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Dealing with break up advice?
i really care about this girl, but today i decided to call it quits, i believe i was extremely good boyfriend to her but she simply lost interest in our relationship just because of her personality. I tried to keep it together but it got to the point where it was obvious she was faking her emotions. Now i still care about her but she was like an addiction, i realized it was getting to far. I will try to ignore her just because it is so hard to let her go Should I? should i talk to her on chat? should i talk to my friends about this, right now i am just trying to completely forget about this. we dated for a year and 7 months

(Girls only) break up advice?
Okay so my girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 months now. We are freshmen in highschool. And i just don't feel the same way about her as she does to me. It's not like we rushed into it or anything, I just don't feel the connection anymore. I really want to keep her as a close friend because I really care about her and like her but not on a relationship dating level. I know it's going to hurt her which kills me but I don't want things to progress when I'm not feeling the same way as her. Any advice on how to tell her how I feel and or how to break up or take a break would be appreciated.

I need some break up advice with moving on?
I dated this guy for 2 years. Best relationship I have ever been in. The break up was because of another girl but he ended terms with her. Now he is after another girl and we are about to graduate in 30 days. I think its crazy of him to go after an underclassmen when we are about to graduate. Anyways, I still love him and always think about him. We don't talk anymore cause it was hard for us to be friends. Anyways.. Any advice? I know its best that I move on cause his actions have been pathetic. I am going off to college in a couple months. Our breakup was early march and I thought I would be over it by now but he still is on my mind. Its hard for us to not see eachother cause we have the same group of friends if that makes sense. I just need help moving on. He seems to move easily from girl to girl and shows no emotion. I feel I get the short end of the stick and I get to endure all the pain. I just want to be happy again. Hopeless.

Online relationship break up advice?
Okay so I met this guy online and we are both 18 and we started talking you know, and then suddenly things started happening if you know what I mean. Well the relationship is good, we have some what in common but it's mainly all about the sexual matters. Now he's saying he loves me even after only a week and he keeps wanting me for sex or cyber sex doesn't matter, and I'm getting sick of it. I have talked to him about our relationship and that it is all mainly about the physical parts, but I don't want that anymore. He says that we are perfect for each other and I'm kinda getting tired from it. Hes a good guy but I don't know how to break it to him and say that's it over because it don't have feelings for him like that anymore. I know I probably sound harsh but I can't help the way I feel. So any advice?

Any post break up advice?
I broke up with her 2 months ago. I'm 22 and she's 18 yes I know Anyways, She added me on Facebook after not speaking for nearly 2 months. I didn't respond to the request and she sent me a message saying ..." isn't it weird reading our old messages?" Me " never did. Lol" Her " well I was bored so I did. I heard you asked my friend about me?" Me " I'm sorry to disappoint you but I haven't talked to your friend in over a month." Her " hah The real reason I messaged you was to see if you'd accept my request." ...she blocked me after that. she also changed her profile pic in the middle of our convo to her and her new bf making out ...Will she contact me again?What should I do? I need an outsider perspective

Breaking up... advice please?
ok so i am engaged to this girls who ive know for about 4 years, been together for one and a half. and we have been engaged for about 4 months. but she said " either we get married this summer or i can settle for another guy. either you make me happy now or ill find someone i dont have to wait for." ???? so then red alert went off and now i am faced with the crushing decision, i know that this is not how a relationship is supposed to be. I am celebrating valentines day with my mom this weekend shes recently divorced so i wanted to do something for her and supposed to go see my gf next weekend. She came home knowing i had plans and she keeps saying i put everyone before her and that i dont appreciate her. She cusses out my mom nobody talk about my mom she is very controlling doesnt realize it even when i explain and if i do break up with her all shes going to say is " oh i said all that stuff when i was angry i didnt mean it. everyone says stuff like that when there angry" what do i say to that? she once said i was Gods gift to her...but i wouldnt treat Gods gift like that jagz i have already tried and she keeps saying ill change ill change but reverts back within weeks

I need sincere help with my break up. Advice?
My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me tonight. We had a dinner and we were kind of tense. He later said our relationship has no love anymore, and we fight too much. Everytime we fight it is usually his fault 95 % of the time. He just blocks me out and doesn't talk. I just lost a big part of my life. We did everything together and everything I have pretty much reminds me of him. I didn't really have anyone to call when we broke up because he is my best friend. I don't know what to do and I feel like I am already going crazy. Any advice is greatly appreciated. I am so devastated.Thanks.

