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I need marriage help please : (?
My husband told me lastnight that he isnt happy. He said he wants his freedom back. He said that i am constantly negative which i guess i can see so any advise would help but also that he wants his freedom back. He also said he is willing to risk everything to reach his goals in life and thats with or without me. I am 8m pregnant with our daughter and we have a 4yr old. I dont want to lose my marriage. I have been crying since i stopped the conversation lastnight and he asked why i was crying and i told him because i dont want to lose him. he just held me. I dont know how to change or what im suppose to do. Please help mehe said he doesnt want to jump ship but if things meaning me dont change then hes going to have to because he doesnt want to be miserable.we r 23 and hes 25. I asked him to help me. If i hurt his feelings by something i say tell me because sometime i dont know when ive said too much. I dont mean to make him feel like i put him down. im just a sarcastic person. I am willing to try my hardest to change and save my marriage. Not just for myself but for my children too
Sexless marriage help?
My husband and I have been married for about 5 years. First 2 years was great, he was passionate, loving and romantic. Than after a few failed attempts, he just stopped having sex with me. I am very much still in loved with him and he is wonderful in so many ways and I know i should be grateful, and I am. However, I miss sex and intimacy so very much. I don't want to have an affair, I want him. And the frustration is making me depressed and bitter, which I don't want to be... but what can I do?
Special needs parents only... Need marriage help.?
I know she loves me and wants to be with me, but our special needs child is wreaking havoc on my wifes nerves. We have the kiddo medicated now, but still has melt downs daily. I don't know what to do. My wife feels trapped, but I know she still loves me and wants to work it out. What can I do? She has considered leaving me a few months ago, but decided to stay after we got our kid on medication. The medication seems not to be working as well now, and I think she's really feeling trapped. Our oldest, the special needs child was an accident, and she was not ready to be a mom at the time. We had just gotten married and didn't have much time to be just husband and wife. She feels like she missed out on something in her younger years because she basically raised her brothers and sister. She went to counseling for a while, but now refuses to go because she can't handle dealing with emotional stuff anymore. It's like she's in emotional overload. She can't express anything to me emotionally even though she is really hurting inside. I'm trying to be patient. Any advise would be appreciated.
Need marriage help??
Okay so we have been married 2 years we have 2 young babies and we married because i got pregnant. it felt like the right thing to do We have been separated for 6 days now. I feel like i don't even know him because he is so phony. He lies all the tim about very stupid things and when i first met him he lied about who he was i didn't find out until later they were lies He drinks a little to much he doesn't know when to stop and i just don't love him anymore. The only thing that is keeping me are the young babies. 22 months and 9 weeks. I haven't loved him for about a year. I trust nothing he says and i feel i married him under false pretense. We are going to try counseling but tomorrow night we are going to go and have a talk. Should i tell him that i just want to separate for awhile to clear things up? He says he misses me and boys but hasn't asked to them yet.Also i went over to the house today to get things and i snooped because i don't trust him. And all he has been doing is spending money and looking at rape porn all week. I am not going to mention this, because i don't care. Sorry this is so long. please don't be rude, i have a very supportive family, living with them for th past week has been the happiest for me in a year and my oldest seems happier
Relationship marriage help?
my friend is in a same sex relationship with another guy and we all live in texas. they applied for a marriage license but were turn down by the court, they were told that Texas doesn't give a marriage license's to same sex couples, please help???
I need major marriage help!!!!?
Ok, i've been with my husband now for 2 and a half years and lately i've been feeling a little disconnected from him. we haven't had sex for 3 weeks and i know he isn't cheating on me. i'm 110 % positive he isn't so don't reply if that's going to be your answer. He says he doesn't see anything wrong with our relationship and that he had so much sex before we got together that it's like nothing to him now and he doesn't crave for it. well that kinda stinks for me cause we only have sex when he feels like it. i feel like a guy and he uses it against me if we are in a disagreement he says we cant have sex cause i was being a bitch. or that something was my fault. we don't snuggle anymore the only time we actually touch is before he goes to work in the morning and we peck kiss. no tongue no intimacy no nothing. what is going on here. again i know for a fact he isn't cheating and he says he doesn't see anything wrong with our relationship and he says he still loves me.... what's going one? what can i do?
