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My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year. He is very indecisive in a lot of decisions he makes or plans, He is in the military in texas and I am in new york ,we see each other once a month he met my family and I talked to his. I love him very much. Lately we really haven t been communicating that much we barely speak and when we do we have dumb arguments. This past month my boyfriend was in wlc warrior leading course basically to learn how to lead and get his rank up. On Friday we spoke for a while he brought a new car we talked and laughed and everything then I said something about the future about a vacation. He said worry about today not about the future then we both got off the phone. It kinda bothers me because two weeks ago he was telling me what vacations spots he wanted to go on.On Saturday he called my little brother for his birthday when my mother gave me the phone I didn t know who it was so I was surprised we talked a little but I didn t want to be bothered by him since I was upset with him. I told I ll let u go and ttyl he got upset and said ok fine. I texted him and said it made my day to hear his voice, he replied it didn t sound like it ,it sounded like I ruined your day. Later on I text him I love you but no response. Sunday I called him and he didn t say much I asked him do u still love me he said im trying to figure out now I been trying to figure out since I was in the warrior leading course. My heart dropped he said he didn t have nothing to say . What should I do ? our anniversary well our daily month anniversary is on the 27th and I honestly do not know what to do Last Thursday I ordered his mother and his grandmother flowers and they will be sent on the 27th. I am scared because my boyfriend may feel that I did it on purpose when I ordered them last week..

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Hi I', trying to make a very long story short. My boyfriend is 32, I'm 31. We've been together over a year. His contract with The Navy Reserves ends in 2012. He decided he wants to go Active Duty with the Navy and plans to sign the contract in a few weeks. We've talked about marriage, but I like my life here. Also, I'm still under constant medical care. I've been on prednisone for almost a year and need to have my blood checked on a regular basis. Any advice?

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I am engaged to a Marine, were getting married in December so I can go with him to his duty station. First of all before you catagorize me as " one of those kind of military wife" that is not me.. I would NEVER be unfaithful to my husband I know alot of military wives cheat.. And I've heard its hard getting along with other wives if your not lose and into having a good time. .I am going to be moving away from family and friends, and with my fiancee being a marine he will be away alot. So I was hoping I could get some advice on what to expect, and if its true what they say about living on base..And I was wondering what I can do while hes away to keep from going crazy Hes away right now for his SOI training and I think about him every day and there is not a moment im not wishing to be able to just talk to him the weekends take FOREVER to get here and I dont know what to do to make it easier.. Sometimes I wake up at 2am or 4am just thinking about him wondering what hes doing or if hes ok.. I guess thats normal though right? or is that just me

Military relationship..advice please?
My boyfriend of about a year decided to join the military and had to leave 3 months before he was due. His family, our close group of friends, and I only had 4 days to say goodbye. He had to leave that coming monday and he told me on wednesday, i never had the chance to see him over the weekend. It's been 2 weeks since then.i love him so much and i miss him terribly. i think about him all the time and i know hes thinking about me too. im asking for some advice on what i should do and how i can learn to deal with this huge change. i could really use some help. does anyone else out there know what im going through?

Military relationship advice needed please?
I have been an in on again off again relationship with a man for about 4 years. Well recently I decided it was for the best to end it and around the exact same time he told me he was joining the military. He's in basic training right now and has been writing me saying how much he misses me, loves me, and can't wait to see me when he's done. I do still have love for him and care about him immensely, but this is hard to hear when I am trying to get over him. Should I tell him this and ask that he stop saying these things or suggest we not speak? However, I know going through training is one of the hardest things in the world and I don't want to leave him without support in such a trying time. Should I just suck it up for now and be supportive?

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okay so lately i have been feeling a bit of confusion in what i should do with my life in the futuremy fiancee in the air force right now and over in iraq and returning home in January, after he gets back we are going to get married.but lately i have been feeling that i am being pulled away from getting married, even though we have been planning this for a year now, i feel like i just dont know what to do when he returns get married or stay in college.my friend wants to room with me in college next semester and my sister wants to get an apartment with her...seems like everyone i know has forgot that am in a relationship and is planning to get married i felt like this was a sign to just stay in college and not get married right now.but then if i dont im hurting somebody that i still love and like and i want him to still be in my life but him being in the air force makes it not easy, he is based in another state and next may he is being based in another country. i feel that if i stay home and go to college my worst fear is losing him and that we will slowly drift apart and that i missed out on somebody that i will always love.what would you do in my situation stay home and go finish college OR get married as plan and finish my college with an online school?please give advice as well, i feel hopeless in love