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Help please serious relationship advice no joke?
Ok so I met this girl a couple of months ago..we started dating and have been for about 3 months now. She is 3 yrs older than me..I'm 21. Before we got together she was kind of hesitant she said she wasn't over her first bf im her 3rd and she didn't want to hurt me. Somehow she changed her mind and we ended up being together. Once we got together I asked about her second bf she said they broke up because she was kind of bored and she thought she was over her first but she wasn't. She said her 1st was always on her mind when she was with him but she still dragged the relationship for 9months and finally broke up with him. This has made me extremely insecure. She also said she usually gets bored with guys within 4months. More insecurity. Insert a couple of fights and flash forward to now. She says she loves me as a person and we talk here and there about marriage and stuff. I like her a lot and can see myself with her in the future but I am extremely insecure and don't know when she will get up and walk out on me. I call her and talk to her every chance I get. And I wanna see her whenever I can. We have had sex but I've been able to not perform a couple of times which I think is performance anxiety. I now feel like she is completely avoiding sexual talk and she doesn't call as much as she used to and when we talk she taunts about the sexual stuff then says she was joking when I get mad about it. Can someone tell me what to do...where to take this relationship.. What to expect.. I've unintentionally cut off hanging out with friends it's just usually go to work ..look at my phone a billion times hoping she'd call..then she calls..go home...eat talk to her till she says goodnight..then go to sleep. I don't know what to do...help please I feel like she is losing interest.She says she is over her ex and swears by it..and idk if I should end the relationship like this..I want to prove to her and myself that I can be good in bed like I was before I met her..we have mutual friends I don't want her to tell everyone.

Relationship advice? no physical attraction!?
Okay so i met this guy and he is super nice we talk all the time and recently we have been texting a lot.I know he likes me cause he always tries to be really flirty, hes really great, but the only problem is that im not physically attracted to him...is that bad? i know looks are not everything, but i think i would really want to be with him, but i just can't see myself being physical with him or anything like that, is it an ego thing or what?i really need help.thanks psim 19 and in college

Relationship advice... no time to myself?
My girlfriend and I have been together for 7 months. We just started living together a month ago. We love each other to death and get a lot of compliments that we are a great couple.Recently I've run into an issue that is really getting to me. She desires every last second of my free time to be spent in proximity to her. I mean, " every last second" . I work a typical 40 hour work week, 8 4 30 monday through friday. I get home around 5, and from that time until I go to bed around midnight we have to be in the same room curled up together watching tv or something of that sort.She complains a lot that we never get any time together, but when I put it on paper I see about 7 hours or more every day that we are attached by the hip. I am not sure what else I can do to give her more time. She even gets visibly upset when I say I need to go to sleep. In fact I have started to feel the lasting health effects of staying up too late too often to make her happy. I am a man who has hobbies. I like playing xbox once in a while not all the time, just an hour of play time a couple days a week is fine with me . We are also both really really really into hard rock metal music and like to go to shows on weekends. She is really passionate about metal music and is always listening to it and reading about it etc. Well, I stated my desire to start a band myself since I am a guitar player, and this really bothered her. I thought she would be really excited and supportive to see me play, but it turns out she isn't too thrilled about it because it would take time away from us being together.I feel like we spend more time together than the majority of couples yet its still not enough for her. I have hobbies and interests and I feel like these days all I do is work, and spend time attached to her. I have changed a lot about my self and my life to meet her needs. I need some ME time once in a while and I need a life outside of her. Don't get me wrong I love her more than anything and honestly think she's the one I would like to marry some day. I just don't know how to bring this up to her or go about the fact that I need some peronsal time. When I bring things up like this she either gets really upset, or she just looks really sad and doesn't say anything. I'm afraid one of us is going to end up getting sick of the other and hold resentment probably me, since I feel like my personal life has been almost stripped away .Any advice from anyone who has been in the same situation? How can I convince her that we need to compromise, and that I need time for myself in order to keep our relationship healthy, without making her think I just don't want to be around her as that is far from true .

