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How do I know if he is serious relationship help!!!?
Ive met this guy in march we moved into a relationship officially. Well the other day he is out of town on business trip he was.like I'm gonna say something I'll be the first to say it screw it . I love you over the phone. I haven't been able to see him in awhile because he is on a business trip . Then he goes on and tells me to move in with him that he is selling his place and wants me to move into the city with him of course he is buying. He calls me all the time or texts me all the time. My question is how do I know if he is for real with me. He wants to take care of me and be with me. But a little part of me has to still keep my guard up. He told me that women dropped him or left him for other guys because of his work being gone for work but I said well I'm not like that and he doesn't have to worry . But the question goes back to him as well. He like I'm to old for that . He never married and no kids and he lives three hours for me so he wants to see me on a daily basis and I asked him well what do u want in five years he says marriage n kids . He asked me several things to . No we have not had sex yet and won't until it's right. . He is 39 I'm 27 . What should I do? And should I take him seriously that he is moving to me n wants me to move in with him? Cause I've been hurt n lied to so much I don't know if this is the real deal. But I've moved on from being hurt.
Please urgent relationship help?
My girlfriend and I just broke up and I want to send her a song I wrote for her a while back. How is it, my voice, lyrics, etc?Thanksyoutube.com watch?v pDdbAVlLUxc
Friends and relationship help needed!?
it's a long story but i have this best friend named camryn best friends since we were born and there is this guy named Paul me and camryn are the same age but paul is one year younger then us. He goes to camryn's school so they know each other a lot better. I have known him since just before christmas and he is a really sweet and cute guy, i really like but apparently camryn likes him too. She always accuses me of flirting with him, but i like to feel that i like him as much as she likes him. he likes both of us but apparently he likes he more...everyone is always saying they should go out and but he has asked her out a couple of times and she just keeps kicking him down. It really pisses me off that she is SO pretty she can get any guy she wants and she says she likes him but when he goes after her she just pushes him down she did this a couple times and all the while i like paul and i am trying to get them together. After a while of nothing, i decide that she must no longer like him and even if she does doesn't that mean i can go out with him for a little while? am i acting like a slut? am i taking him away from my best friend? i didn't know what to do and neither did he, we did everything we could. he gave up to and one night we were a this dance the three of us always go to and he kissed me on the cheek. i know i doesn't sound like much and i have kissed and gone out with plenty of guys but none of them were as special as that one kiss...i swear to god it was like one of those romance movies, i saw fireworks and had butterflies in my stomach for the next 10 minutes...but it didn't last...Camryn got very made a me a couple weeks later not because of the kiss, which she still doesn't know about but she said i'm getting to close to him ? so, of course i apologize and then at the next dance i'm slow dancing with this Random guy and i can see camryn and paul just over my shoulder, at the end of the song they kissed on the lips and i didn't want to feel jealous but my hormones went crazy because it wasn't the end of the song it wasn't too embarressing for the guy i was dancing with that i made a B line for the bathroom and i was about to cry when i remembered i was wearing mascara so i had to sit in the stall for the rest of the dance trying not to cry, and trying to figure out why i acted like that about a guy i thought i was over btw thank you for taking the time to read all of this i know it's long, but i'm almost done camryn came into the bathroom looking for me 30 minutes later saying her and paul had been looking everywhere for me so i came out of the stall, kept my cool and said...so...how was that kiss. her face went tomato red and she said she didn't know i saw. I congragulated her in the happiest way i could manage but just as we were leaving the bathroom she asked if i was alright...i waited and then said no. She asked what was wrong and i told her i felt jealous of her even though i thought i didn't like paul anymore. She basically just got all upset saying that i just wrecked her night and that i'm making her appologize. then she stompted out the bathroom and i had no one to talk to, or hang out with. i am being stupid? or is she being a brat? PLEAAASE give me some advice idk what to do and i need some help
Please relationship help immediately?
I wrote this song for my girlfriend who just left me. Should I send it to her? How is my voice? Also, check out my other song on here and let me know if I should send that one please. It's not worth if if my voice is awful. I really love this girl. Thanks,youtube.com watch?v mruB8Ah45s0& list HL1337661441& feature mh lolz
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My girlfriend broke up with me because we were too dependent on each other. There was a lot of stress and many issues. A day later she came running back to me, saying that she missed me and that I'm all she needs. Her Mom hates me, and she told her daughter that if she gets back together with me, she is going to be really upset which is ridiculous . Her Mom and friends think it would be weak of her to run back to me. We had an issue because I wondered why she has to keep our love from her Mom and she left me again. Twice in four days now she seems to be detaching herself. I was telling her via text that I am really sad and she seems to be great and she just said goodnight. I want her back, and she misses me too I think she wrote, " I'm just trying to cope and not make talking to you difficult." I have to return something to her, and I am thinking about leaving her a card even though I keep following her. What should I do? And how should I feel react? Should I send her one more message telling she is hurting me?
