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Is it too early to start dating my new guy after my serious relationship breakup?
i'm 19, i just got out of a 2 year relationship because he cheated multiple times and did hardcore drugs, it's been 3 months since we broke up and i started talking to a new guy, and i really like him, but we've been talking for two months now, is it too early for us to start dating or no? he doesn't think so and i don't either, but i want your opinion.
Long term impacts of serious relationship breakup?
I have this friend no really, she's a friend who was in a really serious relationship with this guy and they planned to get married a few years ago. They had been together a few years and were engaged over a year. She kept telling everyone how she was getting married in the summer and then the next thing we all knew, weeks before the wedding date, they had broken up and didn't have anything to do with eachother again. It was, and still is, such a taboo subject. She was 'in with' the family but now there remain no traces of any of them all his family and friend were deleted off facebook and everything. I know it hurt her because she doesn't talk about it but no one knows what happened. And now, 2 years later, he's just got married and she knows about it. Although she has a fairly new relationship herself, she's been down recently because of it. I want to offer her support but I don't know how to do it without pressuring her and sounding too nosey. So, any ideas? Also, how long does it take to get over something like that? I hate seeing her upset.
What kind of feeling is this? 1st relationship breakup?
Me and my guy broke up. He hurt me so much and I don't know why after all I tried to be nice to him. He flirted with my close frd, they r in a relationship now and for some reason he still want to hang out with me ? After 2 months of giving me headache, heartache. Me, of saying n arguing with someone who just don't get it, selfish, too much sorry but no change.Now, I just feel weird. I miss our good memories together. But Im not angry, upset, sad whatsoever anymore. I feel like I just don't want to see him. I don't have an attitude but I have nothing to say to him. Like nothing he says or does can hurt me more than he did. It is hard to say no when he acts all sweet and nice but I guess it is fake and meaningless right?Is this like the last phase when u r over being sad and start to get back the balance or is it bad that I m emotionless.Any advice ?
Could I please have some advice from people who have been through long term relationship breakups?
if you've ever truly loved someone and know how much it hurts when you have to leave them...i've been with my boyfriend for many years and supported him through his army career, i've always been good, loyal and supportive of him. I found out he cheated a few months into the relationship and never told me, so i left him but took him back because it was so long ago and we werent serious back then. however since then i have found dating sites, unknown email addresses, and texts from girls. i don't have any proof that its anything more than friendship but i think my instinct is telling me i can't trust him, either that or i'm just paranoid. until this year i thought he was the most loyal guy on the planet, but he's just a very good liar.anyway, if you have been through the pain, i'm just wondering how you got through it? could you leave them right away or did you keep taking them back until you had finally just had enough? i know i have to go out with friends and stuff, but i have lost most of them anyway down to him and i just want the strength to leave him because right now i just want to kiss him and tell him i love himoh and we're both 25, have known each other from childhood, and hes like my best friend
HELP!! relationship breakup please?
i dated this guy for like 1 month.. im 14. we went on spring break together family friends and really liked eachother. then we broke up. then a couple weeks later my friend stole him. hes a year younger then me too. and my friend did this to me 2 times in the past 5 months and its so annoying now we arent friends. but i still want the guy back. he kinda hates me now idk why. how to make them break up and get him to like me??
Advice on a long-term relationship breakup?
Me and my girlfriend just broke up a couple weeks ago. I hated it even though it was kind of a mutual thing . We were together for 3 years and we broke up because we didn't %100 trust each other. I loved her so much Even though it was a mutual thing It really hurt well i just talked to her tonight about the whole thing and i asked her " are you even upset about this" ? she said " what should i be upset about" ? WTF? i had suspicions of her wanting to break up because of another reason. then i find out she is dating one of my friends. So now onto the questions. Am i over reacting about this thing? What is your opinion on it? should i even be friends with her? This really sux
Help I need relationship breakup advice!!!!?
