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HELP! i need advice on my relationship! :/?
i have this guy friend, he is a nice guy i have meet him at a sports event, when a friend was dating him, .... and we talked after but not long, then after summer we started texting and on facebooking Again.... when we started to text we were talking about how long it has been since we have seen each other and he asked if he was hot, and i Agreed , and then i asked the same thing and he said " you kinda are" .. and then later on he asked if i loved him, and i ask if he does, and he said he did, and i said i did, well he asked me Again and Again i said that i love him, and then he said yes, later i asked him if he liked me and he said as FRIENDS, i just said ok i guess.... so does that mean he does not like me in that way at all?? What should i do i really do like him? .... Btw they broke up him and my friend.He broke up with her for like 2 months before he said he loved me

I need some wise advice on my relationship? I'm scared and i don't know what to do?
So i'm about to be a junior in high school and he is gonna be a senior. We've been dating for a year and 5 months. We've liked and known each other since i was a freshman and we've grown into so much. He's confused about his future and doesn't think our relationship is right for us since we are so young. I know when he goes to college next summer were going to have to part. But right now i want to be with him and he is undecisive about this. I love him, which may sound crazy since i'm 17 but what we have is really specail and i don't wanna give it up when we still have another year. Were apart right now and i don't feel right and i want to be with him. What do you think I should do? how can i convince him getting back together is worth it? we've already came this far...why end it now

Can you give me advice on my relationship?
My guy and I have been together for a few weeks now and he's basically the boy of my dreams. But, like me, he's got other friends in this one activity he attends marching band , both guys and girls. I'm a little iffy about the girls, but that's because they like to hug him for warmth from the cold. I'm okay with that, and it's only 2 3 girls, however, I'm worried that they may do something to him that would make me go on a rampage or something. I'm hoping that it wouldn't result to that. He did tell me that I'm the only one he'll keep in his heart and the one he'll never break a promise to. That, I'm happy about, but what should I do about those girls? I want to become friends with them, yet at the same time, I don't want to result to aggression and any fights. I guess I'm really protective about the one guy who truly cares about me. Should I be wary of them, keep an eye on them, or just ignore it?

Need some advice on my relationship please?
Okay so, I met this guy 9 months ago we've been 'seeing' each other for 7 months and exclusive for just over 3 months. It doesn't seem like long but he has managed to change a lot about me. In the beginning we would go out and have a lot of fun but then we started to fight and argue more and more. By the 3rd month in It was pretty much like we were together but I remember having continuous arguments by that point about things that one of us did wrong. Things slowly continued to change for the worst. I know that I am not perfect and I make mistakes, but the way he spoke would always make me feel like I am at fault, and if I could just fix my flaws everything would be ok. It seems like he can only focus on the small negative aspects with me. I feel as though talking is pointless because he can never see eye to eye, even though I always do my best to understand his perspective. Im called names like idiot, r3tard and b tch, although not often. My family and close friends do not like my boyfriend because of how he makes me feel and what he does to me, but they are always welcoming to him because they care about my happiness. I'm never taken out on dates anymore as well. I really stopped taking care of myself, and for some reason I feel like this relationship has something to do with it. I've tried talking about things several times but nothing ever changes. We still have our good times but It just doesn't seem right to be fighting and unhappy so often. I feel like I would be much healthier, and better off with out this, but I want him in my life and just cannot walk away. Advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance

I need someone's advice on my relationship and smoking weed lol?
So basically I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend Alex. We love each other and all that junk but he really hates the fact that I smoke weed a lot. He had never smoked before he met me, and now he has a couple times, but he says that I should cut back. At first I cut back to once a week, but then I decided that was stupid because he's 4 hours away from me, he barely sees me and there's seriously nothing to do in La Crosse, Wisconsin in case you didn't know.. p Anyway, I used to smoke ALL THE TIME, like on my break at work, before school, after school, right when I wake up..you get the picture. So now I'm just smoking at night after I'm done with work, classes, homework studying and whatever house work for the day. I smoke a significantly less amount, and I'm probably only high for like 1 2 hours before I go to bed. Honestly, I don't know how else to compromise with him because I feel like I've already given up a lot for him. So I need your opinion advice. Should I go back to smoking once a week for him, or have I already done my part in compromising? I don't want to hurt him, but at the same time I feel I deserve to do what I want to do I'm an adult living on my own after all.

