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I need love advice can someone help me?
I am going out with this girl but have no feelings for her and niw i am with sumone i have feelings for. Is this right?
Help i need love advice!!!!!?
well there's this guy who last year when i was in year seven, i used to fight with a lot and i thought we hated each other thought .anyway it started on the first day of high school when i told a friend that i liked this guy but only in kindy and year one, we used to be good friends until he moved schools like six years ago and the second day of high school i was sick from school and my friend has got a big i mean BIG and she told him i liked him now, i did but in year 1. anyway he believed her and started running around bragging saying " this girl likes me " on and on then teasing me in class.and i realised i am a total idiot cause he was calling me cute and i didn't even realise so i wanted to hit myself over that and when i said why are you talking to me he said cause i like hearing your Voice.p.s. once my big mouthed friend who talks to him a lot kept saying this guy is your future husband so now i don't know if i hate him or love him any ideas or advice quick?thank you.i might have been a bit confussing i know i do like him but i want to know if he likes me
Please help me and my heart. I need some good and honest love advice.?
I need some good and honest advice for this problem I am having with my ex.In 2010, we dated but things ended due to complications that were inflicted by friends and the situation surrounding us both. For whatever reason, it felt like we ended on a very open ended note. A year passed and we didn't talk to each other. I was depressed and hurt by his lack of communication with me. Then in October 2011, we started to talk to each other again. We would text all the time. At first i refused to see him because i knew it would only validate my feelings for him. It was pleasant at first, but eventually the past bled onto our revival of a potential relationship. Since things ended on a strange note the first time, I was very cautious, skeptical and confrontational with him. Finally we both agreed to see each other in person in January 2012. We saw each other twice. The second we hung out, he slept over my place and embraced me as we fell asleep together. I was so happy that I got attached quickly and asked him to hang out the following Friday of the week he slept over. Long story short, he never followed up with our plans and I didn't hear from him for days. One day I was fed up and basically told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore and that I didn't deserve to be treated the way he was treating me. I didn't hear from him.Some time in March, I decided to send him a long message on FB apologizing for the things I did wrong and that I wasn't angry with him anymore. I wished him the best with all the things he wants to pursue. It's now late April. He still hasn't replied.Why didn't he reply? What does this mean? What should I do? I still miss and love him very much. I want it to work out.Please help me.
20 year old love advice please?
Im 19 and will be 20 in august im in my second year of college. I just met a guy who i think is nice sweet in fact if hes a potential boyfriend heres the thing. He always ask me to come over to his house its starting to get annoyin geven though i know his family will be there and he just wants to spend time with me since our college work lives are so hectic but i dont think im ready for all that. this will be first real relationship hes been in one before and i havent. I havent even brought him into my house and weve been talking for two months we wanna take things slow . What do i do? he says he likes everything about me except that i say no when he asks me to come over his house. I have gone over twice befoe and i just havent felt comfortable. id rather hang with him somewhere public i feel like being in his home is tooo much in his personal space. what should i tell him?
Average guy looking for love advice?
