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I need relationship advice from someone other than my friends, who will always have some degree of bias.?
I've been with my boyfriend just over a year, I'm 18 and he's 19 and we split yesterday. We were pretty serious to say how young we are. Ive had a few problems over the past few months been in and out of hospital and last week I was diagnosed with Addissons Disease. The past month or so things have been a bit rough with him, I haven't felt like hes attracted to me for a while. He doesnt look at me the same, or tell me he misses me when im not with him. He's just started uni, and he's surrounded by new girls, new friends, exciting atmosphere etc.. and i feel left behind. I confronted him about this as he stopped at one girls house last week, on the same day he met her. This was all while I was in hospital, he ignored me all night, text me a couple of times a week, and when he did come to see me, he spoke to me about all these new girls and how much he's been chatted up. I told him to reverse the situation and tell me where I stood. He told me last night " he loves me, but isnt in love with me anymore" . But he wants to stay together. I ended it because I feel ridiculous. I feel boring, and I know he doesnt 'fancy' me anymore. I dont have the wow factor for him now. Since I've ended it, he wont leave me alone. He doesnt want to split, and says he can make it work.. but does this mean he's expecting me to wait for him to fall for me again? I know im only young, but that doesnt mean this hurts less.. I'm completely crushed and dont know what to do with myself. I pictured my life with him, forever. He spoke about marriage, children, moving in together. And then this.. We've been through so much together, he helped me beat bulimia, stuck with me through hospital..I'm also worried about our friends, as since we've been together, his friends have become mine, and vice versa. The guys are telling me to give him another chance, and the girls are saying he doesnt deserve it.I need some outside advice. Thanks
Need relationship advice from girls?
ive known her since 2007 but weve been close friends since 2009 and ive loved her ever since. i thought about her everyday and i knew i couldnt do anything about it because we were like bro sis. no other girl compared to her so i had to tell her so i did when we were both alone on her porch. she got emotional for a second but we dropped it. later she said im still like her brother.since then i avoided her for a few months then reconnected and explained everything but nothing changed and she got a boyfriend. i think about her all the time and want to talk to her soo bad but now theres nothing to talk about. im mad at everyone because i cant get over this and im very too myself and quiet. i tried other girls but i need her, i always think of the past when we were both innocent. i have no idea what to do or say. i always worry about her and her morality and her health and its consuming my life. since last year ive been drinking more and have been alot more cruel to people and vandalise peoples property if they upset me, like looking at me when i walk down the street.
Need some relationship advice from a few non bias people.?
So, I'm a guy and I dated a girl for a year from 2009 2010. We broke up in the fall of 2010. Since then we dated other people and have been able to remain friends. Currently I am single and she is not. Also, her boyfriend at times is not good for, while at other times he is. Recently we have become very good friends. I kind of started to feel a connection starting to form between the two of us again.What do I do?
I'm a girl that needs relationship advice from guys?
So I'm in to this guy, and we've talked once and a while on face book chat. We got along and it almost seemed like we were hitting it off. A couple weeks ago we were face book chatting and and I kinda let him know i was in to him. I told him he was really cute and funny and he said i was cute too. However he said he didn't want a relationship because it was lacrosse season, but maybe we could have a " thing" . Then we started talking about hanging out. We talked until like 1am on a school night O Any who, i texted him a few days ago, no response. He used to glance at me at school like he was into me. Doesnt do that anymore. This all happened really fast like a matter of a couple weeks. And I'm pretty sure he's into some other girl that he used to have a thing with. I dont know, just let me know how you interpret the situation because I was really into him.... and the whole situation kind of sucks.
Looking for relationship advice from guys to a girl?
Help me know a bit more of a guys perspective on what to do with my relationship. Here's some info. Been dating a guy for about 6 months. First 4 were great. Last 2 have been rocky. Seems like we are in the " rut" and it's not working. Don't get me wrong it's amazing when it's good but it's like we can't get past this circle. I am willing to make the effort but the more this happens the more he backs away. My friends keep saying to walk away play the game. But I am not that kind of person though maybe I need to be . The fighting is over the same stuff. I typically feel rejected or like he doesn't care. He says I worry too much about the small stuff. I say that I wouldn't feel that way if I felt that he made the effort that he used to and he says that he would make an effort if I didn't think about the small stuff. Neither one of us are letting go of the past to focus on the future.Do we? Or do we call it quits? I am 28 and smart enough to walk away when I know it's not right. Can we get that spark back? What do I do to show him that I am serious about being committed to him so that we can move past this? And what should my expectations be of him? What is he thinking?
Yes I am a typical teen looking for relationship advice from people i don't know...?
