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What should i do? realtionship advice.?
Basically i like a guy, we text a lot and he gives me the impression he likes me too he sends flirty suggestive texts, and tells me when he misses me etc i want a relationship with this guy but im afraid hes holding back since his best friend used to like me. however his friend dosent text me anymore and i dont think thats the case, i basically never see his friend anymore i really like this guy but i dont know what to do. I want to be more than friends but how do i know if hes holding back S

First realtionship advice...How to help him out?
Hey,We are both sophomores in Highschool 15 and 16 . He's my first boyfriend and I am his first girlfriend. We really like each other but the problem is he's very shy. Basically, I was wondering if there was anyway I could make him more comfortable around me? Any advice would be helpful. D We have been dating going on three months if that matters at all.

Help realtionship advice?
i,m thinking of asking out a girl in my high school but i want to ask her out when shes alone and not with her group of friends because i don,t want to embarris her should i give up and just ask her out in front of her group of friends or should i wait longer to save her any emmbaisment

I need realtionship advice?
My best friend really like this guy. I really think that on some level he likes her back. They text eachother all the time and he even told her that he would date her. She says that she wants the whole thing to go away but I know undernieth that she wants to date him. He won't tell her who he likes. I think that she should tell him that she likes him but she is afraid and I understand that. What do you think?

Long distance realtionship advice?
Okay, so me and this girl have been together for about a week now. I feel like i really love her. We video chat every time we can, even in class, we talk on the phone all night, and we text pretty much all the time. I have only met her in person once, and that was just giving me her number and a quick conversation. It's not very long distance, I live in Maine, and she lives in New Hampsure she comes up to Maine a lot, she was suppose to come up to Maine next weekend, but something came up. She's coming up soon, and we are making plans to hangout. I really like her, a lot. I'm 14 she is 15, im turning 15 this year, shes turning 16. I just really want to know if this is a healthy realationship? Maybe some tips too? ThanksIt will work. Dont worry. Haters

My new girlfriend's best friend just happens to be my ex's sister who i was in a 7 yr realtionship advice help?
I had no idea this was the case cause otherwise I wouldnt have bothered we been together a couple weeks i was completely honest with her and answered all the questions she asked can this survive ?

What are we now realtionship advice?
so im 14 shes 14 we went to a movie tonight, She really really likes me she let me hold her hand put her arm around her and stuff she leaned into me and had her hear near my shoulder, what are we? are we friends who like each other? bf gf? dating?

I need realtionship advice. help please : (?
im sorry this is so long, but please read ?my boyfriend and i have been together for two years. about 5 1 2 months ago we broke up for about 2 1 2 months.. then got back together ... and then things were fine. we broke up the first time because he said he felt like he was too young to be this commited to me so young. He's 20 and i'm 18.during the time we were broken up neither of us dated anyone else. i still wanted to be with him, but he wanted to chance to do.. whatever. we still hung out maybe once a week and we were still having sex and acting like a couple when we were together. The breakup ended when we were sitting on my front porch one night and i told him " listen, im not going to be your " half girlfriend" anymore. you're either in or you're out, but after this im done. so you have to decide what would make you happier, actually being with me, or being totally without me." he said hed be happier with me. things were PERFECT until about a week ago. he went bowling with a group of people and i guess there was this girl there...apparently they really hit it off and they kissed. the next day she visited him where he works and they kissed again. he told me about it and i freaked out. i told him id be able to move on if he just didnt talk to her anymore. he promised me he wouldnt. THE VERY NEXT DAY. he said he was going snowboarding with his friend. he seemed sad, so a few hours later i texted his friend and asked if adam my boyfriend was okay. his friend responded with " i dont know, im not with him." SKETCHY.so i went on facebook and BEHOLD, the girls status " brandywine with adam for the first time stooked " he told me they just hung out and they'd kissed again. this really made me mad because he broke his promise to me ONE DAY after he made it. i love him though.. and i still want to be with him... but he is CONVINCED that he just wants to be with this new girl. i told him i would never be able to forgive him for choosing this girl, who he'd only known for one week, over me. who he's been with for two years. he thought about it, but still decided he just wanted to be with her. im really hurt. and angry. i told him i never wanted to talk to him again and blahblahblah...then we talked the next day on the phone.....i know that it's pointelss for me to try to get him back.. and that it's a bad idea anyways.... but idk what to do .i love him and i miss him and i don't feel right when i talk to other guys. how can i get him back ? what do i have to do ?he knows i love him. i told him a million times. i told him he was taking what we have for granted because not everyone has someone in their lives that loves them as much as i love him. he's my best friend but i know that if he chooses to be with her, i wont be able to forgive him. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. help me. please it hurts soo bad.I just wanted to thank everyone for their responses. i appreciate it more than anything. i really do. this is the hardest thing i've ever had to deal with by myself. It just really really stinks.... up until a week ago, him and i had plans to do stuff together and now, just thinking about how those plans aren't going to happen hurts a lot. the first time we broke up i lost 15 pounds which is a lot for a person who only weighs 120lbs to begin with and i ended up seeing a therapist once a week and i was put on anxiety medication right before we got back together. i just feel this turned my whole life upsidedown, and for the other girl, this is just the begining. like.. losing him would hurt me a million times more than losing him would hurt her. he never used to be a cheater or a liar, and ive forgotten a lot of my morals such as ill never date a man that cheats and lies to me for him. i was shocked when i logged on and saw i had 15 responses. reading them made me cry, but i