Well, where to begin...I'll start with my past then end with my situation.I grew up in a family of 5 being the youngest of 3 brothers who really never wanted anything to do with me...so I was pretty much alone my childhood. Since my only somewhat friend was my mean brother it made it hard for me to make friends coming up. I rarely if ever spoke and I overall was afraid of my classmates. I was a pretty much a mute kid til about the 7th grade when I started being friendly and confident in myself...I started to make friends and bonds with people but nothing too strong. Now entering high school I had a small circle of " real friends" but we grew apart because they went down a road of drugs and im not about that life...my one bestfriend who actually told me he loved me comitted suicide so I obviously couldn't be there enough for him...that was my biggest lost. Now I'm a senior in high school. I'm kinda tall, black, and play 3 varstiy sports football, wrestling, track a lot of people make fun of me for being mean looking and stiff but thats just how its been since i was little because I could never express myself. Its weird though, girls say Im dark and handsome but girls today dont want handsome they want light skinned and cute shrugs I have a great body and teeth but I guess its not good enough. And that feeling of not good enough transcends into everything I do which brings me here.....I'm in a wonderful relationship right now with this amzing girl. Shes freaking gorgeous, popular, plays softball, can sing beautifully sings in school talent shows speak french, smart, dance, cook, care for children etc, basically too good for me...Im not ugly, a 7 at best, really smart top 10 , and athletic...there really isnt much to me so when she says she loves me, im the best shes ever had, and that she cant wait for our future we talk about it a lot i still feel im not good enough for her and that its a lie and its going to die just like any other bond ive had. So what can I do to stop feeling like this and accept her love? Love in general? This feeling of doubt and fear is kinda bad lol. I can give love easy, but accepting it is hard since ive never had it before from anyone besides my parents really P
Sex/love advice please?
Here's the deal I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 33. We met when I was 18. Three months ago we moved to another country, and in together.He hasn't been with a girl for more than two years before me. Nor has he told a girl he loves her before me. In fact, I was the first one to say it after over a year together. These days he never says it on his own but when I say it he says it back.Prior to moving in together 3 months ago we were on opposite sides of the US for 6 months.Now he never initiates sex with me. I'm always the one to start giving him a BJ. I only try to start it up every few days, and still he often isn't in the mood. Often it's either I have to agree to watching porn, or no sex. I don't enjoy porn that much, because I feel like he's really just getting off to the girl in the video, and it takes away from the intimacy and togetherness. It's come to a point where he even get turned on enough without the use of porn. I did agree to watching it every other time, though.Just about every time he downloads porn it's of a threesome multiple girls with one guy. Once he asked me if I'd want a threesome. Absolutely not I'm all about committing to one special partner. He accepted this, but the fact he always fantasizes about it worries me.Also recently I found out he thinks he's has an 'avoidant dismissive' relationship style. Yet, he recognizes that and I think wants more enduring relationship.He also told me he's afraid to be with someone his whole life. One more thing, he checks out other women often when we go out.We do get along pretty well. We have agreed to never cheat on each other.All this worries me. I just don't know if it's totally normal. How would you frame this situation?
Please answer!!! I really need love advice!?
Ok so we are in the same grade and we don't really talk but I've seen him around school. He is on and off with this girl named pagie for about a year and they just broke up, I really wanna get my own bf instead of my friends setting me up with someone. So I have no idea what to do, do i ask my friend to talk to him or something? Oh and BTW we are scene emo if you want to lable... I just really like him, he was soo nice to pagie, I want him.. Thanks to all that answer
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Ok i met this girl at school she was so charming and cute too i felt she was easy to get to know also other people thought too but then she left the school or country not sure and didn't really get the chance to know her well so my question is should you go after a girl or just leave it and find someone that you been long looking for?
So I like a guy that's 25 but I'm 17. I'll be 18 soon anyways I would love advice. ?
So he's in my art class I'm taking at the jc. I really like him. He's Russian. So I was thinking of asking him what the age of consent was in Russia .. To make him laugh. But he actually speaks perfect English. Anyways in our class we have to walk around to see wgat other people are doing.. And he seems to talk to me a lot. He's really cute. And my class friends say he looks interested but I'm still a little confused. He told me he likes my nails because they always look pretty and he smiles at me and talks to me sometimes. And last class he helped me with something and he was real close.. What should I do?
Sigh...!!! I need some love advices?