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My girlfriend broke up with me because we were too dependent on each other. There was a lot of stress and many issues. A day later she came running back to me, saying that she missed me and that I'm all she needs. Her Mom hates me, and she told her daughter that if she gets back together with me, she is going to be really upset which is ridiculous . Her Mom and friends think it would be weak of her to run back to me. We had an issue because I wondered why she has to keep our love from her Mom and she left me again. Twice in four days now she seems to be detaching herself. I was telling her via text that I am really sad and she seems to be great and she just said goodnight. I want her back, and she misses me too I think she wrote, " I'm just trying to cope and not make talking to you difficult." I have to return something to her, and I am thinking about leaving her a card even though I keep following her. What should I do? And how should I feel react? Should I send her one more message telling she is hurting me?
Long distance relationship help?
So my girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half now, and it's been the happiest year and a half for both of us. She lives in New York City and I live north of Boston, but we go to school together during the year.We did the long distance thing all summer last summer and naturally, it completely sucked. We both hated it and promised each other that we wouldn't put ourselves through that again. I meant my promise, but apparently hers didn't mean too much to her. Anyway, we had plans for living near Boston together because it wasn't going to be quite as expensive as living in New York City. I asked her where she'd prefer and she actually said Boston. This conversation began somewhere in last September and continued throughout this year.We decided that we'd go look a places in April over spring break in Boston, so I started looking and calling people and setting up the week for us so that we'd be able to hopefully find a place. She knew I was doing this and agreed to it.Well, three days before spring break she told a friend who she was having a conversation with in front of me that she was going to Florida with her family for spring break and that she was excited because the weather was going to be nice. So I was all " whuhhhh?" confused.Finally she put it off long enough that I sort of said " look, if you want to live together for the summer, we need to do something about that now." to which she responded with, " well, I don't know, I really miss the city and i really want to be home..." needless to say, we are not living together now.So I swallowed hard and am dealing with the long distance thing again which SUCKS. And now I feel that I resent her for it. And we're both miserable. And she's apologizing. But I just feel sort of abandoned I guess? What should I do? Any advice would be great. Thanks.
I can't have sex with my bf! I'm traumatized by the past! He thinks I find him unattractive, relationship help?
I'm to scared to tell him what happened at 14. I'm 21 now & he's 22 & we've been together for a year with nothing sexual but now he's starting to put his foot down on it. At 14 not going into much detail I was at my friends house & lost track of time My house was 10 minutes away, was walking & went through field shortcut & was grabbed by a guy hiding behind a tree no seriously He brutally beat me & " did me" & I was found and woken up 4 hours later in an ambulance My dad came looking for me found me dumped behind that tree he was hiding near, he was upset. After a week's recovery I spent 2 months everyday in my room often crying. I met him my bf at 20 but never trusted him but he did the sweetest things for me & I fell in love & made me feel special. I don't know what's wrong with me, I want to but I'm just scared to have sex with him & he was pressuring me yesterday lecturing me on how I don't find him attractive what do I do?
Complicated relationship help (from girls)?
I was dating a girl for about 2 1 2 years. We've been broken up for a little more than month now. The reason that we broke up is because she decided that she was going to take another guy out to a club. Of course i was unbelievably pissed off and stopped talking to her. So the day after she took him to the club when i ignored her she hungout with him alone at her house and kissed him. Then she started dating him and had sex with him and all that shit all within a month. on top of that she then realizes, after a month that she wants me back and i told her to fuck off.And she blames me for all of this and says it would have never happend if i stopped talking to her for one day. I dont agree with that, not one bit. I feel like shit and feel betrayed.All I want to know is who is in the right??? and if shes being stupid or im just wrong? and any comments anyone may have about this.
I need relationship help!!!?
Firstoff, my girlfriend and i have been together for two years. we are both deeply in love so dont say " just break up with her" ,that is not the answer. i just need advice, we have both talked about thinking about other people, and we both understand that thoughts are bad, but natural. for about 2 3 months now she has been talking to a guy online. i have known about it, but it didnt seem bad untill he started flerting with her. at first i told her that i didnt like that and i was upset. the weekend before last he started saying some perverted things to her, and i started to get really upset. i told her that he just wanted to get in her pants and she shouldnt talk to him, she said " dont worry he's not even cute, im not attracted to him" . then this last weekend we went to a party, he was at that party and i was nice to him. i thought he wasnt a thret because my girlfirend didnt want him. but i was wrong, the next day i had to go to work and my girlfriend went back over to our friends house, it ends up he stayed the night. my girlfriend, the guy who was hitting on her, and one of my good friends went swiming after leaving the house. the next day i found out she was attracted to him, and she wanted to see him, she told me. the following day she changed her password to facebook, and messaged him again, explaining the situation. she said she was emberaced because i sent him a long message that was strongly worded, completely blaming him when it was her fault too . so i am hurt because she lied to me and disrespected and completely disregaurded my feelings.my quertion is, what do i do? our relationship has become boring, but we love just being around eachother all the time. im not controling, and i treet her great. she has been with 15 guys before me but i dont believe she would cheat on me. she was almost taking this as hard as me, she feels bad about hurting me. thanks for the help
Maintaining a relationship?? help?