So i need realtionship advice. help?
okay so im not trying to bore you guys i'll make this short.me And this guy have been together 5 months now. but officially the 28th would be our first month.he's a bit possessive at times & can be cocky about having me like he owns me & has a lock on me.i like him & we have been talking on the phone every night since late june.but when he's says i love you the feelings not there its like i want to say it back but if i did i don't mean it. anyway so he used to make me really happy & stuff. but he doesn't flatter me & call me pretty. he doesn't remind me how lucky he is to have me all the stuff that would make me fall for him.i like being spontaneous but he likes to plan things out. i think its better to go with the flow. anyway i feel like im wasting my time on him because it feels like im just a friend. but what do i do? should i stay with him or let him go. & if i do let him go how do i go about it?

Can ppl help me with realtionship advice? plz?
this guy told me he really liked me i mean really cuz he kept telling me i was pretty and stuffthe thing is i only like him as a friend and today i made excuses for not talking to himplz wat shood i do

I need realtionship advice plz?
I had been with my now ex for 6 years. I broke up with him b c I couldnt take the emotional abuse anymore so I broke it off with him hoping it would change. A day after I broke up with him I found out he went camping with some girl and he didnt answer my calls or txts or anything for a week when I was asking for closure. I talked to him tonight for the first time. I spilled my feelings and told him how much I loved him and he told me he was really drunk and ended up kissing this girl, said he didn't want anything serious with her. Also told me he loved me but wasnt in love with me because I of the way I had been acting. When honestly he has been treating me horribly for months. He said he wanted to be friends with me and take it from there and said he might be back in love with me again and wanted to stay friends. He was the one treating me bad and turned it around on me to make it seem like I had to make stuff up to him. I felt like such an idiot for crying and spilling my heart out and asking if I could come over to talk but when he ignored me for a week it crushed me and I couldnt hold it back. I texted him after we hung up and told him im glad that he told me he wasnt in love with me anymore but I wish he would of let me know sooner and knowing that he doesnt care anymore will make it easier for me to move on. I feel like an idiot because in reality he treated me poorly and flipped it around on me. Can someone please give me advice on something I can text him kind of to let him know that I wont be just hanging around until he decides hes in love with me again and so i dont sound like ill be waiting around. I felt so relieved after talking to him and not as upset for some reason but should I go no contact no matter how hard it is for me?I love him so much but my family and friends dislike him for the way he treats me. I dont get why he literally doesnt see how bad he was treating me. Should I just leave with no contact or stay friends with him. I'm miserable when we dont talk but if we do talk will that cause me more pain in the long run? Sorry so many questions ive just never experienced something like this before

Need realtionship advice badly?
Help with realtionship advice ?Well i have just met this new girl at school that has about a week or so ago got out of a 2 year realtionship.. i have been getting closer with her over the past week or so meeting her after school and at lunch we get on really well and i feel a connection with im with her We have jus broken up for xmas for two weeks and on the last week of school i said to her we should meet sometime in the xmas hols she seemed really up for it and said yeah well when i spoke to her today about it she said she didnt want to i asked why and she become really blunt with me just answering my questions with a no or a yes then she didnt even reply at all so i left it...this is weird because she is never like this as we text fairly often i havent done anything to upset her have i? she most of the time seems to be upset about her boyfriend she was with for 2 years.. i try to be there for her but i think i really am starting to like her what should i do? I mean whats going on? Should i message her back later or what? Also do you think its too soon to make a move? x

Guys and girls...what would you do?(realtionship advice please!)?
Ive been with my first BF for almost three years we're both 20 . Anyway, we are both very much in love but lately Im thinking that it would be a good idea to see other people whereas he want to settle down. Now Im stuck between staying with someone I love and i know loves me....OR meet other people. help?

Need some realtionship advice please help!!!?
So me andy girlfriend are in a long distance realtionship. She lives in NY and I live in CA We've been together for 10 months already. She lives with her old sis. So the problem is that they sis and her go to Pennsylvania to visit her other sis, aunt and uncle about every weekend. When they go to PA the uncle always invites them to go dancing and when they go it's. My gf, her 2 sisters, aunt, uncle and 3 other guys. And that's the problem that she dances with these 3 guys. They're her aunt and uncle friends. They work with her uncle. When they go dancin theydance amongst themselves not with anyone else in the hall. Theydance bachata, and Latin music, none of that hiphop or freaky stuff. Well the thing is that it really bugs me when she dances with those 3 Guys. First cuz I don't know them and cuz their not related at all. She tells me that their really good friends cuz they're their all the time. They're between 20 23 and are brothers. And this has been going on for like a month already and we've been gettin in arguments all the time. And I always end up apologizing even though she's the one that goes dancing. The problem is that she knows it bugs me and she still does it. And we came to a conclusion that she should keep going and I'll just try to control my feelings. It's really hard cuz I love her alot and just the though of another nonfamily guy being able to dance with her and hang around with het while me her bf can't even see her for a min i'm gettin tired of feeling like these it gives me a headache and knots in my gut. Idk wut to do or say cuz whenever I mention it we get into an argument and I always have to apologize cuz she gets mad. Plus I don want to stop wut she loves doing dancing.... Please I just need some advice. Please " Im about to lose it here