Relationship advice? No spark.?
I'm seventeen and I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a total of nine months. Recently I just haven't felt the spark. I barely want to kiss him and can't stand to do anything else. I don't miss him hardly at all, even when we haven't seen each other for a week. Just about every little thing he does annoys me. I just feel so... bitter. I've started thinking about who we are as people and what we want in the future. We just like so many different things and want to do so many different things. I love summer, he loves winter. I'm a very beachy like person and he loves the snow. I love math and he hates it. I know these are all little things, but they impact big things. I want to go south for college and he says he will too, but I know he wouldn't if it weren't for me. I just worry that any future we may have will be miserable and full of arguing. Sometimes I feel like I'm falling in a hole and I can get a little of the way up before falling back down again. I feel miserable. I find myself wanting to talk to him less and less. I catch myself flirting with other guys without me even realizing. I just have this feeling that I want to be able to go to college and have fun with friends and flirt and have fun and not have to be part of a couple. I've thought hard and I really feel like I'd be happier without him. Advice?As in should I break up with him or try to work on it?Also, we have a class together and we sight right next to each other. Is there any way to make that not awkward?Now needing advice on how to make that class non awkward. plz.

I need relationship advice! NO ONE IS HELPING! Help please?
Repost Ok guys and girls, hang in there with me, i know this is very long but bare with me and try to help me out ok? Im desperate here Im a sweet girl and im very loveable and have alot of love to give, sometimes too much love 8oOk im 19 and my boyfriend is 17... i like younger guys what can i say lol...so anyways my boyfriend and i have been together for a lil over a year, at the beginning of our relationship i cheated on him, by dating him D and other guy M at the same time o i know that was really bad and sluttish but i didn't have sex with neither of them at that time... so about 2 months into our relationship i told M the other guy that i wanted to just be friends with him because i was starting to fall in love wit my boyfriend D and i didn't want to lose my bf. i eventually told M the truth... he was devastated and upset...i felt guilty because i liked them both but i loved my boyfriend. After 5months of being with my boyfriend D I told him about what i did and of course he was very angry with me and more importantly he was heartbroken, he was more upset that i didn't tell him sooner and that i waited so long to tell him...but luckily he stayed with me because he loved me and didn't want to lose me and i loved him so much... couple of months go by and we're still together but our relationship was rocky and still is because he didn't trust me and i don't blame him ... he would always make hurtful jokes about what i did and would tell me " now you see how i feel" At one point he even told me " sometimes i feel like, since you cheated on me than it wouldn't be so bad if i did the same thing to you" our relationship was sour and i got tired of him making me feel even worse about me cheating not to mention how he would always bring it up at the wrong times and wouldnt let it go... i got so tired that i ended up telling him that i needed a break so we " broke up" in Oct. of 2008 to be exact Than one day out of the blue he called me and flirted with and told me he wanted me back so we got back together and we're still together till this day... he told me he has never cheated and he never will but that puzzles me because of the stuff he use to joke about... and he still brings up me cheating... i haven't talked to my boyfriend in days and i don't know what's going on... the only talking we do is through texts and there only short hellos...but my questions are... do you think he might cheat on me if he already hasn't? and since we haven't really communicated in days, do you think he might be planning to break up with me? I know what i did was wrong but that was a while back and i still feel horrible about it but Ive learned my lessons and I'm not going to do it again... everybody makes mistakes.And no im not " robbing the cradle" lolAnd my bf would always ask me, " why did u do it? why would you do something like that to me, especially when you know i love you? i mean why me instead of him?" I guess at the time i wanted both of them so i said yes to both of them when they asked me and after a while of doing it i started to become really depressed and all i did was cry when i was along. This hurt me just as much as it hurt my bf because i knew what i was doing was wrong, but i started falling in love with him, my connection with him was stronger because we were starting to think about having sex... i didnt want to have sex with him at that time because i was doing something wrong and he didnt know about it yet .your probably wondering why i waited so long to tell him, and it was because i felt like if i would have told him at the beginning, i wouldnt have him right now.

