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If you are a guy asking relationship advice about a girl, who gives better advice? If you ask a guy or a girl?
I heard dont even listen to what girls say, but you think coming straight from a girl would be the best source?

I need relationship advice about my boyfriend and I...?
My boyfriend is not just that he's also my best friend too. It's kind of weird, but when we were just friends I trusted him 100 percent, but as we started going out I started losing trust in fear of getting hurt and insecurities from my past relationships. He gets mad about the things I'd say like yeah.. I hope you don't do anything.. and he also hates that every time we've hung out which is not too often we ended up having sex. I agree sex isn't everything and he believes that a lot and doesn't want to do that constantly. How do I get over my insecurities and trust him more and prove to him I actually want more in our relationship than the physical attraction? He also said he's kind of not used to having a GF.

Need relationship advice about my first girlfriend who's older than me?
I'm a 14 year old freshman and somehow I was lucky enough to have the hottest senior girl at my school ask me out a few weeks ago, and after a few times hanging out we got along so well that she asked me to be her boyfriend. I think it's going really well because we have the same sense of humor, we have a lot in common, we hold hands when going for walks in the woods behind my house, she let me feel her thigh one time when we made out and we even talked about making love sometime soon. The problem is for some reason she doesn't want to hang around me when we're at school and she said it's more fun to have a secret relationship. Why is doesn't she want to be seen with me? Is there anything I could have done wrong? I'm confused so I would like any advice anyone can give. thanks

Please give me relationship advice about living with my gf? with major issue attached?
I have been with my girlfriend for 3 1 2 years, we in our early 20s, love each other and want to live together in September. We have never lived with each other before but spend 2 3 days nights a week together. I have always lived away from home being pretty independent and have a good degree and career lined up. She has mostly lived at home with her mum who she helps a lot with housework and looking after her little sister and picking her up from school at 3pm. As you can imagine, this puts a massive constraint on her life financially by preventing her from working in a 9 5 job and socially by restricting her free time. It has also had a negative impact on her academic studies. it seems to me that she is treated as if her little sister is her own child. As a result her career prospects aren't as good as mine, but they would be significantly improved if she moved away from those constraints.The problem is when she told her mum she is going to move in with me, her mum has gone insane and is trying to do anything to stop her from living with me. Her mum has basically said she will disown her if she lives with me. She also has to move out now which isn't practical cos I am living with a friend until september and she has to give her house key back and cant see her little sister anymore who she loves dearly. Shes also said some nasty things about me like I am not serious about her, don't really love her, only in it for the sex etc. What mother in her right mind would do this to her daughter? I've tried talking to her mum but she refuses to speak to me. It seems she will do anything to keep my gf at home, continuing to provide a huge help but preventing her from making her own life.It seems her mum is too much of a horrible, unreasonable and selfish person to understand the situation from my gf's point of view. I truely believe it is now a case of my gf choosing between me or her mum and little sister. I know she will pick me even at that expense. her dad btw who is seperated from her mum fully supports me and my gf.My problem is I dont want my gf to loose her relationship with her mum and little sister because of me. On a longer term note if we were to marry and have children I do not want to have zero relationship with my mother in law nor my children to not have a grandma. I'm also concerned that being brought up by that kindof person having half her genes may have corrupted my gf and shes carrying a lot of issues because of it that she may never be able to fully deal with. To be honest part of me is tempted to get out of this relationship now, as upsetting that would be.Any comments or advice would be appreciated.

