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Long distance relationship break up advice?
Hi,So, I went on this trip, and this guy and I had this really amazing connection. So after the 2 weeks were up, we tried to keep it going. The only thing is that we live like 6 hours apart by plane . Our relationship is still going it's been about 2 months now , but I kind of want to break up. We really only talk over skype because he lives in Canada and I live in the US. I like him, but I think I'm a bit young to be in such a long distance relationship. I really have no idea how to break up with him but stay really close friends How would you do this?

Online relationship break up advice?
Okay so I met this guy online and we are both 18 and we started talking you know, and then suddenly things started happening if you know what I mean. Well the relationship is good, we have some what in common but it's mainly all about the sexual matters. Now he's saying he loves me even after only a week and he keeps wanting me for sex or cyber sex doesn't matter, and I'm getting sick of it. I have talked to him about our relationship and that it is all mainly about the physical parts, but I don't want that anymore. He says that we are perfect for each other and I'm kinda getting tired from it. Hes a good guy but I don't know how to break it to him and say that's it over because it don't have feelings for him like that anymore. I know I probably sound harsh but I can't help the way I feel. So any advice?

Long term relationship break-up advice?
I recently broke up with my girlfriend of two and a half years. I know without a doubt that I still love her, but I don't know how she feels Friends have been telling me that I should just give her some space, and stop talking to her completely, and I'm trying to, but I'm finding it so hard She has mentioned before about maybe getting back when she is ready, but I don't know how long I can wait, should I wait? Or does that just give her all the control. Any advice would be greatly appriciated Thanks

Relationship Break-up advice?!?
My girlfriend of 9 months called it off with me as she is going travelling for 5 months and then starting a masters and didn't feel a relationship fitted in. We are clearly both crap with break ups and kept texting each other now and again, eventually she came down for her last night in the uk with all her friends who are my friends the first night, we all got drunk, she got with me in a club and asked to come back to mine.We both knew it was wrong and the next day she made the express point of saying that in text. The next and last night we all went out, and she got with some guy infront of me and all our friends, which is absolutely heartless. She said she was drunk and we weren't together, but how could she move on that quick? its just awful, i think she did it to spite me. Its just very disrespectful considering she told me she really cared about me etc.We argued about it alot the next day over text and in the end she started going kinda mushy on me, she started saying that it was so hard for her seeing me, it brought all her feelings back and she made a mistake doing what she did with that guy. " I seriously messed it all up and i'm so so sorry." and then a plating of " you're the nicest guy i've ever met" and " i'll miss you" .I just don't know how to handle this. I'm new to a break up really and i'm devastated, i still care for her even after what she did to me. I even left it on a civil note saying that we may speak again sometime in the future as i didn't have the heart to cut her out of my life. Anyone got any worthwhile advice on what I should do? I'm so confused. I guess I should be glad that she realised I am the better person and that she was the one that fucked it all up. It puts me in a better position to get over her but i still love her

Relationship Break-up advice?!?
My girlfriend of 9 months called it off with me as she is going travelling for 5 months and then starting a masters and didn't feel a relationship fitted in. We are clearly both crap with break ups and kept texting each other now and again, eventually she came down for her last night in the uk with all her friends who are my friends the first night, we all got drunk, she got with me in a club and asked to come back to mine.We both knew it was wrong and the next day she made the express point of saying that in text. The next and last night we all went out, and she got with some guy infront of me and all our friends, which is absolutely heartless. She said she was drunk and we weren't together, but how could she move on that quick? its just awful, i think she did it to spite me. Its just very disrespectful considering she told me she really cared about me etc.We argued about it alot the next day over text and in the end she started going kinda mushy on me, she started saying that it was so hard for her seeing me, it brought all her feelings back and she made a mistake doing what she did with that guy. " I seriously messed it all up and i'm so so sorry." and then a plating of " you're the nicest guy i've ever met" and " i'll miss you" .I just don't know how to handle this. I'm new to a break up really and i'm devastated, i still care for her even after what she did to me. I even left it on a civil note saying that we may speak again sometime in the future as i didn't have the heart to cut her out of my life. Anyone got any worthwhile advice on what I should do? I'm so confused. I guess I should be glad that she realised I am the better person and that she was the one that fucked it all up. It puts me in a better position to get over her but i still love her

