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I need some relationship advice from the women out there.?
Ok, here we go.Me and my x girlfriend kyla broke up about 3 weeks ago I work on an oil rig and it was right before I left because she kept yelling about little things like missing a turn while driving, or for not taking her whites that I didn't even know about, out of the dryer . Shortly after we broke up, I found out she was cheating on me and had been for a couple months. That upset me pretty bad because prior to the yelling, I had thought she was the perfect woman and that I was going to marry her. Well, to make it worse, after I got to my rig, I found out she was pregnant. I tried calling her to ask if it was true, and she wouldn't answer the phone. So I had to text her.She immediately denied it.After a couple days, I found out for sure that she was. I tried calling her again and had to resort to text messaging for the same reason. She replied back saying that it wasn't mine. Which seemed kinda weird that she was so sure of it, considering that the dates lined up perfectly with a time that could have very well resulted in that situation. She continued, saying that she was 4 months pregnant despite that she told her friends she was only a little over 2 months.I later found out for sure that she was 9 10 weeks. Which still lined up EXACTLY with a particular time that could very well make it mine. Yet she still denies that it could even be possible.Now on to what I need advice with......The yelling that we broke up over, I could easily attribute to her pregnancy. So I'm not worried at all about that. The cheating and lying were abit harder to forgive, but I was able to do it with a little patience and meditation.Given the situation, and that I've forgiven her of all that she's done wrong, how can I get her to admit that the child is probably mine. And how can I get her back from the guy that she says is the father? I really love her and I really wants whats best for my child if it is mine . What can I do to make the transition of not speaking, to being good friends at least? Help me please.
Love and relationship advice from the experienced?
i wanna make it an everyday effort to show her how much i appreciate her taking me in and loving me. this girl is sensitive. sweet. her own self. and she appreciates cute things and the jo bros lmao. i love her so much already. i want relationship advice. shes the one i want. yours truly
Seeking relationship advice from the older crowd..25-30's?
I run into my neighbor occasionally and he always says hello smiles and waves. Lately i catch him staring at me. He is really nice and I am becoming attracted to him. He has a girl though which I would never interfere with their relationship. I The more I see him I feel a connection towards him like I have known him forever. He always approaches me first How can I show him I am interested in him without making it awkward?
Relationship advice from the ladies?
ok so, my friend that ive like for ages went to live with her aunty for 6 months, when she was away i spoke to her on the internet and rang her once or twice a week. i felt really close to her and thought things would be " great" when she got back, if u know what i mean. there were so many signals that she was into me, saying things like i cant wait to ee you and i really miss our hugs and our talks. and stuff like that. but, when she got back it was like that connection never existed at all, like she was a strnager and it was allways awkward when we were alone together. So, i told her how i felt and she came out with " I just want to be your friend" . i couldnt beleave it, i felt she had literally been leading me on. and now she just plays it off as some kind of joke that i told her how i felt. well anyway i would just like to know what the hell is going on in her head and if any girls out there have some kind of insight, id love to hear your thoughts.
Relationship advice (from the adults)?
I have been with my girlfriend for just under 2 years now 22 months to be exact . 13 of those have been long distance because I had to move away for college. Unlike most long distance relationships, things have been going great and the distance actually strengthened our relationship.We re always very quick to solve problems as they occur so the relationship doesn t get poisoned. We respect each other and I could definitely see myself being with her for the long haul.Now onto the issue we have one barrier that keeps presenting itself, we manage to get around it but it is still there and we still don t know how to solve it.She has had lots of problems with abusive men in her life. Her dad abandoned her, yet still tries to be a part of her life and pretends that nothing ever happened. She s had to deal with abusive boyfriends and claims that I m the first guy to treat her well. All she has ever known is abuse and for that reason that s the only way she knows how to receive love. When I treat her well, that s the very thing that makes her shut down and push me away this doesn t happen every time I do a nice thing. But it s happened more than a few times . She starts questioning whether things are going work out, whether or not this relationship is right and I have to talk her out of that mindset. It s very tiring and discouraging when I have to convince my girlfriend that we are right for each other.What do you guys think? Is this something that I can even help heal her from? Is this something she has to deal with on her own? Those of you who have dealt with abuse, does the damage ever really go away?Sorry teens, but I d prefer to hear from the experienced adults
Relationship advice from the girls, please?
My girlfriend and I have been together for about 2 and a half years now. We love each other a lot, but unfortunately we live a long distance relationship, about 4 hours apart from each other we met at college . Being that we live so far apart, we usually send each other texts frequently throughout the day to keep in touch. The thing is that her texts can be rather needy and she always demand that i remind her of how much i love her, even though i tell her it about 1000 times a day. Finally i said enough was enough because it got quite annoying and i told her that. Now it seems as though she is really disappointed and the tone in her voice is always 'drab.' She makes it seem like i dont love her anymore, but it couldnt be farther from the truth and i keep telling her that. I told her that at some point we need to get out of the " honeymoon phase" and level off. Now she doesnt send me any texts, and gets mad when i say i love you to her. Am I a jerk for having said that? What do you ladies think? how should I address the situation?
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