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I am in DESPERATE need of relationship advice! Any help is greatly appreciated!?
So I have had a long distance relationship with another girl for about 7 months now. We live about 3 hours away so we only see each other about twice a month. We are both pretty needy. We both like to have a lot of attention. We are also graduating high school in about a month and we plan to move to a bigger city this summer together to work and go to college. When we are together, everything is perfect. We never fight and we always have fun. Although, when we are apart we fight a lot. We both get jealous very easily and I think we set a lot of double standards for each other. There is also another girl that my girlfriend talks to a lot. She says it's nothing, and says the girl is completly straight, but I just have trouble beleiving it. The girl writes on her facebook all the time and they always have little inside jokes. The girl also just posted a picture of them hugging. What should I do? I really love her, and when we are together we are great. It's just when we are apart sometimes I just have doubts about things. Am I being overly dramatic? Or should I do something about this?Thank you so much for your time xoxo
In need of relationship advice ?
okay so my boyfriend doesn't like me texting or talking to other guys what so ever unless their family. but for him it's perfectly fine for him to talk to a female friend . his ex's or girls he has had sex with.. and it is really making me feel uncomfortable, but when i bring the subject up he always turns it into an argument . he eve told me one day that he still loved his ex and he checks on her ever once in a while i told him i didn't like that and he said oh well. he comments on her things on facebook and they maybe even texting each other who knows . i don't know what to do about the situation ? i need help ?
HELP, in need of relationship advice!??? :(?
Me and my boyfriend 2nd love have been on and off for 2 and a half years. I love him soo much, of course at the beginning everything was perfect I've never had reason to believe he has cheated, and never heard rumors. But one of our main issues and still is is his friends....they take all his time and always tell him he has wasted his 18 20 youth years of being with me... Every weekend he is always with them and is always so distant to me, its starting to drive me nuts. I told him if he doesn't want to be with me then we can end things, but he always says he loves me and wants to stay with me, and if I'm patient we will move together when money is not stressful. We talk about how I feel when we are together, but nothing ever changes. What do yall think out there?
Beginning stages of relationship advice?
My friend introduced to me to her guy friend and we hit it off. We have been hanging out quite a bit but it's constantly with his friends. I invited him to come out with me and my friends one night and in return, he invited me to instead hang with HIS friends. 2 days ago, we had plans to hang out one on one, but he ended up texting me and telling me that his friends were joining us, so I ended up canceling the plans. Yesterday, we were supposed to hang out, but he ended up inviting me to join him and his friends for the day. I canceled the plans again because I was so frustrated. I don't get it. We haven't talked since yesterday and I don't know what to do. I really need advice as to what to do from here because I feel miserable now.Also, guys, if you have done this before, please let me know what in the world he's thinking?
I need a bit of relationship advice, help?
I've been in a relationship for a month and known my boyfriend for about 4 months. I really enjoy his company and like him alot, but being so new I feel like I can't be open about what I really want due to fears of looking clingy or needy. He's loving and I know he likes me but seems to lack the little things that I'd like in a guy. for example he rolls over after sex, where I'd like to cuddle and after staying at his house the night I was leaving and he just sat on the couch and said bye, when really I just wanted a kiss goodbye. He's very focused on his friends which I'd never want to take away from him but I just want a bit more attention, whenever we're together at his place he tells his friends to come over, I just feel like my company isnt good enough or what he wants. I'd like to see him and talk to him everyday, but I dont want him to think I'm too full on. I guess my question is, how or can I tell him what I want from this relationship without coming across as needy, clingy or just annoying Im so confused
Fast need of relationship advice!?
Please forgive me for the length, but this is VERY IMPORTANT so if you don't mind taking the time it would be so very much appreciated Long story short, I met this guy and he is everything I've ever wanted, we have absolutely everything in common, and kept in touch for over 5 months on an almost day to day basis. Later, we developed romantic feelings for each other, and also became basically best friends. We even had an inside joke that we had our own 'fairytale'. So, here's the thing, we could never act on any feelings due to him being so far away due to college, and we were planning to meet up in December when I was travelling to 3 hours away from where he was and he was going to meet me there. It was all set and the day came, but I never heard anything from him. I sent him a couple texts to see what the plan was but he never replied. So, I was a little confused, but I understood if he couldn't make it and assumed he would apologize or what not later, but then it's been nearly 3 weeks and I haven't heard a word from him. I know he's alright, due to online fb or myspace but.. why is he now avoiding me? I thought I shouldn't try to talk to him because it was kind of his call to ignore me, but it's been three weeks the longest we've ever gone since meeting is 1 week... I'm very confused What should I do? I'm stubborn and I kind of want him to come to me and explain what happened, but he hasn't. Do you think he will? Him and I are really close, at least, I thought we were. So what are your thoughts on the entire thing, and then, what do you think I should do?? Please help me 10 points to anyone who answers well.. thank you Also, about a month ago he got a girlfriend. I wasn't too upset about it because I knew it was hard to do a long distance thing. And he called me and asked me if I was okay with it and told me he really did care about me and such... complicated story. But we agreed we'd stay good friends. And we have, and I would never jeopardize his relationship. All we were going to do was hang out.. but do you think perhaps she's the reason he's not made contact? I mean, the least he could have done was tell me he couldn't come and I would have understood, but I went there and back in a complete blizzard and he hasn't so much as said a word to me since. What should I do ? Should I let everything go? I really care about this guy....