So almost a month me and my bf of 3 yrs had a mutual break up. And two days ago he out of nowhere txted me trying to talk. Long story short I gave him short replies and he stopped. Im going through personal problems right now and idk what to do... why would he want to talk now? I gave him enough time before... leave me ur email if interested in the whole story.. I just don't know what to do...
How to get over a long term relationship breakup?
My almost two year boyfriend broke up with me today..because he says he doesn't trust me. He is overly jealous so that explains it. The problem is, I set my WHOLE life on this guy. Everything was centered on him, and now am left with literally nothing. I lost most of my friends because i invested everything in him, so am lost. Guess i'll try to entertain myself with yahoo answers. I posted this here because the single and dating section is a joke. and we were close to getting married
What are the factors resulting to relationship breakup?
How do you deal with a long term relationship breakup?
I have been dating this girl for 5 and a half years now. The breakup was sudden, I did not see it coming, we had no fights no arguments nothing. She just said she cant be with me anymore and that the relationship is suffocating her. As a boy friend i have never stopped her from doing almost anything, flirting with guys, going out with friends when she could have spent the time with me or really anything. Could some one tell me how do you cope up with a break up when you were happy in the relationship and on the looks of it nothing was wrong in the relationship.
Whats the best thing to do after a long-term relationship breakup?
me and my girlfriend broke up 2 weeks ago we've been dating for 1 year and six months we broke up over her breaking promises over and over such as smoking weed with dudes etc. im like confused on what to do i kinda isolated my self from friends etc. so i don't have anyone really umm whats the best thing i can do to get back on my feet. spring break for me is an 2 weeks and i have no one to hangout with
I need help NOW with my relationship breakup?
i broke up with my gf when i was mad and she said it would be mutual if we broke up so i did. but an hour later she wouldnt take me back and i have been trying to get her back for days and i get nothing. so i saw her one last day and it was fine, still didnt take me back. later that day her sister texts me saying how my ex isnt worth it and that im a nice guy and i dont deserve her. and my ex works at a camp with her ex and she said they are just friends but what she didnt tell me is that she went to a hotel with him the day after we broke up but she said she went with everyone from camp but honestly she just keeps deneying it and deneying hooking up with him and deneying they were alone and i inboxed her ex bf and cursed him out and he deneyed it too and gave me the same story and she flipped when she hurd i messaged her and she is mad and she said before we could slowly get back together becuase she doesnt want a relationship because she is hurt but now shes mad andi want her back, how do i get her jeous for treating me like shit and change the situation? she beggs me to take HERback and i have the choiceby the way she wont take me back like i said
Open relationship, breakup, or stay together?
My boyfriend is about to go to college, and for him, the college experience involves parties and alcohol and sex. I love him and he loves me. But he also doesn't want to miss out on his college life, and neither do I. I want him to be able to do what he wants. He suggested that we take a break for a while, and have like an open relationship so that both us can experience college. But he's also scared that if we take a break I'll find a guy better than him and leave. He doesn't want to lose me and regret it later. For him he just wants the sex, he truly believes he's never going to change feelings for me. I'm his dream girl and wants to get married. He told me he wishes that we had met two years later after his partying crazy is gone so he can settle down.And for me, I'm not someone who will get with a guy randomly, it has to be someone I truly love and will commit to. So taking a break for me will be waiting for him to settle down or else I'll move on for good.Cheating is not part of his moral code so he'll never do it. But I'm not really comfortable with him sleeping with other girls either.We love each other. We are both each others first serious relationship and we both took each others vcardand fyi, I'm going to be a senior in hs, him as a freshman in collegeWell we've discussed all of this with each other before. And he knows that I'll be hurt by an open relationship. He says his number one priority is my feelings and well being. He does not want to break up, and he is not going to sleep with other women as long as we're together. But then I worry that if the desire doesn't get resolved, it'll be there later...
I can't believe it's over--please help me understand this relationship/breakup, 10 pts and i'll answer yours?
