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Relationship problems...Advice?
So me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months going on 8... And he has been growing very very distant to me... Like, he doesn't call anymore unless just saying goodnight or says he is going to hang with friend when he hasn't seen me in months... He started to do things I don't like him doing when he never used to do them and he almost left my party early to go hang out with his sister... I don't want to be wasting my time... I love him and everything, but I'm afraid he doesn't feel the same about me anymore... Anyone have advice?

I have a relationship problem, advice or help please?
Ok here it goes My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 4 months since November 23rd to be exact . We care for each other very much. In fact, we are in love. But this whole week has been hitting me. She has these visions of some sort in her dreams that kind of frighten her, but she made it clear that it has nothing to do with me. But the thing is she's asking me to prove to her that I love her. 3 days ago she asked me if I ever doubt her love for me and I responded, " No," because I don't really have a reason to doubt it at all. But when I asked the same question she said, " Sometimes." For some odd reason it makes me feel a little miserable. Its almost like when I tell her I love her she seemingly doesn't believe me. Yesterday I had this thought in my head and somehow I felt that I'm not the right guy for her and had the idea of breaking up with her. The truth is I really do love her, but I don't know what it is that I'm doing wrong. Maybe I'm not showing her and proving to her enough. But I really want to prove to her that she is the love of my life, but now I'm not so sure if she'll buy that only because of this feeling I have.If there is anyone who can help me out I would appreciate it. Thanks for listening.

Relationship problems advice please?
Hi there, I'm So confused. I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for just over a year now, The first 6 months were fantastic and we fell head over heels for each other. Ive never felt this way for someone I love her so much. Then the arguments started. we do clash something chronic especial around pmt, I have anger problems and she can get v.nasty. neither of us mean it at the time to the arguments end up tearing us apart We have split up 3 times but always ended up getting back together as we cant bear being apart. the last time we split she was going to go on a date but cancelled it as it was a heat of the moment thing, and tried to win me back. we promised no more arguments and moved in together but i don't know if i can cope going thought this all the time.. does anyone think this can get any better? when its good its awesome its the kind of loved up cant put you down relationship, then one day it just turns and it becomes this awful constantly arguing relationship over night.. i don't know what to do. We want to do the whole 'spend the rest of our life's together' but were going round and round in circles..any advice on how to brake this? x what would you do??

Serious relationship problem, advice?
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 years. I live in Illinois he lives in Vermont. We've done many many visits, and this year I'm a freshman at university of vermont. I came home for xmas break, and he was supposed to come too, but cancelled because of a fight. Jan 4th today Is my bday and i highly doubt he'll even call me. I have to fly back to Vermont for school on Jan 6th, and I'm scared. If i don't go back, I will probably never see him again. If I do, I can't get my tuition money back. I don't think theres enough time to make a choice that huge... any suggestions?

Relationship problems....advice?
sooo in a nutshell i am having some problems...i have a girlfriend now for two and a half years but past month or so we have really been getting more and more distant and fighting with each other and stuff...the problem is that there is this other girl one of my best friends who i've always liked and now i'm 99.223290234 percent sure she likes me too....so the question is do i wait and try to get past all the fighting and everything and remain best friends with a secret crush, or do i break up with her and possibly take a shot at my friend after so long?for the record we don't fight just because of the best friend it's a lot of other random smaller things that turn into huge deals and it is just kind of annoying sometimes i can't lie...also, we tell each other we love each other but it seems like it's starting to disperse, so i'm really wondering if it actually is love or if it was just a different feeling i've had for the past two and half years