Break up advice needed?
My boyfriend recently broke up with me, then he called Tuesday night and had a bit of a go saying he was jealous that I was talking to another boy who is just a friend. I got a little frustrated and asked him if he really had what he wanted. He said no, because I don't have you. After he's said this, I've tried to ask him about it, but he just won't explain himself and keeps ignoring me. What do I do?

After three years is it time to break up? Advice please?
Me and my boyfriend just moved to Toronto, Are problems started before that, but now its to the point things are just a lot worse and I don't know what to do anymore or if there is anything worth doing, I don't want to believe breaking up is an answer but since things have been getting progressively I now have my doubts. It's like everything thing I say or do I get yelled at. Were both looking for jobs but were not flat broke or anything we have some money to last us. I don't think personally money is the problem per say, I think its more him finding a job. It was easier for him to find warehouse work in Alberta, he usually got hired right on the spot but Toronto its more interviews and he gets so stressed and angry. Honestly there is nothing really dramadic happening, its just he is mentally abusing me in the most horrible ways by calling me names, telling me to go die and leaving crude notes and only to say sorry when he has calmed down. I don't want to leave him expecally in Toronto even though I have family here I helped him come because he wanted to go to his Film school. Hes 19 and im 17 we have been dating for three years and I do love him so much but all the name callings and arguing over something as small as getting lost down the wrong block, its starting to hurt and Ive tried talking to him , he says sorry than does it the next day or even hour. Im already stressed with the job interviews im having and so should he so all this fighting is stupid but its getting more serious, as of right now we got in an arguement when I walked in the kitchener and the counter was covered in trash and food and i only cleaned the kitchene an hour ago. I ask him if he could wipe it down. No yelling, no attitude nothing. He was all IM NOT DOING THIS NOW YOU F troll ....and it goes on he ends up going out for a smoke and he leaves me a note saying how he hates me...........I dont know why Im staying, I need strength I know this is long but bare with me, I appreciate answers.

Break up advice? Need some help. 3 years together. ?
I was with my ex boyfriend for 3 years. We recently broke up. His family is interfering a lot. They treat him like a child. They didn't even let him talk to me, to break up with me in person. He told me that he loves me but that he's not IN love with me. And I agree. That is how I feel too. He said we can make it work in the furture. Right now I'm just doing me. But I think about if I should try to talk to him or when I should talk to him? I am 18 he's 21. I'm in HS still. And it was an abusive relationship. Physical and mental. But I love him. I just wonder what I should do. How long i should wait to try to talk to him. At least as a friend. Its been a month since we broke up. Thank you.

Relationship/Breaking up Advice?
me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 months.we've had out ups and downs, and we gave each other alot in the relationship. in the start he was confused about his feelings for me, and it hurt me when he told me.now im confused about my feelings for him, it hurt me alot so i choose not to tell him.i just dont know, hes a good boyfriend most of the time, and i care for him .but i just have this feeling he still is confused about his feelings, and it still hurts. so i find myself pushing him away.i dont know if i should leave or not.. any advice ?

