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Heya guys, does anyone have any relationship breakup advice?
my boyfriend of a year dumped me at the end of january, the first few days i was really upset but after that i felt happier again and was completely fine about things. however, the past two weeks or so though i've been feeling really upset everyday about this guy breaking up with me and i miss him loads and still do love him. i feel so incredibly lonely and i loved this guy more than i've ever loved anyone.we haven't spoken since a week after the breakup and i know it is for the best as he didn't appreciate me and love me for me, and was always trying to change me e.g. 'you'd be the perfect girlfriend if only ...' etc but the way i felt about him was so genuine and i really don't understand what i did wrong for him to breakup with me.does anyone have any tips on how to not be so sad?

Help I need relationship breakup advice!!!!?
So almost a month me and my bf of 3 yrs had a mutual break up. And two days ago he out of nowhere txted me trying to talk. Long story short I gave him short replies and he stopped. Im going through personal problems right now and idk what to do... why would he want to talk now? I gave him enough time before... leave me ur email if interested in the whole story.. I just don't know what to do...

Relationship breakup advice?
Ok, I am really just wanting some opinions on this breakup story of mine how both of us should react, etc...Alright, so I just started college and within about a week and a half of school I met this guy who right away expressed some interest in me and I reciprocated back. Now, he is a verrry nice guy this I know for sure so he isn't the player type or anything hadn't had a gf in about 2 years because he was waiting for the right girl . So anyways, we had been going out for about 2.5 weeks and for the majority of it he absolutely loved me... wanted me to meet his family, always said how happy he was to have met me, etc.. and then within the last three days or so he started getting the " friend vibe" from me which I kinda did give him and he started going from always hanging out, flirty, friendly, and fun to being very distant, sending very dry, cold texts and messages and pretty much avoiding me.Now, instead of talking with me about the friend issue which would have been a mutual separation he decided to invite me down to the dorm lounge and say " Ok, I just see you as a friend, I'm breaking up with you but hopefully we can still be friends." What do you guys think of this? I mean.. what hurts is not that he broke up with me, it's just the way that he chose to do it.Why would he go from absolutely adoring me to treating me like even less than a friend.. does he still want to be good friends? or did he just say that to be nice?When should I try to talk with him? I don't want to lose him as a friend even though he was kind of a jerk in how he broke up with me ... despite him being a nice guy.

Relationship/breakup advice. Please.?
Alright, so my story needs a lot of detail. And please, I'm looking for thoughtful, long ish answers, I created this account just for this question haha...My boyfriend and I have been going for almost 10 months. But the thing is, we've gone out before 3 months , but he broke up with me and this was during the beginning of 2011 . But around June, he finally told me that he'd regretted his decision almost ever since he broke up with me. Now, I was going out with another guy at this time, but I broke up with him to be with this guy again. We started going that last summer it was the summer before we both went off to college. The first three ish months were great, we were both really happy. But I guess life got in the way. College got in the way, my jealousy got in the way, my feelings that college was totally not what I had expected got in the way it caused me to take it out on him and this probably butchered our relationship. My boyfriend is the sweetest guy, and I really mean it. He's chivalrous and kind, and funny and smart, but he's also shy and not really talkative. I'm kind of the same way, so our personalities don't mix well.Now that I'm back home for summer vacation, I feel like it would be a good time to break it off now that I'm with my close friends again I really would need their support if we really ended it. The reason why I'm thinking of breaking up with him is because during my year at college, I was probably the most depressed than I have been in my entire life over one person. I didn't understand why I was feeling this sad unhappy emotionally exhausted crying all the time over such a sweet person. Neither of us were doing anything wrong and don't even mention the cheating thing. He would never. , but the year was just...terrible. So I want to breakup really soon, just to save both of us, I get the feeling that he's not really happy anymore in this relationship, despite him being the one who wanted to start the relationship in the first place. But and I hate to bring fb into this because it's such a dumb reason , when I see other girls post on his wall, my heart starts breaking and my resolve to do anything falters, and I know this feeling is just going to worsen after the breakup. Even though I'm the one breaking it off and it's probably only because we're both really stubborn and don't want to hurt each other, so I have to take the initiative , I'm still going to be the one who's hurt more.Can you guys please help me give me advice on how to cope with a breakup?