I'm in serious need of relationship advice, help?!?
Ok so here's the story. I've been going out with this great guy for about a year and a half, and most of the time it's been great. However, about 2 3 months ago we started getting into a lot of fights. It's been mainly downhill from there, but we always seem to fix it and makeup afterward. But last week it got so bad that we decided to go on a " break" , just from seeing eachother, not from our relationship. During this break, I talked to my boyfriend about hanging out with this guy for a night..just as friends, nothing more. My boyfriend was a little depressed worried about it as a expected but he seemed fine with it. So last night, I ended up hanging out with the guy and his friend...and i kept my boyfriend updated with everything that was going on...I even went to his house, breaking our " break" , to see him after and to tell him all about it. Well, today..my boyfriend has been acting SO wierd..almost like a girl, he's quiet, and whiny, and negative, and i just don't like his personality at all. At the end of the day today we ended up having makeup sex after he snapped out of his mood..which was great, but for some reason the whole time i kept picturing that guy i hung out with. I really wish i wasn't...I love my boyfriend so much, but I didn't feel as attracted to him then as I normally do which made me really worried because I don't want to break up with him, but it's just something was so appealing about that guy from last night, even though we just hung out, didn't do anything sexual at all.If anyone reads all of this, it would be AMAZING if you could give me advice on what to do about my boyfriend and the guy, please
Another fool in need of relationship advice?
Well it's kind of a long story so I'll start at the beginning. So about a month ago this girl caught my eye. I started becoming her friend and talking to her a lot. The problem, I later discovered, was she had a boyfriend. After around 3 weeks or so she texts me and tells me she needs to tell me something. Long story short is that she's unhappy with her boyfriend and likes me. So another week passes and she breaks up with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend isn't very happy about this at all and manages to get everyone to think this girl is a whore slut and just hate her in general.Anyway by this point I have told her I'm interested in her, and about a week or so after she broke up with her boyfriend, she asks me out. I said yes, but that we should be kind of secretive because I don't want to make a scene. She says that's okay.Another week later, we start going public and everyone finds out. I instantly become the bad guy which I don't mind and my girlfriend is hated even more she seems to not care either .The next 2 weeks were great, she became crazy over me and stuff, everything seemed fine. Another week passed and we closed in on a 2 week break for our school which meant i wouldn't be seeing this girl for 2 weeks . Everything was okay though, we promised each other we would talk everyday and not let anyone split us up.Anyway this is where it gets complicated. 2 days into the break I told her " I'm kind of afraid to be in love" . Apparently she took this as " We're never going to get serious" but decided not to tell me so. She starts acting weird and apathetic in her texts and every time I call her she seems " busy" .So then later, she texts me that she doesn't like me that much anymore and that we should probably break up. My initial response was confusion because she hadn't even heard my voice in over a week so this was kind of a rash decision to make. I waited for a day or two and asked wtf was going on. Apparently the stress of us going out was too much, and she doesn't want a boyfriend anymore. She says that the stress was physically hurting her, causing her to black out and stuff. I said okay and I understand and didn't talk to her for about a day.So I'm curious at this point and kind of hurt and angry so I text her and eventually ask her if she still has feelings for me. She says she still kind of likes me. And so I suggest we go on a break and when she's feeling better she can talk to me about it instead of breaking up. She says she doesn't want me too long, because she doesn't know when she will want another boyfriend. But eventually she agrees to go on a break.The past few days I have been texting her casually, and just yesterday I texted her and got no reply. This could be because of some other reason, but I'm not sure. Anyway, I go back to school on Monday for the first time in 2 weeks and will see her there. Should be interesting xDKeep in mind the whole ordeal over the break happened via text message, so it seems like she's intimidated or something.Also it's worth to note that she doesn't have feelings for anyone else, or at least she assured me so.So basically wtf do i do? xD
Really need a bit of relationship advice?! (please help)?
I don't usually do this but I have no one else to talk to about it and I really need some advice.Okay me and my boyfriend have been together for 2years.We went out about a month ago with his friends and they were talking about cars and he said something along the lines of " it's like her minni it's quick as fuck" I don't drive he realised what he said and covered it up then a few weeks later were round a friend of ours and a song comes on Kano nite nite don't know if you've heard it and he starts really singing and smiling and saying how much he loves the song.. He has a friend called Contact in his phone that says Gemma ladybird then I found a comment on his fb where she left the lyrics of the song on his page, then about a week later she leaves a comment saying our short but sweet rendezvous made me happy? Do I confront him about it or is it just nothing? I know it seems stupid asking these things online but I really don't know where else to go please help...?Thanks guys
HELP! In need of relationship advice PLEASE! Serious answers only please?