Serious relationship problems, advice please!?
I've never been good at serious relationships. In fact, I've made a point to avoid them. Now I've met someone and for some reason I decided to try and give it a shot. Break out of my comfort zone and confront my fears. The problem is we both have serious issues that are preventing us from having a healthy and happy relationship. He had drug and alcohol problems as well as anger and abuse issues in the past. Since then he's completely cleaned up and goes to great lengths to work on himself. It can't be said he isn't doing his best. But still I feel like I can't trust him. The more I get to know him the more I care about him but the more I learn about his past the more he freaks me out. I don't know if I can handle him, but I want to be there for him. I want to think he just needs time to sort his shit out. I have trust issues to start with and he is so good with me but every once in a while he slips up and he'll lose his temper a little and it freaks me out. It reminds me of my past abuse. Its become such a headache, it just knocks the wind out of both of us and I feel mechanical and uncomfortable a lot of the time. Of course, you're thinking, " then why the hell are you with him?" but when we manage to somehow get on the same page and we both get our neurotic insecurities out of the way things are amazing. But as time goes on that is happening less and less. We're just angry at ourselves for being so crappy at this. And when staying home and watching cartoons is him being responsible because it means being home and calm and not drinking or doing drugs it makes me feel like shit to sit around all day. WTF is wrong with us? What can we do? Neither of us can afford a therapist as much as that may be needed. What should I do?

I am having some relationship problems. Advice please. : )?
I'm dating this girl for almost 6 months now. Just about two weeks shy of it. When we got together it's was great. I couldn't ask for anything better. Now here lately around this last month here, she seems different. She never tells me she loves me anymore unless we depart. Like when we get off the phone or off of a messenger or when I take her to class and you know depart. She used to just be randomly look at me and tell me she loves me. She hardly ever makes eye contact with me anymore too. She barely holds my hand in school too, like whenever were going to class. I'm a junior in high school and so is she by the way. Sometimes I wonder if she even wants to be with me. I ask her all the time " Do you want to be with me" ? " Do you still love me" ? She always replies yes. If she would just look me in the eyes and tell me she loves me it would make my day anymore. I've suspected a couple of reasons why she would be like this. She has just recently gotten a job. She is ranked 3rd in our class of 150 and she is in two AP classes right now. AP World History and AP Chemistry to be exact. Her history teacher is a douche too by the way. He always assigns one page summaries for them to do on late notice. He doesn't assign just one at a time either. It's usually around three at a time. I'm not talking about when she is working on her school work or something is when she acts like this. It's all the time, even in our leisure time. Like at lunch or when we rarely get to spend time with each other. She seems stressed a lot. I try everything I can to make her a little unstressed. I give her back rubs, tell her she's beautiful, try to make her laugh. I do all kinds of little things like this a lot. I write her little notes telling her I love her. To me I seem like a really good boy friend. Even when she has to go to the bathroom at school, I wait outside for her. I try my best, I really really do. I honestly put all I have into this relationship and making her happy. I just don't feel appreciated. I feel taken for granite. All these things I do I wish she would at least let me know that she appreciates it in someway. A smile would be good enough honestly. I just don't know what to do anymore. Sometimes I think it may be cause I miss school a lot sometimes or I come in late, but she says it doesn't bother her. She comes everyday by the way. She's one of the honor students and I'm well not. I'm kind of irresponsible when it comes to getting to school and getting my work done, but I still try my hardest. I've been this way for a long time and I'm trying to adapt to the way she is, but it can't be done overnight. I have to say I have made progress. I just want to know why things are the way they are. Is it stress? School? Work? Me? A combination of them? If you can help me out a bit.No dumbass comments please. Much appreciated.