Long distance teen relationship.. breakup advice?
Me and my girlfriend, rather I should say Ex, recently had a very nasty break up. It was a long distance relationship and we're both still teens. We'd been dating for nearly two years, with our anniversary on its way this upcoming February. A semi friend of hers had recently asked her out, and as you see she had been being very distant the days prior. She was looking for my guidance when I offered her none. I should have but I had been guessing that she would already know my stance on the subject as we had lasted for so many years and I had cared about her so greatly much. I wanted her to say no. Days later she stayed distant and revealed she had said yes. I was devastated, to say the least. I know I'm not supposed to say something like this, or do it in the first place, but I took out my aggravation and anger through cutting. I don't know what I'm supposed to do here. She's since deleted me from all types of social media networks and such and made me feel like absolute trash. She claims that I never thought she cared, that she thought I gave up on her when I didn't offer her the advice when she needed it the most. What am I supposed to do, I feel like nothing. Like I'm simply replaceable, that I never meant anything to her. Other times before this she tried to end but I told her and persuaded her to hang on just a little longer. And she told me this time she was done caring, that she hates me and wants me to move on when I can't. She was so much more than just a girlfriend, she was my everything, she had my heart, she was my best friend. I'm not close to many people in real life and she helped me through it, she would constantly make me feel happy when other things around me got me down and out. I felt like she gave up too soon, and when I question her about this she says I was the one who gave up when I didn't speak my mind, but wish I had now. I had only assumed.. I haven't stopped breaking down the past 2 days, I'll be sitting there feeling things are getting better when I burst into tears randomly. I love this girl and she.. she, gave us all up. That's how I feel anyways. I need any type of condolence, anything that will help. I can't go on feeling like this with her ignoring me and no one to turn to in my time of need. I don't want to say I'm ready to give everything up, but I'm nearing the breaking point where I could start making stupid decisions I'll regret later. I just.. I need help.

I need relationship/breakup advice soon !!!!?
I recently moved to maryland to be with my boyfriend of 3 years. We are having major problems right now and are talking about breaking up. We share a car, we live together, and on top of that my mom and dad would flip out if they knew that we might break up because to them I would be by myself and on my own here. I am prepared to get my own apartment and car, but how do i make it " ok" to my parents ?My parents are the type that are overly protective and they live in Tennessee.Ok, we are possibly breaking up in the first place because he hit me and he said he didn't mean to, and he is saying that we might as well break up if I can't forgive him even though he says he's sorry. My parents would freak out if they knew he hit me even if he didn't mean to.I don't want to go back home because then it's like I am proving them right in the first place, and i have made friends here and I'm already in the nursing program.

Relationship breakup advice?
So my girlfriend is 21 and I am 20. We have been dating for about 4 months now and I was crazy about her until yesterday Valentines day when she told me she though we should end our relationship. We have never had a fight or have argued with each other. I thought we were on the same page. She said she wants to end it because the flame is no longer lit. She told me that this is not my fault. She said I did not do or say anything to make her think this way. She said she the flame died about two weeks ago, and that was about the time I noticed she became friends again with her previous boyfriend on Facebook. I though our relationship was going perfect up until now. This has totally caught me off guard. My girlfriend is bi polar and is on medicine for that, could that be a contributing factor? She says no, but I think otherwise. The past 4 months have been the best 4 months of my life. She has changed my life for the best and has been a major part of both mine and my families lives. I still have feelings for her as I did when we first met, but I feel like she is giving up on me. How do I cope with this? What are your thoughts? What should I do with this relationship? Can I get this girl back that I saved my virginity for and lost it to?

