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Need real relationship advice. Pls help!!!?
Started a few months ago, where my live in g f of 2 years, believed I did not love her anymore...she said " the way I stormed out when we fought,and would curse" made her believe I wasn't really in love w her. Anyway, at a wedding we went to, I caught her flirting heavily w another guy, and broke it off. For 10 days she tried to contact me b c she was truly sorry, but I wouldnt hear it, since I felt so betrayed and had no idea at this pt. that she believed I didnt love her. On the 11th day I called her up to say that I needed some time off to think things through, and I don't want to throw us all away over this but you must know how much it hurt. She said its too late and 3 weeks later sleeps w the guy...and 3 days after that, calls me up saying she made a horrible mistake, and she wants to get back together? At this pt. I don't know if I should can forgive....I am very much still in luv w her, but how do u forgive somone for that? do u think she did it for other reasons? thnx
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Ok, well I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 and a half years. Were 19 years old and its been a good relationship. Well hes been acting really funny latley and secretive with his cell phone. some other things but im trying to make this short So yesterday i looked at his phone under some text messages and this number came up with no name. And i read it and it said..I cant stop thinking about you and another said i cant wait to talk to you later, i miss you. Well i asked him and the number was first john, then he said oh fine ill tell you, its aubrey, and then later he said it was lindsay. Hes completely denying that anything happened, and doesnt know why she would send something like that. He works with her and i just dont know what to do? Do i throw away 4 and a half years over this? by the way, this happened back in highschool also....
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Ending October She kisses me on my cheek randomly 4 times then she ask me to take a picture with her after class she gave me a long tight hug leaned on my shoulder in classNovember Kisses me on my cheek everytime im going off somewhere else i started kissing her cheek back and she begins calling me booEnding November shes sick i send her a message on facebook saying Me Do you feel better now ? Her Awww yeah thanks Me Yup justing checking on my wife Her Ite your a good hubbyThanksgiving Day Another facebook message Me Happy Thanksgiving Her Happy Thanksgiving too you too my love And last week we had lunch together and she normally doesnt do this but today she did she came to me in line and stood and we talked then some boy came and hugged her then he saw me next to her and said who am i and she said that i was her boyfriend and she started smiling i can see her cheeks turning pink shes light skinned Then she gets her lunch we sit then she holds my hand and she leans her head on my shoulder at the same time then after lunch she holds my hand all the way to class then another boy asked why are we together and she said that i am her boyfriend then she did that smile againToday we had lunch together and another boy came up to her and tried to talk to her and i was standing right next to her and she said that i was her boyfriend then she hugged meThen we had class and i move my desk next to hers and she leaned on my shoulder and rested for a while then she read me this story from her phone that shes writingAfter class i held her books for her then we hugged i kissed her forehead and i said bye wife and she said bye hubby see yashe was reading her story she kept messing up like she was nervous and kept clicking the wrong buttonBefore breakBut today at school she still wouldnt let go of me until i kissed her forehead but im not really sure if she likes me so much anymore cause i still never asked her outOn wednesday at lunch she did it again she leaned on me kissed me cheek and called me her bf but i think she probably moved on cause i waited to longAfter Break 1 3 12This week we came back from winter break and i told her that i liked her and she smiled and said really then she said message her on facebook so i did but shes kinda shy so she never answered so then the next day after lunch she hugged me and held my head and called me her baby then after 4th period we were walking and she asked this girl if there was something on her so then when i hugged her she made this scream laugh sound then we kept walking she hugged the other girl and she said i better not be looking at her butt but she smiled when i said it then she jumped in front of me and said look look then i grabbed it again then she did the same laughToday on facebook she sent me a message saying well I kno yu like me in all but I just like yu as a friend but you are like a close friend to me love yu...hopd yu dnt take this wrongSo todays my birthday and today in the halllway she had her hands on my cheeks and she was likehow old did i turn and i was like 17 and she was like awww your so cute then the bell rang so i had a varsity jacket and i told her can she hold on to it for me until next class so then she took it then next class i see her wearing it and smiling then she went to the bathroom then she came back when class started and she wasnt wearing it so then after class we were walking and i was in front of her then she started singing and like grinding up on my leg then i smiled so we kept walking and i gave her a hug saying bye and then she was like you can get a kiss did she mean on the cheek or lips?????? But tomorrow im planning to be like what happened to my kiss that you promised me about yesterday
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There is this guy that has been my friend for 3 years, that i finally started to date for this summer. He has always wanted to date me since the beginning, and I didn't at first. We had some friendship trouble because of it, but after i dated someone else for a few months, i realized how badly i wanted to be with him. When i broke up, we finally started to date. However, he told me before we started to date that when we went to college that we should stop the relationship for that time. Now i know i said yes.. only this leaves confusion for me. I fee so comfortable in our relationship right now and i don't really want it to end. His college is one hour away from mine and i honestly wouldn't mind staying together. For the first time i'm actually happy. how do i handle this? should i let him have his way, and hope he comes back to me. or just let him go at the end of this summer. I honestly will admit i am scared because of the uncertainty. I am hoping in a sense he decides to stay, but i really don't know. help?
