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Christian Relationship advice - how do I move on?
A little over a year ago, 1st May to be precise, I met a wonderful man and fell for him hard at my friend's wedding in the USA. In my gut, I knew it was a disaster waiting to happen but my heart refused to listen. We wanted the same things in life and seemed to have goals that we could both work toward or would be happy to support each other with. One issue I was from Britain, he was from the USA. After four months friendship, feelings on both side turned to love. We decided that we could commit to a long distance relationship temporarily, I made the decision that I would try to move to the USA. However, when we were together, things just never worked out. The pressure from him to move to the USA was immense. He couldn't understand why I just couldn't stay the legal red tape was over his head. I had tension from his family they were concerned about our relationship, everything from me being 2 years old, my faithfulness, my personal hygiene, my beliefs and my standards of dress. It caused a lot of friction. I must admit then I became a little paranoid myself because of all the hoops I was being to asked to jump through. This wasn't helping the situation I found myself in the UK, I was made redundant from my job, faced finanical stress and one of my family members was treated for cancer. Frankly, it was a very bleak period. Despite this, I went to visit him for Christmas. I was so excited to see him but yet he didn't seem as happy to see me at all. In fact, the whole visit was spent having fights and bitter discussions. A lot of the bitterness came from the fact we are both christian we slipped up and committed sin. I learn from friends, this is happened before and as soon as it happens he dumps the girl. In my case, I wasn't completely guiltless but, since my baspism I had not been involved in any relationship because I had recommitted myself to God and was waiting for marriage. Looking back to it, it seemed as if he was looking for a cause to destroy our relationship. Days before my birthday, we had a fight a big one where he commented on that our relationship was pointless, and I said well maybe we should just break up then. I refused to talk any further. I never thought we would actually end there.I returned home a few days later absolutely shattered. A lot of bad blood passed between us for about two months afterwards. I pretty much tried everything to get him to talk about our relationship. There was unresolved things, but he didn't want to know. He politely referred to me a psycho to a mutual friend of ours. Its been two months now since I ceased all contact. I now have a new job, moved to a new city, renewed my faith and admitted my guilt to God, and restarted my life. Things are good most days. I am still stuck in a rut though. I have had a lot of advice from friends pointless advice. I really want to move on in my life. To make my heart focus more on its commitments to God and build myself stronger. I became frustrated with myself, when I realise I have spent hours thinking about him for no reason. He is in a new relationship now two months after ours ended and is very happy I have learnt. I would appreciate any advice anyone could offer to help me move on...

Any Christian relationship advice?
My boyfriend is a 30 year old janitor and I am a 25 year old Grad Student who is going to Law School in 10 months. He lives with his parents and said he will not leave until he finds a sugar mama. He said he wants to break up until I become a lawyer, then he will marry me and retire to become a stay at home dad. He doesn't want to be with me now because he is ashamed to defy his friends and family who hate me. I am not happy with our relationship but I love him so much. I was hoping for some advice and possibly some dating advice from the bible.

Hi, Christian relationship advice please???!!!?
Hi, there's this guy i met in college last year & he moved back to Jersey and I'm still in Pa. We talked on & off for a year. Over the summer he started calling me every day for a mo. and now just stopped. He was supposed to call a wk ago but did not. He does this alot, tho i spoke to him about it. He has told me that he likes me but because of a past relationship he finds it hard to trust females.I don't think he realizes how bad he hurt my feelings by basically lying to me. I'm the type who is always on guard so for me to put myself out there to actually try to get to know someone & let them in was BIG. I need help on how to forgive him & get over this because I'm a big ball of confusion & hurt right now.Recently, I found out that he was trying to meet & talk to other hoochies that don't respect themselves. I just wanna continue to focus on my singing career & not let this ONE guy prevent me from trusting anymore.Do any of you have any helpful advice for me?