A little relationship advice...no smart asses please?
I've been with my girl friend for over a year, we fell for eachother and all that. We spent so much time together, made so many memories. With the girls I've dated, none have ever made me feel this way. Now that you get the picture, I'll explain my situation. Alright, well one day we were in her room and her mom, " walked in on us" as we were about to do it. I honestly don't think this was the motive for her to keep us from each other because we saw each other after that with her knowing, but out of no where, she with drew her from the school that we go to and moved her to another part of the state. The trouble is, that she's 16 and I am now 18..so there is nothing I can do but wait until she's of age. But the problem is, her family that she's staying with doesn't allow us to communicate, so we basically have no means of talking. It seems like it's going to be a long two years, especially without communication. It's been this way since November, it's been hard, I've been feeling short of breath and depressed, honestly to the point of giving in. My advice is, what do you think the best thing to do is?Thanks for the advice, from all of you..I honestly don't want it to end like this.We do communicate but not that often, sometimes I wonder if she's honestly trying her best to keep communication or if I'm the only one that feels this bad. But the thing I hate is when i try to explain it to my family and friends and they say things like " oh well you're good lookin' guy, you can find someone else or you're young." the fact is that I don't want anybody else, but I'm afraid that she might move on...I'm still trying to teach myself to accept that...

I need some relationship advice.....no sex, binge drinking boyfriend?
I am 28 years old, I've been dating my boyfriend 33 years old for 2.5 years. We've been living together for about 6 months.I'm getting really fed up with him. We haven't had sex in months, and he says it's because he doesn't like his job and it's stressing him out. Yeah, I can understand to a point, but he isn't even looking for another job He also acts like a real jerk when he is drunk. I'm used to it but when my friends are over, they are asking me what the heck is wrong with him? He gets very argumentative and thinks he is right about everything.I don't think he is going to change. Can a relationship really recover after a significant amount of time without sex? I'm getting older and I don't want to waste anymore time. What should I do?

Needing Relationship Advice (no negative comments please)?
Ok me and my daughters father split up in December things have gotten ugly so there will be no working things out with him. But on a good note I have gotten to know a guy that I went to high school with he did use to be friends with my daughter's father but as we both have found out her father wasn't who we thought he was so that is not holding our relationship back its he's moving out of state and will only be home for holidays... I have trust issues from past relationships but he has not gave me any reason to not trust him. He has never done anything out of the way one time he's not pressuring anything he's letting me make the call about everything. But with all of this explanation my question is I truly do care about him and I know that he would treat me and my daughter right but do u think I am closing my options to soon?

Relationship advice (NO RUDENESS)?
I am in a relationship with my high school sweetheart, at first we were a match made in heaven slowly it became poision but we recovered to a point of greatness, no jealously, nothing but respect and honesty, well we got pregnant and had our son, one month after our son was born he left us for freedom so he says, I hardly heard from him or saw him.. about five months after he began showing interest in me again and I was soooo happy because I loved him so dearly and wanted to be with him so badly. So we got together again.. things were great up untill about a month ago, he began putting friends first again, yelling at me when I asked what he was going to do for the day, he hangs up on me tells me its over and I beg for him back yet he makes me feel at fault, and like im LUCKY to have him back, he has also COMPLETELY changed who he used to be, he was into the same music and style of clothing and activities and now he is on a whole other thing I understand change but changing EVERYTHING is just being fake right? I mean he only began acting and changing when he started hanging with this group of people. He has also lost his goals and completely has no idea what his furute will look like all because of this new group of friends, he is so quicky infulenced I am feeling sad that I am disappreciated and treated like this. I dont know what to do? It hurts to think of not being with him but it hurts stayin and continuing to be with him. I need advice and some strength to do what is best for my son and I.please no rude comments, I am not in the mood for that unnessisary childish behavior. I am simply seeking advice from NO BIAS people.