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Girls please help me? need your expert advice?
well i have a girl with whom i share everything and she shares the same. we have a special bond when keeps us together even when we have difference in thoughts. she trust me and i trust her. but whenever i express her that i am in love with her, she gets upset. though i am not sure about true love, but i do know that i care for her and get upset when she gets upset or get into bad situation. i really love her as a person may not be true love . but whenever i express this, she thinks that i am hitting on her and she becomes damn serious. i expect her to be light and handle me as a friend only and take it lightly or jst express what she has. but she gets serious and start saying that she is uncomfortable to talk again as she thinks in her mind the view point between two changes. and then i have to do a lot to get her back. what is this? really she is someone i aspire for, if not she then some one like her...but sometimes i slip my toungue and express. sometimes i feel if my approach is wrong or i am thinking wrong way or she expects something more or nothing from me.can you please comment? she is not only my good friend but a very close one who does not need to be around to keep going.i think i selected wrong category. sorry for that
Why can't some women just tell the truth? TRUE ladies I need your expert advice!?
So every time I catch my girlfriend checking out another guy, she always comes up with some kind of excuse. When my friend died in Afghanistan she told me that her friend had also died when she was younger and in high school. One day though my gut told me that she was lying and as I talked to a friend my friend who died's fiance she said that she doesn't even remember the guys name. Lately every time I try to be intimate with her which is all of the time because I have a high sex drive and I find my woman attractive she tells me no. In some cases I can understand because she says she is bleeding more than normal or it hurts, but most of the time she doesn't show me any type of affection. For example, if a guy is sitting on the couch and his girlfriend comes up to him straddles his lap and starts kissing him because she is attracted to him and she loves him. Yeah, that never happens. I am doing everything I can to listen to her, talk to her about it, and learn to respect her and I have not seen one ounce of improvement. Sometimes I consider my high sexual appetite to blame, but how can I help my DNA structure. I enjoy sex, I only want her, and I am doing everything I can to be patient, but honestly it becomes really irritating and sometimes it just feels disrespectful. I have urged her to go see the gynocologist, but she never calls and seems to be really lazy when it comes to getting her health taken care of, yet when she comes home from work she felt bad for a guy who was sitting at the table with his head down and asked what was wrong and was very compassionate to his situation. I never get that.
Wht shoud I do need an expert advice pls help?
Hi i have spl frnd girl i treat her with utmost care and respect i makes her comfortable to the limit i can but she has crush. I am confused bcoz she is being used by her crush and i ask her to leave her crush she says she cant ?? i dont want to lose nor i want her to be sad ?Pls advise i am totally confused
GIRLS ONLY: Need your expert advice ;)?
im in grade 11. im NOT trying to boast and neither am i lying, but i am about 6 feet tall, i play football and am regularly told that am i sexy, or " fresh" or whatever lol . Problem is, i am too shy. I was in a bad relationship few years ago n since then i have been reluctant to talk to girls because i dont wanna end up in a bad relationship. My friends tell me when one of their " girl friends" like me but i just aint got the confidence anymore to make a move. The only time i really get with girls is at a club or something and im sick of it. I want relationship, n i like this girl who i talk to every now n then, i wanna know how i can get over this " shyness" ...help me out yall
Planning wedding questions, need some expert advice?
Been talking to my partner, we havent set a date as of yet but our main concern is it being a multi lingual wedding. I am orginally english but with strong finnish connections and he is a home born finn.We plan a winter wedding1. the summer before maybe, very informal bonfire by the lakeside? My first query is, before we get married should we have a gathering so some people can meet each other and make friends before the big day? Bringing them together so people don't feel arkward2. My second question is food is a big thing to us but something that has surprised me is how much the wedding cake is for show, of course i want the cake to look pretty but i don't want to sacrafice the taste, we are considering chocolate with a vanilla cream at the moment with chocolate and vanilla biscuits at coffee...so is the wedding cake mostly for show, so should we provide another dessert?Also how much colour is too muchat the moment i am thinking, a deep charcoal grey or chocolate brownCream and then either and A deep purple and redthen maybe some metalic accents or is that too muchOh he speaks English and Finnish, I speak English and some finnish but understand alot
Girls...i need your expert advice...?
I was texting a girl and she says goodnight...so i say goodnight right back. She messages back saying " thanks for trying to get rid of me so fast bye." so girls...how do i fix this?
I need expert advice on going out. Easy Question?
