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My friends try to rush my relationships?
If I'm going out with a guy, my friends always feel the need to push us to hold hands and hug and kiss and all of that, when I'm sometimes not ready to do any of that When I'm rushed into doing these things, I don't feel the " love" if you understand? Cause if we get that connection, we will do it, i just don't appreciate them telling me what to do in my relationships. What shall I do if they carry on rushing me into holding hands and kissing etc?xx
Past relationships but are uncomfortable with questions. Why?
When dating women, especially early on in the relationship, I find that women talk a lot about their past relationships. However, they get very uncomfortable with questions. Why is this? What is wrong with simple questions like, how did you meet? What attracted you? How did it end? Women give vague responses but get irritated when you ask for details.
Long distant relationships- can they be of any success?
Knowing that he lives in another country and we got introduced through internet and became good friends for couple of years. We talk daily and for loooong hours. We share a lot about life, our problems and laughter. He advises me a lot and I do the same and he stands by my side when I m down. Thing is he never told me directly he is into me but through my questions here people told me that he is kinda in love with you ..Because lately he says to me " I ll miss you as always" , " you are the best part of my day" " you make me so happy" " I want to get introduced to your family and come to visit you soon" . He even asked to have my cell ph no. despite the fact we neednt it because we chat using messenger daily and even have voice chat there so why he needs it then?Anyways, is it love or just nice friendship? And if it is love does this kind of relationships can work till the end successfully?
I hate to ask over the internet but I need to know what I can do to have a comfortable relationship!?
My name is Peter, I'm a 16 year old Junior. Now to be more clear, and to ensure the most accurate answer, I am not technically in a " relationship" with this girl. I have never kissed her, nor have we ever been on a one on one date. But I've been getting to know her since Freshman year, and have had a couple run ins with her from elementary school to then. I did tell her that I liked her about 1 month ago and she told me she liked me too. Here's my problem though. I'm worried that I'm pushing her away from me. Ever since I admitted to liking her I start to become very nervous around her and don't know what to say or how to begin a conversation with her. I end up play fighting with her or doing stupid like taking her binder so that I can have an excuse to go to her house and return it. I realized how much I liked this girl weeks before I told her, and now I can't stop thinking about her. Talking to her on the phone is when I feel the most confident which is a huge issue in my opinion and even then I still play fight with her because I don't know what to say. I've tried to tell her how she makes me feel but it came out wrong and I had to pretend like I was just testing her to see how she would react so I wouldn't seem obsessed with her. Whenever I text her I sometimes feel like I'm being a bit clingy even though I don't text her that often. Whenever she doesn't respond to a text I begin to feel horrible as if she doesn't like me as much as I like her. Wow, just proofreading this pointless question has me feeling like a obsessive freak... I'm just trying to figure out what all of this means... This has never happened to me before and I've been in plenty of other relationships. I can't figure out if this feeling is my hormones going insane or... love...
How do I get over relationship insecurities?
I have been dating my current girlfriend for about 3 months now. She is 21 and I'm 22. Both Juniors at the same college. In the past couple of weeks, I have been experiencing some insecurities based primarily on my previous relationships. Before my current girlfriend and I started dating, I was involved in two long term relationships both about a year and a half to two years each. The first one was when I was in high school, and typically those never work out. The last one was in college but she was a freshman and I was a sophmore. Anyways, both these girlfriends eventually left me for another guy and I can't help but feel worried that it's going to happen again with this new girl I've been seeing. We are very serious about each other and I'm actually living with her for the summer because I have a job in the town where our school is at. We have a lot in common and I can safely say, I've never met someone I'm more in tuned with than her. However, because of my past relationships, I get worried about her leaving me for someone else. I often find myself putting things in my head like what if she meets a new guy in one of her classes, or falls for someone she's tutoring. I have talked to her a few times about my insecurities and she assures me nothing will happen like that, and that' she's confident in her feelings for me long term. I believe her and I don't bring up the situation very much so I don't make her feel weird about it, but I find myself thinking about it a few times a day. This girl seems legit and someone I could definitely see myself with for the long haul, but I just want to know what I can do to try to eliminate these feelings of doubt and thinking she's going to run off with the next guy that comes around. Any ideas?
I need help with relationship advice... (Warning, question is fairly long)?
So... I used to live in Kentucky, where my life was pretty hum drum. I dated guys and usually they all made me feel bad in the end. But I finally met a guy online. We talked in late Feb and got together early March. We talked every night on the phone, for at least an hour. He made me laugh, and I made him laugh too. I started falling for him like no other. Then, we were talking about how no one would move up to where he lived, but I told him that I'd move there if I could get the money to do it. But then he pulls a " I'll pay for the bus ticket for you to get up here" and I was so relieved and happy. So on May 5th, I took a day and 1 2 long bus drive to live with him. And for about 14 15 days, we were happy. But then he started to get depressed and sick. Then I look on his computer screen and see that he told someone that he wasn't ready for a relationship yet. I talked it over last night, and decided to stay 'cuddle buddies' until he felt like he was ready. Basically, we wouldn't do anything other than be friends and sleep in the same bed . So I'm waiting for him to be ready... But I'm starting to think that maybe it's the fact that he's overwhelmed? He lives in a very dirty apartment with his roommate that always talks to his girlfriend on the phone loudly and he's also very lazy on some points. There's also a dog in the house that belongs to his roommate that is pushy and spoiled, and she tends to wake him up a lot during the morning. And since his roommate gets the bed, we're forced to sleep on a non pull out couch that is very uncomfortable to sleep in with 2 people. His work also bugs him, since everytime he's promised a raise or a promotion, they bail out on him and also his manager bitches to him almost everyday she's there . And he also mods a couple of sites programs. So I'm thinking... maybe it's the fact that he's just so overwhelmed by everything, that he doesn't have the time for anything else. So what I'm trying to ask is, what do you guys think? When he gets an apartment, he said I could move in with him rather than stay here with his roommate. And he also is looking for a job that would make him happier. Do you think that if we had our own apartment and he had a better job, it'd work out for the best? I mean... I'm sure he loves me. We play games together, like the same shows exceptions allowed , he spoils me on occasion, and we usually talk a lot until recently. And he also hasn't had a day off for over a week. And he felt sick when he tried to tell me that he didn't want a relationship yet. sorry, trying to include everything I can into this for better results . So, again. I ask... What do you guys think?
