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Relationship advice..breakup..?
me 19 and my boyfriend 24 have been together since may, and this past weekend we broke up. we always managed to get over our fights and move on. im really hurt by our breakup because we went through alot and i just dont want to lose him... i havent talked to him since sunday night, i tried texting him on monday but he didnt answer. usually when we fight hell give me the silent treatment for a few days to i guess " prove a point" but im really scared that this is really it...what should i do? i miss him so much.. should i text him? what should i say?we werent even fighting when we broke up, it was so random and out of nowhere..thanks...we also went through a pregnancy together a few months ago...but it didnt go very well and i lost our child..if that makes you understand a little more why im so attatched..and as for zodiac, im scorpio and hes pisces.. which are supposed to be made for eachother..

Relationship advice breakup?
My boyfriend of over a year has just left to University for 4 years. We were in a great relationship, and had it not been for his parents moving we would probubly still be together. He is really far away and I think I may only see him maybe once a year. We sort of have plans to travel in a year if none of us find another partner, but I don't know what to do. Do I try and mend my broken heart for him, and get over him forever, or should I trust that everything may go well and wait for him to finish and then we could possibly continue where we left off. It just kills me that our relationship got ruined while it was still running well. And I'm finding it really hard to deal with. I don't want to give up on it, but I don't want to wait around for something that may not ever happen. Any advice would be greatly appreciated Thanks

Relationship advice (breakup) ?
Me and my girlfriend were together for 3 years, we broke up 2 months ago, it was me that ended it because I didn't want to be in a relationship any longer.Ever the since the breakup we've been talking and occasionally meeting. I miss being with her so much, I cannot stand to see other guys talking to her. I'm so tempted to get back together with her but I don't know if it's just a phase I'm going through?I wanted to be single to see what it's like again now that i'm almost 20. I can't say I haven't enjoyed it but I can't figure out if it's better then being in a relationship.I'm in such a confused state right now. Should I be throwing away a good relationship with a beautiful girl ? I wouldn't want to get back with her but want to be single again I know at the end of the day the decision is down to me, but if anyone could give me some advice on what to do I'd really appreciate it.Thanks.

Relationship advice - Breakup and space?
My girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me this past week. She's the love of my life and I'm completely miserable. We currently have an apartment together and are both looking to move to new places. We have spoken since the first initial break up conversation. I know she still has a lot of deep feelings for me but I don't know how to handle the moment when we are completely moved out. I've accepted the break up and I'm not trying to stop it. What I'm most concerned about is the time after the break up. She needs space and there are things she needs to work on as do I, but I don't know how much time is enough time. She's very confused and I can tell by the answers she gives me when I ask her what she wants. The initial plan was to basically severe all ties and not speak to each other as she thought this might be easier. After speaking with her, she revealed she does not want this to happen but doesn't know how else to deal with her own issues if I'm still involved in her life. I'm trying to respect her and I want her to be happy but I'm also feeling selfish, too. After some time apart, I want to talk to her again. I just don't know if that is the right thing to do. I want to talk to her now... she's my best friend and she is really upset about losing her best friend. We've had our problems like any other relationship but she doesn't know if a clean slate would be better for her. I feel like I'm dragging myself through this and I don't know if I should be. We have been incredibly happy together at times most times and had a few down times in our relationship. I don't want to just give up and rollover and not fight for it. I know it's not the right time to fight for it now... but I feel like I will want her back in the future after we've had some time apart. What do I do? Do I just move on and try to forget about her? Do I work on my issues and then try to reconnect on some level with her? What if she does still love as her friends have told me and giving her space without contact diminishes that love? I think it takes two people to have a successful relationship with love... but I think it only takes one person to bring the two together. Is it worth trying to do that? When the time is right.. trying to start fresh? Can a couple start fresh after time apart?

Help! Relationship advice breakup or stay together?
I was wondering what I should do about my relationship with my partner? We have been going out for about 11 month but around the sixth seventh month mark I we both got busy any we stopped romantic activities, while still having intercourse and still hanging with each other. Recently we both have noticed that we lost that romantic spark or bond that we shared. Upon discussing it we said that we both still loved each other in our own way, but not in the sense of intimate partners less so for me and we enjoyed each others company like best friend. I was just wondering, should we try to be more romantic passionate activities with each other, and see what happens? If so how do we prevent these from becoming just another thing on to do that on a list. OrShould we try do more activities that we both enjoy But is that just not a temporary solution until the activity ends or one of use grows tired of the activity. or Should we just take a break from dating, but still have a close bond of friendship.

Relationship advice - breakup or continue dating. Serious replies only.?
Alright, so I've been in this relationship for almost 3 months now and it's long distance this person lives an hour from me . I feel we have a connection, or at least I do and thought they did as well... but lately I'm starting to notice some things that bother me and I'm unsure if I should end the relationship or not. A few times this person has told me that they're independent and doesn't need anyone to validate their existence just out of the blue one day. When I asked for clarification, I got the response " I don't wanna think about it or I'll end up ending it." A few days later I asked again and I got a totally different answer and it was totally different. I got, " I had to think about it and I did realize that there is a connection, etc. I was tired and sick and had some other things going on." On a few occasions I get asked when I tried to cuddle " what do you want from me?" and this whole " I'm independent" speech. Also, when I say " I love you" I get " don't say that," or " no you don't." Sometimes they'll say " I love you," and I'll say it back or txt it back, but a lot of times not. Recently, we barely interact through the phone as we used to unless I put effort into texting then I get one back or they'll text me before I go to bed. Our schedules are a bit different they work nights . It's confusing to me because one moment this person is cool and loving, then it just switches. But I definitely feel like I put more effort and " love" into this than they do. So should I continue seeing this person, or is it time to say see ya? Any advice is much appreciated.

Relationship advice...breakup of 6 year relationship?
my fiance of 2 years recently left me. i had become emotionally absent near the end. This absence was a direct result of her not having started a career. she has been out of university for 3 years. our relationship was under alot of strain. i was paying 90 % of the bills, there were wedding costs discussed, and the inability to save up enough money to consider buying a home. i had tried to being supportive of her pursuit of a career but near the end i became beligerent. i felt that she did not want to help out in the relationship. i felt alone and anxious much of the time. i SERIOUSLY love her. her lack of a career was the ONLY thing that was killing me. it manifested itself into me being a jerk near the end. CAN I DO SOMETHING TO FIX ALL OF THIS?