Let me start by giving some statsMe Senior in college, no kids, job, carCurrent GF 2 kids, no job, not in school, own placeGirl I have a crush on 2 jobs, car, own place, no kidsI know this may seem like an easy decision but I've been with her for 1 1 2 years. I love her, but our relationship at times seems to have no real future. What should I do? Would it be superficial to leave her for a girl that's better suited for my needs and lifestyle? Please give me your opinion, and let me know if you need any additional info.Wow thanks for all the answers they're very helpful. I've come to the conclusion that I need to think a little harder about this lol. Also some additional info on the girl I have a crush on. We've been friends and I've had a crush on her since high school about 6 years . It seems like we have more in common than me and my current gf, HOWEVER the grass is def always greener on the other side. Gonna take more time to think tho. Thanks guys
I need a lot of relationship advice! Quick! Thankyou!?
It's a long story but here goes I've been talking to this guy who is a year younger than me for almost a year and I'm 13 and my friend knows him as well I've never actually met him just been talking lots and apparently a few months ago he told my friend that I was hot and that he said hi. I found this out yesterday, but my friend is telling me all these things about him and it's making me start to like him more and more. Anyway he has a girlfriend and I know that he is gonna break up with her soon for reasons I can't say and my friend is trying to set us up. The only problem is my parents First of all my dad wasnt interested in girls till he was 14 but I don't think he had a serious relationship till he was 16 and his parents were pretty laid back and he is also laid back but I'm worried he will get mad and say I'm too young and I have load of stuff going on at the moment coz I have my piano exam soon and lots of exams at school however I still think he will be okish with it. My mum wasn't allowed a boyfriend till she started working when she was 18 Her parents were much stricter and so is my mum I know she will either say no or your too young. If she's in a good mood then she will say I will talk with your father. They both always do that but I know that they will probably say no because I've gone behind their backs before but for different things and I know my mum hasn't trusted me for months but the other day she said I trust you but it might have been because she was giving me a lecture. But i dont want to change her trust. Anyway I know what to say if he asks me out. I will reply saying really? I just have to do something I promise I will reply as soon as I can xxxThen I will go to my parents when they're calm and say 'mum, dad, how old do I have to be to have a boyfriend because I've been asked out and I've been thinking that then I need some valid reasons like it won't distract me from my school or music work and that I won't be immature, so they will say yes ...'Do you think this is good? What would you do to improve what I said because I know that if I go behind their backs they will find out. Thankyou in advance Don't worry I do actually know him and chances are you've seen him on tv if u live in the UK and he's so funny and tbh I do know him, even though we haven't met it's like I do know him and it's nit a lie coz all our mutual friends including one of my bestfriends have said so I basically need advice on what to tell my parents thanks
HELP! Desperate need of Relationship advice, should i finally call it quits for good?
okay so ill try to keep this short. Me and m current boyfriend have been dating on and off for almost 3 yrs now. Weve broken up for multiple reasons...the most recent being the fact that he didnt trust me, he wanted to search through my phone and control my social life, basically saying who i can and cannot talk to. he can make me so happy most of the times but weliterally can never go a day without arguing about something, whether big or small. i find myself crying sometimes and i just cant help it but i just cant stand the arguing. When i do decide to break up with him, for another time, i find myself crying over him almost everynight and then i end up running back to him.it doesnt feel the same when we decide to try it again..its beginning to be a cycle....i truly love him but im just not sure that we can work together anymore....should i continue trying to work it out or should i just call it quits for the last time and how do i ensure that i wont run back to him???
College Kid in Need of Relationship Advice?
Hey all, Here's the deal. I have this girl I like. She likes me too but she recently got out of her first and only relationship about 3 4 months back. We go out quite often, just the two of us for the past few months. We have weekly dates and are together a lot. It would seem that we are dating even though nothing has been confirmed... A few weeks back I told her how I felt and she told me a few things. 1 Doesn't want to ruin the friendship She says I'm her best guy friend That being said, Isn't it optimal to date someone you are already comfortable with and trusts? Wouldn't that be a logical thing to do.2 She isn't ready for the physical aspect of a boyfriend. 3 She is scared about what it is like to date a guy who will be serving in the Armed Forces. When I asked her she seemed convicted to say no, but I can't be sure. One of her friends asked her if there was anything going on between us, and when I asked what she said all they could say was " It's good news for you be patient." I'm all about this girl, but all I can do is trust that God knows what is best for me. Any advice or input?
Im really scared of relationships, advice?
I'm 15, I've never had a boyfriend & I'm very intimidated by older guys. I'm in grade 10 & theres 2 guys in grade 12 who like me right now. I'm really scared to go out with either of them because I find it intimidating. All guys want in high school is se x. I really scared about that too. Any advice? I really need it
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