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Relationship advice Girlfriends obnoxious kids?
Im at my boiling point with my girlfriends 2 sons. I recently quit my job and moved in with them, and im seriously concidering going back to where i came. My relationship with my girlfriend is fine, but her kids are driving me nuts. Her 15 year old son has to probably be the most annoying person, i have ever meet in my life. He goes out of his way to act annoying just screaming for attention... Some of the things he does are, Runs threw the house at all hours of the day, Screams like a little girl with fake laughs, He will walk past me when iam reading, and for no reason at all, clap his hands very loudly and act like he's unaware he's annoying me. He will come in the room when i dont notice him, and CLAP really loud This happens about 10 times a day. Her sons never clean anything, they take my stuff and move it around then deny it. The 15 year old has stolen my Cologne, and i found it in his backpack, after he said he didnt take it. I feel kinda sorry for them because neither of them have any friends. I have been here 10 months and they have never been to a friends house or had a friend over. And i know what its like to be a teenager, but they are way immature, for example, they watch nickalodean? At 15???? Slam doors on purpose, and believe me i have tried to be a father friend mentor, you name it. Nothing works. Also, they go out of thier way to cause drama between me and my girlfriend. How would you handle this?

Relationship advice? girlfriend help?
hi i have been in a 3 year relationship yesterday after going out with friends my Gf phoned up and got pissed cause i stayed long outside. she said that i'm an asshole ect.... and its over lke WTF??? what do i do now ?

Relationship advice... girlfriends male friend?
Right. My girlfriend works with this guy whos married but works away from his wife for 2 of every three weeks. They have formed a quite close friendship texting and emailing nearly everyday hes not home with his wife aswell as working with my girl.curiosity got the better of me and i checked her phone just to see what they were talking about so much. theres nothing in the texts apart from chat and something i see as mild flirting every message ends in XXXX .i approched my girlfriend and said i didnt like that they had formed such a close friendship and why is he constantly texting you even at the hours of like 04 00 " XXXX" we had a big argument because she said i didnt trust her etc... I decided that if this was going to work i needed to put trust in her and ignore what was going on...at the end of the argument she said she wont talk to him outta work anymore which put my mind at ease. i later saw a msg in her phone from him that flashed up on the phone whilst on charge... i didnt say anything but have now noticed that shes deleting any msg she gets from him and when she sends them she told me she text him the other day but the msg had vanished...all of this i can handle kinda but the main problem is a mutual friend of mine and this guy told me that he is interested in my girlfriend and they are both going on a group holiday at the end of the month. Its driving me mad and because weve argued about this guy a few times i cant bring it up anymore. I know the guy i know he cheats on his wife and from what i have seen from his msgs to my girlfriend it looks as a man like hes doing his groundwork before the holiday.my girlfriends argument is that there just friends and i cant tell her who and who not she can be friends with and that she knows where the 'innapropriate' mark is and she would never cross it.I just dont know what to do in terms of from what i can see shes playing with fire and somones gonna end up getting burnt at the moment its me because i dont know whats going on and have real issues with this holiday.whats the best way to approach this with my girl or what should i do. Ive tried everything that i can think are sensibleive spoken to him in the past and basically he sorta said that he aint gonna stop with some smug look on his face then went straight to my girlfriend and told her i spoke to him... i had to hold back from punching the guy because if i have any police charges i lose my job... he dont care that hes hurting someone he knows he is but is too selfish to stop plus because he knows it winds me up he will do things to let me know hes talking to her like chatting my business about to mutual mates or be always with her when shes at work when he dont need to be if she has to stay late he will stay to " help" i think shes too naive to see what the guys end game is and she thinks it is all a friendship. Cerebralcrossed my mind... hes the kinda guy whos got a pin lock on his phone and passwords to everything so she must know somethings up by him being so sneaky. if he dose try anything i will find out and i will be going straight to her

Relationship advice: Girlfriend more horny than me?
She's just more horny than me. I like sex, but I would get horny maybe once a week, and if we miss a week then I am fine with missing it. She usually wants it every time we are alone together. Personally I think it's because I am stressed lately. But every time I am not in the mood she feels rejected.What can should I do?I mean i am really full on with allot of work. And I find that the only time that I can really focus on her is after I have been de stressed. After exercise, friday afternoon, weekend coming. Believe i am a sexy man after this, but I'm just not in the mood allot of the time...Also, when I walk in the front door and have her grab my crotch in an attempt to get me aroused, sorry that doesn't turn on for me. Maybe if you could be a little more subtle and slow. It often works better than being groped. Sorry chika, I love you though lalaOh no my penis is a beast believe me, literally, humungous. I think that's why she is so horny

Relationship advice - Girlfriend on holiday?
I think most people might find this pathetic of me but I m going to ask anyway My girlfriend is currently on Holiday is Goa with her sister. We re in a good relationship for the past 5 months now and it is a somewhat long distance London Birmingham .But right now, I can t seem to function without her here Why? And my am I scared of guys hitting on her knowingly that our relationship is so strong with each other that we wouldn t mess around. I just came back from holiday before she left so I understand that she may have felt something like this too But I think, what I m missing the most is lack of contact. She does call once on a daily basis to tell me how she is, what she s been doing and what she s going to be doing. But as her mobile is off, I can t gain contact with her until she comes back to the hotel where she is able to contact me. Now is it wrong for me to expect more contact if she is really missing me, as on holiday, you need to think somewhat practical in regards to roaming charges too. I know she said she will get a local sim card for better contactWhat s wrong with me Someone tell me please