Need Mature break up Advice?
OK so me and my ex had been together for almost 2 years. It would be 2 years this August. When we first met, we met online. I wasn't looking to meet anyone but I did, so we talked texted and decided to start dating. We didn't meet until another 2 months because I was nervous & he was my first boyfriend. We live about an hr away from each other. Everything was amazing the first year or so, I was 18 when I met him, he was 23. We were very emotionally connected, I mean we talked all the time. It even got to the point were we would fall asleep on the phone together every night. We had some bumpy roads in the begging because I was going out with my friends and hanging out, drinking, yes I am not old enough to... anyways.. he threatened to leave me if I didn't stop. I remember asking myself, Do I really love him? and I did. So I stopped. I stopped going out, I changed completely. He use to be the one calling me 24 7 and such, then it changed.. I took it to far, I made my whole life around him. Then last November, He broke up with me He said I was obsessed and the I was smothering him and that he wanted to end the relationship. Let me mention though, right before he broke up with me in November.on our anniversary in August before the November he broke up with me, He proposed to me, he told me that he loved me and that I was the one and that, he wanted me to have his child.. and I'm telling you I am so in love with him I agreed. This is what I want too.. well that day we made love and didn't hold nothing back. I found out I was pregnant. YAY RIGHT? I told him, and at first he was happy. Then a few days later he changed. He told me that he didn't want the baby anymore, that it was a mistake and if I have this baby, that it was a mistake, he said he loved me and that we just weren't ready. I told him NO, I want my baby. He told me to get an abortion, I refused. I was so stressed out that I ended up having a miscarriage. My heart was broken, I told him. that's when he broke up with me in November. I was a wreck I tell you. He wouldn't answer my calls. I had just lost everything it felt like, from my best friend, my first love, and my baby. I finally stopped calling him. a month passed, my b day passed in December. Then I look at my email, he sent me an email saying happy birthday I hope all is going well for you.. I didn't respond for like 3 days. and when I did, I just TY and have a happy new year. Then in right before Christmas, I called him. It was 3am I don't know what I was thinking and I called him . He said that he was sorry and that he missed me and that he loved me all these things, and I freaking love him. I believed him. So I took him back. Technically after all that I went after him" . Anyways, we are together again and I am still hurt, I try putting it behind me and I do a good job at it. But I have this fear that he is gonna just leave again, leave me hopeless again. So he reassures me that he knows he messed up and that he isn't going anywhere. months go by.. I am still having my issues. We are fighting again. I don't trust him but I love him, and he doesn't understand how he needs to work to gain my trust again. He is just heartless, I am the one calling back to say " Hey look, I'm sorry" lets not argue, he never gives in, and the night before he broke up with me he was like, can I tell you something? I said sure, he said.. It turns me on when you cry. WHAT THE FUCK So... anyways he breaks up with me on may4th of this month, I cant hear him while he is driving, so he calls back and says can you fuckking hear me now?? I was like wow srsly you need to apologize and not act like such a douche, its getting old, He says Seriously I am done with you, lose my number, forget my name, I wish I could just snap my fingers and make the last 2 years disappear, you are a sorry excuse for a woman get out of my life .. I said OK. and I hung up. I am so fucking angry at myself. Like how could I let someone treat me like that? I was never like that I always stood up for myself and always knew my self worth. But with him, I lost it. so. I called him 2 days later, and I said look, I love you when are you gonna see that. he said I love you too I'm sorry he said, I said maybe we rushed back in too quick, lets take baby steps and see were it goes. we agreed and he promised to call the next day. Wee ended up falling asleep on the phone, 2 days passed he never called. I WENT OFF. I sent him an email saying what he was worth, where he could go, and where he could put it I also thanked him for leaving, he did the best thing he could ever do for me. And his reply OK, everything you said was true. IM sorry. I love you. I hope you can forgive me one day REALLY?? I didnt' reply, Its just so hard. Now he is checking my pages on social sites, He is wondering cause I never just was like whatever BYE .I am srsly done. But what if he tries to c.. But what if he tries to call? I am done like no more Like how stupid am I for enduring that BS for that long ? I go to school, I work, I am not an ugly person far from it But even now, I still love him? am I OK? Is there something wrong with me? Part of me hopes that he will change, you know. like the good sides of him, He is a hard worker, has a good job, goes to school.. he is a great listener, well he was. I just.. I need to know that I am not the only person who has fallen so stupid before... I feel 80 % better without him now, I feel like a weight lifted off my chest, I have no regrets. I mean I really tried. He looks at my Skype and Facebook now, He checks up on me. I would usually come crawling back to him, but this time I am done. He made his own decisions, he can live with them, just like I have too.I know its so long, trust me this is the short versions lol.. I want to thank you guys for not judging me, Its good to know that I am not the only one who has lost myself to someone else. I will no longer make someone a priority in my life, when I am only an option in theirs.

