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My boyfriend doesn't want to f***(long term relationship advice)?
im 19 we have been dating for four years.. lately it seems like he's been turning me down a lot for sex. I've never heard of a guy especially mine turning down a bj or not enjoy when i come on to him he tells me if we want to be together for the rest of our lives we can't burn ourselves out and have sex every day anymore. i have a very high sex drive so this is an issue..i would never pressure him to do something he doesn't want, and i know my bf loves me with all of his heart and is really attracted to me. it just kind of hurts being turned down when i through myself at him. is this normal?advice from people with experience would be amazing

Long-term relationship advice please?
My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. We are both 19. We started dating when we were 15 and we only broke up once and it was within the first two months of dating. During the two weeks we were broken up I did some stuff I wasn't proud of. When we got back together I told him about what happened and we moved on. I told him I had kissed this guy but left right after. The truth is that it was only a kiss but I didn't leave right after and it wasn't a peck, but it didn't go any farther. I was FIFTEEN at the time and so DUMB. If I could go back and tell myself what I know now I would, but for the mean time I am starting to feel guilty about him not knowing exactly what happened.Do you think this is something he NEEDS to know? Is it something I should even feel guilty about? It was so long ago and we are so grown up now and I would never do anything like that now. Thanks

Long term relationship advice?
im 19 and have been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for around 2 years. it hasnt all been great, we have little trust due to drug related issues, we concieved a child which was miscarried, we hav lived together too but after everything we are soo close. we have a good relationship but i feel he takes advantage of, i do everything for him and it seems he doesnt even care. i got him a flat, a job, gave him money, clothes i did everything to get him on his feet. recently hes started using drugs again and drinking and i feel i dont have the energy to help him anymore.we constantly argue everyday, he is always so paranoid about everything i do, im not allowed out anywhere, i have lost all my friends over it and im just so sick of everything. even his family are all druggies and dont approve of me the thought of him being with someone else makes me want to commit suicide can anyonre give me any advice on the situation

I just don't know what to do.. Long term relationship advice?
We've been together 16 months. He's never been a person to message or email a huge deal, it's been a treat when he does. The problem is that I am worried. He's so loving in person when I see him, but it's as though he COMPLETELY ignores me when I'm NOT there. He doesn't call or email or text. Even when I text him he BARELY responds. He tells me he's tied up at work and he's got hobbies outside the relationship. Cheating isn't a POSSIBILITY, as he's never given me an indication and he's LOYALITY has been expressed to me all throughout our courtship.Should I be worried ? I just want attention when I'm NOT with him.

Long-term relationship advice?
My boyfriend and I have been together going on 6 years, it's been rocky but somehow we have made it this far. A little over a year ago, he cheated on me. He got himself in a paternity war with my, yes, ex best friend. Luckily, he wasn't the father. We remained broken up for quite a while. It was difficult because he was my best friend, and same with him. We reached out to each other for closure, and realized that we really do love each other and just took one another for granted. I'm not going to lie, our relationship has been pretty much amazing since we got back together. We are both in our twenties, and it's time we both have started considering moving out of our hometown and move with eachother while he gets his Bachelor's and I get my J.D. Due to his prior actions and other's, I have little to no attachment to our hometown. I just want to get out and start a life. He, on the other hand, has friends and has family and wants to move but is a little more reluctant to leave so soon. Not to mention, the cheating scandal still haunts me. What should I do? Is there hope for us?

