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Messy divorce advice?
My best friend and god sister are going through a real messy divorce at the moment, the guy is living on my sofa as his wife has kicked him out and he's starting to come to terms with it, after of denying that he'd get divorced. I've done everything I could possibly try to get the couple back together after he cheated on his wife with two girls while working abroad but it isn't working nor my business and I am tired of being the mouth piece of my friend and having his wife direct anger at me telling her what her husband told me to tell her. How can I keep out of this process because it is too much stress and problems for my calm relaxed lifestyle.
Unique situation pre-divorce advice needed...?
Recently ThanksGiving my wife announced that she would like to get a divorce and that she is no longer in love with me. We have been married for 3 years and have a 2 and 3 year old daughter together. On Thursday night she ended up going to the emergency room due to a substance problem and called me when she needed help. I stayed with her in the hospital, 14 hours, and we really felt connected. However, I am sure the situation had something to do with that. Now, she wants someone to be with her to help her through these hard times. I am doing that, but it's difficult knowing that she very likely doesn't love me and may never. I am spending as much time with her as she wants, doing everything she has asked, trying to be a good man. I would like to win her back over, but she is very concerned about that... and wanted to make it straight that she needs a friend right now, not a husband. So I am trying to be helpful to her during a time of weakness for the best of everyone, but is taking an emotional toll on me. To make matters worse, she has another love interest... an old friend of ours my friend up until 3 4 months ago for more than 15 years . The day she announced the divorce, she ran into his arms and took off for a couple of days to vacation and be with this particular person. She doesn't want to be with him now because of the substance issues he has one and the fact that he family is very discouraged about the situation still married and with another guy that is bad for her . What should I do? If I walk out on her, she may be lost and my kids will be impacted. If I stay around I am going to get used and end up really hurt. Can I win her back? Is there anything I can do to increase my changes of her falling back into love with me? It's hard, but at the same time better than morning the lose of someone... although I am sure I am asking for an emotional breakdown. What to do...
What percentage of people who give marriage and divorce advice on Y/A have actually been married?
Not a scientific poll I once knew a scientific Swede , but it does indicate that most if not everyone has been at least married. Hopefully, not all have been divorced.
Inexpensive divorce advice?
Don't have much money and looking for good accurate advice on divorce involving spouses adultery.
Parents divorce advice?
My parents are divorcing. I'm not sure how to handle it, I'm 15 and I have a 5 year old sister... My mom has told me many times that she and my dad are getting a divorce, she said that she wanted to prep me and let me know in advance, my mom has been telling me since summer of 2011. Everytime their together they always fight and argue, I feel bad for both of my parents because I can see how they feel... I'm kinda scared to see what happens in the next 2 months where will we be. Everytime I try to ask my dad or get in a real conversation he tries to avoid the questions or ignore me, I don't think he realizes that him not talking to me by having normal conversation is making me feel that he thinks I'm not mature... And now since I only talk to my mom he gets jealous because we r really close. My sister seems to be ok when she sees them fighting but I can tell shes not, now she has been acting bad in school and not listening to anyone, if this divorce thing hasn't even started how are our lives going to get any better? I mean is this normal? I tell my sister all the time that us sisters will stick together and be strong but idk?
I need parent divorce advice :'(?