Okay so I'm 14 and there's a girl i really like she's 13 and she's like super beautiful and we been taking and its going to be summer time and i really want to ask her out and she's not a hoee or anything but how do i ask her and maintain it without any sex involved because every girl i go out with just wants sex and i don't want any risk of stds or anything. Please help P.s she likes me I've heard from her friends
My sex life with my boyfriend is boring and taking a toll on my relationship...help on what to do?
My boyfriend I shall refer to him as D just to keep him private and I used to just be friends with benefits for about 6 months and then somewhere along the line we both developed feelings for each other and got into a relationship about 5 months ago. Our sex life was fun when we were just friends and while the relationship part of it is nice our sex life has really gone downhill and I am unsure what to do. We've had sex about 3 times in 5 months and when I talk to him saying we need to make an effort to spend a little more time having sex he just says " oh no I can't, I've been diagnosed with clinically depression." I would be more understanding of this if it was a steady thing but it isn't. He seems quite happy to ask if I want to give him oral says but yet J has no interest in having sex with me. I feel like I need it a little more as I am back and forth the hospitals for treatment of a brain tumour and balancing on top of that university and family problems. It makes me feel more loved and secure when we do have sex but him just asking for oral sex makes me feel cheap and used and I think he is being quite selfish quite frankly. Any idea on what to do? I care for D a lot and he has been very supportive when it comes to my issues but I have found my mind wandering. I haven't cheated on him but I feel like this relationship is one sided when it comes to him, it seems to be about his pleasure and all about his depression. The medication I'm on causes moodswings and I'm down a lot and if I don't cheer up then he gets angry by saying he's doing all this effort to cheer me up and while I appreciate the effort it's difficult to " just cheer up" if the medication is a depressant but yet when he has down days and I try to make an effort I get a telling off because I " don't care about him and his depression" ...It's not that I don't care but when someone uses it as an excuse for everything it kinda wears thin and becomes tiresome eventually.Any tips on what to do? I feel like if I could get a little more, in the sexual sense, out of this relationship I'd be more understanding and tolerant of his faults. I'm 20 and he's 21.
I ruined my relationship? help?
so last night my boyfriend was at the gym and he came home really tired and i was at the club with all of my girlfriends and some guy friends my boyfriend said if its ok if i go out but to only dance with girls, and i always promise him i only dance with girls so yesterday i call him and ask him, " hey baby, do you wanna come to the club with me and my friends and dance" at first he didnt want to, but i convinced him and he said ok so when my boyfriend got their i was dancing with one of my guy friends we were dancing salsa but his leg was in between my leg and our faces were really close together and we were smiling and giggling and talking, but it seemed worse than what it was, ive known this guy friend for 2 years, and i will never ever cheat on my boyfriend my boyfriend said he saw me and my friend dance for like 5 minutes and never even came up to me then i realized my boyfriend was their, my boyfriends friend tried to take him away so he wouldnt say anything i tried talking to him but he looked so heartbroken i didnt know what was going on then my boyfriend told me that, i made him look like a fool asking him to come only to come and see a guy have his leg in between my crotcch area and see me flirting with him i said i wasnt like that, now that i look back, i tottaly see the point of why he would get mad but i started crying and telling him to please stay and have a good time with me i could see his eyes get watery and he said he never wanted to see me again that i promised i would only dance with girls, and that if im grinding with a friend when i knew he was comin, he can only imagine what happens when he is sleepin and not showing up i called him this morning, and he started yelling me at me, and said to just leave him alone i tried explaining to him, he listened, but then said i didnt keep my promise, and if i want to go clubbing and dancing with random guys that i should be single, he then told me how he loved me, but was felt left down, i could hear him sobbing, he then said bye, and hung up, i tried calling him again he wouldnt answer, he blocked me from facebook and doesnt want to see me. i am willing to do anything for him? did i do wrong in this situation? keep in mind he goes out with his friends but only to play cards and drink how can i get him back?
First relationship... help?
I've known this guy for about 7 months, and we have been officially going out for about 5 6 days. I'm 17 and he's 18. It was cute at the beginning with his cheesiness and constant compliments, but now it's getting to be annoying. I don't have any replies left for when he does, because I just don't have the same level of attraction as he obviously does for me. Don't get me wrong, he's a great guy, open minded, nice, intelligent and somewhat funny, but I'm just not that physically attracted to him the way he is. I feel like the sudden closeness is suffocating me. We used to text every night up until a bit ago, with me always initiating contact, but now I just don't have the urge to talk to him. My other guy friend warned me of seeing your partner something like everyday, that it becomes too much, and I can see what he means now. And just the stuff he does I feel like I have to teach him tell him everything there is to it. I assumed since he's a year older and has had girlfriends before me he'd be experienced. I had to teach him not to open his mouth on the exit of a peck... and the face he makes while doing it... so ridiculous What will I have to teach him when we get to a more physical level? To kiss?I don't know... Maybe I'm being too topical about everything, expecting everything to be picture perfect, to be easy. Maybe I'm feeling a bit scared confused the chase is pretty much over, there's no suspense or anything in our relationship. I'm also kind of afraid of the things he says " my woman" , " baby" and stuff bordering on usage of the L word. Am I just freaking out because it's my first relationship? What should I do? Opinions, comments, suggestions and please, be constructive.
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