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Relationship help/advice..going crazy here?
Hey guys, maybe someone out there can help me out with this. My fiancee and I just broke up. We have been dating for a year and a half, and we just got engaged. She is 17, and I am 20. I know we are young, but we were planning for a 2 3 year engagement. She is graduating from high school and starting college next semester and I am in college right now. Anyway, a week ago she said that she wanted a break for whatever reason. I got mad and said that you don't need a break from those that you love. We made the break permanent and I was crushed. I then found out from a good friend that another of our friends told him that they had been sending nude pics to each other and were starting a relationship. This friend that was supposedly doing this has screwed me over with an ex gf before but I forgave him. In my rage, I call her house at 5 a.m. and cuss her out, call her adn her family everything I can think of and thats that. She calls me the next day and was very upset, because the guy that said they were doing this was lying and I did this for no reason. Also, she was planning on calling me the next morning because she realized she made a mistake wanting a break and she wanted to work it out. All of this is fine except her parents don't want to ever see me again. I apologized to her mom, but hten she blocked my number from my gfs phone. She then got even more furious when we were caught on IM talking about her leaving when she turns 18 in 4 months and living with me. This morning she said that we dont need to talk for a while until things cool over one day in the future. She asked me to please understand and to wait for her. I have no problem waiting, she said she would wait forever if she had too.Has anyone else ever gone through anything like this before? This is the lowest I have been in my whole life, and I am having problems concentrating and getting my daily tasks done because she is all that I can think about. If you have gone through this, did it work out for you? She also has a 1 year old son from a previous relationship, and I thought of him as my own as well. I love them both dearly. Any advise or wisdom to get me through these trying times while I hold out hope to get our relationship back?

Relationship help + advice?
i know this is in two categories... i want people to actually read it. sorry if you find that annoyingthis is going to be kind of long, so here goes... im saying everything in ''brief'' that has happened to us, because i feel like we are coming to the end of our relationship, and i want someone to understand what she is thinking me and my gf went out for about 3 months, then we broke up because i was going through some difficulties and had not told her about them, so she thought i was just ignoring her.during this time she actually slept with two other guys those are the only other guys she has slept with. i wasn't aware of this at the time and then i realised that she meant everything to me and we started talking again... and she left the person she was with...and here we are 16 months later. i also lost my virginity to her being the only person i have ever slept with this young woman turned out to be my best friend and my girlfriend all in one, it was amazing, we did everything together, we went on holiday together and had a great time. we even spoke about having children and getting married, we spoke everyday on the phone for like 1 hourthe main cause of the problem in my opinion is, she believes that a female male friend ONLY relationship is possible and that that's what she want with other guys. she secretly texts them and plans to meet them and go to the cinema and stuff.. i only find this stuff out when i have a random wave of massive paranoia, of course this has only fuelled my paranoia and makes things worse on my behalf. i don't actually believe a male and female can only be just good friends, i think the female might be able to, but the male would probably want more.i'll be honest, finding all this stuff out has made me want to stop her seeing guys, i even told her that, i said at least until i can get over my paranoia, in which she will have to help me. it has also made me get angry because ill ask her questions and she will lie directly to my face, and at the end of the argument she will say something like ''i didn't tell you because i knew you would get like this''we spent 2 weeks apart apart from the odd hour here and there and then she said she wanted to break up with me, but she still loved me, that broke my heart instantly, and i did cry, i can admit that, i care deeply about her.we didn't actually break up and we stayed together, she never says she loves me only if i say i love her a couple of times, almost hinting to her to tell me she loves me this is when this will all sound confusing, because i am confused myselfshe also told me that we lost our ''spark'' and she wants to get it back, shes told me we should be just friends, shes told me she doesn't want to be with me forever, shes also told me she still wants that family we have always talked about. shes also told me that she just wants to try something new in the bedroom, although she wont even let me touch her without her withdrawing although she is happy to touch me anywhere and when she is around me, she is always really fidgety now and moves away. then other times she will will run up to me, hug me and give me a kiss.sorry i know the end is all really random, but i just want to know what she is thinking. i really don't want to lose herwhat should i do?thanks