Babies, and marriage help?
i have been divorced for three years and have a little girl who is my life. I also have a boyfriend who would do anything for us. The problem is I don't ever see my self marrying him or having kids with him. When people ask us when we are going to get married or have kids i say no to the wedding and that I don't want another child. But secretly I do want to get married again and oh how i wish for a new baby but not with him, even if I wanted a kid with I don't think he can get me pregnant we have not been using anything for over two years. He has diabetes and can hardly perform and when he does I can't feel anything. I am not even physically attracted to him any more. I love him I do but not like a women should love a man. My daughter adores him as he my daughter she even calls him daddy what should I do???
Does abstaining from sex in marriage help the relationship?
my husband made this comment that maybe we should try not having sex for awhile to see how things go? To see if our relationship was based on sex? It totally caught me off guard. As i thought things were going great, we had great conversation, i enjoyed sex, i thought he did , i don't know where this came from. He admitted to talking with his business partners some of who are divorced now and others who are sexually active in their marriage. He thought it might be good to try. He said he is great with not having sex, cause he feels i don't enjoy it. I thought any healthly marriage would have sex whenever, spontaneously, or just try to have it 2 3 times a week or more. To 'be' with each other. It brings you closer to each other, the emotional part, etc. Am i missing something?i thought it odd he asked why i was so 'intense' over it the request, and i simply replied, 'why can't i have sex with the man i love dearly', why are you asking me to abstain? i totally felt weird and it felt all wrong. But he wanted to know why i would respect his request i simply said " how can i respect it when it is soo off the wall" and coming from men who are divorced and had cheated on their wives type of conversation. I got offended, and maybe i shouldn't have?i am getting sick of the sexual conversations he talks about going on at work. I can't help but wonder sometimes if the other men are 'wishing' their wives did the things they are talking about? They say they are, but are they really? He comes home and shares with with me and then asks if our sexual realtionship is good and how i feel about it. The conversation gets wierd as he says ' you aren't getting what i am asking' maybe we should end the conversation? then thats it. i feel like i already am not a good communicator but then this? It really makes me feel like i am losing it having a rough few weeks sorry...The conversation does come up more often than i care to discuss. He says ' any healthy marriage' talks about this sex. But i think this is going to far being 'analyzed' too much. We are religious people he is not gay, nor do i think he would have someone else but i do understand noone is immune from that temptation we have 4 kids and maybe he is having a mid life crises that is lasting for a few years? I am tired of the emotional rollercoaster and wondering if i am satisfying him. I work my hiney off to lose weight now am smaller than when we got married and stay in shape, got the new set of b bs after all the kids, I feel good but when the marriage is going through this? like i said, my bucket is empty.Shannon yes i have sex because i WANT too he often tells me that 'you don't want to be with me' always telling ME how i feel where he is wrong. Why would i go out of my way to prepare myself, go to the bedroom the kids are asleep by the way he knows this, says he will be right there, and then goes off to do something else. And i agree no satisfying myself. The last time i did that at his request in front of him he had a reaction that was not good. I don't think he expected his reaction either. So i am done with that I feel like i try new things to be better and when i 'fail' at it who wants to go through that type of rejection?
Would marriage help our situation?
SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE.....if my boyfriend and I got married we're turning 19 would we be able to qualify for public aid etc.we are both unemployed and are currently living with my mother and her friend who is also unemployed in an apartment that costs 950 a month. She makes about 2000 every other week but she is out of work a lot because of health situations. We have piling hospital bills. The apartment does not include heat ac, gas, or electricity and also she is paying for a telephone cable bill.also we live in illinoisim in school and i have financial aid but they dont give me enough to cover living expenses
Will legalizing same sex marriages help get us out of this economic crisis?
Here is what a person said to me the other day " Gay marriage will boost the economy and create countless jobs. Think of all the gays and lesbians who will go out and tie the knot if same sex marriages suddenly become legal. There will be a huge spike in business for wedding planners, marriage counselors and, yes, even divorce attorneys. Countless cakes, dresses, and tuxedos will be sold. Limo services will see profits like never before. The travel index will thrust upward as millions of people travel near and far to attend the weddings of their gay friends. Travel agents and the airline, hotel and luxury cruise business will all stand to make $millions as gays take off on honeymoons after their weddings. And gay marriage will even solve the housing market crisis as many gays will no doubt purchase new homes after being wed.Think about it Legalizing same sex marriage is a better solution to fixing the current economic crisis than legalizing drugs or handing out free stimulus checks from the government to everybody. If politicians would only start using common sense and stop basing their morality on 2,000 year old dead religions, progress might actually be possible."