on Christmas we were driving to my grandmas when this black pickup threw there puppy out the window, hes really young maybe around 9 months. we brought him to our house and asked my dad if we could keep it and he said he'd think about it. he started to act like he really liked the dog puppy and so we my sister, mom and me thought we were going to be able to keep it so we all decided it was okay to get attached to it. we took our other dog, Kodi, to the vet for his shots and when we got back we asked my dad where the dog was and he told us that he took it to the Humane Society pound. he didnt even try to discuss it with us about whether we could keep it or not and he kept on being really mean to me and my mom about it my sister was at her guy friends house brian. me and my mom both cried so hard while my dad was still screaming at us and I ended up throwing up blood 4 times. after that I've been dizzy ever since and keep falling over and Im afraid to tell my parents that because Im afraid they'll get mad at me or somthing. then tonight me, my mom, and my 'dad' went to Walmart, me and my mom went to the car while my dad paid and I started crying about the dog again and when he got back he was screaming at me again and he drove out of the parking lot Really fast and my mom started yelling at him to slow the F down and he didnt listen and almost got into a crash. than he told my mom that he wants a divorce and now I fell like its all my fault and I dont know what to do. and now my keyboard is soaked cuz I cant stop crying. I dont know what to do. how do I deal with my parents.They never fight and it really shocked me for him to say that, It would have been a lot easier if I saw this divorce thing coming but I didnt. someone please help me. also some of this stuff is just copy and pasted from me and my boyfriends chat, just to let you know.
Custody and divorce advice in Nebraska?
I'm planning on leaving my husband of almost four years. We have a child together who is three. I want to leave the state with her, because I know if I stay,and he told me, he will try anything to get her taken away from me even if it means he doesn't get her either. He is not on the birth certificate, but a few years ago in court he claimed that he was her father. I want to know if that is enough that I can't leave the state with her and if I have to file for divorce and custody before I leave. He has been arrested before for domestic abuse yes I know it was stupid that I stayed with him so I don't know if I can talk to an attorney and have his past of violent behavior and my child and my safety on the line be enough to let us leave. I don't want to go to a domestic violence shelter because I don't want to put my child in an unfamiliar place before we leave the state hopefully . Any advice?
Anyone have any divorce advice?
I don't mean assets or lawyers etc... I mean, emotionally, mentally, financially, all that part of it I'm going through a divorce, and I have 3 young kids ages 4 1 2, almost 3, and 2 mo old . Don't judge me for getting a divorce, I tried everything to make it work, we got Pastoral counselling... etc. and he betrayed me so badly It wasn't 'just an affair' that there was no getting past it. SO WHAT's NEXT ??? Is there any chance for feeling normal again? Any good advice that helped you?
A little divorce advice please!!!?
This is a re post Im in need of some more advice from some insightful peopleSo my husband of 8 years and I are separating. I want this for so many reasons like his temper and his inability to help out with our children. Among other things he is sneaky, boring and I have just outgrown him all together. Plus I have trust issues do to his past indiscretions. Well now that we are doing this Im starting to worry. I afraid of the emotional ride this is going to take me on as well as the finances and single parenting. He is moving out today and now I no this is happening. Im feeling so weird emotionally about him. I can't stand to be with him but I don't want him with anyone else. Plus I'm worried about his stability since we shared so much. We shared a car so How will he get to work, where will he live and how will afford to live once child support eats most of his check. What about visitation for the kids? Then for me, when he is gone I can't afford all the bills my myself and child support still won't be enough to afford them all. My car needs a major repair, I have to hire an attorney and we have my daughters trip to Disney world for her birthday coming up. Ugh I don't know what to do or where to start Im starting to think that although Im unhappy is there a more convenient for me to end things knowing we will both have to restart our lives
Looking for divorce advice?
Hello All, I need some advice. My boyfriend got forcibly married few years ago due to family pressure.We want to get married now. His wife is not giving him divorce. She knows everything but still does not want to divorce him. He has always been nice to her and has also assured her on her future. Is there any possibility or ray of hope for divorce from her? We both truly love each other and want to spend our lives together. Please advice.
Divorce advice for men ?
I badly need divorce advice for men to win her I mean, it's not fair, I have bought 1 apartment, 1 house and 1 car during our 3 years marriage and now she wants half. She is a lot younger than me, damn it I should have known she was in just for the money. Any advice will be appreciated. Thanks God we don't have any kids.
I wish my parents would just get divorced, advice needed please!?