Relationship advice - girlfriend's confidence?
Am I being horrible?Hi, I'll try and keep this as brief as possible. I've known my girlfriend for 5 years and we started going out 2 years ago. We were both never in a relationship before, as we were young. Anyway, she's had some major confidence and depression issues, and we've never quite enjoyed having a real relationship.The problem is her sister. Her sister is 23 I am 20 and my girlfriend is 19 , and she's spent the last 7 or so years treating my girlfriend like crap. I could go on for hours talking about the sorts of things her sister does, but I'll just list a few She has always called her names like fat, ugly and stupid when was actually almost anorexic at a point.She would purposely embarass her in front of others, and make out that she's so much better than her her being my girlfriend She completely controlled for years, and she was scared to even go out without her 'approval'. There's so much more but this would be huge if I went on. Anyway, her sister doesn't approve of me either. She goes for men that are essentially 'gangsters' and goes around stealing other people's plants and even items worth a few pence from shops...I'm nothing like that and neither is my girlfriend.My girlfriend really wants her confidence to get better, and to stop feeling like she's always inferior to her sister, but she's having a hard time believing that she's not. I always tell her how much I love her, but she says she doesn't believe me because she doesn't see how she could be loved. How can I help her confidence? Thanks. Note here's another version if you want more info...answers.yahoo.com question index ylt Ai1w 995Qd0YTC2DeVmoC2Psy6IX ylv 3?qid 20091001132051AAyOJCO

Relationship advice - Girlfriend went to college and wants a break? What should I do?
So my girlfriend and I had been together for 3 years. We met in highschool and she is a year younger than me. I had spent a year in college and everything in our relationship was great. We are great for each other and she agrees. She wanted to stay together in college but then as soon as she got there she started feeling different. We are only about 45 min apart. She claims she wants to try things alone because she never has been alone.... so we are currently on a break where we are no longer talking. I know that if she saw and truly talked to me things would be fine. My questions.. Should I completely leave her alone? Is a break the best thing to do? Should i begin the process and pain of moving on or should i keep my hopes up?

Relationship advice girlfriend please help?
REALLY need some help on this..i was with a girl for 3 years, things got bad towards the end and she would constantly play with my head and i lose trust for her and after about ten times of her breaking up with me, i finally returned the favor and got a new gf..im 22 and she was my first and only other gf..i broke up with her because i knew she wasnt right for me and we clashed and would inevitably never work..my new gf is the complete opposite, good morals, etc..my ex begged me to get back with her for about 3 months to the point her parents threatened to put her in a mental hospital if she didnt back off , and now she hasnt called in about a month..by accident, i came across her myspace and see shes been hangin out with old friends of mine friends i havent hung out with in over a year, but friends nonetheless and her myspace status says shes " being bad" ..i figure this means drugs or slutting around, etc..even though i am the one who ended it, i still love her very much and miss her like crazy, but i know she would not be right for me in the long run, at all......I have two questions..1 is it normal for my heart to drop when i saw this haha and 2 what would you make of this situation and how should i handle it..just ignore it? i dont know..could use some advice..thanks boys and girlsbrandon

Relationship advice. Girlfriend kissed another guy.?
My girlfriend of three years was away for a week on vacation with her family, and she got drunk and made out with another guy twice. He also tried to get down her pants and did, but she stopped it a couple seconds after. She realized she was making a big mistake and even started crying to the guy telling him how scared she was and how upset she was that it had happened. The next morning she told me right away. She is really hurt, and so am I. I don't know how this happened or why it happened, and I'm so confused. We were planning on getting married and always talked about our future together. I want to forgive her and love her so much, but it's hard to stop thinking of her with some other guy mostly when I'm alone. When we're together things are good. She is very sorry and promises it would never happen again because she will never drink without me. She said she is willing to do anything for me. She couldn't even eat for a couple of days and has been crying a lot. I really want to be with her, but I need to forget about what happened. I need some advice. Should I stay with her?

Relationship advice, girlfriend bad past?
I have a girlfriend that had a bad past, slept with many guys, had alot of one night stands, cheated ect. Before we got together she said she wishes she never would of done things she did and would never do them again, I am still a virgin and it troubles me how she could of done the stuff she did. She was only a year younger 17 when she decided to change, but it was only a year to change. We been together for about 5 months and she didn't do anything wrong. I need help caz i really like her but it is hard to overlook a past that changed in such short time. I know i dont have anything to worry about, but I need advice to get over it faster. Thanksshe respects my decision to wait til marriage for sex

Relationship advice... girlfriends male freind?
This may all sound a little incestuous but bear with me...me and my girlfriend work in the same workplace i used to work directly with her but ive changed departments. I am friends with alot of people she works with and so is she. Theres this one guy who's good friends with my girlfriend, talking alot out of work. this guy has told some of our mutual friends that he wants to get with my girl even though hes married. one friend came to me and told me this so i immediately went to my girl to tell her my problem, which is " this guy is saying what about you? and your happy to continue with the close friendship?" my girl went to the guy and asked what he had said he told her " nothing like that" i told my friend to go talk to my girl and give her the story he did but it changed to seem like it wasn't a big deal... so i looked as though i was over reacting.anyway this has been an ongoing issue because hes way too friendly for my liking and she continues to be good friends with him. Last night i went for a beer with a few guys from work and one of them told me that he has said it a few times on different occasions. He thought i already knew and listed a few situations where he has said things etc...i trust in the fact my girl that she ain't gonna do anything and that if he tries shell shoot him down and that will be the end of their friendship.my problem is i want to be able to tell her what i have been told but am worried that im just going to look like im overreacting again and because he is an issue already will she just see it as me trying to sabotage her friendship.?i don't know what to do should i tell her should i leave it and see what happens or should i tell this my friend that he should be telling my girl this stuff and not me and hope he doessorry if this is a bit confusing but im so confused