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I need relationship adivce please help the question is in the details?
what i go treough seems to be killing me inside. my heart loves but also wants to leave but loyalty faith and hope over powers. i date a guy thats depressed and constantly doesnt know what he wants but doesnt want to leave me. i love him which is prob wehy i dont wannt leave him either. weve been together for bout a year and a half. idk what to do anymore its making me such a sad person being with someone in that mind set. hes always told me he loves me until recently were hes been saying that he doesnt know what love is. and has just been telling me he misses and loves e because its what i want to hear. i dont want to seem desprite but i do need good mature advice on what to do and how to approach this. idk why i cant leave him is it because im in denial and belive its just his depression talking . who knows . just someone please help me i dont know how much more i cant take. is molds your mind after a while . i feel as if im in the middle of a crouded room screaming at the top of my lungs and noone even looks up.

Need relationship adivce me & my GF please help?
Well i gotta say that me and gf are a nice couple i guess but can someone help me she cries once a week and gets depressed cause of our past but we still love each other but she is sad right now cause we barelly see each other 4 or 5 times a month cause she flunked so shes in 8th and im in 9th and she thinks cause shes going to a differnt high school that we will not see each other anymone for 4 years what could i tell her to make her feel better and by differnt schools i mean like not that far like maybe 15 min walking is how far the 2 schools are from each other yet she thinks 4 years that she wont see me and dont say break up and shit

Ok so I need relationship adivce trust issues?
Ok so I just got out of a bad relationship two months ago she lied to me for a year so now I have trust issues and yet my new gf is like my old one she's adopted and she has been known to lie before for attention I want to trust her her and I are falling in love so what should I do I'm 17 she 15 I want to trust her what should I do

My friend needs relationship adivce..?
She just texted me that her boyfriend cheated on her, and he broke up with her.. what should i tell her? she cant stop crying... help

I need some relationship adivce?
ok, so me and my ex broke up about 4 weeks ago. and he texted me completely out of the blue and unexpected and he asked why do i give him rude looks when i pass by him and i just said thats just the way i look. and he said ha you never did before. and i said i never looked at you that way before? and he said that i always looked happy and now i look bitc and give off that bit vibe. then he asked about my relationship stuff since we broke up cuz on my myspace this guy austin is my the first person on my top so he asked so hows your new bf austin? oh wait thats your ex. then he said i always complained about him and i like him again, and on my myspace in the about me section it says i have a boy on my mind so he asked who the boy was and who i like now. why do you think he cares? he acts like he doesnt wanna be my friend so i dont know why he would care. any idea why he would?

Need some relationship adivce please!!?
I am 20, my girlfriend is 19. She has lied to me a lot in the past but has never cheated...we have been going out for 1 year and 7 months. I just found out she madeout with a guy she works with that i found out about on my own without her telling me. Infact she tried to cover it up so much lying about what she did where she was. She is willing to sacrifice a lot we have been broken up for about a week now and everyday she has begged for me to take her back because she says she loves me and misses me. Is this forgiveable? Would anyone take her back? I want some advice as to what people would do in this situation. I want some advice because i told her we should be friends until she proves to me that she can be in this relationship and try. However, because she is a liar and a cheater i wonder if it might always be like this? what do you all think?

Need some relationship adivce?
I have known this girl for about 2 years now, she is my sisters best friend and has been the whole time. For the last 4 months it seems like we flirt and care a lot about each other but neither has said it other than her kidding me that i don't care. My sister freaked out about 2 months ago about how much we talk to one another, however the girl continued talking to me. We have went to a couple concerts together and had a great time, she recently suggested that i take her out on the boat to watch the sunset. It all happend fast and we actually missed it and just sat on the couch and talked but she still said she had a great time. She sent me a text the other night saying she kinda wished i was there to keep idiots from hitting on here she was out with girlfriends We are actually going out tonight to view the sunset and she suggested wine. I'm really into this girl but don't want to mess up anything with her friendship with my sister or our friendship we have. Anyone have any insight based on this that she seems interested or what I should do.Thanks,

Need some relationship adivce from the girls?
Me and this girl are 18 and 17. We first were awesome friends for near a year, then ended up going out for a month or two, and had a big falling out over a misunderstanding in nov. Towards the middle of january we started texting again, on a " just friends" basis for a while. We havent met up since the breakup. I was ok w th that. But recently, i have no idea as to my feelings about her, meaning as a friend or more. I actually told her this lastnight. She confessed that she felt the same sometimes. What should we do??

