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i have a problem that causes me to force myself to be and outkast it has ruined relationships with friends and it stops getting to close with girls. in particular there is this one girl who is beutiful its just dat our relationship is confusing at 1 point everything is going good at other times its not now she is talking to her ex which if it was a definite she is moving on it would b better cuz i would know for sure but d signs are kind of wierd it seems like she is unsure i really think she is confused about me bcuz i kind of built up this rep where some girls think im a player bcuz of my social disorder it makes me not care and i wish i was somewhat of what these girls think i am this just holding me bck so mainly i just want to know what should i do and idk now if its jokingly are what but she wrote on a paper that i love you she kinda of looked serious but i was nonchalant so she put sikE then 2day she was feelin down and i sent her a txt to cheer her up and she txt me bck im sweet and i love you

Relationship advice; What would you do?
Ok here goes the long story I have been dating this woman for two years now and I do have feelings for her, but I think its time the two of us had a break. We were talking about our futures and Its clear to me that she does not want the same things I want out of life. I plan on staying in the military for as long as I can and she wants me to get out ASAP.That's only one issue, Issue two is yesterday she told me after two years mind you that she regrets the first time we ever had sex we lost our virginity to each other and she doesn't want to have sex ever again until we get married. I have no problem with that, what I do have a problem with is that it took her two years to be completely honest with me. She also told me that a lot of the stuff I like to she PRETENDS to like to humor me. That really bothers me, but she just kind of blows it off. Third, I always seem to be the one compromising to make this relationship work. We had a chat about living closer to each other so we could spend more time together and I mentioned Moving duty stations to be closer to her but when I brought up the Idea of her transferring schools she shot it down like it was no option at all. Our whole relationship has been like that. I do have feelings for this woman, but I don't want our whole future to be a battle struggle. Am I just being selfish? What should I do? I don't want to her by breaking up with her but I also want whats best for both of us.I appreciate Intelligent and thought out answers, I have sat her down and talked to her, told her What I want, what My hopes and dreams are, and she is not ok with a lot of them. She wont curb, but wants me to change for her. I appreciate Intelligent and thought out answers, I have sat her down and talked to her, told her What I want, what My hopes and dreams are, and she is not ok with a lot of them. She wont curb, but wants me to change for her. She doesn't want to hear what I'm saying because she is too busy telling me how I'm wrong and how my feelings are wrong, because she doesn't act that way, she doesn't do those things etc.

Relationship advice..what's happening? ?
My boyfriend and I have been together for a month and a half and have known each other for only two months. We used to talk for 3 hours every night every day but now we don't and he asks me what happened. I sometimes don't know what to talk about and it's weird because I'm the chatty type. I'm always so worried and I ask if he wants to breakup and he always says he wants us. Why am I always soo concerned? Why is this happening? Is it normal? Help please

Relationship advice, what should i do?
I promised my girlfriends mom i wouldnt have sex with her and did anyway, now her mom hates me, possibly wants to kill me...what should i do?

Relationship advice: What do I do?
Okay, so. This question is about relationships. I need a stranger's advice, since none of my friends are really able to help me out. Basically, I need to know if I should give up on a boy I've liked since, like, 2nd grade. So i'll just tell you a bit about my situation...To start off, I'm in highschool. Don't jump to conclusions. I really, really like this guy. I have for a very long time. All I want to know is if I should keep trying to get him to like me.First of all, we've been really on and off. Ever since middle school. Sometimes we'll be " official" , sometimes we'll just be hooking up, or sometimes we'll just flat out hate each other for no reason. We have our fights, but we also have some really great memories. We have so much in common. He's my better half. Everything I want in a guy, he's got it. I feel like we were kind of meant to be together, considering the fact I've known him since I was 6. The thing is, I like him right now more than ever, and I think it has to do with the fact that he has had a girlfriend now for about 3 months and I'm extremely jealous. But now, after weeks of heart break and crying and chocolate ice cream and trying to get over him, I'm finding out that every little thing he does makes me fall for him even harder, and every little flaw I see in their relationship gives me hope. He used to like me a lot and everything was great before he met this one girl, and now I find myself glaring at the back of her head in history and wishing that I was in her shoes. I'm not afraid to admit I'm jealous... I just want to get over this feeling.So, I have two options, really. 1. Get over him, or2. Keep waiting.but I can't really choose one... sooo. Help me out.And please, please, don't say anything along the lines of " Oh, Hun. Move on. He's not worth it." because he so, so is.