Complicated relationship problem. Advice?
Okay, so here's the story Awhile ago, I began talking to a friend on facebook. We began talking almost constantly, and we would flirt with each other. That's when she told me her dirty little secret, but its very hard to believe She was addicted to sex. She didn't know that there was in fact an name for this Nymphomania but she had gotten in trouble several times with having sex with older men, We're both 15, and the she knew she had a serious problem and a police officer even attempted to help by persuading her to get help. She refused. That's when I realized that she wanted to do more than than talk and hang out, she wanted to have sex with me. I asked if that's what she why she had been so friendly to me, and she said yes. I didn't talk to her for awhile, and I got a girlfriend. We were a good couple, but she had to move and we had only been together for three weeks. So, I was single. I didn't know what came over me, but I asked the sex addicted girl out. I said it had be secret becuase she had a boyfriend and I had just gotten out of a relationship. I broke up with her shortly becuase I didn't want to have sex with her, but I couldn't resist myself and asked her out again but I still refused to have sex. So, we had a secret relationship, and then she eventually ended her relationship with her boyfriend. However, I didn't want people knowing about us so I wanted it to be secret still. However, she started flirting with an older guy again. I told her I was okay with it, becuase we were keeping it secret. However, when I learned she was currently dating 3 people already, I broke up with her again. And that time I meant it. In my opinion, she is some one who needs help, but I couldn't help her. We've ignored each other since, until today. I was tying my shoe during lunch, and she came up with one of her boyfriends and began making out. I knew she did it on purpose. Then, she started talking to me again on facebook, but this time it seemed less flirty and more friendly.Now, I'm not an attractive guy. I've only had two relationships in my life and I've mentioned them already. It's not like me to get into these kind of situations. I couldn't help myself the first time I broke up with her, becuase I was feeling a little depressed at the time and I wanted some one to at least to pretend to care about me. So, I honestly don't know what to do now. I don't know what she wants from me, and I don't know how I should deal with this problem. Any advice?

Relationship--problems--advice?
OK, ive been dating this girl for a little over 2 years. We were really close at first shes one of the first girls i dated seriously. For a little while now ive been think a lot about us. Shes a nice person and all she cares about me but she drives me insane sometimes. We get into little arguments about stupid shit but its usually her that starts it. I feel that we don't really meet on the same level and she only does things to please me and not for herself. I think she might have attachment issues, there aren't many days in a month were we don't see each other. A couple of my friends say they can tell im not happy but i cant really see it. Ive thought about trying to move on but sometimes i cant stomach the thought, but others i feel like it needs to happen. Here's some info on her...can act very childish at times, she has adhd, and is an only child. I've also been having vivid dreams of having relationships with other girls i know, im not sure if this has anything to do with it. I dont mean to sound like an asshole or anything im just curious about another persons perspective on it.Also i cant see myself marrying this girl but i dont want to end something based off a prediction of the future.

Relationship problems, advice needed. Help?
I have been with my boyfriend for around a year now. I know I love him more than anything and he tells me the same, however it does not always seem so. My boyfriend seems to suffer from depression and has many problems with caring about things and showing any affection or interest in things, including me. At first it didn't seem so much as a problem because it wasn't so obvious and I knew I loved him and i was just so happy being with him, but now him not showing any interest or caring for me keeps upsetting me. He says he wants to change for me and I have noticed him trying but it's hard for him and it's hard for me having to go through it all too. I feel like i'd do anything for him, I have tried to help him in every way I can but it's just hard and i don't know what to do anymore. There is also the problem of does he really love me? as it hardly ever seems like it due to his problems with caring ect. and there is often times I feel like he just couldn't care less about me at all. What should I do? Is this a good relationship? Would it be best if I just ended it with him ? Do I just need to try harder with him? I feel like I should leave him because nothing goods going to come out of this only me getting more upset over him, but at the same time I feel like I love him so much and all this his depression and problems isn't his fault in the first place. He has also recently told me that he once, before he met me, had thoughts of suicide, felt he and his life was worthless and hated himself If he doesn't care about anything including himself can he care about me? I'm sorry for going on too much but i just don't know what to do anymore. If possible i would really appreciate some help answers and advice. Thank you.

Relationship problems & advice...?
So me and my " boyfriend" have been together for 7 1 2 years... its been nothing but an emotional rollercoaster. Of course all relationships have thier ups and downs but our downs are exceptionally greater than most. We are at the point were we dont enjoy life, we both do nothing but argue. Its a battle everyday... he calls me every name in the book, tells his family untrue stories about me, therefore they pretty much hate me. I have taken care of this man for 6 of the years we were together & still recieve no appreciation from him. Im mentally screwed.. when he is around i dont want him around, but when we " break up" which is every other day, i dont wanna be without him. I cant sleep when he isnt there.. but i feel thats the only reason i keep bringing him back. How do you get over this situation? I cannot mentally do it any longer.