Long distance relationship HELP?
My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for about a year now. We now only get to see each other 3 times a year. When he first moved away he felt lonely & would always talk to me on skype, send me text messages etc. However, he has now made a lot of friends and almost all of them are girls. I dont know why but he just loves to get a girls attention. He has this really close female friend with whom he always hangs out with. I've met her in person before but have not talked to her much as she doesnt speak much english. Now, they've both been going out for movies, dinner, shopping and everything else and she even has a boyfriend. His pictures on facebook with her taking pictures whilst hugging shows me that they're getting really close. From my point of view I thought if a guy and girl were to go out for movies especially if its a romantic one it would usually be couples. He always says im a special person to him but him doing all this with another girl makes me feel like im just one of them an ordinary girl. I thought long distance relationships requires many sacrifices to be made but he just makes it look as if going away from me is simple and he needs someone to replace since Im not near him, I feel unwanted and have turned down 2 guys who have asked out in order to be faithful to my bf. The only thing he's probably not doing with her is getting physical and im not even sure of that. The only time he says he misses me is when his friends arent around. He calls me but says that he has nothing to talk to me about and theres always silence during calls. I feel like moving on but dont know if I can. All I ask for is a guy who can treat me and only me like his girlfriend not every other lady he meets.Is it right for me to feel this way ? Or am I just being too needy.. I dont know what to do
I was in a poor relationship and somehow everything was my fault?
I was in a relationship for a little over a year, the guy lived with me but I paid for everything. It was always a little rocky mainly because He flew to meet me from an online meeting and never left. It started out fine but soon after he wanted everything his way. I wanted to make sure I was not the one holding him back so I allowed him to do what he wanted after arguing. The things he wanted got out of control though. He demanded an open relationship because I could not be physical after an injury for a couple of months. Demanded he sell himself for sex to make money, which I fought against but he did it anyway. Demanded he sexually play with our dog, which his final answer was I will do it when you aren't here anyway. the dog ended up biting his face and he needed 15 stitches Every so often he would find a new guy in his extra relationships and try to leave me for him, but when it would not work he would want me right back and I would do it. He finally found one and dumped me a week later while I was taking a final exam I have been dumped before while taking finals, the guys I pick cant take being ignored for more than a second . Now I am shipping this guy back to where he came from and he told me that he gave me plenty of chances to fix our relationship but I never took them. From what I see and all of my friends saw as well, I gave him way too many chances. I just want to know how to deal with these people.
Relationship advice. Please Help!?
I have been dating my current girlfriend for about 3 months now. She is 21 and I'm 22. Both Juniors at the same college. In the past couple of weeks, I have been experiencing some insecurities based primarily on my previous relationships. Before my current girlfriend and I started dating, I was involved in two long term relationships both about a year and a half to two years each. The first one was when I was in high school, and typically those never work out. The last one was in college but she was a freshman and I was a sophmore. Anyways, both these girlfriends eventually left me for another guy and I can't help but feel worried that it's going to happen again with this new girl I've been seeing. We are very serious about each other and I'm actually living with her for the summer because I have a job in the town where our school is at. We have a lot in common and I can safely say, I've never met someone I'm more in tuned with than her. However, because of my past relationships, I get worried about her leaving me for someone else. I often find myself putting things in my head like what if she meets a new guy in one of her classes, or falls for someone she's tutoring. I have talked to her a few times about my insecurities and she assures me nothing will happen like that, and that' she's confident in her feelings for me long term. I believe her and I don't bring up the situation very much so I don't make her feel weird about it, but I find myself thinking about it a few times a day. This girl seems legit and someone I could definitely see myself with for the long haul, but I just want to know what I can do to try to eliminate these feelings of doubt and thinking she's going to run off with the next guy that comes around. Any ideas?
Can women really handle a relationship with no drama?
it honestly seems like females live for drama and whenever i have tried to alleviate drama or make things work out it honestly makes things worse. I try to understand girls and if i dont get along with their friend or whatever I talk to the girl im dating about it and try and resolve it so things arent awkward. I also try and understand girls and their feelings and get them to talk about them, but of course that doesnt work either. Are females just addicted to drama and is that pretty much what keeps relationships going along with poor lack of communication ? communication is key for me, but obviously it isnt for females
Relationships needing some help and advise. abit confused.?
Hi all, kinda sat here thinking to myself that i feel like a freak gooseberry seeing as all my friends are in relationships or like that 'special someone' and i don't really fancy like anyone in that way at the moment,, i have never been intrested in relationships and i am 18 year old girl. when my friends ask me why i dont wanna be in a relationship or go look for that someone i feel really pressured? i dont know what to do. i just need some advise. ladies.. or even men? what do you think.. please help.
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