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I was in a relationship with a guy for 6 months. We just recently broke up.We jumped into it really fast, I moved in with him an hour away from my hometown.I am now back and living with my parents.We both said we just want to start over and date like normal people.I moved away from my family, transferred my job, and everything for this guy.Now since I've moved back, I have no job and live with my parents again.I guess I'm holding a little bit of resentment..But do you think it's possible to start over and date someone that you lived with and was in a relationship with for 6 months?How do we make this fun and exciting this time? I want things to be different, if they can be.We're in our early 20's. Mature and serious answers only please Thank you
Help ! 2 year relationship advice?
okay I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and just recently he's started a massive argument. He lives about 20 miles from me and we can both drive. I'm not a very confident driver I passed my test 2 months ago but I'm quite scared about traveling down on my own to see him. He is refusing to see me unlessI see him and make more of an effort. I do catch trains to see him however I can't stay because he rents a room. When he travels to see me he can stay for days at a time. There's never been an issue before so why start making one now. He said he's given me a month to see him more then 4 times or its over. Am I being a bitch. Dunno what to do advice please
I really need relationship advice, someone please help me!?
ok long story short, my boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago. he was the perfect bf. i began to start and take advantage of the way he treated me and 'not appreciate it.' it caused us to fight and i wouldn't care because i knew he'd fix it. one day he got fed up with it and ended things. i feel like sh t about it and of course tried the begging and pleading. didn't work. it's true, you don't appreciate what you have till it's gone, biggest life lesson learned anyway, every time we'd talk, we'd just fight.. or it got the the point where he just ignored me. i couldn't respect the fact he wanted space and to be left alone when we broke up. finally i realized i do love him and that if i love him, i need to give that to him. so i told him it's time i stop being selfish and immature and do what he wants because he believes it's best. he replied and we talked. he told me that night that he loved me still and everything i wanted to hear, but that we 'can't' be together because of his mom not approving i hurt him. i found it very hard to believe, but it's sadly true. he asked to be friends but i said face it, that's just a label and we wouldn't talk or hang out like friends do, and he said he couldn't because it'd hurt him too much to see me and talk, and he 'needs to move on' we haven't seen eachother since the break up and i feel like i just need to talk to him face to face to prove we can work things out and that i really do care about him. he refused because 'seeing me would hurt him more than ever' i told him that this wasn't to hang out, but to talk and it's important and he still refused. finally i said i'm done begging you. you come if you care, or you don't.. and he gave in. to he came over after he got home from school this past thursday and we talked. i told him i need to move on. i can't keep doing this if we truly can't be together. i cried. he cried. he held me, we both cried more. he told me he cares about me more than anything we just can't be together right now. he said he loved me and kissed me. he said if it wasn't for his mom, he'd be with me. it's just so much stress and he's afraid to lose their relationship. he's a huge mamma's boy, clearly but he's going to be 18 next month, he needs to realize he can't always please her. he told me he'd go home and talk to her that night. so i really thought it'd work out. he got home and about an hour later he told me he's sorry he just can't and it's done.. then he said 'i'll cya gabby' i knew begging and trying to convince him wouldn't work so i told him i hope everything works out and i said cyaa too. i texted his mom on sunday and apologized for everything that happened and so on, hoping she'd think differently of the situation, but i didn't get a response. i really needed to talk to him last night and he ignored me. i didn't understand why. his mom had called me today and told me it's time i move on and to leave him alone because he's just too upset all the time and he's not being able to focus in school. i told her with no disrespect but if it wasn't for her we'd be together and she disagrees's and she thinks that he doesn't care about me like he said, that he had nothing else to say and it's all his choice not to be with me and now i'm pretty much being left with no choice but to leave him alone. i feel so bad about everything and i just feel the need to be with him. i can't move on because i know he loves me and with that, i feel hope. someone please tell me what i can do to make things work out? or just good advice that doesn't say 'you need to move on' i'm hopelessly desperate
Help me, i need relationship advice?