I need relationship advice: What should I do?
I'm 15 sixteen in October and have been with my boyfriend age 14, but in the same grade as me for almost 5 months. We really love each other, but lately things have been difficult. His mom, even though she hasn't met me, thinks I'm a bad influence and she doesn't want him to see me. This devastated me, obviously, and really hurt me. To make matters worse, I was going to hang out with him one day, but my mom wouldn't drive me because she's pissed at his mom for saying those things, and she thinks I should stop chasing him and let him chase me, or break up and move on. Since we can't drive, right now there seems to be no way I can see him, unless we go to a mutual friend's house separately, and then we wouldn't be alone. We haven't seen each other in about a month and a half and REALLY miss each other. When school starts again, we might see each other there, but that's not good enough to hold a relationship. We've talked and don't want to break up, but we also don't have any idea of what to do. He doesn't know if there's anything he can do and there's certainly nothing I can do. My mom said he needs to grow up and just tell his mom he has a girlfriend. My friend, parents, sister, and her boyfriend think we need to break up. But I'm afraid if we do I'll be even more hurt than I am now. I'm so confused. I want things to work out with us. We've done " new" things with each other, if you get my drift still virgins . Also he's my first boyfriend, so this would be my first break up. So I guess my questions are What would you do in my position, if you loved someone but all the odds were against you?Is this a good enough reason to break up, even if you still love each other and want things to work?

I just need relationship advice? What should I do?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and live together. I paid for his debt, now he is helping me with some of my bills, like my car payment $160 and insurance, for a relatively new car, with low miles, anyway we have an yo yo relationship, he is 8 years older, just starting college, lives off unemployment. I let him drive my car, although he does not have his license and doesn't own a vehicle, now today he has been drinking now for about 3 hours, even on our double date we just got home from. I mean 8 drinks. So he now left with our neighbor, the same age as he , and a 20 year old, granted these people we barely know, with my car to go out to a bar. He claims and told me before he left that he would not drink anymore, do you think he is lying, I kinda have a gut feeling he told me a lie. And it wasn't like I could say no because he already gave the " buddies" the okay and he is paying for the car payment and insurance only for 3 months . I can't really tell him to do much because he gets mad and yells and calls me names that disrespects me quite often. I have told him on many accounts to not disrespect me. I mean I can put up with his addictions to smoking, something I despise and other illicit acts, but I can't put up with being disrespected. What should I do? I mean we still have months of our lease together in a 1 bedroom apartment, I go to school full time and do not work, I live off my student loans, much of which I spent on him. I recently got granted unemployment too, but only 50 bucks every two weeks isn't really cutting it. I want to get a summer job, but I am taking 17 credits in the fall, so its kind of a gamble. I have spoken to my family, one in which live over 1700 miles away, so no support where I can go to. I am only 19 and I don't want to end up homeless or lose everything I have because of a guy and my love for him.

Relationship advice, what do.?
Hey. I've a problem. I have this girlfriend I've been with for 5 years, I've only met her a couple of times, it's a long distance thing, and we both don't have jobs or ways to get to each other. Anyway, I love my girlfriend and I get along great with her family, siblings and friends. But I don't think I can do the long distance thing much longer, as much as I dislike admiting it, because I think it sounds corny I miss being able to lay and cuddle with my girlfriend, just the physical contact part of it. Anyway, my friends invited me to this party the other day and I met this girl that I have heaps in common with and who laughs at my jokes, and can tell jokes to, and is the same age as me, and just, I can see myself having fun with her. We had to sleep together in a tent that night because it was at a friends house and all the beds were taken, but we decided to go lay on the trampoline and look at the stars. We ended up laying there together in a sleeping bag cuddling and lightly kissing and touching eachother until 5am. At the time I was feeling guilty because I knew that it would end up like this I'd have mixed feelings for the both of them, I mean I like the company of both of them, and I can see myself having a great time in general with both. So here's where my problem lies. What do I do?I've already told her that what I did was wrong and explained it to her, and told her that I'm in a relationship. And I'm going to tell my girlfriend thisarvo.I have no idea what to do, I've very little experience in the relationship department, and now I have two girls that I like and want to be with me, and I don't know what to do.

Relationship advice what to do?
im into a girl who i never talked to in hs. theres this girl i really like weve know earch other since kindergarden. when we hit hs we basically never talked or hungout. now she is in college and me the marine corps. i wanna get back in contact but dont want to give like a creeeper or awkward text or facebook message. any help?

