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Please help! I need some advice in a relationship.?
I know this may be long, please take your time to read on. There is this girl whom I am very interested in. I know deeply she is the one base on our messaging conversation through the phone. So in order to not appear too creepy and impersonal, i tried to call her yesterday but I think she was too shy to pick it up so she said sms ing her would be better as sometimes she too busy to pick up the call. But i don't want to sms her too much as it is too impersonal and it can be annoying. Should I let her know that I am interested with her or should I not? I am actually planning on drawing a comic script of her favorite theme of vampires to make her smile and break the ice , but that would make it seem like I like her already. But I think it is pretty obvious that she knows I like her already. But i am worried that if I confess now, I would seem creepy since we havent even met.. Do you think after I send her the comic script present, I should let her know I am interested in her?

I need advice in a relationship?
weve been practically going out for a very very long time.. i met her when i use to livei n california but i moved. she wants me to visit.. ive asked my mom if i could visit a friend but i really havnt told her about her.. i have no idea how to tell my mom she wants me to visit her and that i really like her

I need advice in a relationship.?
Ok first off I need to explain my situation...I met this girl in 7th grade, and kind of had a crush on her until early freshman year when she started seeing this guy..... lets call him Joe. I hid my feeling for her very well, and she and joe were happy for about 6 months to a year. Then things started to go bad. He began to treat her very poorly, ignoring her, making fun of her, insulting her for believing in god, and his mother would do much of the same things. She would call her fat, and say that she wasn't good enough for him, and Joe would just kind of laugh. This went on for 2 more years, in which she would come to me every day crying, upset, or angry because of something Joe did or said. By this time I was her best friend, and we drove to and from school together daily, he wouldnt go out of his way to get her, and she was on my way I was always there for her. At the end of our junior year they broke up and she called me in tears telling me what had happened. He cheated on her, and then basically dumped her for his neighbor. Roughly a month later I hosted a party and we both ended up drunk the first time either of us had drank Apparently she felt the same way towards me as I had for nearly the same amount of time, we were both just too chicken shit to tell the other one. We were happy for about a month, nothing could touch us. Then Joe found out that her and I were together, and he began calling her multiple time a day, every day. Saying I miss you, I made a mistake, I love you, I want you back. At first she told him to get lost and that she was happy, and didn't want to go back to the way he treated her. After 2 months of this she broke down, feeling towards him began to re surface, and she wanted to take a break from everyone, including him. I was ok with it, I gave her space, but he didnt, he kept calling her and with no input from me, he changed her mind. Now she is back in an unstable relationship with him, and wants me to try to be friends. Ive tried nearly everything to keep her close, but it seems everything I try just makes her more distant, and I think that she will end up filling the hole that I leave with him, and become more attached to him. I don't know what to do anymore, I either have to sit back and watch all of this happen to her and I if I want any chance to have he in my life in the future. Or give up completely and just completely get out of her life. I don't know what to do, and Ive spent the past 2 weeks crying myself to sleep. I can't concentrate on school, work, or anything. She was my life, and now I having nothing to do but think about her with my free time. Any suggestions?

Sex or security I need some advice in a relationship between a young lady and an elderly man?
I have been together with a french white man I met in nigeria from 1995 up till this present day. We are presently living in london. when I met him he was 55 years old and I was 28 years that was in 1995 I was a little disappointed with the age gap with his looks as he looked older then me, but at that time I had no choice than to accept being with him as he took care of me and brought me out of poverty and besides at that time I had no man in my life but I would have left him if I had met somebody else much younger and financially well off. Presently he is 70 years and I am 43 years old. Most of the time I feel fed up of the relationship as we no more sleep together and no more have sex. Presently he has been working for the past three years till present and is saving money to buy me a two bed room flat in london as he tells me he will one day die. He tells me he wants me to be in a good condition with a nice flat and some money tucked away when from this year till my old age. I realise I am not getting younger myself and I think of my security for my old age. I know he loves me more than I love him I do appreciate him and have feelings for him. My problem is that I would not want to stay with him for the rest of my life. Should I just bare the situation of not having sex again and think of other things to divert my attention as my security is more important. I never want to cheat on him by sleeping outside. I am a disciplined woman in mind with morality Presently I am not working as I am doing a medical secretarial course with the hope that when I finish the course I will get a job. He tells me at his age he does not need money, that the reason he is working is for me to have security as a woman. At least no one wants to be left in life without security. Give me some advice

