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How can I change my husband's mind about getting a divorce?
We have only been married for five months. He is 41 and I am 39. We were both married once before. He was married 16 years and I was married 18 years. Both of us were cheated on by our former spouses. We did rush into this marriage, I admit...but we were PERFECT for each other, and we really felt like God was blessing our relationship. I LOVE HIM SO MUCH, but we have SO MANY disagreements, and so many nights with one of us sleeping on the sofa. He as alluded to a divorce several times in the past five months, but he finally said I want a divorce yesterday morning. We are both Christians, and I know a divorce would be wrong. When I told him it was wrong, he said I was trying to make him feel guilty. I love him, and now I love his kids, and I think he loves mine. He says he won t change his mind. He is angry. He says our lives have too much drama, and he can t take it anymore. We have had drama with his ex wife, with my ex husband, with his teenage daughter, with my teenage daughter, with my grown son, and with my sister. It has been very stressful, and has given me so much anxiety, but this is no reason to get divorced. He sent me a love note text message two days earlier, which said You are a beautiful woman, inside and out. The greatest wife a man could ever want. Your ability to mother children is untouched by anyone. You give so much love to me & make me feel like a real man. I LOVE YOU THANKS . I want to believe that he loves me, and that he is having temporary insanity , but I am scared, and I believe that he is truly ready to throw our marriage away. Last night I asked him if he was a man of God, and he said I guess not. I can t believe this. Should I talk to our pastor, or to a counselor, or to an attorney, or all of the above? I don t know what to do. Please help me. I am praying and fasting. I will not eat until he changes his mind.
Getting divorced. Wife wants to move 1,000 miles away with kids. Should I complain or not?
My wife and I are in the process of getting divorced. We live in Boston. She has made it clear when we are divorced she wants to move back near her family in Atlanta 1100 miles away . I understand that she wants to be near her family but that is so far away and would make regular visitation or joint parenting nearly impossible. We have a four year old boy that I adore. I don't want to make things difficult but its hard for me to accept not seeing him on a regular basis. We also have a 10 month old daughter. Unfortunately I don't have much of a connection or relationship with my daughter. We have been separated since she was 3 months old and I have had little one on one time with her. I see my son basically every day still and I don't know that I could go with only seeing him every couple months. I work in Massachusetts and all of my family is here so I cannot and don't really want to move. Do you think it would be negative on our kids if I made a big deal of my ex moving so far away? Should I complain or just let it be?Why don't you see your daughter more? I do see her. Just not as much as my son. We haven't had much time to bond and she is uncomfortable away from her mother and her mother doesn't really let me take her out to do stuff together. With my son there is more to do b c of his age and our relationship.Why don't you see your daughter more? I do see her. Just not as much as my son. We haven't had much time to bond and she is uncomfortable away from her mother and her mother doesn't really let me take her out to do stuff together. With my son there is more to do b c of his age and our relationship.The relationship with the mother is shot. There is no fixing it for a variety of reasons. I don't want her back and she wouldn't take me anyways. I have tried to apologize for my mistakes and forgive her for hers but its just not happening.
Would she have to include child support request on divorce response?
I have filed for divorce and its been over 4 mths now and have not recieved a response from her at all and all of the sudden I get served with papers to appear for a child support hearing. Should her child support request not be put in her response to my divorce? What can I do at this point with this situation?
Married single divorce taken what are you?
How do you cope with divorce?
im thinking about getting one because of the foolish slob in my house she really need to get her head out of her you know what, but the question is how will it affect me financially and can i have sex with my wife even if i divorce ? and can i have multiple mistresses as well ???
Is it fair that women always win custody and everything else in divorce cases?
thats pretty much it please answeralso, dont tell me this isnt truesay if this is fair and tell me whyedit stop saying they dont always win my mom is addicted to marijuana, smokes it regularly and still got custody of me when i was born
What is the best way to tell my husband, I'm unhappy and want a divorce.?