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My girlfriend and me have been dating for 2 years, living together for six months. She said she is confused about her feelings and feels that we have become too comfortable with each other. We have both alienated our friends becausewe honestly spend every second of our free time together. She said she misses times when I have been gone and thencome home to her and vice versa.How should I handle this? I will definitely give her some space, since we both need it. Should I seethis as a sign we are through? She said she loves me and I am a huge part of her life? How can I make her miss me when we are apart?
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Hi soo i'm gonna try to keep this short..Ive been friends with this kid Josh for the past five or six years, and have been talking to him on and off for the past three . Its really complicated but trying to keep it as simple as possible.. we've dated before, but always for a short time because he would break up with me and say he wasnt ready for a relationship... however he dated his ex again for a few months right after he dumped me one time... i lost my virginity to him and have loved him for the past two years.. he tells me he wants to be more then friends but i cant trust him because im scared he's going to back out again like he did other times ... and he has also done things behind my back & gotten with my friends before but never a relationship just sex.. i just want to know if he keeps me around because he loves me or just because ???? i stopped talking to him for over 6 months absolutely no contact ... and it just didnt work i thought about him all the time and eventually made up with him... when i had a boyfriend last month he told me he was glad to see me happy but he didnt want me to be with that kid, he wanted me to be with him.. im so confused i dont know what i should ask Josh???? to find out his true feelings....what can i say to him to make sure he tells me the truth and how can i find out if he really loves me?
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I've been talking to this guy since November of last year.It's been a little over 6 months. We've been through a lot of tough times...his mother and grandmother passed away within those 6 months and I was his support.Things have definitely gone downhill before, he's 18 and I'm 16. He tells me he has feelings for me and he knows that I have them for him also. He used to call me almost every night or every other night...but lately he hasn't called at all.Three nights ago he called and I asked him why he went missing, as a joke...he explained to me that he was busy with his grandmas funeral i had no idea at the time and helping his father with business. He then told me he would call me back the next night to further explain what's been going on. I never received that call.We've seem to grow apart and I'm starting to wonder if he even cares anymore. I've tried to move on..but he's the only one that makes me 100 % happy whenever I talk to him. We aren't in an official relationship..and we rarely see each other. So I haven't been able to kiss him or anything of that sort. His flaky ness has become predictable and I can't stand that he's always popping in and out of my life. Whenever I try to move on, I get sucked back in.I just want opinions to see if he's worth it. I obviously know he isn't but I can't grasp why I have such a hard time letting go to someone that probably doesn't think about me as much as I think about him.And this post may seem pathetic, but it's the first time i've ever felt so strongly about any guy.I also wonder if this even makes any sense...I apologize for my rambling and thank you in advance for reading this responding.
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I am 21 years old and have been in a serious relationship for 3 years.For the past 2 years my bf did nothing but assure me he WILL NOT CHEAT,he tried proving his point by allowing both of us to exchange passwords phone, emails etc If ever we got into a fight I would walk out on him and he always came running back to me trying to work it out. He always says good morning and goodnight to me, when the morning begins and ends.He let me always know where he would go and who he is with. hardly with friends 2 years ago not that it matters, but he always went all out when it came to buying me gifts.I also broke up with him one year on his birthday.Now a few months ago 8 months i broke up with him.I wanted " freedom" I think it was more of I wanted to go out and see who I was... a self journey.I realized a lot of people liked me and I gained freedom. I went to sports bars and even clubbing we both alone were not allowed to do that, unless we went together .I realized theres no one in the world, that I will lover more than him. He also told me this last time when I broke up with him that he will never get back with me because I already left him 3x.Anyway after being on break for about 2 months I went back to him and wanted to be his gf.He said NO and I had hurt him badly and he gave me everything and I wasnt appreciative.But finally, we got back about 2 months ago he took me to breakfast and gave me a necklace andasked me to be his gf, he said he loves me too much, but he is hurt from me always hurting him.Now that we are back I am veryyy suspicious. Because I have done and seen things that I shouldhave not seen or do I constatly am after him.I always ask him like everyday will you ever cheat on me and he says never.As you can tell this answer isnt enough for me.The reason why I am suspcious now is because now he has more male friends.he goes out every weekend and stays out late until 3 am.However he texts me the whole time.He assures me he is only with guys and texts every 20 50 minutes,he told me the reason why he has more friends now is because before I wouldnt let him go out.That's not true. He always says theres no point in cheating.Due to my schooling, i rarely see him just on thursdays and we dont have sex, yet he tells mehe doesnt need a to have sex with and he can always give himself pleasure.before he was alright to get google lattitude to see where we are, but after getting back with himhe says no because I have hurt him too many times and he wont allow me to be in control anymore.I am not controlling I am just afraid... afraid karma is headed my way.I have seen the stuff guys do behind their gfs so I am very cautious.this breakup has really disturbed me.my question is... does he sound like someone to cheat on me.Thank you for your time.p.s. I have considered psycho therapy too Jack, I am very dedicated now 100 % I am just not sure if HE is now.