I just broke up with my 6 year boyfriend he was also my fiance and husband to be soon < 3 about 3 months ago... so heart breaking and i feel so confused. we just had lots of troubles coming up between us... now i kinda get better cus my family and friends cheer me up alot... Now i'm getting hit on with 3 of my best guy friends who were always there the whole heart breaking time for me... it might sound crazy but they already told me the exact same things that they like me alot and they dont want me to response or anything to them yet until im ready and my heart is heal... they all keep doing the best things for me and i'd feel horrible if i was to choose between them now since they're all my BESTfriends.... im just curious if somebody outthere have things happened the same as mine or similar and it would be so wonderful if u could share your stories i need some advices please im confusing right now '
Need love advice!! Help.?
hi, well this kid iv known sense kindagarten is dating someone but all of a sudden i really like him. i dont know what to do i think he likes me. well thats what my friends say. he always puts away my books for me. . but he did that to someone else to. and he always talks to me and on facebook he rates me 10, and he likes my profile picture . i just started texting him last night. i need advice wht do i do ????
Need love advice asap?
K, so I love my girlfriend, and she said she loves me back. But the problem is that she like, never wants to hang out with me, so we only end up hanging out in school, but i wanted to just hang out alone so i could kiss her, cause i've never kissed a girl. She's like stood me up twice like sure we'll hang out then like an hour later she's like o I got a friend over. So now I'm all sad cause idk if she's gona break up with me or if she just wants time with her friends but she did say that she wanted me to kiss her but... my mum is over protetive so i can't go to a movie late in the night, my gf sleeps in till noon aon weekends and has friends over after. Does she not care? HELP
First love advice? help?
this guy and I have been BEST friends for almost 3 years now. we were on and off friends with benefits for awhile, and then this past summer we started dating and getting really serious and then finally at the end of september we broke up but he wanted me back and shit went down. but before that him and I fell really really deeply in love. seriously. we talked about living arrangements after highschool and everything. we were legitimate. we wanted nothing but eachother. okay so anyways, I got really mad at him and didn't talk to him for awhile and he met this other girl. they started dating in january and have been constantly on and off. CONSTANTLY. they shouldn't even be together anymore. him and i started talking again months ago, we're best friends and we hooked up when him and the other girl broke up for a month. he told me he still loved me, and I still loved him. and when I stopped talking to him I got really really depressed. and he told me he got really depressed and cut a lot. basically, we couldn't live without eachother. and he's saying he loves this girl he's with. yet, everytime they break up he comes to me and talks to me all the time. and he tells me stuff about her. i like being his supportive best friend, but i hate hearing that some of the things he said about me he says about her. i can't stand it, but i could never tell him that. i'm pretty much waiting for them to officially break up. i'm still madly in love with him, i never stopped loving him. and when he's with her, he'll always look over at me. not like they're talking about me though, because she never looks. he'll just glance over at me all the time to like, see what i'm doing or something. i don't know. i'm really hung up on him though. i'll never stop loving him, ever. i can't go an hour without him crossing my mind. he's in my dreams, my thoughts, my school, my social network, everywhere. he's fucking everywhere. it's torture. my best friend alex, he loves the girl my ex is dating. so basically, we both want the other one. and we're waiting for them to just fucking end it already. it makes a lot of people depressed because everyone gets pushed away. i don't know what to do? what should i do about this situation? it's been making my depression so much worse, seeing him with her. i need him back. and i NEVER rely on anyone for happiness, but he's my everything.
Am I in love?, advice?
I met this girl last september on holiday and the day I met her I know I liked her. And she said she liked me too a couple of months ago and ever since I've known, my feelings have grown stronger for her. We text everyday and ring each other every weekend but the only problem is we live quite a distance from each other, 70 miles to be exact. However I've been to visit her as often as I can because I can drive and everytime I do I get butterflies everytime I see her. I look back on other women I've liked in the past and think they are nothing compared to her. I havent told her how I've felt however I think she knows I do because I've flirted with her and sent her Valantines day cards etc. There hasnt been a day gone past where I havent thought about her and I cant seem to get her out of my head. I've dont really believe in soul mates but I do feel like shes the one for me and this long distance is seriously killing me. I dont think I've ever been in love before, but do you realise you are once you are in love? We are both 20 and I havent been in a relationship before so I might be been silly.
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