Relationship advice, what do i do?:'/?
my boyfriend and i have only been together for about three months it was all really perfect at first, he was like my mr.right and it seemed like we would be together for ages, he understood me perfectly and was literally my other half.. we were inseparable but then the insecurities started to kick in, about a month in to our relationship he asked suddenly out of the blue if i wanted to break up, which shocked me completely and i started to get defensive and we had a big argument apparently he got the 'i want to break up' vibe off of me and thought i was going to break up with him, but at the time he didnt make that clear Next thing there was a rumor that spread like wildfire through everyone i knew that he had cheated on me with his ex girlfriend, i questioned him about it and he denied it so i let it go and forgave him, and didn't delve any deeperAbout a month later, he accuses me of having a used condom wrapper in my pocket he didnt confront me at the time or ask to check my pockets he did it over facebook which wasn't true and resulted in yet another argument that threatened our relationship. When things had cooled down I told him he couldn't keep hurting me by suggesting outrageous things that hurt my feelings because it wasn't fair... he promised me he would trust me and never suggest such a thing again.Then just a couple of days ago we were mid argument and he accuses me of cheating on him with two more people with some stupid story which is completely unfounded. I spent the day with him today for the first time since the argument and everything was fine, i was angry at him still and upset but i figured that was only to be expected. But then something i didn't expect happened, when he started to make things sexual i was completely disinterested, like he didn't turn me on at all. I think maybe it could be because i've seen an uglier side to him, a side that hurts me, so i don't find him attractive anymore...I'm so unsure as to whether i should dump him or not all i know is at the moment i'm really unhappy and all i know is i need to do SOMETHING about itsuggestions?

Relationship advice, what do i do?
Right so basically in a bit of a muddle at the moment, me and this girl have been seeing each other for a month or so and things were going great etc we both showed mutual interest were like physically and emotionally interested in each other etc and then the other night we were both out at a club, not out with each other but saw each other and she was really off with me so i intentionally was off with her and stayed with my mates most of the night who were at the time mostly girls and usually she'd come up to me in if we're both out dance with me kiss me etc but didn't this time, so when i saw her outside i said hi gave her a kiss etc and she just seemed really off with it so yeah, the day before i bumped into her in town whilst i was buying a new phone she was with her mate who i get on with and i was kinda off with her because i dunno tbh i was just in a shit mood, kissed her and said bye and went home, texted her later to say sorry for being off and everything was all good. Now back to when we were both out, she went home early because she felt ill and she was really blunt in texts after that, i text her in the morning to see what was going on and she didn't reply all day until i sent her an 'ultimatum' text blabla if you dont text back i get the message n all that, and she replied something along the lines of i do like you i wanna keep seeing you but i feel you're coming on too strongly and im not a lovey dovey person and i need time to think what i want but we both like each other so its all good, so i replied something like 'first time we started talking you complained at about how your ex never showed you attention or showed his interest or put the effort in, im the kind of person that does and you dont like it?' she was like i love the attention etc but its weird going from a relationship with nothing to this and it feels a bit overhwelming but kept assuring me she wants to still meet up and what not, so i literally said its up to you if you wanna call it quits tell me now and she was like no i dont. meh How can she ask for fucking space and then still text me and expect me to wait for her? what do i do ? Sorry for the rant and no paragraphs but im in a rush...

Relationship advice....what do I do?
So there is this guy, we will call him Joe, who messages me on facebook periodically lately, more often and gestures subtle flirts at me. With the coming of the new school year, he is in my history class and lunch period. His friends seem as if they would not mesh with my friends and me well they are " popular" and are into sports and my group is into music such as marching band . I had a crush on him back in middle school, and now as a high school junior, he interests me. He has a lot of friends that are girls and I hear that he is a flirt. He is cute though and he is also nice to me...and I won't jump to conclusions until I see things for myself first hand.Now here's the dilemma There is this other boy, we'll call him John. John isn't just any old boy though...we had dated for a year and nine months serious relationship and brutally broke up. He begged for me back and I took him...and we are not technically " in a relationship" or an official couple, but we have been hanging out as if we were a couple. He really is changing he used to be really mean to me and he " couldn't keep his hands to himself" , but with each day it seems as if he drifts back to his old ways more and more.I had been talking to Joe while going out with John harmless, a tad flirty, John did not know of this but now that I am listed as " single" on facebook, Joe has been talking to me more. I love John a lot, I just don't know how I love him...I don't know if i love him romantically, as a friend, or as an important former boyfriend. I want to keep him in my life and I would be devastated to see him with anyone else. Yet, Joe is new and exciting...plus, he is my own age John is a sophomore in college I'm the relationship type. Or, should I just cut them both out and be a single girl? I love John and have a potential relationship with Joe.So what should I do about this?