INTRO I'm a 19 year old male. I've been talking to an Office Assistant during the summer STRICTLY about " College Admissions, and the Process" via email. I've never met her. I don't know her. She's just one of those Assistants who guides students. STORY So at the very end of our conversation mid August , I told her she was great help. And I also told her that I'd come meet her in her office if I get into College. Well, I got in. So I emailed her a few days ago, and just asked her when it's best to drop by her office and come say hi. She sent me a reply saying congratulations, and then asked me out for coffee. QUESTION She is older than me, but she isn't too old maybe in her 20's or early 30's . She asked me out for coffee, and I appreciate that. But questions are the following 1 Should I pay for the coffee? Should I offer her to get anything else?2 How long should I be sitting there drinking coffee with her? I don't want to make her get bored. 3 Should I bring her a little gift when I meet her? If yes, any suggestions?Just clarifying This is not a date. This is just a friendly meet.
Im so depressed need expert advice max points best answer?
Im really in love with this girl i was gonna ask her out today but i got to shy and walked away and i have to ask her this week but tomorrow after school. Im get braces on my teeth. And i wont be able to talk very well and i love her so much she is the reason why my world spins i know what to say its just geting it out of me. And i really want a firend to come with me but im to shy to ask. What should i do jow should i ask my firend how should i go about this my firend already knows that i like her aswell
I need your expert advice. (; How should I approach him?
Welll I'm in 8th grade, and of course, there's this guy. We don't have any classes with eachother, but we always see eachother in the halls & we have recess together. I know he likes me because it's absolutely obvious and his friends told me. I like him also, but I don't' know if he knows it. He's REALLY shy, so whenever I smile at him in the halls he gives me a crooked smile and quickly looks the other way and when I catch him looking at me he blushes and looks away.I guess I want him to make the first move because I'm also shy, but now, I'm thinking I'm going to have to...So I'm asking what ways can I show I also like him and how should I approach him if I don't have any classes with him?Thanks,
Would this work I need your expert advice?
Okay there is this girl in my math class I think is attractive. Step one Hi did you get number from the homework? By the way I'm . Next classStep two Ask something about the class then ask something like whats your major? Next class Step three Some excuse as to why we might need to trade phone numbers but everything need for the class like homework is online? I really need some help with this one. If I get to this stage I think I am golden. If we could be come study buddies that would be fantastic and probably help with the class.Yes step 3 is kind of out there.
I need some expert advice if possible?
I want to live with my boyfriend, but I don't want to leave my grandma. She's not old, it's just she's given me everything that she could and I don't want to just leave her like that. But my boyfriend is moving far away and his dad offered for me to live with them and I want our relationship to be better and the only way it could is if I went to live with them. WHAT DO I DO? Thanks gals. She's only 53.And also, I'm only 15 about to turn 16 in a month.
Does this girl like me? expert advice needed?
Okay, I'm in Uni since September last year. And I've met this girl that seems to like me, she always smiles and winks when she sees me out. On New Years Eve, back home, I went to a town which is 10 miles from where I live, and probably 20 miles from where she lived. I didn't know she was going to be out. When we first saw each other in a pub, she came up to me and said hi and started chatting with me by the way, she's not the type of girl who talks to any guy, she's a very quiet girl who doesn't go out that much according to someone I know who comes from her school . On the same night when we were in the last club of the night we saw each other again. She was sitting down talking with a group of people, and she waved and smiled at me. I didn't talk to her though, I had to go home early cause I had lost my wallet. You can't talk to a girl in a club if you have no money, almost any girl would expect you to buy her a drink wouldn't she?Anyway, since we're back in Uni. We haven't seen each other that much. Except for one night, we were both out in a nightclub, and she came up to me out of nowhere and started chatting again. She seemed relived to see me. But she went after ten minutes or so. I don't know if she expected me to follow her or what.Then I left early because I thought I had blown my chance with her. When I was walking back to the Student Hall she lives in the same one as me , I came across her closest friends walking back. I didn't recognize them at first, but they called me over and told me to walk back with them because they were scared. You'd expect me to ask them if the girl liked me or not, but I didn't want to make a fool of myself.So when We arrived back in the Hall, the girl was sitting on one of the chairs with her friend probably waiting for the other girls . The other girls I was walking with joined them sitting down, and they told me to sit down as well. I didn't talk with anyone for a while because I felt awkward there. I'm not used to sitting with a massive group of girls without any of my friends there too.The girl that I liked started talking to me after a while, telling me she's so tired it was around 3am . And her feet hurt and that. We chatted for a while longest chat yet , and I found out that she was related to my Uncle she's not related to me . And she even knew my 20 year old cousin who died in a car accident. And then she shocked my by saying she plays the organ in her Chapel, cause you wouldn't expect the girl to be that religious. And my Gran dad is a Minister as well. So after that, I felt that it was my destiny to be with her. But unfortuanetly, I didn't get her mobile or room number because a lot of other people came and started talking to her. I was gutted So for about a week now, since that chat. I've been going on her Facebook every like 3 hours to see what she's up to, and what nights she's going out next. And this makes me feel pretty bad, it makes me feel that I'm stalking her.But believe me, she's the type of girl I've always wanted. And I really want to be in her life, we've got a lot in common. But I don't know if she likes me or not.Thank you for keep reading until the end, I wrote a lot more than I had intended to. Sorry for the bad grammar as well, my first language is Welsh.