Break up advice? Please help.?
I dumped my boyfriend two days ago because I was sick of the way he was treating me, he treated me so bad and my friends have been telling me to dump him for ages and I finally plucked up the courage and left him after an argument. I don't want him back, I don't want anything to do with him, but it feels so weird being away from him now, we were together almost 2 years. I do love him, but he's flirting with other girls all over twitter I just unfollowed him and it's got to me, I thought he'd at least be able to wait a bit before moving on so fast. I'm in pieces, I didn't eat anything yesterday until 5pm then I threw it up. My appetite has just gone, so has my motivation to do anything. I don't want to do anything. I've had a pot noodle today but I feel sick. My mum is making chicken and veg for tea but I just can't stomach it. I'm so sad. Any tips on how to feel better? I just want to get over him. My friends are all busy with school and stuff so they can't see me, I'm unemployed looking very hard for work so I've just been moping round the house watching tv. I'm so sad

Break up advice please? ( Long story though )?
Right well what's happened is .. 3 years ago i met this absolutely beautiful girl called Ashleigh when i moved school , i'd always had a wee thing for her, then i pretty much ended up becoming totally infactuated with her. Only problem was, she was straight and has never been attracted to the same sex and i'm not so straight but one night she told me on msn that she had feelings for me, i thought she was joking and thought absolutely nothing of it. After i left school i stopped seeing her and dated a few other girls. Then just under 2 years ago we started talking alot more and began seeing eachother at night and at the weekends and all my feelings for her suddenly rushed back. we would always have a good few drinks at the weeks either in someones house or outside typical under 18s Then one night when we were all pretty drunk, me and ashleigh ended up kissing. It started being a regular thing when we were drunk then one night she stayed with me alone, i had been drinking but she was stone cold sober and we spent most of the night kissing. Months had passed and one night, i asked her if she was interested in anyone and after alot of persuasion she told me that she still liked me. After that we began a relationship which was kept secret for a good while as she was scared about telling people to this day, even her dad doesn't know The relationship lasted One year and one month and in all honesty, it was the best relationship i've ever been in.. I really fell for her, something which had never happened with any previous girlfriends, and in return, she fell in love with me. We had our ups and downs like anyone else but we always came out stronger in the end. About 7 months into our relationship she started staying with me pretty much every single night. Which was great On the 19th of january this year, 2 days after my birthday.. she told me that she had been thinking alot about her future and she didn't want to be with a girl all her life, she wanted a husband and kids eventually.. i respected that and we mutually ended our relationship because as much as i love her, i want her to be happy. I guess if thats what she wants from her future it's better to end it sooner rather than later. I'm absolutely shattered though, feel as though my whole wee world's just came crashing down. I seriously don't know what to do with myself. We've decided to still be friends as we work together and wouldn't want any awkwardness in work. It's really hard though, if i could then i'd cut off contact with her for a good few months only i'm not willing to give up my job over a breakup. I just feel as though i'm never going to be able to get over her if we continue seeing eachother every day. She's been staying back with her parents the last few days and i packed all her clothes yesterday as she's going to be staying there now. I'm finding it really difficult to sleep properly as i'm so used to her cuddling into me at night it's horrible waking up in the morning without her and i'm constantly thinking about her when she's not around. She says that she still really loves me and she doesn't see herself getting over me anytime soon either but a future with a girl just isn't what she wants It's horrible to think that we're over and she could sleep with whoever she wants now luckily she's not like that but it's something that constantly runs through my mind I don't want anyone else but her, i couldn't see myself with anyone else, she's my whole world & my best friend and i love her so bloody much < 3 she was absolutely perfect to me and still is She totally changed my life, i was drinking heavily every weekend for a few years and since we got together i'd say i've had a drink less than ten times in the last 11 months.. i'm head over heels in love with her but.. how the hell am i going to get over her when she's still a huge part of my life? < 3 ' Any advice given will be appreciated x