Relationship / breakup advice?!?
Ok, Me and my boyfriend of nearly ayear have split up, hes just turned 20, im 16 When we was together at first it was perfect, then he started getting paranoid etc, so i lost all y friends deleted facebook etc, its only been like the past couple of months we've been aruging everyday, And we split up on wednesday and thusday night i bumped into him and he bruised my arm because he grabbed me and wouldnt let me go till i agreed to go out with him and he keeps texting my mum and dad and coming round my house crying. don't get me wrong i love him, hes my ''first'' and my first seriouse boyfriend, but hes so insecure, and i've given him a chance before to change but he won't he kicks off if he thinks im looking at another lads etc, and now weve split up for good hes saying he will change, he will go doctors and get help with his anger, he will let me have friends, but the night he grabbed me he belived someone that split us up before that i was texting them when i wasnt so thts a sign of him not changing right?? and he keeps texting me as friends saying we will be mates and then see what happens in the future, but then he keeps rushing it saying i will ask you again in a months or 6 weeks time and see what you want to do. and my mum and dad said a leapard never changes its spots, and you cant change a leapords spots. And in a months or 6 weeks time i've got this silly little day dream of being able to go out with friends, have him in my life and be able to go out partying and stuff but im not sure if it is going to happen im scared of going into the relationship and it being like the same as last time. Who has been in this situation and what should i do?? i did give him a chance to change when we nearly split up in an argument before my mum and dad said it could turn violent and that they wouldnt be happy.they said they wouldn't be happy because they don't think they can trust me with him again because of the brusing hes given me by grabbing me

Getting over a long-term relationship breakup. Advice?
I dated a guy for almost four years, from the end of high school until almost the end of college. We went to different universities, so much of our relationship was long distance. We had a decent breakup and I understand that we don't feel ready for the next step marriage. However, it has been really tough on me. We broke up almost 9 months ago and I don't feel like I have moved on much. Is this normal? He was my first serious relationship and love, and parts of me felt that he was the one I'd marry. Last weekend our mutual friend was married and seeing my ex at the wedding was really tough. I don't really know what I'm asking maybe just looking for advice. I want to deal with this in a mature way, because I already found that trying to date other guys no matter how attractive ha doesn't help if anything, it just makes it worse.

Relationship breakup advice?
Ok, I am really just wanting some opinions on this breakup story of mine how both of us should react, etc...Alright, so I just started college and within about a week and a half of school I met this guy who right away expressed some interest in me and I reciprocated back. Now, he is a verrry nice guy this I know for sure so he isn't the player type or anything hadn't had a gf in about 2 years, also a virgin . So anyways, we had been going out for about 2.5 weeks and for the majority of it he absolutely loved me... wanted me to meet his family, always said how happy he was to have met me, etc.. and then within the last three days or so he started getting the " friend vibe" from me which I kinda did give him and he started going from always hanging out, flirty, friendly, and fun to being very distant, sending very dry, cold texts and messages and pretty much avoiding me.Now, instead of talking with me about the friend issue which would have been a mutual separation he decided to invite me down to the dorm lounge after avoiding me for 2 days and say " Ok, I just see you as a friend, I'm breaking up with you but hopefully we can still be friends." What do you guys think of this? I mean.. what hurts is not that he broke up with me, it's just the way that he chose to do it... cause if he would have talked to me it wouldn't have been awkward afterwards. Why would he go from absolutely adoring me to treating me like even less than a friend.. does he still want to be good friends? or did he just say that to be nice?When should I try to talk with him? I don't want to lose him as a friend

Relationship breakup advice?
So my girlfriend is 21 and I am 20. We have been dating for about 4 months now and I was crazy about her until yesterday Valentines day when she told me she though we should end our relationship. We have never had a fight or have argued with each other. I thought we were on the same page. She said she wants to end it because the flame is no longer lit. She told me that this is not my fault. She said I did not do or say anything to make her think this way. She said she the flame died about two weeks ago, and that was about the time I noticed she became friends again with her previous boyfriend on Facebook. I though our relationship was going perfect up until now. This has totally caught me off guard. My girlfriend is bi polar and is on medicine for that, could that be a contributing factor? She says no, but I think otherwise. The past 4 months have been the best 4 months of my life. She has changed my life for the best and has been a major part of both mine and my families lives. I still have feelings for her as I did when we first met, but I feel like she is giving up on me. How do I cope with this? What are your thoughts? What should I do with this relationship? Can I get this girl back that I saved my virginity for and lost it to?