Really need some expert advice On this girl....Please 10+ Pts?
I Need some advice. Ok so it started 3 years ago i used to live in this small seaside town and started working in a internet caf'e. I met this girl there. She would constantly talk to me and look at me, she was in love with me and shizz, i was 17 she was 14. We would spend a lot of time together and every time i went out she would follow , we talked a whole lot and she really was head over heels for me. I tended to be a bit cold and didn't really have the confidence to ask her out. She would say things like talk about the future, and everything and i would to. She would hint to me about asking me if i fancied her when we had a walk, but i was to shy to say anything, i thought she just wanted me to say i did so she could laugh at me i Know sounds stupid . But anyway, we got on, until a few months later she and her friend were in the cafe i worked at. and they both went on a computer. She sent me a message on bebo saying will you be my boyfriend? she did like me and other people would also notice and her friends told me i said yes. We then all left the cafe and walked a few yards down the road. her friend left leaving us to talk.. a bit of silence, she then kissed me on the cheek. i said " Do you want one back" . i know she then said " it just doesn't feel right. then she walked off home leaving me in the rain.. i stopped and burst into tears,i then went home really depressed. as the weeks went by she acted very cold towards me. I seen a bunch of her friends and her and tried to approach them and she just ran off laughing. She said immature things and what not, lIke i should start cleaning my teeth etc which i do ,i was gothy and started self harming worst thing is it was in front of her once. but all she did was laugh at me, she also looked scared, i did it because i was angry at myself and wanted her to feel sorry for me and like me again.. Anyways i ended up moving due to family however still have her on facebook msn etc. a year passed and she messaged me on MSN About six months ago we were talking and she was being nice and asking me how i was,also told me not to do anything silly again i told her i done a lot of growing up and wont ever do it again , anyway we chatted for ages and she told me about her boyfriend which she has now been with for a year shes 16 now . and was sorta slagging him off a bit like how he can talk to other girls but she cant to boys. He was on holiday and would phone her everyday, she even told me she sniffed his jumper he left because it had his scent. i told her about my nan who was ill and she said " We been friends for a long time now so i will always be there for you" she also said stuff like she couldn't ask for a better friend. Six months later present no messages off her i went down there on a trip for a few days its a small town i managed to bump into her and started talking, she seemed pretty uncomfortable. Probs because its a gossip town and if her friends seen me and her together it might stir a fuzz with the boyfriend. But i was nervous to i would question her she was on her way home and i started walking in line with her asking how different things are and she would give small answers,she laughed a little and would smile quickly. I said i had to go a different way back to my hotel. Then i Said " Keep in touch Yeah" ? She Said What? I Repeated Keep in touch ye? she said yeah and looked a little nervous. we then departed. i am back home now 100 miles back and she doesn't realize just how much i love her, i just was scared but im confident now, But i don't know how to talk to her, Seriously shes the only girl on my mind I Have this problem of keeping feelings to myself . I Know i sound like a Pig but i really do like her and want to ask her out and tell her everything i felt and still do . but i was scared because of her age, because, of my feelings. I Just don't know what to do shes 100 miles away and i acted like a idiot, but i know she still likes me. i even still got a piece of tissue she wrote her name and a autograph on.to me like a love note which i was thinking of showing her one day. I Know i acted like a idiot,i know i shouldn't have done that and i know she could probably do better. But please help me talk to her , im scared of her ignoring me if i message her on facebook,What should i do? do i tell her everything? or wait for her to finish with her boyfriend? I Know i sound selfish but i don't want to date anyone else only her and i never opened up to her. What can i say?
How can i make my boyfriend to move in with me... i need an expert advice plis..guys?
well here is the thing,my boyfriend and i have been toguether since july of last year. Im not use to this kind of relationship where he lives with his parents. I had two relationsships before,one that lasted 6 years and the other one 6 months and we lived toguether...so now this guy who im in love with ,says that he is not ready im 22 and he is 23
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