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Relationship advice - Husband lost job -family meddling?
My husband and I have been together for a little over 10 years now. We have one child that lives with us and a step child from his previous relationship.He has been diagnosed with severe Bi Polar. He is a good man and an awesome father. But I can tell when he has had too much stress on him. He was also in a car accident that left him in a coma for 3 months when he was younger, and others were killed. I am sure this has added to his depression even though he wasn't driving He recently lost his job. He was the main bread winner, my job is great but I definitely do not make as much as he did, so we are barely making the bills right now.We live in a house that we rent from his mother so they are in our finances a lot more then they should. He is stressed out obviously. His mother and grandmother call him every single morning and throughout the day regarding finding another job. He is constantly looking applying so I understand he is doing all he can. I also understand they are just trying to help but they make matters worse. Today he took enough medicine to knock him out Xanax as well as Zoloft. Not too much but enough .so he can sleep the world away.My heart aches for him and I just want to help and I can't. When I talk to his parents they say he is just being disrespectful and don't want to hear anything I have to say. The only other solution is that we find another place to live where we do not have any ties to his family. I just hate also my son having to step away from the school and friends he loves so much.I am a giver in sex and oral pleasure so I don't mind doing that to make him happy, but it's not working anymore, it's way past that. And he doesn't want to go get help. I feel like I am stuck.Suggestions? Anyone gone through this? Help.

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