Okay, so I'm 16 and I'll be a Junior in High school this school year. So my parents have been together for 11 years. My Dad adopted me when he married my mom. So my relationship with my " Dad" has never been that good. He always says how i refused to obey him and all that crap when i was 5 or 6, and I'm like seriously, the minute i met you, you seemed to want me to treat you as my father and act like I've had a stable life...when I hadn't. He doesn't get that. So my parents always fight, its so dumb, and sometimes its because they don't agree on how one of us my siblings gets treated, or punished or whatever. Like my brother is a huge instigator and when he doesn't quit i try to get him to stop and then i get yelled at and told to handle it by my Dad. When my brother acts like a freakin jerk off sometimes. And then my Dad goes as far as telling me I'm a " pretend christian" and " i hate my family" and " ive never been happy" and how " i always try to mess up the family and the marriage" . When in reality I'm not the one who's accused my mother of cheating and then threw a freakin yogurt at her " for her yeast infection" wtf is that about. My Mom tells him shes had enough and she deserves to be happy and all that, but then the n ext day my dad sweetens her up and all that and then its like that big blow up never even happened. But then a few weeks later it happens again, my dad refuses to go to a counselor and even a pastor for marriage help, and i feel everyone would be happier if they weren't together. Plus i've even told my mom this i don't see any affection from any of them to each other anymore. My Mom wanted a 10 year anniversary ring and then my Dad makes a big stink about that....it just isn't working and sometimes it gets physical and I cant do anything...i mean whats gonna happen to the 3 other kids in the house when i'm 18 and gone? What should i do? I can't really talk to my dad about this because it'll turn into something else and if i go to mom and she tells my dad i said something they'll just cause more trouble...
Marriage Problems after 8 months maybe divorce, advice please?
We got married about 8 months ago. Recently she told me that she was unhappy with our marriage. It sort came out of nowhere, and caught me by surprise. She feels like I'm not attracted to her enough, and that we don't have a lot in common. She also has started hanging out with her work friends a lot. In fact this conversation happened the night after she had gone out with them for the first time. The thing is I've really helped this girl with whatever is shes wanted to do, but it's never been good enough. I feel like she always is looking at it like the " grass is greener." I know I love her, but i admit I am not as willing to deal with her whining and unhappiness as much as I used to be. Lately I tend to agree we don't have much in common. I have a lot of hobbies, but she has no interest in any of them. She often says that I never want to do the things she wants to, but she never really wants to do much of anything unless I make a plan for it. When we talk now it is very awkward, and i find myself having little or nothing to say to her. I can do the small talk till the cows come home, but this my wife I feel like it should be deeper. The thing is she kind of wants to separate, and I'm actually not that broken up about it. I feel like my life would be so much simpler, and less stressful without her. I think she feels the same way also, but we both still love each other just maybe not enough. I said we should go to a marriage councilor, and she'll go so long as I found one and set it up. I worry this girl has may just not be the one, any advice would be great.
19 and getting divorced? advice please?
Soooo let me put this in a nutshell for you guys. I'm 19 and my husband is 22. We've been married for 6 months but then my husband left me he's been gone for 11 days and counting. He left to think if this is really what he wants but while he was staying at his moms he's been talking to another girl, kissing her, etc. And he says he has feelings for her. Well last night he finally told me his decision and he said he's not in love with me anymore, it wouldn't be fair to stay with me when he has feelings for someone else, basically that he wants to go our separate ways. I had a panic attack when he left....it was just bad. So later last night I go to his work to bring him his mail and we end up talking and he said he actually does love me and wishes things could get back to the way they were but he doesn't know if that can happen. He's so confusing and he goes back and forth with his feelings. We've been together scince my freshman year of high school and I just can't let him go. I really can't. I know he loves me. He has to. I think he just says that he doesn't so he feels better about cheating on me. What do you think?I told him to give me 2 weeks to show him that I've changed my attitude and ways this is what pushed him away in the first place and if he doesn't see improvements then ill move out and we will legally separate for a few months, then come back and talk about divorce.What's your views, opinions, and takes on this? Please be honest.
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