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Relationship advice, is he going to break up with me?
OK this is a long one so brace yourself...My boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and 3 months. Our relationship has been on the rocks even around our 1 year anniversary. We barely see each other anymore to where im in school from morning until night. He's constantly working 40 hours a week. The downside is he doesn't drive, so when he gets off work, is when he has to go straight home cause his mom has to pick him up no license , mind you, he's 21 y o. It makes me sick how we have a time schedule and we're in our 20's. My boyfriend has been making remarks like he might as well call himself single, and what's the point in the relationship if we barely see each other. I have an instinct but i don't want to be dramatic but i feel like he's going to break up with me or at least he wants to but is afraid to do it, because he probably settled with me or he doesn't want to break my heart. What do you think? I don't want him to just settle with me, but i'm tired of him complaining about the relationship and im tired of hurting. We love each other very much though.

A guy gave me relationship advice. Is this normal?
During these months I have had a lot of crushes, and I told my best guy friend about them. Then he gives me advice on telling them I like them. Is this normal, or what does this mean because I never had a guy give me relationship advice.

Relationship advice... Is It Over?
I've been going with my boyfriend for Almost 4 years, we've been living together for 3. We had a big argument and even though we havent argued in a couple days, it still feels awkward. It was a bad argument that almost split us up. Now it feels like he sees me different and idk if things are gonna feel like they did a month ago. He says he's tired of talking about it, and i dont want to ask him how he feels now that every thing has calmed down b c it'll just agitate him.I just been thinking that, even though i love him with ALL of my heart i just dont know if i can stay in a relationship where i dont know if he loves as much as he once did or if he sees me different. B c if thats the case, i cant live on something that i knew was MUCH greater. He's been under a lot of stress lately, and i'll admit i'm probably 70 % of it right now. I'm working on who i am as a person b c i only want him to see the happy me. But i dont even know if him seeing me happy will even make a difference anymore. How do you know if it's completely over? How do you know they still care?

Relationship advice... is this worth it? (short - please help, need opinions)?
Hey.. Been with my boyfriend for 7 months, we have a great time, basically when its good its really good.problem is he has a lot of self confident issues, doesnt believe me when I say he's hot even though in my eyes he's the sexiest man alive, I compliment him all the time as does he, he treats me like a princess, I try my best to make him feel special, nothing works.Theres the old saying " how can you love someone if you dont love yourself" this gets me down.. am I being selfish... he always rejects my compliments and thinks he's shit in bed when he's not. other than this I love the guy and I try my hardest. PLEASE HELP.

Relationship advice: was my boyfriend overreacting?
My boyfriend goes to a school that is around two hours away so when he comes home during the summer we usually spend every day together. One day I got a text from my friend asking me if I wanted to go to the park at 10pm. I said yes but my boyfriend decided he didn't want to go. So he dropped me off at my house and for a reason I can't remember we decided it wouldn't be a good idea for me to spend the night at his house. When I got to my friends house I asked her if she wanted to spend the night since I hadn't seen her in a while. She of course said yes. Around midnight my boyfriend was texting me saying he had changed his mind about me spending the night. This caused a problem because I had already promised my friend a sleepover. So wanting to avoid a conflict I lied to my boyfriend. I thought he would be mad if I told him I invited my friend to spend the night so I started making excuses like I was tired. He was pretty insistent and didn't give up easily so I gave in and told my friend she couldn't spend the night. Thankfully one of our other friends was there and she was planning to sleep over at her house. So I texted my boyfriend and told him that plans changed And that I could spend the night. He asked me if I had been lying before and asked if my friend was planning on spending the night. I told him yes I had lied and that I just blew my friend off for him. He got really really mad and was using the f word and After the fight he told me that he couldn't trust me anymore and that I would have to earn his trust back. Was he overreacting or am I just a bad girlfriend?

Need relationship advice, be very greatful to anyone who would give me 5 mins to help ?
my ex split with me 2 months ago, we were together a year and i havent seen him since. A few days ago for the first time in those weeks he told me he how much he loved me and really missed me and hugging me kissing me etc. i said something thursday about meeting up that i think scared him off. he said he didnt want to see me as things would get messy and he started saying again that he didnt want to be with me i gave him too much hassle and wrecked his head and he didnt need it with his hectic lifestyle and didnt want to be with someone that had nothing in their life but him. Hes a footballer and football is his life and i know he was stressed about his team loosing matches and wanting to play well. i tried persuading him that it can be worked on and to give it another go and he didnt text back so i said maybe its better we didnt talk for a while and he got mad. then he text me after his match to tell me he won and asked me was i ok, he said he was sorry and would have liked me to have been there tonight and i said i would too but... and he said some night he text me last night just talking in general asking did i get a job and telling me about his match etc. and i told him i missed him and loved him and he said he did 2. we were talking today also and i brought up an old memory when we first met and we had a joke about it. i know he loves me as he has proved it alot when we were together, but is he confused? i dont know what to make of this anymore, if he really doesnt want me why is he holding on and telling me he misses and loves me etc? what should i do?

