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Does couples counseling really work?
i was with a guy for around 3 years on and off and i still love him and he still loves me but we fought all the time and about stupid things that shouldn't even matter and we want to make it work but we don't know how to work everything out.. so how can we work thorough it all...
How many of you went thru couples counseling before getting married?
Ive been thinking about this becasue of my bf and I history. We have deep issues we need to address and a complicated history. Sometimes things come up and we are in a tizzy, but then things settle down. There is still alot of anger and hurt on his end, yet he says he has forgiven me, and sometimes I feel like he is still angry for what I did to him long ago, yet neither one of us wants to leave the other, we are dead set on sticking together. Im thinking about suggesting counseling but dont know if he would agree to it. Underneath the hurt and anger we love each other and want it to work. How do I bring up counseling without making him get defensive?
Is there free couples counseling anywhere in NYC?
Looking for some counseling for me and my significan't other
Free couples counseling?
Do you know of any free couples counseling in Melbourne, fl? It's for my boyfriend and I of a year. If you could help, I'd be very grateful Thanks
Would couples counseling help?
There's no basic version of whats wrong, so here's a link to another question i've asked uk.answers.yahoo.com question index?qid 20101020104320AA583X3& r w Do you think couples counseling will help us talk to each other? Also if you have any idea's for answering that question can you answer it? I know this is technically solicitation, but PLEASE don't report me, we need help.
3 days of silence, couples counseling?
My boyfriend and I have been arguing lately and in the middle of our last argument he said he wanted to stop talking to me for 3 days. Apparently he read it on some couples counseling website. He says, whether I want to or not, he's doing it. And if it's that big of a deal to me, I might be obsessed with him. Does that even make sense? Has anyone ever heard of this? I think we need communication, he thinks the complete opposite.
Should me and my boyfriend take some time or go to couples counseling?
me and my bf are turning a year on march 13, but i feel that are relationship has grown apart.. he is a really good guy and he would give me the world if he could.. but we just don't understand each other.. our relationship has been fight after fights... i feel like his trying to control me nd i just cant take it.. i care for him and don't wanna loose him, but im not sure staying together is the answer??????? can any one help
I need serious help, cannot afford couples counseling?
My boyfriend and I have been together almost 5 years and I love him dearly, but for some time now I have had no interest in sex at all, particularly with him. I ve always considered myself to be a very sexual person, in relationships or out of them, and in the beginning of our relationship things were very hot and heavy. I've lost most sexual urges and developed what amounts to revulsion for my boyfriend physically. I have no idea why, he s a very attractive man, I love him, and I want to want to have sex, but I can t seem to. I can think of nothing, medications or dramatic lifestyle changes that could have caused this, but it is putting a strain on our relationship and causing my to reassess my self image a little negatively. Why could this be happening?This started happening about 2 years ago. I don't even feel like being affectionate, and it kind of annoys me when he's affectionate. I have no idea why. I love him and I find him very attractive.I need some serious help.
This is for the couples that had been through marriage/couples counseling.?
My husband and I are been going trough some problems so we are thinking of going to marriage counseling. And I would like to know what was the outcome for you guys that been or are attending marriage couple counseling. Please only answer if you do have experience on counseling. And be respectful. Thank you for your time.
Bf asked to go to couples counseling, I started going myself, now he's gone no contact?
BF and I are both in our 40s. I'm divorced with two kids, he's never been married. We've been dating almost a year and a half, talked of a future together and were very serious. We have been fighting in a cycle of about every 2 3 weeks. Basically, things would be very good and he would pull back or be non committal about plans. That would stem some kind of abandonment issues in me, and I'd react by further pulling back. We'd go a couple days not talking and then we'd talk about it and be closer than before. This pattern has gone on too many times and was wearing us both down. He suggested about 6 weeks ago we go to counseling. In the context he said it, I wasn't ready to go with him because I felt like he wasn't taking any responsibility for his contributing to this cycle and he just wanted someone to tell me it was all my fault. Anyway, 3 weeks ago we had a fight same basic dance , and I was so upset about it, I called my employee assistance program and started seeing a therapist and read a couple of books on high conflict relationships and the linkage between thoughts and feelings. The therapist asked if he would come in, which I let him know after one of my sessions. I let him know I was finding it really helpful in identifying what was behind my abandonment reactions and I felt like I was understanding things so much better.He went home to spend the holidays with his family, that was 8 days ago. The night before he left, we talked heated about resentment we were both feeling. I said I wasn't sure once there is resentment if there's anything that can be done. I asked him if he thought we should keep talking, take a break to let the resentment subside, or walk away. It felt like he was blaming me for everything and not taking any responsibility for triggering though his actions, what was causing my responses. He would basically try to get up and leave any time I would say anything that inferred it was both of us who needed to work on our issues and it wasn't one sided. He eventually left in a huff. Two days ago, I had heard nothing from him in the 6 days he'd been gone and sent him a happy thanksgiving text, said I hoped he was enjoying his visit with his family, that the therapist asked if he would go with me and I looked forward to seeing him when he got back. I received NO response and either later that day or the next day he unfriended me on facebook yes, i find that immature . So, any thoughts? I don't get why now that I'm seeing a therapist and extended it that she wanted to know if he would come in, he seems to want nothing to do with it. It was HIS idea 6 weeks ago.This is literally the single thing we have issue with. Outside of this, we have a strong relationship, supportive, have fun together, enjoy the same things, make each other laugh. That's why we have something worth saving, but if this issue can't be resolved, we'll both walk away. Maybe that's his decision. Why he wouldn't at least say so and just unfriend me in such a high school way is perplexing.
How do they bill for couples counseling if only one person has insurance?
Can couples counseling make a couple's relationship worse?
My fiance and I are considering couples counseling. We basically have been fighting all the time for months now. He wants to stay in and play video games and watch TV on all free time and I would like to go out more often with him, together, doing something different together. That is the main problem as well as being able to communicate with one another without getting overly emotional. Can counseling make things worse someway? Like if I tell the counselor what bothers me about him, the counselor will probably tell my fiance what I said and it will make him angry. That's my concern. My fiance is worried that the counselor " may say something like we shouldn't be together" . Is that possible too? Thank you
Question regarding couples counseling?
My boyfriend has cheated on me multiple times in the past and now I have major trust issues with him, and he knows it will take a long time before I will ever forgive him. He has changed greatly and the situation between us now is quite fine but there is place for improvement when it comes to understanding and trust esp when it comes to me. Due to my trust issues I am constantly stressed and I am very rarely ever able to rest mentally which has resulted in great tiredness and relapses of depression. Could couples counseling work? What's your personal experience with couples counseling?
Should my sons mother & I try couples counseling?
We have been together off & on since like 96. We have been steady for last 8yrs. We split up a year ago, because we weren't getting along very well & I feel our relationship became complacent, and stale. And a guy from her past messages her & convinced her to move out and get an apartment w him. The guy has a ton of problems a while different conversation and I refused to have my son around him. Well in the last year we have talked off and on & I have tried to convince her to at least give it an honest shot for the sake of our son & because we have a wonderful past together, we just went into a funk & she gave up rather than try. But now we are both thinking about going to a relationship coach to try and salvage our relationship. I am 100 % committed & willing. Our biggest problem I feel is we both took each other for granted, I just realized it sooner & made changes in myself to improve both our relationship and myself. I guess my question is, can relationship or couples counseling really help?
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