Need relationship adivce me & my GF please help?
Well i gotta say that me and gf are a nice couple i guess but can someone help me she cries once a week and gets depressed cause of our past but we still love each other but she is sad right now cause we barelly see each other 4 or 5 times a month cause she flunked so shes in 8th and im in 9th and she thinks cause shes going to a differnt high school that we will not see each other anymone for 4 years what could i tell her to make her feel better

Help me please, relationship adivce?
I feel extremely guilty and i'm not sure if I exacty did anything wrong. I got in an argument tonight with my boyfriend of 2 years so he left to his moms house for the night so we could spend time apart... Well my mom took me out to dinner and to get a few drinks just to talk and get my mind off of it for a little while. Well we ended up at a local dive bar, and she got completely trashed and had this guy all over her... We all started playing darts, and when it was over he opened his arms to give me what I thought was a good game hug and kissed my neck. I was so fuc ing disgusted and I pushed his dumb as$ away and told him I have a bf... Well I thought things were cool until we were leaving and I was giving the nice to meet you hug and that as$hole did it again I pushed him away and walked straight out. I feel guilty, like I was unfaithful. But I didn't want any part of that guy. I don't know, I'm sure it sounds really retarded but should I tell my bf? Did I do something wrong? It's just something really heavy on my mind and I sure do have a conscience. I feel like s h I t I don't want to tell him bc I know he will be mad but at the same time I've always been 100 % honest with him as you can prolly tell by how much this is bothering me I guess I can just tell him I didn't like it bc of the scum there and guys wouldn't stop bugging me, and how I will not go without him again bc in all honesty I didn't truely feel safe without him. This was my first time at a bar like that since I just turned 21. I guess I've had my fill of sh it holes like that. As of right now I regret going out last night. But I guess I also learned a lesson about how horrible and disrespectful guys can be. So just telling him that should be okay... Right? Any ideas why I feel so damn guilty? I know I didn't do anything wrong

Who can give me some relationship adivce?
So today was Valentines day, as everyone knows. I bought my boyfriend a few presents, including a personalized book, chocolate, and a stuffed love puppy. I also handmade him a Valentines card. I gave him his presents a few days ago, because I didn't know if he would be home today. Valentines rolls around, and turns out he didn't get me anything. I am not sure how to feel about this. I completely understand that he is a busy college student, and doesn't have a lot of money to spare. Don't get me wrong, I definitely didn't expect any jewelry or expensive gifts, and that's not really what I want anyway. I just thought he would do a little something for the day. I would have been the happiest girl with just a homemade card. I know he didn't forget, because he even said happy Valentines day, and he knew I was getting a gift. I'm a little hurt by the fact that he didn't do anything, but I'm not really sure what to do. I don't know if I should even say anything, because I don't want to seem like a selfish person who was EXPECTING a fancy gift or anything... Does anyone have any advice for me? What I should say or do, or if I should even say anything?

I need some relationship adivce.. its an emergency.?
my boyfriend and i have been together for six months comming on seven march 4th and he continues to not trust me. he has cheated on me screwed me over before and lied to me but somehow i keep comming back and he hasnt done anything since. i have done nothing to loose trust but be honest and loyal to him, he continues to tell me that he can't trust me because of my past which was a little rough i used to be more of the sluty type of girl which is the complete opposite right now. i had been beaten and abused by my parents and left by everyone i have loved my whole life and those short few seconds of something made me feel loved. and now that i have it i dont need to do that because i have love right infront of me.someone please tell me how a guys brain works because im breaking down.

In need of relationship adivce....I am not ready to give up?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and in september I noticed things started to change. I noticed him acting less like the sweetheart I feel in love with. In the past I have treated him pretty badly, everyone has a past but for me I just could not let go of his and I would bring it up every chance I got to rub it in his face. I am the kind of person that if you let me push and push I will see how far I can piss you off. I hate this and I am trying so hard to change. Recently he told me that he cannot do it anymore and we had a big talk and decided to take a break and try to let time heal us. I told him that I was going to change because our relationship is so important to me but he said he cannot do it. Not even 24 hours after he told me this I found out he was texting and flirting with girls that he knows he and I have issues with as part of his past. I poured my heart out to him, begged him almost to give me another try. We still are living together and it has only been about 4 days but I am so upset I keep bringing it up and he does not want to talk about it at all. I feel like he is being distant and rude and trying to prove a point to me about what it feels like. I feelso terrible for how I have acted but it was not just me. He is not perfect. We talk like normal people we just do not show affection. Well he doesnt. I told him I would wiat forever and he told me that we will be able to work it out, but the more it seems I have the need to bring it up I cant help it the more distant he gets. I just need to know if we get through this, will he ever treat me like he did? or will he always be like this? I love him to much to let him go

College relationship adivce?
my bf is a year older so he'll be going into his sophomore year of college and ill being going into my freshman year of college. everyone keeps saying not to try to date during college. our schools are 30mins away. and we want to stay together, but why do all the books and people say no? any insight or have you been in tis situation? the help is appreciated.