I need some advice on my relationship please?
I care so much about my boyfriend, and he means the world to me, I'm almost 18 and he's 19. We get along perfectly, but the thing is, he is always at work so I barely get to see him at night he stops by when he gets off work 10 30. Usually these are school nights and I am way too sleepy the next day but I think it's worth it. Anyways, he does take forever to text back but it's understandable because he is very busy a lot And i feel like whenever I ask him to hangout he's either too sleepy or is busy at work or with school. Today hes off work and he told me yesterday he may see me today. But he never texted me about it yet. i dont wanna seem needy and text him to comeover. Yet i dont want it to be another late night for him to stop by. Please no hate comments. I know he is NOT cheating on me and never would. What should I do? And dont tell me to break up with him because I won't.

I need some advice on my relationship?
I feel like my boyfriend isn't really apprieating me enough. For about 8 months I guess u could say he would do all the dirty work like show that he cared, showed effort to see me and do whatever he could to keep us together after realizing I was slacking in the girlfriend department we almost broke up and that's when it hit me that I was falling for him and I would do anything for us to stay together cuz I really did care I just didnt show it often and I realized he was the most guy to ever try so hard with me and I just switched from being bad girlfriend to best girlfriend ever like now I try and do whatever I take his advice I'm there for him I try to make him happy I'm always the one planing for us to see each other it's no longer him doing that job. I use to sit there and take forever to txt him cuz before everything wasn't about my boyfriend now that I know that use to upset him. He does it to me I'll sit there and try to talk to him when we don't see each other and he's just like whatever and takes however long to reply. I can see now that it is frustrating and I apologize and I guess I deserve it but at the same time I don't because I would never open up to any person as much as I have with him and I mean emotionally sexually practically everything. Like I lost my virgity to him.I feel like he should be not taking me granted at this point. I feel like he's so comftorbal knowing now that he can't loose me because i've opened up so much with him and he always told me to do so and now that i have and he knows how much it means to me he no longer worries because before he would. I took a break in the summer with him and I think he would constantly worry about us breaking up but now the tables have turned and Im the constant worry which he says now I take things to seriously and that one of the reasons he even fel in love with me was because I was fun and i wasn't so serious all the time and he's right this isn't the person I am to be so serious all the time how do I fix this? I need to learn to let loose again and take a breather. But I am constantly worrying about our relationship if we're gonna last and does love me still and all this bullshit. I need a re check on reality and my relationship next month it'll be a year together and I'm 17. He's about a year younger than me. But trust me I'm not as mature as I sound so we fit each other cuz he acts my age. I also feel like sometimes he talks to me however he wants and it's a I'll rude at times I don't like it but like I said I think he's just a little to comftorbal.Im just a lil lost with my relationship and I need to figure out a way to make it better to have fun again not to get hurt so easily, not for him to take me for granted, to show me the equal love we have for each other and things like that any advice would be great. Plus how do we stop arguing so much?? Plese tell me Thank you.

Really need advice on my relationship?
I have been dating a man for a bit over a year.We have been through a lot. I had a six month illness, then he became sick twice with various health problems, there was a death in his family, etc.I have grown to love this man dearly. I went along with him to every moment of the funeral proceedings when the person died because I have felt that pain and I didn't want him to go through that alone. I stayed with him even when something that he was sick with could be passed on to me. He has done a lot for me as well. He brought me to spend Christmas Eve with his family and spends a lot of time with my family.In the past seven or so months, however, when everything seems to be going along great, he will suddenly have a mood swing and break up with me then in a day or even a few hours decide that he didn't really want that and was just overwhelmed.We have gone to couples therapy and my therapist has expressed to me that this is normal. However, I just don't know.I'm 31 years old and at this point it breaks my heart even more to have the man I love do this.It happened again tonight. He picked me up from work and we were planning what to do with his sister for her birthday tomorrow and what we would do for mine over the weekend we had been planning a trip and I gave up a shift on my job tonight so we could go , then we went grocery shopping and afterward in the car, I asked if everything was ok. He said it was and I started asking him questions and he ended up breaking up with me again.And then saying he wasn't sure and we'd talk tomorrow.I guess I have to make a decision here. But I am so immensely hurt and confused.....I need advice.

In need of some advice on my relationship ?
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now and we have a son. I recently learned that he had another facebook and has been having sexual relations with females. I learned about this about three week ago. I continue to speak to him but didn't show him any emotion, just had casual conversation. He has been trying his hardest to make things work since I had learned about the whole facebook thing. But just two days ago I had surprisly came over to his house and there was a female there This female he had a relationship status with her on his other facebook and said her name twice while we were speaking. Now he saying he going to change and wants to make things work out but I heard this way to many times. I feel like giving him a chance again for the sake of our family but I just don't know. This is his first time from my knowledge that he has ever done anything sexual. Also he had told me the only reason that he went out searching for other females was because he wanted sex and I wasn't giving it to him. Which is true we stop having sex for about 3 months but that was an okay excuse for when I found out. That doesn't excuse the fact that he had a female there just two ago and was telling me for the past 3 weeks he wants us to work and I admitted my mistakes about not doing my job as a girl. What should I do, should I give him another chance or should I just leave ?