Hello, so lately i have been seeing this girl and we have been really good together, love all the same things, she even asked me to come away on a holiday with her.. things were all going good until we got back and then she told me that she doesnt want me and that she will never be with me..she told me at the beginning that she has feelings for me and then changed her mind when we got home, but after she told me she kissed me goodbye.. so im abit confussed on what to do next..she calls me everyday at least twice and we just talk but when i make plans to see her she always bails..im not sure whats she is thinking but i really like this girl and i want to see her but i dont know why she is avoiding me..she always cuddles and kisses me and looks at me in a cute way and holds my hand but im just not sure what she is thinking anymore..please help..and she recently broke up with her ex 1.5 months ago and she still loves her ex..
There's this guy I like! This is VERY complicated! (Is there any good relationship advice out there)?
I haven't had much luck with men and had a particularly disastrous ex. I'm at university now and I met someone nice. We talked all night, we liked exactly the same music and we found the people at university really pretentious as we are both from working class backgrounds. We talked a lot and I helped him, verbally , through some difficulties he had initially with our landlord and his student loan. One night he wanted to go to the student union and I went with him. Unfortunately one of the few people on my course I had struck up a casual friendship was there on her own. I introduced them and he was initially stand offish. I felt he needed to make some friends as he was so unhappy I thought at one point he was going to leave. He thought she looked strange as she dresses unusually to say the least and she's not his type. He doesn't bother talking to her and starts playing pool with the guys. Anyway he eventually sits down next to me. Then when he went to get a drink I swopped seats so he had to sit next to her so eventually as not to be rude, he starts talking to her. I wouldn't say they got on famously but any port in a storm. He later admitted to me that he really " needed a shag" , was " very drunk" and that she would be " quite pretty, if she grew her hair and changed her wardrobe" . He also said " I could have got a shag there, why didn't I go for it?" Does that mean he likes her?Anyway would you believe it we get up to go on to a club in town and decides to stay behind with her He later told me he hadn't finished his drink He's tight like that And I'm not just saying that So we my friends and I , go on to the club. The club won't let one of my friends in without ID, but by that time I'm hopping mad. How dare he desert me I only came out to keep him company and now I'm so hurt that he could ditch us without even making any excuses or apologises My housemates realise I'm upset and take me home. Guess what? Five minutes later on the way home, we bump into them. Apparently they decided that the very same club " wasn't their style" and he starts hollering at me, after pretended to ignore me, which he didn't actually do because he looked me straight in the eye when he was walking with her . He was obviously very drunk and started shouted leery, sexual stuff about my appearance at me from the side of the road. She was just walking next to him saying nothing. My " friend" lived near us, but when we had to go our separate ways instead of going back with her, he made his apologies and came back with me When we got home he started stroking my leg in the hallway and saying that he " always goes for bimbos" meaning I was not He also tried to hold my hand but I wouldn't as I thought it was the drink talking and I did want him to regret anything in the morning. I want him to want me properly not because he was drunk and or desperate but because he loves and wants me all to himself with the exclusion to all others We all went to bed and I did too A few days later I said " You know you're completely different when you're drunk " as joke, and the look on his face made me think I should never mention it again I was so upset Since then he has flirted with me but now he won't look me in the eye. I think this is because he likes sex and he bought an friend not from uni back and they went away from the weekend and I think they had sex. I've basically told him I'm waiting for him. Pressure I know So now he feels guilty about having sex with " another woman" even though we are not going out and even though he told me he just wanted " friends with benefits" which I said " Fine with me " but not really sure who he meant with Since then we've not spoken about my friend and he's made no effect to contact her although I gave him her Facebook details I get the feeling he does want a " relationship" as he's a very touchy feeling guy and I think leaving home for the first time has knocked him for six What I want to know is how should I approach him. I REALLY, REALLY like him but I understand I am quite a bit older than him and maybe I should leave him alone. On the other hand he is a bit of a lad and has been in trouble with the police and thinks he knows everything. My " friend" is quite posh and I think she'd be shocked if she knew what he's really like He does this " smooth talk" but because I've lived with him for 5 months now I know what a hooligan he can be I just don't think they're suited. Also he needs someone who worships him and I do. There are two guys at university who worship my " friend" and she treats them like rubbish but they still think she's " wonderful" . I have no one. I just feel that I was gooI just feel that I was good enough for him when he didn't have any friends, but now he's settled in he's ignoring me. What shall I do? I really, really love him. " Park" unless you have something " helpful" to say...xThanks for all your answers, I feel very lost right now Dear " Janicia" yes he was saying maybe the reason he has never had relationships before is he didn't find them interesting because they were all bimbos. My " friend" is not a stereotypical, curvy, blonde bimbo but we both agreed she DEFINATELY would have slept with him that night I think he just didn't want to do it in front of me Dear " Lost" , yes I feel he is quite immature for his age, but then again he's got to grow up sometime He's nearly 20. Also he latched on to me in the beginning BECAUSE he felt lost, and now I find it hard to let go The thing that gives me hope is he used to go out a fair bit, now he is always home. Or coming back unexpectedly. I don't think he believes I really like, I'm quite sophisticated in some ways , or he thinks I'm using him for sex I think he thinks I'm not genuine and if he comes home early he'll catch me with " I think he thinks I'm not genuine and if he come home early he'll catch me with someone else Which of course, would NEVER HAPPEN
Guys or girls ..please help i need relationship advice?
