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Question: Ladies and gentelmen...trust issues...i need some relationship advice!?
(Posted by: TroJan Cheer 2009 on 2010-03-07 19:21:53)
Okay where to start..I have been with this guy for almost 5 months. Within this short time frame he has managed to break my trust. 1. After about 1 month of our relationship some girl camisha called him on the phone, he said to her "you already know " and laughed n said hed call her later.it meant 'you already know im with my girlfriend'. he wouldnt tell me who she was for the longest time..an hour later she calls back twice. He wouldnt answer in front of me- his excuse was it would be rude to talk on the phone to a girl in front of me.. Then one morning i wake up to his DORM phone ringing (no one calls that phone..we r in college btw) n it was her. i guess she was on campus for a tour and wanted to see him. 2. After 2 months of being together, i looked through his phone one night (we were both reallly drunk) he grabbed it out of my hand and would not let me see it. I had started to look through text messages and i that there was one to camisha and to briana..but didnt ever get to read them. 3. 3 months in, after all this talk about i need to trust him, i went threw his phone while he was sleeping and saw texts to a number not saved in his phone. Her signature told me that it was his ex , brittany, saying 'sorry i didnt answer' i look at his calls n that number isnt in there (meaning he deleted it). So i wake him up out of his sleep n say why are u texting brittany..(the best part) he says "whose brittany?? " So after that i broke up with him, but managed to get back together because he did all this talk about how he really doesnt want to lose me n he was going to tell me and i can take his phone to my dorm with me everynight. I think he has changed slightly bc he tells me everygirl that talks to him on facebook, ive been with him everyday all day since..and his phone got shut off recently so i know hes not messing around there.. 4. He left his fbook up at my house one day n i read alot of his old messages (nothing bad since we have been together) and he would message a bunch of girls sayin hey sexy and such, while he HAD A GIRLFRIEND..he told me he was young and dumb and that he is in college n serious about me. Now we are having issues of trust because of this. He gets mad at me because i have been thinking the worst about everything lately. But i think like, if i trust him he will take advantage of that n i dont want to b played. Should i just back off n let it flow? How do i semi trust him so it doesnt ruin us? |