Need some relationship advice about a girl I fancy, what is she thinking?
So to introduce myself, I'm 23 and living in the UK. I belong to an ethnic minority which has only around 300,000 community members in the UK, that's not enough that everyone knows everybody but enough that you'll always have loads of friends in common with someone new you meet your age.For cultural reasons I'm only really interested in dating girls who belong to the same ethnic minority as me. There are also a lot of things I'm looking for in a girl and this has severly limited my experience of relationships, I've just not yet found anyone who I'm really attracted to and is attracted to me. That's why when i do find someone I like its important not to give up to easily.Whilst I was backpacking alone in Australia over the summer I met a pair of girls. Before even speaking to them I found one particularly physically attractive. When we got chatting i found out she was also from the uk and also belonged to the same ethnic minority as me, in fact we had loads in common and she was pretty much perfect for me.We got along great and travelled together for about two weeks togther with her friend. Since we had loads of friends in common and knew that we would probably meet again and infact had probably met before we decidided to stay in touch. Over the next few months a txted and facebooked her ocassionaly and we seemed to be getting on great. From what I knew about her she was similar to me in that she remained single because she seemed to be waiting for the right person. I was pretty sure that she was interested in me, she kept reporting back to me what our mutual friends had said about me as though she wanted to know if I was generally considered a nice guy and then wanted to let me know that shed found out that I was. I personally find it difficult to be flirty so I'm not sure if I gave out any signals of interest during out travelling times. She is the kind of girl who likes to be very friendly with everyone but also doesn't seem to give out any signals.After having been back in the UK fro 4 5 months we finally met up at a big drinking event for our community. So we were both there with all our friends and our mutual friends. I had decided in advance that I was going to use that opportunity to make a move but by the end of the night it just hadn't happened, probably due to my lack of ability to declare interest through flirting and not knowing exactly where i stood. Later on in the week, knowing that I probably won't bump in to her again for another few months I decided it was now or never. I called her up and asked her to go on a date that weekend. I'm terrible on the phone, even chatting with my friend so I just went straight in and asked her rather nervously. The request seemed to catch her by suprise but she said yes and said that I should call back later in the week to finalise plans for the weekend.This is where things turned bad. I kept callin her all week but she refused to answer the phone or respond to my txts. In the past she had been difficult to get hold of but always got back to me later. I realised that she didn't want to speak to me i guess cos she was too embarrassed or didn't know how to let me down. This all happened about 3 months ago and I haven't heard from her since. I don't really know how and if I should contact her again with out it being incredibly awkward. I'm really annoyed at her for not dealing with it maturly and just ignoring the situation but I do still like her.After a more recent experience where I had a brief realtionship with a girl who was really into me but I only had minor feeling for I began thinking about things from her point of view. I've been trying to think about what shes thinking, did she do this to me beacuse she was completly unintersted and was shocked that i'd even asked? That srikes me as strange beacuse I know that at least with boys, everytime we meet a girl we consider if shed make good girlfriend material, surely she's at least briefly considered the possibilty. But then again what if she hadn't, in that case I didn't really give her an oppurtunity to think about. She got scared having to make a quick decision and I didn't allow her any time to think about things.I wanna know what everyone thinks I should do now. Perhaps now that shes had some time and the seed has been planted she has considered the possibility of a relationship between us more. The problems is I don't know how I should get back in contact with her, we've not processed the events between us. And if I do contact her how do I make sure that it is spoken about and that we don't just go back to the pre telephone call platonic friendly txting realtionship and just pretend nothing ever happend. I don't want that.I feel like a lot of people might respond saying that I should just tell her how I feel but without knowing if there is any reciprocal feelings I'd find it difficult not to scar the hell out of her again. How do I know what shes thinking and if

Need relationship advice about a girl I've been talking to from Europe.?
I met a nice girl overseas in Europe this summer and we've been talking everyday for the past two months, usually using instant messaging and occasionally phone calls and Skype. Anyways she asked me about a month ago about trying to start a long term relationship and asked if we'd be able to be together after I finish some prior commitments in my country which will be completed in a little over a year from now. I already have booked a ticket to see her again this January. We usually have been chatting for 3 4 hrs a day, but about two weeks ago she blocked me on the instant messenger. About four days later she unblocked me and acted normally saying that she missed me, etc. Well I noticed the other day she blocked me again... What would you advise?Should I confront her about it or act normal?I was thinking about sending her this I ve known that we haven t talked as we had a few weeks earlier. I just wanted to know where we stand in your mind. Are you still committed to making this relationship work? I know we have something based upon our time together this summer and our previous chats, and that both of us wanted to pursue a relationship. I do like you and getting to know you and I am committed to making our relationship work out if you are. I have always treated my past girlfriend s with the utmost respect and would always try my best to make them happy. I would like to continue to do the same for you, as I believe that you are a special woman and am interested in experiencing more of Europe and other things with you in January and possibly the future.Continued from above This is the first long distance relationship I ve ever done so I know this is different and is just as hard for me, but when I say I will do something I will. So if I say something to you, you do not have to worry about me letting you down. I would just like more honesty and communication between us. If you need some space I can give you that. Think about it and please let me know. I just do not want to be wasting my time.

I need some relationship advice about a girl i like?
okay so i am really good friends with a sophomore girl. im a senior btw, and I started having feelings for her and i dont really know what she feels but we are really close anyways i will be leaving next summer for college and i dont know if I should start something with her because i might be leaving next year. also what do you think of he age difference i dont think its a problem but some of my friends do. let me know what i should do thanksoh and shes 15 and ill be 18 in a few months

Relationship advice about feeling pressured to marry someone?
My BF and I dated for 2 and a half years......We are both nurses and were living together for over a year and bought a puppy together. I am starting school for my Nurse practitioner..and he only has his ASN. With school work I am going to be busy and just had a serious talk saying we have been dating for 2 and a half years and i hope by the time I am done with school its part time 4 years for a bachelors to Doctorate degree that we will be ready to make the next step in our relationship I am 23 and he is currently 28 and I am his 1st long term relationship ...we talked and everything was fine then two days ago he breaks up with me saying I am pressuring him to marry him and he needs his space is it over?? His mom called me and they are close saying he is regretting making this decison and not sure if it is the right choice. I didn't think that was pressuring him??

