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Need some college relationship advice?!!! 10 points........?
I'm in college, this guy is 2 years younger than me also at my college. We made out alot at a party last semester, both were drinking a little . And at the end of the party, we were sitting together and he was holding my hand and stuff, walked me to my car when my ride left. We exchange numbers on fb a week later, and he asks me to go to his bros bball game but i was stressed with homework but we hangout later and watch tv. nothing happens, but we hug at the end of the night. next weekend, we meet at another party drinking a little dance and makeout, go back to his place, he holds my hand as we walk, do some stuff, but no sex and i go home. we keep in touch a little, but i cant tell if hes only interested in physical stuff and sex or an actual relationship. we run track together, so we kind of see eachother throughout the week. I just think since he wanted me to go to see his brother play bball and has hungout with me not at a party and we usually keep in touch, he seems like he's interested. should i be upfront with him if we hangout again or just kinda see where it goes without partying and drinking

College relationship advice...?
okay well this is an unusual situation. but in a nut shell ive been on and off with this guy for about 9 months, im a senior in highschool, and he is a freshman in college. he's kind of an awkward guy, so i don't worry too much about other girls, but none the less he is still a guy in a frat.... but recently we like took it to the next level...if you know what i mean... and then he like completely changed. usually he would talk to me almost everyday. but now he just doesn't talk to me at all, unless i initiate the conversation and its killing me. this has happened before hence the on and offness of the relationship. i just can't keep doing this but for now... i don't want a lecture on how dumb it is to date a guy in college, because trust me i know it is...but sometimes you can't help it.how do i get him back in my life?and maybe i should include that i don't hate initiating conversations with him first, because i don't want to bother him. when i do talk to him it isn't to nag him.

College relationship advice?
I am in a relationship, but I am in college and my gf is a Senior in high school 2 hours away. She says she misses me and things have been rough since I have been here. She says that she wants a break when I am away as in shes allowed to see other people but when I come home to visit we are back together. I dont really know how to feel about it. I have not cheated on her but her suggesting this breaks my heart because I dont want her seeing other people.She is not going away to college. What should I do?

College relationship advice?
Ok, so I met a guy and we hit it off. He was a southern gentleman that had high ambitions in life. He comes from a good family and has a close family.I started talking over FB with him and one night he invited me over. I had just come from a party and one thing led to another we did everything but sex. Now I'm unsure if I'll be anything but a friend with benefits or a f buddy. How do I test the waters??

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I dated this girl that was a year younger than me in high school. Once I graduated I went to a community college for 2 semesters than applied to the same school as her so we could be together. We were always good at balancing time spent with friends and each other so we thought it was a good idea. Unfortunately we broke up at the beginning of the spring semester our first year there. It came out of nowhere and was unexpected. We had been together for 3 years and she felt that she needed to be single and experience things on her own. I took this as she just wanted to be a slut and have sex with whoever she wanted. Needless to say it was a very rough break up and I didn't handle it well. Its been over a year now and we haven't spoken in months. I can't honestly say I'm over her though. I've dated other girls briefly but always broken them off because I wasn't into it. She is currently dating someone else now and he is this drug addict thats doesn't do anything with his life except check himself in and out of rehab. I can't help but feel like this girl is the one that got away. Am I putting this girl on a pedestal and thinking she is the one and only because it was my first love? Or should I try and contact her and get to know her again and see how things go? Has anyone been in a similar situation? Any advice would be appreciated.

College relationship advice please?
Ok so this Fall I will be attending UT and my boyfriend of over a year will be attending A& M .The distance between the two is about a 90 min car ride. He is bringing a car, I am not and he is coming Fri Sun for the weekends. I want to transfer to A& M next Fall b c it would be so much easier to have that balance between friends and a boyfriend, and we need each other. We are in love, yes we are young, but somethings just happen. Is it a bad idea to transfer?? I mean I am giving it one year at UT so if we work it's worth it right?

College relationship advice?
I am in a relationship, but I am in college and my gf is a Senior in high school 2 hours away. She says she misses me and things have been rough since I have been here. She says that she wants a break when I am away as in shes allowed to see other people but when I come home to visit we are back together. I dont really know how to feel about it. I have not cheated on her but her suggesting this breaks my heart because I dont want her seeing other people. What should I do?