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I really need some opinions on what I should do about my crush. The thing is, we've been talking on and off for over a year now, and STILL haven't hung out outside of school. We both have strict parents so neither of us have been able to have one another at our houses. I know we could hang out somewhere other than a house, but I don't really know where to suggest without sounding cheesy. A couple weeks ago I just got really frustrated because I felt like we weren't going anywhere and talking to eachother was just becoming a waste of time, so the last conversation we had was really short and I stopped replying and we haven't talked to eachother since.I hate not talking to him, but I also hate talking to him when I'm not able to see him ever. I don't know if I should talk to him, because I really want to and I know it would kill me to see him move on and go for another girl.. Or if I should just leave it alone and try to get over him.PLEASE tell me what you think I should do cause I'm totally lost. P
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Well, I'm in the 7th grade, and I like this boy, and I know he likes me a lot. So I want to know what I should do to get us into a relationship boyfriend and girlfriend. I don't want advice that just says " You should go for it." I want real, good, genuine advice form someone who know what I'm going through.
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Is my ex really moving on or does he want attention?My ex and I broke up April 1st, 2 weeks later he started flirting with girls on his fb. I know he doesn't care about those girls and I know he's not going to date them so I don't know if he was doing it to make me jealous or get over me... anyways I deleted him as a friend because I didn't want to see it. I texted him a day after we broke up asking for my stuff, he kept putting it off and when I finally went over to get my stuff and leave, I remembered I forgot my cds. However, he said for me to just come back and get them because he was busy, etc. and I told him no I wasn't going to drive all the way back here and he said that he'd drop them off, but a week passed and he never called or texted me about my stuff, or his laptop. So I called him and he didnt answer twice, or reply to my text about our things, and the next day I called again and he told me I could get my stuff, but I told him no and to bring it to me because that's what he said he'd do. He said he'll just mail it and I said what about your laptop? because i'm not going to pay to mail it and he said to give it to my roommate. He then said we'll finish talking about it later when he left the library, said he'd call and didn't.So a few days later I texted him and asked him to mail my stuff doubt he will he said ok. So I texted him my address and said thank you, to which he replied " are you ok though?" I didn't respond and we haven't spoken since. That was april 15th. The day after that he blocked me on facebook I know because I searched his profile that day... Why would he block me if we're not even friends? My profile and his profile are on private so all we could see was each other's profile picture. Did he do that to get a rise out of me or to get over me?I want him back but i'm tired of him always breaking up with me and I told him I was tired of always being the one to fix things and told him I wasn't going to fix it anymore.We were together for a year and a half. I'm 19 and he's 22.Do you think he's doing all of this to get attention from me or to move on?Thanks in advance
Real relationship advice. adults only please?
I'm seeing this girl, we've been hanging out a lot lately and were sleeping together. She then told me yesterday that the reason why she won't be official with me because she's " a bad person." Well she then went into detail saying she feels disgusting because she has three " bfs" but for some reason it doesn't make me mad. I know I'm better than them and this girl is absolutely awesome and she " says" that she just couldn't say no to them. See, I don't get why I feel like I can still trust her even after my ex wife cheated on me with 6 guys. My frustration is, I want to keep talking to her but I REALLY don't wanna get hurt. This girl is really fun and awesome and shes GORGEOUS. We have a lot in common and everyone that's seen us says we'd look like a great couple. I just don't know what to do... oh and ever since we started hanging out I've been in an AMAZING mood and feeling really good about myself. Even started working out a lot which is making me feel awesome. Ugh plz help
First real relationship....advice needed?
so this is my first " real" relationship. ive dated other girls but this one is different. im normally the suave,cool collected guy who says the right things to girls, but this girl im falling for has me feeling like i have no idea what im doing lol. we have gone out on a few dates and it went well. we have not seen each other in awhile though due to complications with our schedules. i know she likes me and i like her, but like i said i get that nervous butterfly feeling in my stomach when im around her. i want to call her but its the same way on the phone. i dont know really what to do so i need some advice. i definitely dont want to screw this up like i said this is the first time that ive felt this way about a girl. also should i wait til she calls me or should i call her in a few days, because i dont want to sound like im too desperate.....
I need REAL relationship advice. How can i help my boyfriend get over this phase?
if you don't read the whole thing don't bother to answer and don't be rude, ur just wasting time Heres the story. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 years and we've had a few bumps but we're very good about talking and not losing our tempers. But just a week ago he tells me he thinks we should take a break. He says he still wants me to move in and he still wants me to go everywhere with him and be his best friend. ya i've heard that one before too but it seems hes being totally honest, i've moved in and he hangs out with me just the same. But i want to be friends with benefits but he says he wants to detach and then we will. Today i had a break down and he tells me he just wants to find himself so he can be more confidant to stick up for himself in our relationship then we will get back together. I really believe hes not lying to me but i'm still afraid he could be. I need someone to tell me what they think and how i can learn to keep my bloody hands off him and let him be single so we can get back together already. Thanx
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