Relationship advice about my girlfriend?
I met this girl for the first time in a while on new years eve. After about half hour, we were kissing & hugging, then after another couple of hours we were in a relationship as i asked her out. We spent the night together & both had an amazing time. We both looked like wrecks in the morning but that didnt bother either of us. Anyway, since then she dont seem too interested in me. She always replies but never really starts text conversations. I may just be being paranoid as me & my last girlfriend text eachother constantly. What should I do?

Relationship advice about honesty?
i've been cheating on my girlfriend for months and love the rush of not getting caught, but i think my girlfriend is catching on.... what do i do?

Relationship advice about a decision being made? :/?
Me and this girl like eachother... she isn't sure about going through with having a relationship because of her experiences in the past she feels insecure. She knows she can trust me but is afraid of something going wrong as in her previous relationship her bf changed over time from being all nice to being a bit of a dick basically. However im not that kind of guy, I have respect for girls and I treat them with respect. I want whats best for her even if that means we shouldn't be together, I wouldn't want her to be in a relationship with me if she feels unsure. I understand really I do, I want whats best for her even if that means she is better off single rather than being with me. I do however feel nervous that even if she decides to be with me whether she has made the right decision in doing so. On the other side Im confident that what ever decision she makes she would have made the right one yes or no. So why do I feel nervous about it when what ever decision she takes im going to be fine with. Is it possible that what we think in our head and believe is the right choice conflicts with how we feel? For example the right thing to do in a situation might be pull the plug on life support yet you feel bad doing it? Could someone please explain to me why might our feelings conflict with what we believe to be the right decision after thinking about it thoroughly. I know it's long but I hope someone understands what im getting at and can give me advice, thank you.

Relationship advice about my crush? (he's popular) ?
now don't get me wrong, i'm not at the bottom of the school popularity food chain if you know what i mean, but i am definitely not at the top. i'm at the middle. i'm average, with the average people. sadly, there aren't really any boys in the average area. the guys in my school are either suuuuper not popular, kinda weird, or suuuuper popular, football players, etc etc. so, i always tend to go for the popular ones, even though i am aware they are out of my league. but theres this new guy...he's a foreign exchange student and he's only in one class of mine, but he's shy and doesn't talk much, but i like him SO MUCH even though it's only been like 5 days of school and we've never said one word to each other, and he probably doesn't know my name since he's a senior and i'm a sophmore. anyways, allll these guys from my grade are like latching on to him cuz i guess they can sense his cool ness or whatever, and so now hes in the popular crowd and any chance of him ever liking me is gone because all the guys are going to be like " HER??? you wanna date HER? what, are you CRAZY? dude, you could get so many other girls HOTTER girls." and i know " if hes the right guy he won't care" blah blah blah but he is foreign you guys, he's easy to manipulate, they can put things in his brain. so i want to befriend him first, show him i'm not weird or creepy or whatever the popular guys think of other girls. how do i break the ice w him? he's SUPER quiet, i don't even know if he will respond to me quite frankly, but i need to try. it's already the 5th day of school, so all that " hey you need some help around the school" new kid conversation isn't going to work, cuz technically he's not really new anymore, EVERYONE loves this guy. so how should i go about talking to him??? thanks

Relationship advice about ex's friend?
I broke up with my ex 8 months ago, as she cheated on me, however, it has come to my attention that she once again likes me.the problem is, i have liked her friend for a while, and she also likes me i knew her before i went out with my ex , and i have no idea what to do, as we cannot have a normal open relationship and hiding it is not an option, but i want us to be more then friends.what are your suggestionswhat d'you think is the best thing to doi forgot to mention they are best friends, so i cannot go out with her properly because of the whole putting friends before guys

Relationship advice about guys?
Me and my bf have been dating for a while now. And im sort of confused and frustrated about this relationship. He doesnt call or txt me everyday. and i told him that he doesnt txt or call and ignores me couple of days or even a week. he thinks i want him to leave everything and stay wit me 24 7. i dont know if maybe because hes 7 years older then me or what is it.We dont make plans till the last minute. It takes him a while to text back. he doesnt answer his phone when i call. I feel sometimes like what if i am being cheated on. I have been in a bad relationship before and were ever since i havent been myself. i like when a guy calls or texts everyday it shows he thinks and cares about me. i really care about him because i have never felt this before so fast like i do with him. i dont know if he wants his space, i give him enough.he does get alot of texts while we are together.