I do care about him but i am miserable in this relationship and not the person I want to be.
Why is the divorce rate so high in america ?
Last week i heard my aunt got a divorce ... talked to her about it ...she was bored ..> > really ? what ever happened to compromise and whatnot ... why not go on vaca with ur husband ? or if its too much there are lots of other cheap fun alternatives
How do I explain the divorce to an 11 year old?
Long story short...my addict husband told her I asked for a divorce all by himself. No united front essentially putting the blame solely on me. Yay Not. I already had her in therapy knowing this was coming and one of her anxiety points is she wants to know why we are divorcing. My initial response to her question was that it is adult business, it was not due to her and sometimes parents just can t get along and divorce is the only option. Apparently, it s not good enough and her therapist asked me to work out a better reason and lay it on her. Unfortunately, she doesn t get that her father is an addict she sees him drink beer but he generally hangs out drinking in the basement so she doesn t see it in excess. She knows nothing about the pot so that s not really a reason I can give to her.Anyone have any ideas on how to word things in a non blaming way so that she can understand them? For an 11 year old she is pretty green still playing with fairies and such so it s got to be age appropriate.
In terms of divorce: Are women considered evil because they are using their own child to suck the living....?
and money out of the man?99 % of cases, the woman don't even allow the man to visit their own child, let alone custody.
Grounds for annulment/divorce?
Can I file for annulment if I willfully refuse to consummate the marriage? I stayed with him for a week?Also, I felt a family obligation to get married but I do not like him at all. We are not compatible on any level. I only spoke to him once before the marriage.Additional Detailsthe marriage was not consummated even though he forcefully tried to consummate. but from reading online I thought you can only use " non consummation" if due to impotency.The reason I'm refusing to consummate the marriage is because I had only barely seen him before the marriage I told him that I didn't want any sexual relationship with him until we had gotten to know each other better and that it would most likely be once he was in the US since I don't think 5 days is enough to get to know a person and after getting angry at first he said he agreed with me and that it would be for the best but every night he tried to force himself on me and I kept saying no. the last night he was the most forceful but I was leaving anyway the next morning. I started to hate him more and more every day. During the day time he would barely talk to me and he looked at me with anger. On one of the nights he had said he didn't care for sex but that we had to complete the " act" because it was required for immigration purposes even though I told him that was not the case because I barely knew him and I didn't feel comfortable with him now i'm thinking that he only married for his green card because he made no effort to get to know me or respect my wishes. Also from his behavior during the day time I asked him if he even liked me and he simply shrugged his shoulders and said what was done was done that he couldn't change it now and that we would have to continue the relation for his family's sake even if we didn't like it. I would not have refused if we had know each other before the marriage but I thought we'd have enough time between the one week I was with him and the time it took for him to get his visa and that's when it would lead to sexual activity. The marriage took place in India not sure how it was registered if under Hindu or Special Marriage Act how can I find out without asking him? He's an Indian citizen I'm an American citizen from India living in NJ I'm not sure how to legally end this marriage he's not willing to end it, he thinks i'm his property and have to do what he says I have not filed for him to come to the US and I never will
Hoe can someone know if a marriage will end in divorce before the wedding Since so many people are getting?
divorced these days
In kentucky how long does it take for a divorce?
im looking to get a divorce when i get back from my deployment in a short few weeks. we have no kids, we live on base, all we have is a bunch of furniture as well that she can have for all i care. i plan on taking my car my crap and everything before i got married and get back to the barraks will life be better. whether she agrees or not any idea how long it could take. we've been married for 18 months now. she dont work and doesnt go to school either. refuses to do them as well.
Just divorced and getting married? too early?
I divorced my husband of 13 years last year november because of an affair he had. I'm 30 and I just got proposed to by my boyfriend i've been seeing for less than a month but weve been friends since we were young. I have no children so I think its fine getting married but my friends and family are talking me out of it. also, i love the idea of commiting and so on. Tell me your opinions on it?
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