Relationship advice: Is This Really Love?
If a guy tells his girlfriend that he " loves" her so much, but basically doesn't allow her to go places or do certain things she loves doing, is that really " love?" For instance, if a girl wanted to go to New York to be on the reality television show, " The Real World" , and the boyfriend didn't want her to go because he was worried that she may leave him for someone else which is UNDERSTANDABLE, I get it , is it not simply about HIM and not HER?Maybe you guys can give me a different perspective that I'm not touching on, but the way I see it is this. The love he mentions is not love he has for her, but rather for HIMSELF. True love, IMO, is selfless. I'm not saying I, personally, am selfless, but one shouldn't delude themselves into believing that clipping a birds wings, so that said bird won't fly away and POSSIBLY never returns, means that " love" the BIRD so much. IMO, you don't.Agree? Disagree? Or do you have any other comments opinions weather news? All is welcome. What I meant at the end was " ...that clipping a birds wings, so that said bird won't fly away and POSSIBLY never return, means that the owner of the bird " loves" the BIRD so much. IMO, he doesn't."

What do you think about this relationship advice? Is it true?
I read an article I will post the link below. that stated the following It stated that the best relationship advice for anyone is to just live your life. A life that's worth living, one where you do what you want to do, pursue your passions. That way if you meet someone they'll be joining a life that is already really good. And if you don't meet anyone, you can still look back at the end and say " you know what I lived a really great life." it also stated that if we take all the energy we put into finding the " one" or great relationship we dream for and put that effort and energy into ourselves and figuring out what really makes us happy. Such as what else is important and meaningful in your life? What else fulfills you? How much do you love and respect yourself, as is, through only your eyes and no one else's? Married people, Divorced people what do you think of this advice?Here is a link to the full article if you wish to read bettyconfidential.com ar ld a the best relationship advice ever.html

Relationship advice!! is it okay...?
im crushing on this guy named chris and i think he likes me too hes actually pretty obvious about it . the only issue is that i used to have a thing with his bestfriend jack. well it wasnt really a thing it was more of a thing that didnt happen. his friend used to like me so told me and me being stupid i said i liked him too even though i only liked him a little bit . ive known jack since i was born and have been friends ever since so we decided to just stay friends. it was easier that way. is it wrong of me to go out with chris? how should i go about it?

Relationship advice? Is he a player?
Okay, so there's this boy I know who is from my hometown. I've known him for years, and I thought he was a total douche. Then, this summer came, and it almost seemed like he was trying to be nice. For 2 weeks, we kinda, sorta hung out. Then I had to go back home, and as it turned out, he moved to the city I live in for the school year. We hung out once, and it was nice. I told him I was glad I had a friend in him, but he said he wanted to be more. I didn't answer him for a week. When I decided to give him an answer, he was dating someone else. Did I wait too long? Do you think he's a player? What should I do?

Relationship advice is there a chance we could get back together?
Okay so me and my boyfriend of 2 and half years have been through about everything together. But we have alot of anger. I get mad and we fight alot. But my boyfriend broke up with me after moving to arizona from louisiana to be with me. he left me about 5 days ago because he says hes a fuck up, i deserve better, and he doesnt want to hurt me anymore. but he says he still loves me and misses me. Ive been texting him none stop for the past few days. but he always gives me one word answers. i tell him i miss us hanging out and he says yeah... he keeps giving me mix match answers. like one day he makes me feel as if we have a chance and then later i dont. He says he doesnt want to be with anyone. and if i say anything about me just doing my nails he asks who am i getting pretty for. and if i say noone why you want me to get pretty for someone he says thats up to you. do you want me to look pretty for anyone. Hes in college and im inviting him over to watch a movie with me this weekend and he says yeah but idk i want to see him cause i want to see how we react with each other to see if this is permite or do i have a chance. Does it sound like he still likes me or is he playing me.