College relationship advice?
Okay, first off i feel a little odd asking this here but here it goes.I'm 20 years old in college. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 2 years. The past two years we've spent all day everyday together. we slept in the same bed together, but only once in a while We both lived in the dorms, we had the same friends, and we both agreed it was probably to much time, but we still made it work.This year, we got apartments on different sides of the town, and we both got more involved in on campus activities. Its hard going from seeing each other breakfast lunch and dinner, to weekends and once or twice a week. Lately we have been fighting more. Personally i like to sleep with him, but he refuses a lot because he says he cant sleep with me in the bed with him. I already know his parents and family because i visit for holidays and stuff, but for some reason, when he goes home for the weekends he doesn't invite me to come with. I enjoy becoming close to the family, but he doesn't see the point of bringing me home if its just a weekend.I've talked to him many times about this, and it doesn't seem to be going anywhere.I know he isn't cheating on me or anything, but should i be concerned that this isn't the forever we always talked about? Isn't it normal to start sleeping together more regularly, and meeting the family and stuff?any advice ill be happy to hear.

College relationship advice????????? I need help drastically!!!!!?
Okay well I've noticed that a lot of kids are starting to get relationships starting on campus and they are just kind of the " seeds" or a relationship. I notice that they spend a lot of time together, go to my campus's cafe together, and go to like the weight room together. I guess my biggest question is, is how they managed to get into this situation? I mean I know what I just said sounded negative but I view it as an overall positive thing and something that I want to get into. I've already had a relationship, but that blew apart because of problems with her previous boyfriends and her expecting me to act the same way, and thus being scared of me. they beat her I mean I think my biggest question is, is who should I try to ask to do that kind of stuff with? I know that it normally starts with one of them asking the other if they want to go down to the cafe to get a smoothie or something but I don't know what to do or who to ask. Almost all my friends that are girls are already doing this with some other guy so I'm confused as shit. I just kind of am tired of being alone as much as I am. My group of friends are really bad at communicating when they are hanging out and shit, and I'm relatively new to the group so I don't get all the info and end up being by myself a lot. This is really bugging me and I also want to get into another relationship to erase my past one from my mind. Thanks in advance for answering

College Relationship advice help please.......?
I am a 20 year old student of engineering.My problem will most probably seem stupid. I am away from my home my university is 800 miles away from my home .I have a female friend here in college whom I like very much. We are have been good friends but I seem to think about her a lot. I am scared if I am falling in love with her. She cute and nice and we both seem to enjoy each others company. We do presentations together, have lunch together, play basketball together and bla....blaa......I am just scared to fall in love with her. Our majors are different. I am in Computer Technology and she is in Food Tech This means from next year we will be in different classes . I am scared if my parents will accept her in future.My grades too were affected. May be I just think of her a lot. I am finding it difficult to avoid her. Even when I do so, I just keep thinking about her. This is crazy and stupid. And I do realise that. But I just can't find a way to help myself. Please advise me how can I get back to normal and get back to my studies as before. I want to be a good student just as before and not get into any relationships at my current age.No rude replies please. Thank you for your opinions. Good day to all.

College relationship advice. Please Help Me.?
I am a sensible girl who needs help on an issue that I cannot resolve. The first day of my college term, I exchanged glances with this boy. We made small talk, barely , I even showed some obvious interest that I was into him by asking him questions the next few days. He seems shy. We don t sit by eachother, so we stopped talking, and I steped back, not making eye contact for a few days because he stopped showing signs of interest in a way, and never brings up a conversation. He doesn t try and sit by me at all. But, he keeps making constant eye contact, as do I with him as we sit in our groups. Yesterday, he looked directly at me before going out the door. I even got desperate and wore a fabulous outfit. All he did? was just stare at me with an open mouth and wide eyes. I knew he would like it . . These mixed signals are KILLING me. I don t know what to do, or if I should just let it go, if he is not interested. I would like some help please. I really am attracted to him, and I have a feeling, maybe he is too.