Went out for 5 weeks. It was steady and consistent.Acted like we were together.He told me he was " falling" for me. He said things like, " I'm glad I found you" We never had the exclusivity talk.We saw each other once a week. I could live w that.But one weekend he was really " busy" and we didn't see each other.He made plans for the following wkd and he called me often enough so I wasn't really worried. We work together. Sometimes he waits til I'm done w work and walks out w me and kisses me in the park across the street before we each walk to our separate train stations. Wed, when I hadn't seen him outside of work for 1.5 weeks, he stopped by my desk on his way out the door, spoke for a few minutes, then said, " I'll call you later." Walked out the glass doors in front of my desk, then I saw him go back into the building on the other side, and he came out 5 mins later w a girl who I had never heard him speak of. They don't work in the same department, I had no reference point of them being friends, and I didn't know her marital status. He didn't glance up at me through the glass doors..just got on the elevator w her and left. I didn't even know if they went to the same train station or not. 5 minutes later his guy friend who he sometimes leaves w , came by and asked if he had left yet, so even if they were going to the train station, why couldn't the 3 of them have walked together? 30 mins after, he texted me somethin cute and nice about how much he misses me. I wrote back saying that something came up and I was gonna have to cancel our plans for Saturday. He was sad and asked if I was angry. I said, " nope." I said, " it's not just gonna be on your terms." He said some bs about, " of course not, I wouldn't want it to be.." and then he asked, " how about dinner tomorrow night after work?" I said, " nah sorry can't make it." That was it for that night. The next day at work he approached my desk and asked what I was doing after work that I couldn't have dinner with him. I told him I had to watch American Idol. He looked dejected and depressed. I said, " we all have our priorities." He looked really sad and said, " I got the message...loud and clear." And walked away. The next day he acted like we were still a couple. He brought a cupcake to me at the end of the day and as we were about to leave he said, " come on, cupcake." He was going to happy hour with his guy friend and he said, " HIS schmoopy is gonna be there," meaning you're mine, and she's his. I had already made the decision to break up with him, so I was acting aloof. He walked me out and I said goodbye to him and left. I texted him Me Glenn we really need to talk soon. Please call me when you get a chance. Maybe tonight? Him I know. I didn't know if you wanted to talk to me the last few nights, figured you'd call me if you did. Ok Me Yeah it's not a matter of anger, so go ahead and call when you get a chance. Him i agree. Ok. He didn't call me that night So the next morning I texted him Me I'm sorry we didn't get a chance to talk on the phone last night, but maybe words are better to write anyhow. I think we both know this isn't working. We are looking for two different kinds of relationships. You're a really great guy and you will be perfect for the girl you are compatible with. I'd wish you all the best, but that seems anticlimatic since I'll be seeing you in 2 days...but I do wish you all the best nonetheless.Him Sorry I didn't call last night. I stayed later than I expected to and didn't want to wake you. I agree with everything you said. Would like to talk on the phone when you get a chance.I called him that evening after I got off from work. Really all he had to say was, " I enjoyed our little thing and I'm sorry it didn't work out. I'm glad it's mutual and amicable." After we hung up, I texted him Me When did you realize it wasn't work? Him Wed. I think, You? the night I canceled our plans and declined to see him the next day Me Bc you and Katie are talking now? the girl he left with Him What? No. She just moved in with her boyfriend and goes to Grand Central now, I was showing her how to walk there. Is that what you thought? Me I didn't know Him That's a pretty awful thought considering we were seeing each other Me Well I didn't know. And we never had the exclusivity talk so I wasn't sure if we could see other ppl Him True. We've been friends for years, nothing more. Was that why you canceled our plans this wkd? Me Not entirely. It had been building. I understand you were busy but my foot you couldn't have squeezed me in Him I figured it was the lack of time. That was myHim I figured it was the lack of time. That was my fault and I'm sorry. I really did want to be with you and only you. Me I wanted that too. i think we just had different ideas of what that means Him I'm sorry I didn't make enough time Me No apologies necessary. We were just looking for two different types of relationships. The end. He never replied.
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