Any helpful Christian relationship advice for me???
Hi, there's this guy i met in college last year & he moved back to Jersey and I'm still in Pa. We talked on & off for a year. Over the summer he started calling me every day for a mo. and now just stopped. He was supposed to call a wk ago but did not. He does this alot, tho i spoke to him about it. He has told me that he likes me but because of a past relationship he finds it hard to trust females.I don't think he realizes how bad he hurt my feelings by basically lying to me. I'm the type who is always on guard so for me to put myself out there to actually try to get to know someone & let them in was BIG. I need help on how to forgive him & get over this because I'm a big ball of confusion & hurt right now.Recently, I found out that he was trying to meet & talk to other hoochies that don't respect themselves. I just wanna continue to focus on my singing career & not let this ONE guy prevent me from trusting anymore.Do any of you have any helpful advice for me?

Christian relationship advice!!!
Ok, well am a Christian 19 year old and well am really shy with girls I like specially when they are beautiful, I have known of girls that like me but I noticed that all were not really who they said they were, some did things that were against God, and well never met anyone worth actually going after, but now there is a girl that is Christian, not only that but just thinking of her makes me feel something I have never felt a since of compleness, joy, and peace all together, the only thing is that she is my best friends sister, one told me that I am one of the only people that he would allow his sister date, the other one has told me many good things about her, to me it felt like he was triying to encurage me, and added this to the sentence " the guy that wants to date my sister has to go threw three people, him self, his brother, and ocourse my dad" he said it in good way I thought it was meant for me, like a clue. I have a good relationship with her parents they are always happy to see me and her dad has told me that I am welcomed in their house any time, he jokes around with me and her mom is ready nice to me.now the thing is that I can't tell if she feals the same as me, she is also shy, the only thing I have noticed that are a is that she laughs at my lame jokes, the time we have talked she kept replying and went on to ask me questions, every time his brother my bestfriend tells asks her that we are going to go see a movie she has always gone. Now the are we don't talk very much, when we are all hanging out she keeps her distance but does not back off if I get a little closer to her, she avoids eye contact with me.Now heres what I need to do1st tell her brothers that I like her. And see if they can help out.2nd see if she likes me or not.3rd if she does the ask her dad if it is ok with him and ask her out.so how can I do this? Please give me some Christian way to do this.Ps. There is this concert in universals studios called " Rock the universe" and since she really likes the band called " Skillet" she ask her brother for a ticket for her birthdate so they both have tickets, I mentioned this to her other brother and told him that I was not sure that I wanted to go, and he told me that he would get me ticket. but I want to see if am even across her mind before deciding to go.Please help me make the right and Christian desision, am going to her house today.thank you all.

Christians: Relationship advice?
So... here we go.I am the leader of a Bible Study at my local high school, and I've spoken to my girls many times about saving themselves for marriage and waiting for the right guy, God's guy, to come along. However, for these last few months I've become closer and closer friends with one of the guys in the club. He's a Christian, incredibly smart, friendly, fun loving, musically talented and cute in an awkward way. He's also single, despite having gone with a non christian friend of ours to Junior Prom.Another problem is that he's such a brainiac that even though he hasn't made up his mind what he wants to do with his life, there is no way he could be anything but a doctor or lawyer or professor or something. And since I'm seriously, seriously considering going into full time ministry, our lives don't appear to be going in the same directions.So basically, I don't want to be a hypocrite and I don't want to waste my time, but I really do like him and want to get to know him better. I don't even know how I should interact with him for the mean time, and it's getting really awkward.Any advice?Eurgh... I really don't have anyone like that, or even an accountability partner. I know that's a bad thing, but I've been moving around places my entire life and I don't think I can really ask anyone to take that kind of role in my life, or know them well enough to do that...

Godly Christian relationship advice needed?
i'm in a relationship and sorta not sure what to do. i care about this guy and dont' wanna lose or hurt him. but he has a way to go with God before he's in a relationship, i can see that, he needs to grow more spiritually. also i have my fears of being used or played and i would like to not be in this relationship so that i can try moving on sorta to see if the way i feel for him is just cuz he's my only option being so that i'm in a relationship with him. i know i dont make much or any sense but i'm really confused and would really appriciate any friendly advice. i'm to the point i don't know what to do and i want the Lord's will but can't seem to find it oh but this guy tells me he doens'ty wanna lose me adn he hasn't said he needs to break up, it's me with the questions. he actually insists that he's fine...