Hey need advice on my relationship.?
Is it creepy to tell my girlfriend I was thinking over today.. I'm 13 she's 12. Weve been together for a month

I need advice on my relationship?
Me and my boyfriend had been together for 7 Months, we moved a little to fast and now i am 20 weeks pregnant, he already has a 5 year old son and he dated his sons mother for 3 years. We both get along very well and hes honestly been the best boyfriend i could i ask for... just recently his sons mother got pregnant by another guy and she didn't keep it, she already has 2 other kids by somebody else. Well after he found out about that he told me that he still has feelings for her because that hurt him when he heard that. He told me even tho he still has feelings for her he still loves me the same, and that doesn't affect how he feels about me at all. i'm just worried and i don't know what to think?they were never married and he ended the relationship because they couldnt get along anymore. she got pregnant by another guy thats what hurt him... hes always been against abortions no matter who got them. No Special Agenda.... Him and i are a lot more serious then a one night stand... yes i got pregnant pretty fast but that was because we weren't being careful and using protection. we were in a relationship before we ever had sex i know he loves me, i just doubt on how much now that he has told me this. Anya..... he does talk about taking care of me and our child... he told me he want's to be with me and having feelings for her doesnt change that. We've already been planing on getting a place together and have been saving up to do so but with christmas in a few weeks its setting us back. We've talked about this situation a little bit today and i told him how i felt and how it upsets me and how i don't have as much confidence as i had before he told me that... and he asked how he can reassure me that he loves me and wants to be with me... and then he said hes gonna do everything he could..... Scooter Power.... He is the best boyfriend i've had. we've been together for 7 months i know thats not long but that whole time we've been nothing but happy and he LITERALLY treats me like a queen and does anything for me. this was the only thing that hes actually done to hurt me.... that makes him a bad bofriend??? and its not like im 16 and jumping all over every guy that i see... i'm 21 in a relationship with a 25 year old of course we have sex... i just happened to get pregnant because we weren't using protection. SHIT HAPPENS

Need serious advice on my relationship?
how do i please my boyfriend. i am asking this because i feel as though he doesn't appreciate me loving him and being by his side and if some of you ask why i am with him its because i love him and i know he loves me too. its just that he doesn't show it to me. Thats why i want to know how to please him and maybe he will me his love towards me like he used to in the past.

Need advice on my relationship help!!?
I'm a girl, don't be fooled by the username down there.. I'm 20 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. I met him in my home town. We started dating and then I had to move out of state.. He later moved out of my hometown as well and moved in with me an my parents for 2 years. After that we moved out of my parents house and lived on our own back in our hometown. I hate my hometown because it's cold and remote and my dream is to become an actress. My parents moved to Cali because of my parents job, and I was able to talk my boyfriend into moving to Cali to live with my parents after we lived in my hometown for 2 years so we did. We have been here for about 6 or 7 months and my boyfriend already hates living with my parents and wants us to go back to our hometown. I am really upset about this because I love Cali and want to follow my dream. He says we need to leave in a week, but I don't want us to go. He says my options are to go with him or we break up. I love him to death but I want to follow my dream and stay here, I can't live without him.. But I don't think it's fair that I have to move or he breaks up with me he says we r leaving in a week and gave me no notice. What should I do? I asked this before and only got one response.

Advice on my relationship with my boyfriend? Just some input?
We have been together for 8 months.I am 21 and hes 23Basically he works all the time and hardly sees me like maybe 3 times a week tops. Usually 1 time a week. He works at a factory and is trying to get out of there so he can go to college. He works 12 hour shifts and always gets hit for over time. So hes like depressed and feels like he cannot get out of his job. I re did his resume cus it needed improvement. and applied for this job that i think he could get but he says he wont get it and he will be stuck at where he works and end up alone. So I am really bothered. I feel like hes pushing me away. I told him we should break up if I am causing more good than bad inthe situation. And he just said back I am happy with you but I don't know why i keep thinking this way. He isn't giving me a straight answer. What should I do? I feel like I am more of a burden in his life. I told him 2 that i wont be able to contact him if we do break up. And hes like just saying I don't think it is my time to be in a relationship sex ruined our friendship and that he talks to me everyday... and i told him we were never friends to begin with. I don't know what to do I told him if he feels bad about this we should just go our separate ways I cant be in this alone. After I mentioned this he said he was sorry and that i should forget about everything he said today. I love him a lot. Its just when he gets upset it drives me up a wall too.How do I cope with this... WHat is your guys' input. Thanks