Ending a long term relationship advice please?
I am a senior in high school and have been dating my boyfriend for the past year. I am going away for college and he is not and we both know that we are not going to be together forever but still its hard...i thought that we would at least make it to the end of the summer but now im having doubts about even making it until the end of the school year. I could explain all the ups and downs of our relationship but that would take forever so the gist is we never had that much in common to begin with, as i have gotten to know him better i liked who he was before i got to really know him i guess because i saw him from a different perspective things are obviously not good if you are disliking someone the more you get to know them, i am at a point where i am having more fun hanging out with my friends than with him but to conflict with all of these obvious reasons we shouldn't stay together other than the fact the he smokes almost everyday and that has a bad impact on our relationship he is really a genuinely nice guy who repects me and treats me well. Hes not a bad guy and i perfectly enjoy his company i just think that i have settled or am just plain satisfied or content with where i am but am not particularly having the time of my life. We have already been extremely close to breaking up so this is sord of my second chance that i already gave him for things to get better and im at square one. We actually had a really great day today we went swimming and hung out and had some intimacy if you get what im saying and these thoughts are completely irrelevant to how i was feeling but then i had about a 2 hour talk with one of my best friends who knows both of us and its just to the point where im comfortable and could go on but whenever anyone asks my opinion about how i really feel about how my relationship is i always seem to come up with what i just told you and how we shouldnt really be together. Its hard because im really close with his family and even some of his extended family i know things like that shouldnt be the reason to stay in it but it does make it hard its a lifestyle that ive adjusted to. Im at the point where i dont need to break up with him and could at any moment but its not an emergency its just i want to do what i want to do as a senior in high school with my friends and not feel trapped or limited in terms of going on vacations with guy friends or anything like that because i have a boyfriend. im not lookign for another relationship and dont like anyone its just an evaluation. Im not really sure what im asking but more than opinions should i break up with him now even though its random and nothing is really wrong? what should i do? who else has been in my shoes? anything will help thank youbtw i didnt lose it to him which isnt really important but it does remind me that im his first realtionship but hes not mine which makes me feel more guilty i jsut feel like im breaking his heart the first is hard to lose but i get what you saying yea i think everyone gave me pretty good advice

Long term relationship advice!?
I'm in love with a girl who I've loved since I was 14, and I'm now nearly 18. We have such a relationship going. I stupidly broke up with her at 14, but when I was 16 I got the balls to ask her out again. We've been going strong ever since. I feel so sure that I want to spend my life with her, but we are both about to start college, and our schools are 90 min.apart. Her French teacher has recently been telling them stories of ppl who thought they were going to be together forever, and now are separated, including the teacher herself who fell out of an engagement. She calls me crying from this, because she knows it's going to be hard. Is 18 to young to say you're truly in love, because if a career college wasn't an issue I'd marry her now. Our hope is to be able to get live together once we graduate from college and marry once our lives are set. I am a diehard Catholic, and she is an Agnostic. THAT'S how much I love her. Any advice on how to comfort her or myself is greatly appreciate

Long term relationship advice?
Well... Here I go. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 years now. I Love her more than anything and she is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Recently we have been getting in a lot of fights. Most of them are my fault, I'm not going to deny the fact. I used to be so happy and a positive person, but in the past couple of months i have become the exact opposite. I find myself getting mad or upset over nothing and I take it out on my girlfriend a lot. I feel depressed a lot. I really don't think my girlfriend understands. This relationship has been so hard on me. I just want it to go so well that it turns into the opposite and that kills me. I know I cause her to be upset a lot and that makes me feel even worse. We're both in high school right now and when we see each other on the weekends everything is going great. It could be the stress of school that is doing this. I use to believe that nothing could stop our relationship, but now I'm starting to think that I could be the reason for it to go up in smoke, and I really want to try to change my ways to prevent that from happening. I used to be so happy and an easy going person in the first year of our relationship and we never got in fights. She has been nothing but a GREAT girlfriend to me and always shows that she loves me, and I Love her with all of my heart. I don't know what happened to me, I just want to get rid of my negative energy and be positive again, because she has done nothing wrong. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

I need long-term relationship advice, please?
females just between 18 to 24. I am Finance Manager working in well reputed organisation. I am single and 30 year old.

Long term relationship advice...?
i have been a relationship for a long time with this guy and i have two kids by him and for a long time we been going through a lot. fighting, disrepecting my friends and family. insecurities everything you can think of etc.... for years we been going through it. i finally gave up and left him alone. we been broken up for about six months, but tried to remain friends. we still was fighting, even broken up, but in the last month managed to not fight and be friends. he still stays over sometimes, because he is trying to win my heart back, but i feel like it's really over between us. i feel i gave him to many chances to change. how can i tell him that i can't give him another chance?