Relationship help/advice please...?
My bf and I have been together for almost 4 months...and everything between us is fine but we both had longer relationships before dating eachother. So we are having a little trouble getting used to eachothers expectations because we are so used to what we had before. I need alot of attention or I tend to get bored and when I'm with someone I prefer to spend my time with them when I have available free time when im not at work or school, etc. He doesnt seem to be as needy so I'm having trouble not being offended when he wants to leave my house to go to sleep or just stay home and relax. Any ways to help get over it and not care so much? On top of that his mother is always in our business...any suggestions...b c she has a big mouth which means everyone is in our business n that makes it hard for a new relationship to work...we have a great connection i want to make it work better. suggestions please ty

Relationship help/advice? please help?
hey im 14 yr old boy, i got a great girlfriend that i love very much. but i just got a problem about doing things together e.g holding hands kissing.So we been goin out for about 4 months now, and i just gettin kinda bored, coz she just doesnt do anythin. well she used to hold my hand, a few months ago, whenever people told us to, but shes just stopped now and gets really pissed off when people tell us to do stuff. but i wanna take the relationship further if ya know what i mean? not sex by the way. i have kissed her once, last week, coz apparently she wanted me to, thats what her friend said anyway. and aparently shes just shy as well. i know how to kiss and all that kinda stuff, i just like...dont know how to start things off really? because it would look kinda odd if i just grabbed her hand. what should i do, coz shes obviously not gunna do anything...so really, my question is how should i start things off with my girlfriend? like holding hands.and if your just gunna comment about grammar and whatever, just piss off, coz i dont care, unless u got anything helpful to say.

I need some relationship help/advice...?
Okay. So I have been dating my boyfriend a good almost 13 months 1 year 1 month . We have been best friends for a long time. We have been friends for a good 5 months before he asked me out. I love him more than I love myself and I know that is hard to say. But I do. Anyway, trouble seems to follow us every 3 months. 3 months into our relationship I found out something I didn't want to, but forgave him. 6 months into our relationship he almost broke my trust when he did things I told him not to, but I forgave him. 9 months into our relationship he wanted to have break for the weekend but when it was over asked for me back, and I forgave him. Now it's over a year and lately he hasn't been acting the same. Like I'm gone for 2 weeks for vacation, and I come back Monday. During the break he hasn't been talking to me very much, which I understand, he's a free man for two weeks in his head. He is in England and i am in Maryland at the moment, we are a 5 hour time difference apart. Whenever I want to skype, he doesn't really want to. Then when we do I can tell he is hardly paying attention. We gave each other our facebook passwords like 3 months into our relationship like most couples do, but I have never been the one to just creep his stuff all day. When we were skyping, I noticed he kept talking to someone and I can tell he wasnt looking at me. I went to see if I could see who he was talking to but he had changed his password like an hour before that. I know there is something he is hiding from me. I think he might have said to a friend that he wants to break up with me. I know he either did that or was talking to a girl and didn't want me to see what he said. Usually when I ask he makes an excuse and tells me his new password, but by then all the messages are deleted. By the way my boyfriend is a senior and I'm a junior. He is about to go to college so I guess he is ready to move on. We have talked about this before, we used to agree that we were going to college together and that we'd only have to be apart like 7 months then we'd be together forever etc etc like most couples. We are both each other's first loves, and for me like my first real relationship. I don't know how to expect what's gunna happen because I have never experienced heartbreak before and I don't know if I like the sound of that because I know I will not be okay. I just know it. I gave him everything, and along with everything I gave him my heart. I don't want him to give it back to me in a million pieces. How do I change his mind? I come back in 2 days but I don't know if he wants me back or if he wants me at all. What if he breaks up with me right when I get back? That will not be a good way to start off the new year... P.S. you might wanna know that he has been partying all of break... like going to bars and stuff and clubs... like tonight he is going to this big house party. I don't know if I trust him since he obviously doesn't trust me since he changed his password and has something to hide.... I don't know I am just venting right now. I wasn't going to talk to him until he talked to me but I caved when it came to be around 4pm there because I had to let him know I love him before he goes to party in hope that he will keep that in mind and be smart and think about me. But he didn't answer his phone, but I left a message anyway. He texted saying he's going to a pantomime thing and he can't talk. he was very abrupt. I don't know how to get him back. He once was the sweetest guy in the entire world. He was shy and he didn't know how to talk to me in the beginning. He was perfect. Now he updates his twitter with " Things change and it is something we all need to learn to deal with.3 hours ago" How can things like this change and is there any hope for my relationship? We have been through so much together...

