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Need open relationship advice from a unbiased crowd...?
A year ago I met a really great guy who ended up moving into my house because we needed a roommate and he needed a place to live. Him and I ended up hitting it off and I feel a connection with him that is truly unique and he has admitted that he feels the same. Realizing that it isn't so smart to date roommates, we have held off on committing to each other, but our situation has almost turned into an open relationship. For example, we don't bring anyone over to the house and we are open about other people we date. It is hard at times because pride and jealousy get in the way but we really care about each other enough to make it work. At the end of our lease I am moving to LA for work and he is going to be in Northern California for school. Im not ready to be in anything serious until I have my life settled a little more and he finishes school. My question is, should I propose an official open relationship..the kind with rules and boundaries? If I do that will it affect any kind of future we might have? Im open to keeping a long distance open relationship but at what point does it become not open anymore? What should the rules be? .
Honest open relationship advice. Please?
I am in love with my ex boyfriend. He has decided to end our relationship after 5 and a half years because of my erratic behavior, My personal weight issues and because he said he loves me but doesn't have it in him to continue with the relationship. He is still in love with me and I am with him but when I asked him how can he move on with someone else. His response was sometimes you have no choice. You just have to. He told me he will always care for me. I am jealous that it has only taken him 8 weeks to start being interested in someone else. I love him so much and am hurt that he doesn't want to work on the problems in our relationship.Now he is acting weird and has told me not to go digging in his business. It hurts. I mean I dont want him to be with anyone else. I really don't. Does anyone have any advice? Its the loneliness that is bothering me. We did everything together. My place just seems empty. I am trying to work on my issues. On myself. I no that this will not bring him back, In addition he is always bringing up my past. I asked him to stop and I no he is lying to me about this girl because he said I can't handle it. He said once I prove to him that I can handle things and not go digging into his life. Then he will tell me things.I am looking for honest open minded advice please.
Open Relationship advice please?
So my girlfriend just left on a four month study abroad trip to Germany. I trust her, I do, but we never really talked about the whole issue of hooking up with other people or having sex while she's gone. And what I'm wondering is this should I bring it up with her and tell her I don't want to see anyone while she's gone and that I don't want her seeing anyone either ? Or should I just not worry about it, leave things unsaid, and not worry about her having sex while she's abroad?The big thing here is while she's gone, is it a big deal if she DOES have sex with someone else? I'd rather she didn't, as I don't intend to either, but if she does, does it mean something? Does it mean she doesn't love me anymore, or is it just a sexual thing? Do I have something to worry about?
Open Relationship advice?
I have been in an open relationship with this guy for 2months now..I spend alotttt of time with him like everyother day at least . Niether of us have had sex with anyone else...we flirt with other people when we goto shows together but we always go home together. Ive been asked out on alotta dates recently and I fell like he wants me as a girlfriend becasue hes been getting jelous...and has called me his gf a few times. Should I wait for him to ask me out or should I go on dates and see other guys? I would love to just be with him. If we went into a real relationship I would still be down for threesomes and the flirting is fine just not the seeing other people thing. Should I wait for him to ask me out or should I go out with other guys?
Open relationship advice?
Alright so I have loved this girl for over a year and 6 months or so ago she moved away to Iowa. I'm in California. We believe she'll come back by senior year of Highschool. Now before you say we're too young and stuff, I want to say that we agreed no sex till marriage when she gets back. So to continue after a while the distance was killing us mostly her so we agreed on open relationships. The relationships would only be short term and the person will know about it. I've been with 2 girls mainly here. Mainly friends for like a month each and it was nothing. She has been with the same guy. She says she loves me and doesn't feel the same towards him, but I feel intimidated especially once he tried to convince her to give herself to him fully. That pissed me off. She says she only likes him cause he reminds her of me. Not being a jackass but he looks so ugly while I look understandably better. Along with I'd never ask her to give herself to me as in sex which he also wants. I told her she has to break it off soon but since then I heard nothing. I know they still talk but idk if she broke up with him. I really do love her and she hates herself for being the main reason for the open relationship. Her mom did the same not that it's an excuse. Just give me some advice. No breaking up that's outta the question. Just anything else and truthfully she's a great girl just always thinks she's no better then dirt so she has to do these things. She's always so kind to me and when I broke my leg last summer she came over and took care of me. We really love each other. I want to save this relationship. We are both gonna be juniors after summer ends and we both have excellent grades.
My boyfriend was a virgin when we met, now he wants an open relationship. Advice?
I met this amazing guy about 5 months ago and we immediately hit it off. We have a very intense passionate relationship and the sex is beyond amazing. We have already had conversations about our future like children and marriage etc and he never seems scared or hesitant and I believe he is telling me the truth about wanting a serious future with me. However, after we had sex a couple of times he told me that he was actually a virgin before he hooked up with me, which i eventually found endearing although i was confused as to why he just wouldn't tell me in the first place but he is 24 so i understand being a little embarrassed. The other week he asked me in passing if he would be open to a semi open relationship so he could experience what sex was like with other people before he settled down. I completely freaked and broke up with him but after talking with him I do understand his need to experience sex, since I already had those opportunities, but I'm not sure how I should proceed from here. He says he doesn't want other relationships just to find one night stands or whatever to just have sex " get it out of his system" . Is this even believable or is he just trying to have his cake and eat it too. I do love him and believe he is just trying to be honest opposed to cheating but I don't want to end up like " THAT" girl who is on the back burner and he ends up really hurting me. We are still broken up I guess but he calls me and still tells me he loves me and we are still hanging out. I don't want to not have him in my life, but I also don't want to get hurt. Any advice anyone??
Does this make sense for a man who has open relationships? Advice please?
I am cool with this and all. He kept asking em questions about myself. I thought i had told him enough..but he was still persistent on wanting to know more and more. I asked him does it matter? he says " yes" . He is dating 2 other woman who i have seen. Then he asked me what do i like about him. i told him then i said " what do you like about me? he says " Other than physical attraction you have this sparkle about you." I asked what do you mean . he says " I dont know i cant explain it" We did have sex and talked that time which was the 1st time we met up privately in his home. Lastly, he was going away this weekend for labor day for 2 days and coming back today sunday . he asked what i was doing and that he would text me when he come back on sunday. i did not hear from him all day and i texted him 1 time to just tell him to get back safely and etc. What do you think of this guy? why try to obtain so many personal info. on me? and why would he want to see me 2 3 days later?
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