I warn you this will probably be quite long. Here is some basic information about me I am average looking with big boobs. I am shy but loud when you know me. I love my friends and would do ANYTHING to help them. Im fun and like to joke around with my friends. I've only had 2 boyfriends and they only lasted a few days because I felt I wasn't ready. Im thirteen and never been kissed.Last year I met this really cool guy in school and we hung out a lot in school. We always in this group of people which consisted of four girls and I,and him. He would go along with whatever we wanted to do and wouldn't complain even if it was " stupid girl stuff" . We always had fun and he would always try and make us laugh. He is very cute and sweet. As far as I know he has only had one girlfriend. Well last year he told our mutual friend that he liked me and she told me. I liked him back but so did two other girls in our group one was my best friend . My friend said he also told her he liked another girl a little bit but nothing would ever happen between them because she is soooooo out of his league and he liked me more.Anyway nothing happened between us besides me getting insanely jealous when my best friend was with him. When summer came he gave us all his number but told us he isn't allowed out much. We came back to school and he was in one of my classes and i see him a lot in the hallway. Everyday when i leave the class we share him and my other friend always block the door or stop when they are walking to make me bump into them. The other day we were walking and he kept kicking me in the butt and i was like " You're mean" and walked away. He came after me and put his arm around me for the first time and was like " Im sorry. Please forgive me. Im sorry" So I said fine I would but only once. He was like " yay" and squeezed my shoulder really hard. One day him and his friend walked in front of me and made me spill my books on the floor and his friend just walked away but he picked them up and carried them to my next class. The next day he also carried them to my next class. Recently whenever I am joking mad at him he puts his arm around me or gives me a hug and says he's really sorry. The weird thing is if me and my friends are making plans and we ask him to go he's like all " Yeahh Lets do it" but then when we call him to make sure he's coming hes like " Icantt" I want to invite him to the movies on Sunday with our other friends and maybe sit by him do you think it's a good idea? Anysuggestionss on what I should do, what we should see,how I should act? Do you think he likes me? Do you think its weird that I m thirteen and never been kissed and have like no experience with guys? What do you think about him? Is he interested? He's so cute and one of the only guys i could imagine dating and being all bf gf y with. Any help will be appreciated
Is it wrong for me not to want to be in a relationship? Advice from Girls and Guys Please.?
I personally have had 2 girlfriends for about 1 month each and I didn't like the whole relationship thing I didn't like the having to worry about her feeling all the time remembering certain dates one of the girls broke up with me for not remembering how we met exactly WTF? . I am 16 going to be 17 on March 9 and I don't feel like I am old enough to even know what caring for someone else is supposed to be like. I don't consider my self immature because, If I was I would just date girls and treat them like crap. Is it wrong for me feel this way about relationship's? I feel like I would be wasting my time dating a girl for 3 years and lose out on my young days when we are probably not gonna end up together. Does anyone else feel this way? I don't wanna be in a relationship I just wanna umm...I can't find a nicer way I wanna hit it and quit it .
Relationship advice from girls or guys?
My ex gf and I dated for about 9 months and she broke up with me randomly, which kinda hurt at first but now its almost a month and a half later and I accept her decision and what not, I sort of have an interest in a new girl though, But anyway my ex has a couple of things at her house that are mine and I want them back, but getting her to talk to me is pretty much useless, yesterday i called her on a different phone and I asked for my stuff and she just hung up, Ive texted and called a 100 times i dont want to seem like a stalker but enough is enough I want my stuff back, any ideas of what to say or how to accomplish getting my stuff
Relationship advice from a Christian please :) Have I messed up? Could God turn this around? xxx?
met a nice Christian guy on an internet dating site. We went on three long dates together and spend the whole day having fun. I suddenly got this email from him. What do you make of it? btw I really really liked him.. we had been emailing for about 6 months at least once a week ." " Basically a few years ago I was in a relationship which ended amicably and we remained good friends, which in hindsight was a bad idea. About eight or nine months ago, she entered a new relationship, which was very hard and I decided to break all contact. I thought I had dealt with all the feelings emotions etc until a few days ago when she contacted me. It's not that I'm going to enter a relationship with her, it's just that if I'm totally honest with myself I haven't totally moved on and it wouldn't be fair to you, or anyone to pursue something at the moment. I'm trying to pray through this all too and it's quite frustrating and confusing at the moment." " I thought he still wanted to be with her but he wrote me an email saying " " I am not in a relationship with my ex and am not planning to be either." " He told me that I was a " great an attractive person" that it was " not me but him and the situation he is in" . He never officially asked me out though it seemed we were going out.I texted him and told him how hurt I was. It was a REALLY long text basically saying how hurt I was and that he had used me.... had joined a dating agency to fill a gap in his life.. that he was thoughtless and that he should have told me sooner and that telling me I am attractive and a great person was totally leading me on. I also told him I had been engaged before and that I had not contacted my ex for 8 months because you can never fully move on. Then I emailed the next day to apologise for overreacting abit and saying maybe we could keep in touch.He replied and said " Maybe we can keep in touch as and when like you suggested" . and he apologised for leading me on. Could this relationship ever happen? I really really liked him but friends think I've blown it by being so harsh... hes a shy kinda guy.I've not heard back from this guy for 2 weeks and hate myself for what I said to him. He was lovely.Thanks xxxp.s. I'm 29 and he is 35
LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP advice from people who are in one?
