made this baby myself, im even preparing to do it without him, he said he'll come up and see me every weekend after this one, when the baby kicks and i ask him to feel he said 'ive felt it before' he doesnt seem to understand i get really tired, and feel really huge, i dont want to make excuses for him, but i would rather understand if men to change and go freedom mad, or whether he is just being a p ck thanks

What would you do if your wife's personality changed during pregnancy?
First pregnancy, now she gets incredibly worked up to the point of violence, like she's getting ready to have a nervous breakdown. She never sleeps as it is and we're only at 15 weeks. My life is now bent solely on pleasuring her, fulfilling her every whim, and happily taking loads of verbal abuse. God forbid I stand up for myself because when I do, she insists I pack up, never come back and that she'll have a late abortion and '" RIP THIS THING OUT OF MY STOMACHE " What should I do???