I want marriage. help me?
Beni kim evlenmek istiyor? Benim ya 35 evli ve asla de ilim
Masturbation ruining my marriage...help!!!?
i dont know what to do anymore. i feel so frustrated and stressed and really need to move on. My husband prefers to masturbate rather than initiate any love making in the marriage. from the beginning it was porn, now its the continuation of masturbation that is really breaking it all up. We have argued so many times, yet he said that he has tried to initiate however his type of initiation is to say lets go...and if i say well i think you need to like try a bit harder than just words......he just pulls away so quickly and saids well at least i tried.Its getting worse...i feel so trapped. i am an attractive woman and need more pleasure than what i get out of my husband. if i am lucky to get anything in a month or two. if i never complained i think we could go without sex for months.i had enough and started trouble the other day...my attitude was quite full on...i just get so upset and explode...what do i do guys....we have tried councelling...that seems not to really do much.Now everytime i speak about this its like...well lets get better financially and things will change....i mean...please...someone show me the door.really would like your feedback and views on this topic.appreciate it.patxxyou all have been so helpful. I REALLY appreciate it. Just to answer some other responses...I always initiated ....always...to a point where i got sick of rejection, thats when i found out he was into porn. Now that he vows he has stopped porn...which nearly destroyed me anyway...now its this.....i dont initiate anymore cause its like he has turned me off...with the porn..with the perving..with the voyeurism.....i work my butt off..however i too need to be treated with some love...he thinks i have lost the plot..however its just the cup is full and now i am exploding with anger and fury....
Not about me, about a friends marriage...help, thanks?
My friend is asking me for advice but I have no idea how to respond.See, her family is very affluent. Her father is a doctor, her mother a lawyer. So, you get the picture, eh? Anyway, her fiances family are very poor. So poor in that they can't afford phones or internet and they were once threatened for eviction. They also depend on their son my friends fiance to provide for them because his father is layed off but the job before he was layed didn't even pay enough so he honestly was okay with it. His mother works full time at an office job with very low pay. He works full time at Walmart.Anyway, my friend has had major arguments with his family mainly his mother and sister about money. The sister also doesn't understand the point of college because no one in her family went except her brother my friends fiance . My friend made a comment to the sister about the option of college and almost instantly the sister snapped and cursed her out. She claims that college is for people who care about money too much and then pointed her finger at my friend and called her a greedy spoiled bitch. This girl is 22 and SUPER immature. When I wittnessed this I almost didn't know how to react. I told her to calm down and then she went at me claiming that I was just as greedy.She also dropped out of college for an entire year because her boyfriend of 2 weeks broke up with her so as you can see, she's fairly emotional. Now my friend is backing out of marriage or at least, attempting to because she feels threatened by his family. I honestly feel horrible and I have told her if you love him, stay with me and ignore his family, but the thing is, they live so close and he actually gets along well with his sister...they talk on the phone at least twice a week. Considering that my friend is already living with him and has to answer the phone or listen to his conversations with the sister, she gets so depressed. I know he loves her, but he loves his sister too. He tried to talk to his sister, but nothing goes through her brain. My friend is backing out and she has told me she wants me to convince her to stick with the plan and marry the guy of her dreams.. I don't know what to do. I told her to go for it but she needs more help.PLEASE I BEG YOU OUT OF THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART, HELP ME HELP HER. stay with him." csucdart..." it's about my friend getting into marriage. she is currently engaged and soon to be married. that is why this is under marriage.
My boyfriend keeps talking about marriage... help?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. I'm 20, he's 21. For the past few weeks he has been saying hints about marriage. Last night he just straight out said " let's get married." and I laughed and he was like " no I'm serious" and I told him we can't because we're both in college and he said " so you would reject me if I asked?" and I told him no I wouldn't reject him. Well a few times a week he's been saying stuff like this. He'll randomly say " Oh I dreamed we got married. it was nice" and stuff like this. He asked if I will take his last name WHEN we do get married not if and he always asks me what I would say. Is he going to propose or what?
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