Letting go? relationship/breaking up advice?
okay so this relates with a cheating question i just posted. my boyfriend and i had a really rough start in our relationship...but i decided to believe that he could change. this could work and he's the one for me. he ended up cheating on me on new years with my best friend..and i stayed with him..ever since then. i think it took him that realize that he's actually with a great girl. and he's turned into an amazing boyfriend for the past year. we've been together for a year and 10 months. so basically i let this get too far. i actually fell in love with this good guy he's turned into. but i'm starting to realize even THAT isn't really that good enough for me and that the reason i've been giving him chance after chance after chance is because he's like my safety blanket and i was really insecure. but now that i did let it get this far i'm finding it really hard to let go. i just broke up with him about a week ago and i'm miserable. i don't wanna go running back again because i know i made the right decision for myself and i'm actually really proud of that. but he's my first love and no love is like your first love. i'm really scared to see where life takes me now i guess. any advice opinions?

Relationship break up advice?
Is it best to stay good friends with an ex or cut them out of your life, assuming there wasnt a reason to hate them as they behaved fine and you got on well.just so you know, he broke up with me, although he still says he has feelings for me and thinks im a lovely woman, he thinks we just werent working as a couple and he wants to stay friends.I still have feelings for him, it took me 6 days to break down and cry about it today until today i was in shock i think. I dont want to lose contact with him but im thinking it hurts too much right now to stay friends.

Relationship: Break up advice needed?
I just ended a one year relationship a few hours ago due to her inability to provide possible solutions to the problems I have laid out for her. These problems result from her stubborn attitude towards me, how she puts our relationship on a thin piece of glass as if anything can easily break it , and mainly due to her constantly escalating a small argument into a major war. I don't know what to really do with it anymore. I've talking to her about it countless of times, whenever an issue comes up actually. I've tried reading books and even going as far as to talking to her closest friends to find a possible solution to deal with this. What makes this hard is that over the course of the relationship, I've developed a connection with her family brother, cousins, aunts, and uncles as well as my family developing a connection with her. So its basically throwing all of that away.She is fully aware of all of this and is aware that I am looking for solutions from her because I have ran out of every possible way to deal with it.I do want a relationship with her, however, to carry on the same relationship without any sort of effort to make a change would be like selling my soul. What should I do? Should I stay firm about this break up with the hope of things possibly working out..or should i just start to disconnect myself from her?

Need some relationship/break up advice!?
my gf of two years broke up with me about two months ago and the first few weeks were awful and them things started getting easier. Recently I have been seeing a different girl. And just last week it feels like I've relapsed about getting over my ex and things have just been hard and I think about my ex even when I'm with the new girl. I even dream about my ex. What should I do? Cause I would like to give it one last shot with my ex, but I'm afraid that if I dump the new girl and fail with my ex I'll be left lonely and that'll just make things harder...

I need help... bad relationship...break up advice ... anyone?
how do u break up with someone who u still have feelings for? its not a very healthy relationship. my friends keep telling me that they dont like they way my boyfriend handles things and that i dont seem happy. one of my best friends already has a restraining order against my boyfriend. what should i do?

Relationship break-up advice?
My boyfriend wants to get me a ring a like ACTUAL ring I don't really want to get married to him and have kind of been thinking about breaking up with him for a while, how do I do this?I broke up with him and hey wants to go back out any more advice? I feel bad.

Long distance relationship break-up advice?
Me and my boyfriend of almost two years have just broken up mutually. He moved to a different country last summer so we were in a long distance relationship for a year, which was fine as we saw eachother 7 times last year. Although this year we both really need to concentrate on schoolwork and exams, plus we worked out that we'd only see eachother once this schoolyear which would make things even harder. I'm just finding it hard to get over him, because we both still really love eachother and neither of us wanted to break up we've never had a serious fight but we figured that this would be for the best. We're 18 so obviously we're still young, but how can I get over him? Serious answers only please.