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Question: Will he change his mind about our breakup?

(Posted by: on 2012-02-03 07:09:08)

My boyfriend just split up with me, he says he doesn't want to be in a relationship. We have been together for 5 months and he said there was nothing he doesn't like about me, but he has 2 kids and he works a lot of hours. He got ill a couple of weeks ago and he thinks it's because he has to much going on. His mates at work don't understand why he is splitting up with me. He says his head is all messed up at the minute, and he feels guilty about not seeing his kids very much. We split on good terms there was no shouting or anything. I love him loads and am hurting a lot. Do you think he will change his mind or should I move on?

Posted by: rne02 on 2012-02-03, 07:09:38

Will he change his mind about our breakup? Maybe.

Posted by: deborah g on 2012-02-03, 07:11:34

I would move on. If he loved you, he'd make it work.

Posted by: ? on 2012-02-03, 07:33:54

Honestly, let him go... he's doing you a big favor. I think he made up his mind, and if he has kids he knows he can't keep going back and forth. I think you should move on and be glad you met someone that is honest with you.

Posted by: Mai C on 2012-02-04, 08:55:30

If you have no children yourself, then it was a wrong relationship in the first place. Its a blessing that he split with you. I would say you need to look for a man who is in the same circumstances as you.