I never had a long relationship, it has always just been dealing or short term relationship, advice?
I was never in a long relationship, it has always just been dealing or short term relationshiplike it has never been over a month, and i really want to start having long term relationshipsi never really attached myself to it and i screwed up and broke girls heart cause iwas being a such an asshole, not even noticing i was , which i regret , because im such a smuck when it comes to reading a girls mind when dating, , but withthis other classy business girl i was dating like a week ago im on vacation right now i hung out with her like twice and i realized after dating , she liked me so much but i kept missing signals and reading her mind when it comes to mush mush stuff with her.im just not the greatest at being the hun or the boyfriend.I was just always most of the time single and you know just fooling around with random girlsat the clubs and such, like last girlfriend i had was i took her out on dates in christmas time for like a month but i screwed that one up too , beause i kissed her friend at the club and ....., but i really want to be in a long meaningful relationship now.. because i never really had that. and i dont even want to be a player anymore... just give me on tips on how to be that boyfriend type when i first meet a girl, or with a girland how to tell if a girl likes you n wants a kiss and her you know, " indirectly telling you orgiving you signals about something" like im so dumb, last twice , when girls were flirting with me and put the mua face on and wanted a kiss , i just gave them a little baby kiss " mua" to them and they seemed disadpointed, im really a bad lip kisser too, just bein alwaysthe french kissing has been my way... when i see these dating related adventure moviesi wonder... i need to learn that relationship stuff to be good in the future with the girl i really want to be with. Like when i see some of my friend in long term relationship i just thinkwhat have i been? i want that now, i been called good looking whole life btw, so thats not the issue,just a dumb at the whole relationship stuff... made such a waste out of with so many girlsthat i could have such bond with....it comes to reading a girls mind,Just a give me some tips on what i should start off, to start being good at itand you know, just in genereal things you can say to try to help me out thanks im 20 btw.

Long term relationship....advice?
Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years and I'm living with him. I was just wondering if anyone has ever felt the same way as me and what they did about it I have been going out with him since I was 17, we stayed together during uni he was my first boyfriend and I was his first girlfriend. I love him so much, he means everything to me and I can't imagine my future without him, but recently I have been having some doubts, it scares me a little bit that we have been going out so long and I have started to think about what it would be like going out with someone else not anyone specific , it sounds stupid but a little part of me feels like I have missed out by getting serious so young. Has anyone else ever felt like this? Should I just try to put these thoughts aside, I have mentioned it to him and I know he feels the same way but to a lesser extent. Is it just because I feel old before my time? Thanks, sorry for the essay

Far-distant long term relationship ADVICE ?
So here s the deal .. i am a female of 18 years and i have a boyfriend who is almost 21 , i am from a very conservative back ground and when i say very i mean " very" ... i never actually had falling in love in mind and whenever i meet a guy i push them away , i suffer from depression which is hard and i am sociophobic and with all of these he still struggled to be near me , and to help me .. for the 1st couple of months i never backed from trying to push him away and asking him to leave me alone .. and he never did ..and till sometime ago that i did told him " i love you " and had been passionate and clingy about him .. we re almost on the verge of our 10th month .. and we have only met once and that was for an hour he has been raised in a liberated society with many girl mates and ex girlfriends ..and that precisely torturers me , although he went all the way into deleting all his female friends and gave me his fb password and asked me to get in there and delete whoever i want we speak through typing and so 24 hours per 7 and he have cried for me .. and i know with no doubt he loves me .. although my illness messes with my mind often telling me he changed ..while he perhaps did not ...what i feel is that we have grown cold lately .. i feel his words are not as meaningful as before and while when he commits to a wrong he used to apologise and tell me it is alright and he would ask me not to cry .. but now he actually gets angry at me , of course he never verbally abuse me but he is not as kind as before .. i am afraid its my illness that messes with my mind , we dont have anything anymore to speak about .. no topics .. nothing .. everything we spoke about for the past 9 months .. , sometimes i feel espicially that it is my very 1st relationship ever ..and i dont know how things go or supposed to be going .. we have already dreamt of how our future would be together .. what can i do regarding my extreme jealousy ?how do you evaluate our relationship ? and can we make it work ?and what could be the things that might come before us in order to make this work ?cause eitherways we can not make it fade after the effort we both invested in it so far

Long-term Relationship Advice?
My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year.We have an amazing relationship, but there is one problem on my part and I'm not sure how to handle it. Any advice at all would be much appreciated.I get jealous when he talks to other girls, if it's girls I don't know or think he will find attractive. It has gotten worse since he's been in college.Is there any way I can make this go away or ignore it? It makes me feel so bad but try to always refrain from mentioning it. Also should I be concearned if he calls another girl " cute" or " pretty" ?