If I ignore him no call or texts will he realize he's losing me?I have decided to stop calling and texting my bf. We are in a long distance relationship. He is working 6 out of 7 days a week, and leaves his phone at home most of the time, and rarely responds to text messages and phonecalls. I always make the phonecalls cuz his phone doesnt call long distance, but he could still text and rarely does. I know he barely has any time to himself, but its not a good enuf excuse because everyone has a minute.GUYS, how would you react if ur girl stopped contacting u? How long would it take you to notice? It hurts me that he is so inconsiderate. He said me he misses me but he doesn't show it. I don't wanna hear " I miss you" or " I love you" I need him to show it...cuz those are just words and they dont mean $hit.THANKS I do trust him I just want him to be a little more caring. I don't want to lose him and I know he doesn't want to lose me. I think I just need to finish up my school and maybe not think about him too much, but it's so difficult
Possible Relationship? Advice from Girls?
I met this girl through cross country and church last year that i really like.We went to the same camp this year for xc but since shes in 8th grade and im in 9th, were in different schools so i rarely got a chance to talk to her same goes for church . The camp is over now and my regular season has started up so we ve just been texting. We kinda flirt and joke with each other but she told me about how she goes to an indoor track to run. She mentioned that we should go there and run together sometime. I accepted of course but it was left indefinite. How should i bring it up again? and do you think this means she likes me enough to eventually start a romantic relationship? She told me she broke up with her first and only so far boyfriend because he was too " clingy" ?. Im somewhat new at this, so i wanna avoid sounding too clingy lol. Thanks
2 year relationship? advice from ppl in longer relationships plzz?
i am about to aproach my 2nd year in a relationship with my boyfriend i've never been with anyone this long where both in college and i really love him. we talk about the future like moving in together during graduate school and stuff and its kinda scary and happy to think about it. i was just wondering how is it being with someone for so long . like where only together for abt 2 yrs soon and both go to different colleges so i stay at his apartment on the weekends but as far as taking the next step to moving in how is it??? ive also noticed that staying on the weekends we have a lot of fun a lot of sex and all that too since we see each other like every 3 weeks and theres minor things like sleeping together in the same bed he takes the pillows i push him to the side and end up in the middel so its uncomfortable for him to sleep. he also cooks i dnt really cook a lot so he always cooks and i can see that a problem but i make spanish food he makes african food....and i feel like maybe during grad school, and for me med school things will be better for moving in or getting engages... i do know this i love him with all my heart and i cant imagine being with anyone else. the other half of me is every part of him...
Relationship advice from some guys please!?
I have some really strong feelings for my boyfriend, but lately I have been somewhat questioning the things he's doing in my mind... situation from last night, I would like some input on...He works at night, so a lot of time he doesnt get home until 2am or so. Last night I talked to him, he was on his way home at 2am.. told him to call me when he got there he was about 2 hrs from home . So long story short, at 6 12am, he called me. Said he was home, so of course I looked at clock and asked what took him so long....He paused, then said he had stopped at Waffle house to get something to eat.... and then he " ran into his ex..." So after an awkward pause, because I didnt know what was coming next, being that he sounded so down and or guilty when he said it... so naturally I asked, " So what are you calling me to tell me you ran off and f cked your ex????" He said no, that they ended up talking for lie 45 min 1 hr, nothing happened, no kissing, no hugging, etc.... he proceeded to say that he understands what I've been saying lately and he just wanted to let me know he didnt have any closure before, and now he finally has closure after they talked. He said he is fully committed to me, is here to support me and just doesnt want to hide anything from me anymore....I kind of chuckled out loud and he said " Why are you snickering?" ... I told him because it almost feels like a guilt call... his tone of voice, everything he said... bottom line is he woke me up at 6 12 am telling me he got home late because he ran into his ex but nothing happened..Here's my question guys half of me believes he may have had sex with her, and he felt so guilty he called and told me a half truth. But the other half believes he could possibly be telling the truth, and he just didnt want to hide anything so he came out and told me. Question is, do I believe him or not? Is it possible that he really was just genuinely wanted to let me know he was committed and wanted to be honest about something i never would have found out about, and he really just got " closure" .... or do you think he slept with her and felt guilty and didnt know what to say? And how do I approach him with this without him feeling accused if he really WAS just being honest? Thanks all
How should I do it? Relationship advice from pros please =)?
There's this girl I really admire alot. We have been chatting alot through sms lately. And i plan to take it slow and try to call her and voice chat next week. Yesterday we had the longest sms chat ever. From early afternoon till evening. However around evening, I told her " Hey I sms you later abit ok? " As I had to take part in a competition. But after that, she doesn't reply... And sadly to say, during my competition I was thinking alot about her. After I finished my competition, I sms her again around 11pm and ask her " Hey i'm back. What are you doing right now " . But she still havent reply me. Its been 19 hours since our last sms. Do you think she is angry since she has finally decided to start chatting with me however I was the one who disappoint her and told her that " Hey I sms you later abit ok? " Or is can she just does not bother to reply. What do you think?
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