ok, well ive been single up untill yesturday. im going out with some one i have dated twice. idk...like when we were just friends i acted different around him, i was fun,silly, always laughing. i think thats why he started to like me. now that im in a relationship...i act different. i dont knoiw what to say to him or talk to im about. when we walk together we dont say anything. i know this sounds weird but i cant help it. i like him alot and dont wanna break up with him, and definetaly dont want him to break up with me. so what do i do. i dont wanna be boring or want him to stop liking me.
Love and relationship advice?
I met him at a football game a while ago and he added me on Facebook and we only sent about ten messages back in forth and that was it. Anyway I have this friend who used to go to his school used my phone to text random people an say things like I am I. Love with lets call him mike and asking creepy questions and asking for his number. When they would say who is this she would tell them my name and the were obviously telling him. She then started a bunch of crap with some girl using my phone still and she threatened to call the cops. I of course ha no idea because I was asleep an it was new years eve. Well the next day I found out that the guy she was trying to get ahold of was the guy I had a crush on and he remembered me. I tried to explain what happened and I think I still sounded a little creepy. We both agreed that we wouldn't judge each other because we barely knew each other and that was it. Well he has a girlfriend now and I respect that but I want to get to know this kid because I like him. And not over a text or on Facebook because that would really make him think I am a creeper. Anyway he lives about an hour away and I have some family down their and I know where he works. Should I drive down their or what? Idk I don't want to be creepy. I really like this kid too. And I have had a crush on him longer than I have anyone else. Btw the last time we talked was jan 1 2012. Not a great wag to start the new year. Also I know he kind of liked me when we first met and idk if he would really remember me still.Oh I was really pissed at my friend for doing that and she isn't my friend anymore so ...
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I'm a girl, don't be fooled by the username down there.. I'm 20 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. I met him in my home town. We started dating and then I had to move out of state.. He later moved out of my hometown as well and moved in with me an my parents for 2 years. After that we moved out of my parents house and lived on our own back in our hometown. I hate my hometown because it's cold and remote and my dream is to become an actress. My parents moved to Cali because of my parents job, and I was able to talk my boyfriend into moving to Cali to live with my parents after we lived in my hometown for 2 years so we did. We have been here for about 6 or 7 months and my boyfriend already hates living with my parents and wants us to go back to our hometown. I am really upset about this because I love Cali and want to follow my dream. He says we need to leave in a week, but I don't want us to go. He says my options are to go with him or we break up. I love him to death but I want to follow my dream and stay here, I can't live without him.. But I don't think it's fair that I have to move or he breaks up with me he says we r leaving in a week and gave me no notice. What should I do?
Dating and relationship advice please?