Dating and relationship help/advice?
Okay so I been going on 3 dates with this amazing girl and we both like each other got my first kiss from her on are 3 date but shes not sure what we are.... she says we are dating now how long should I wait before asking her to be my girlfriend ? any ideas or suggestion?

Relationship help? advice needed!?
So im a 20 year old girl im pretty mature for my age i've always been, but i have a flaw. im in a relationship with a 27 year old guy who is great he's prefect treats me like a queen, cares about me and loves my family as do i. We've been dating for 4 months and we're pretty in love i know it may seem soon but its not i've never felt so good and so happy with anyone before and he tells me the same thing, talks about moving in and that he's never felt what he feels with me before. Im really good to him. BUT i don't know if its because i cant trust or im insecure or what it is but i get mad when he talks about his past or i see pictures of his past. and also when he wants to go out with his family like for example to a football game i got mad because i didn't want him to go. he says i need to be more open minded that its okay for him to go out with out me that hes into me and only me and only wants to be with me that i have nothing to worry about. But its hard for me i dont know how to go about it i dont know how to control my self or my emotions and not get upset. What can i do because i know hes the one and we're meant to be but i dont want to loose him for something stupid like this. and i just dont know what to do.

Ex-relationship HELP? ADVICE? 10 PTS BEST ANSWER.?
So my ex is a total douche. At first he told me all of these things about liking me, thinking i'm amazing, all this bs, and then a few days ago we broke up. He told me he never really liked me, and that I annoyed him because I was angry with him often. The reason I was angry with him was because he went days without talking to me and ALWAYS put his friends over me, which I get, I wanted him to see his friends but seeing me once a week isnt that much to ask. He went on a double date literally RIGHT after we broke up too. So now, another thing with him just happened today where he wrote some shit about me and my friend in someones yearbook. He makes me so fucking mad. And I feel so ugly and worthless because of him even though everyone tells me I deserve better I just feel like total shit. I feel so naive. I dont get how he could just go on the next girl right after me even though he TOLD me he didnt want a relationship with anyone ever.Any words of advice? Or something to make me feel better about myself..? None of my friends have gone through anything this bad on the relationship level.. so any words of advice would be so helpful.

Relationship help/advice?
So me and this guy have been off and on for a while. we'd talk, then he'd end it, then we'd talk and he'd end it and i decided to give him one more chance because he said he knows what he wants now. But now that we've started talking again, i don't feel the same. we can never have a real converstion and i want relationship were we could be friends first then date talk. Besides it's summer, and i want to do me. how do i tell him this?

Long-Distant Relationship help.. advice? Need help.. thanks 10 points?
Ok I met this girl online bout 4 days ago.. and we started talking and now we both like each other alot.. the thing is she lives about 6 hrs away from me.. which im ok with.. but i asked her for her number and been asking her for a while now.. and she said she cant give it to me.. it'z hard for her.. and I get kinda jealous cuz all her guy friends who she knows in real life have her number and even her ex.. and Im supposedly her bf and we're going out and yet she wont give me her number.. she told me that the time will come.. Am I being a bad boyfriend by not respecting her decision to not give me her number? What should I do? thanks.

Relationship help/advice please :(?
I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years...we broke up 4 days ago. He definatley doesnt want anyone else as hes even told friends im the only one he ever wants to be with...however he told me that he just does not want a relationship anymore and wants to be by himself...He has told friends that i am the only person he ever wants to be with but he just doesnt want it anymore... what does he mean and how can I change his mind??I dont want to call him up non stop and cry down the phone begging him to take me back or anything. I just need to know if this is what he really wants and how to convince him to take me back.We are still hanging out and talking to each other just as much.Please please help me with any advice you have.