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Question: Love/relationship advice... please!!!!?
(Posted by: on 2011-10-26 18:38:44)
Right... I have/ had a friend.. we we're always really close and such and people always commented on how cute we looked together ect.. BUT I had a boyfriend at the time so we both just laughed it off, but we both knew there was a spark.. so anyway a few months later I split up with my boyfriend ( we're still very good friends though) and the day after I split with him... my friend kissed me and told me he liked me... so for the next few weeks we met up for a drinks and such and even went on a date to the theatre. So hen I started to ask.. what are we? As in friends..seeing each other.. in a relationship.. and he said well it's pretty much a relationship.. I got a bit scared as I had just split with my boyfriend of 2 years so I said I wanted to take it slow... he even said he loved me by this point.. I told him this and he said he understood.. Then a week or two later we decided to start telling people about it and it was all fine and good then out of the blue he just stopped returning my messages ect.. So I decided to call him up on it and he said it just got awkward and weird, and he called it off... Then after about a week.. It was my birthday so he came out for it with the rest of our friends... we ended up talking then we got back on track ( still just seeing each other ).. then we went back to our local pub and stuff.. and we were having a great time.. then out of the blue he said.. what would you do if I said I liked another girl? I was a bit shocked at that so I said erm well we are just seeing each other so it's not as if your not allowed to do that.. I nipped outside and when I came back.. he'd gone.. so I sat there crying for 10minutes being comforted by people I don't even know.. then he came back.. we went outside and he started crying.. he told me it was just me he wanted then said he loved me.. then 2 days later he called it off again... Again I was pissed off... so we just left it.. Then last week at a friends party we got talking about it again.. he said he felt we were too similar which I thought was a ridiculous reason.. anyway we ended the night on a mutual agreement to give it a go.. as in a proper relationship.. So the next day I was really happy... and we were meant to meet on the Friday so on the Thursday I messaged him to see if we still we're .. he said he was busy.. I said okay and left it.. then Sunday I asked him to meet me for a drink.. he said he was going to be busy all day and didn't know what time he was gonna be back.. so I told him to text me when he was and we would sort something out.. I stayed up till about midnight and he never text me... I do not understand him!!! How do you go from telling someone how much you like them and all this stuff.. to ignoring them completely? I have no idea what I've done wrong.. the worst part?? I have fallen in love with him.. I can not get him out of my head like at all... it is driving me insane.. I don't know what to do :/ I just don't know whether to fight for it.. as I know there is still a spark and that he still has feelings for me.. Or to move on.. which will be so so so hard |