I am a sixteen year old girl with serious self confidence issues. I've always known that if a guy could like me, I would feel better about myself. I'm very shy and I seriously suck at making friends and stuff like that. I'm ten times worse at making friends with guys. I've tried just 'being me' and it hasn't done anything for me either. I've tried online dating and I've been in a relationship with a guy I seriously love for three months now. It helped at first, but now I just feel EVEN MORE like a failure because we met online in a chat room.I'm not sure what to do and I get seriously depressed whenever I think about alone I am or think about my boyfriend whom I don't really consider to be my REAL boyfriend, because it's only online . I can't listen to love songs without feeling lonely or see couples in the hallway without getting super jealous. I can't even be happy for my best friend who just got her first boyfriend. I hate myself and the way I am and I don't know what to do Would someone please give me some advice?...I cut myself when I get really depressed and lonely
Dentist office gave me relationship advice? Has this ever happened to you?
She told me that once school is over, I need to get started with dating. She made me feel like I was behind and I had better get started before it is too late. I mean I will be 26 in Feb, I still have time don't I? Should I just change Dentist?
Are there any good FREE relationship advice counselors I can email on line?
Is there any type of relationship counselor that is trustable & FREE i could email online with relationship advice questions & opinions?
I need relationship advice, bad. help me out here..?
basically ive been dating this guy for about a month and everything about our relationship moved fast. we never had sex but he stayed over, met the families, everything. we were so comfortable and connected on so many levels. as crazy as it seems i feel like he mightve been the one. everyone loved him and vice versa, he is everything I had looked for, and he said the same of me. he told me he had fallen for me. Anyway everything had been going great, nothing out of the ordinary.on monday he asked how i felt about us and i told him i loved us being together, and he said he did too but made a comment about him feeling like were married. which scared me a little. but he said he was so happy together and loved being with me and promised he was happy.. the next day we were texting like normal.. he said he missed me and to come over after work.. i did. I left his house to go to class.. he gave me a hug and kiss and said hed see me after class. 15 minutes later he texts me and says " ok so maybe i cant do this.we can do business together but i dont want to date. i thought i wanted to be happy with someone but i cant. idk what got into me.. but i cant do it." and just kept saying he just wants to be single and he doesnt want what we have and hes sorry, etc. this was SO out of the blue. i am so shocked and so is everyone else. His dad even text me and told me how shocked and sorry he was and how he like me being with his son, etc. before me he dated a girl for 3 years who treated him badly and cheated on him. he is very insecure about himself, he has lost alot of weight but will never be good enough about himself, so idk if he thinks maybe he doesnt deserve this relationship? I dont know. i think, as well as everyone ive talked to, that he just got scared. scared of falling too fast, or how fast things were going, or how he felt, i dont know. what do you think? do you think that he just got scared? or that there is something else going on? how do i handle it?UPDATE we talked last night and he said he just doesnt know. he said he wants a relationship but he doesn need one.he gets a few weeks into it and although he is happy he just realizes he isnt in a good place for one. He doesnt know why. He doesnt know if hes scared or whatnot. that might help.
What should i do? relationship advice needed?
i have been with my partner for 15 months and things are generally good between us,life has got in the way abit and the passion isnt the same between us as it was when we 1st met but things are ok,ive met this other guy through i like him he is a good lad,he has asked me on more than one occasion to meet him for sex,he has a girlfriend but she lives on the other side of the world so they dont get to see each other much she has recently had his baby.I dont want to cheat on my boyfriend and ive told this guy this on more than one occasion,he says my partner wouldnt find out.But i would know and i dont think i could live with it.So my question is this what do i do?I havent told my partner anything because i dont want him to blame me or anything.serious answers only please
Relationship advice!?
Id hate to be the person to get relationship advice on yahoo but i sure as heck need it. So during my old relationship, my friend told me she likes me. But i was already in a relationship so we never really talked. Ever since my relationship ended we grew closer, now i like her, a lot But hey lucky me she gets a boyfriend, for 6 months.. But we still flirted. Now she and i are both single and have been for about 2 months. She mentions her ex but one day says she likes him and the next wants nothing to do with him. She also says she isnt sure if she likes me anymore, but couldnt wouldnt give a reason. As she is a girl and i am a guy, i am very confused on whats going on. If you guys think you know whats going on, or have advice on what my next move would be please help me out. Ohh also her ex has a girlfriend now, so hes out of the picture
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