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Question: Never though i would be asking relationship advice online but here it goes?

(Posted by: on 2011-11-29 15:18:08)

I have this really pretty girl in the back of my english class that meets mondays wednesdays and fridays. We have had casual conversation, always in a group a few times before class, but she isn't very attached to anyone in the class, and just walks out when it is over, usually texting someone on her phone. When I do have conversation with her though, it is very comfortable, and natural, and I don't feel intimidated at all. I feel like we are on the same social channel and read each other's dynamics really well. I added her on facebook a while ago, and recently started to get really interested so I went to her page, and she doesn't have a boyfriend, and doesn't even have any pictures with any guys. This was shocking to me because it seems like she would be the flirt type, with guys all around her, but instead she just has lots of pictures with her and her friends. I don't really have any anxiety with her, and would approach her if I got the chance, but when we leave class, it is like we are leaving a train and everyone is dedicated to going where they are supposed to be going. We only have like 3 classes left in the semester, and I doubt I'll have anther class with her, and probably not another chance anywhere unless I see her in a bar or something. What would you do if you had wanted to talk to someone, but they were walking in their own direction doing their own thing, and you don't want to make it awkward?

Posted by: Elizabeth Palacios on 2011-11-29, 15:22:45

Walk up and say hi how are you start a conversation just don't stalker all the time be sweet n ask if you walk her to class something nice and simple

Posted by: H on 2011-11-29, 15:26:59

Maybe you should try and spend time with her outside your school/ college. In class invite her out for a drink or something, you can try to make conversation with her then.

Posted by: Marcus on 2011-11-29, 15:42:08

Aha, so you're stuck wondering how to kind of get her 1 on 1, and talk to her in a more flirty frame? It could be as easy as finding something on her Facebook page that you like as well, and sending her a message telling her she has good taste in whatever it is you both like. Or if its something you DON'T like... that could be even better, You could send her a message teasing her about it. Then just use that as a conversation starter and talk through Facebook messaging a little bit, then if she has any interest in you, she should at least talk to you in person or acknowledge you the next time you see each other in person. If she doesn't, just say hey and try to talk to her as you're leaving class the next time, and if she still doesn't give you anything, I would cut my losses as she probably isn't interested. Good luck.