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In need of some advice in a relationships (physics/someones whose in a relationship)?
OK well me and this guy i been knowing since we where younger well not that younger only 5 years ago when we met my mom and his grandma hooked us up as friends and when we started " talking" our feeling have changed we are 17 now a bit less naive and just last summer he gave me my first kiss lol then afterward he kissed me he told me he loved me but since I've been done badly in my past relationship so u have this mold of guys anyways we are still talking not really dating because i really cant not yet anyways but we hang out and do stuff together and he still say he loves me but iI'm not sure you know? i love him too but I'm just unsure even though i ask him and hes says he does please help and no stupid answers please any more questions that u need to know let me know at my email kamiyxd yahoo.com

I need some advice in a relationship does age matter?
lets say some one has a boyfriend but he is about 9 years older but have known eachother for life and u feel like u really love him and he thinks the same way to b more specific the ange is 16 and 24i really wanna tell my parents and put it out in the open but i kno its bad but i think that age aint nuttin but a number plz tell me wut u think

I need advice in a relationship. Please help.?
I used to have a fiance, whom i was with for nearly 3 years.We met when we were just 18. So we ended having a little girl. on april 7th she left me because of the financial problems we were having,I was just about to finish my internship at school when she left.She abandoned everything and left. I didn't know where she was for nearly 2 weeks until she called me.It turns out she moved to a different city with my baby.So we started to talk again, and she agreed to let me take the baby every other week.So one day when I was dropping her off when she told me she wanted me to take her and the baby out to eat. I agreed we went out to eat as a family again . I started to stay at her place for a few days during this time she admitted she tried to have sex with another guy but didnt get far , i helped her out with some of her bills, bought her groceries , payed my baby girls daycare $700 a month .She even started to say that she loved me again, so I was happy again. This went on for a month and 2 weeks.Until one day when I was at her place her cell phone vibrated. I saw and it was a text from some dude called Alex, it wasn't really anything bad. I asked her who this guy was and she told me it was a guy she met and that they were just talking and that she wanted to get to know him as friends. So i said okay...It was a thursday when she told me to leave and to take my baby with me " I need a break from her and i just want some alone time" .I already knew the real reason she wanted me to leave.So I left. The next day she went out on a date with him and i asked her what she thought about him, this is what she said " I love him..idk why but i just do , we have a lot of things in common" i just couldnt believe what she told me.Not even a day and she already fell in love with him.You could imagine what kind of emotions i was going through at this time. I felt miserable and i broke down crying everytime i saw my little girl because i knew she was trying to replace me as a father.I still kept texting her to see how she was and when she wanted daughter back.She told me she wanted me to keep her a few extra days because it was going to be fathers day on sunday. So i agreed this is what i wanted anyway . The monday after that she called me to tell me that she was having problems with Alex. and that he fell asleep next to her..and she started to cry.So I did my best to comfort her and i told her to please let him go and to come back to me, this is what she told me " my feelings for you are dead, i dont love you anymore" i didnt know what to say. I tried holding my tears back..she hung up and i resumed taking care of my baby.The next day, she told me Alex was coming over to visit her to talk to her about what had happened between them.At this time i was very miserable and i knew there wasnt anything i could of done to stop her.So i didnt say anything.That night She ended up having sex with him.I could feel my heart ache, so bad.I knew that bond i used to have with her was breaking, i still loved her. I knew deep down in my heart that this guy was just using her for sex. This guy even had a girlfriend.. and my ex knew he had one. She still continued to have sex with him. few weeks went by and she told me she wanted my daughter back. So i go and drop her off..one of the hardest things a father can do.I wait for her to arrive and when she does i just handed my little girl over and i just walked away. I didnt even look at her. At this time i was so hurt i couldnt even look at her.She goes and texts me " i wish you could of stayed longer , enough so we could of grabbed a bite to eat" .. i just couldnt do that..not after what she did to me. Unfortunately that was the last time i saw my daughter..she ended up sending her to alabama because she couldnt take care of her. This destroyed me so bad.By now i was kind of distant from her...but i still loved her.I was doing better now. i jogged everyday for 7 miles. got in Excellent shape.I got a few girls interested in me.. but my heart wasnt ready for a relationship.Not a few days ago she wanted me to visit her.I asked her what had happend to alex and she said " alex just wanted me for sex he used me " .I just felt bad she had to find out the hard way.Right now..she is talking to someone else.A guy she met in some online chat. he lives in cali. I know im not with my daughter anymore and i havent seen her in almost a month. but the last thing i want is for her to fall in love with a guy that lives in another state, for sure shell take my baby to cali and ill never see her. I know my duaghter is in alabama. but my ex told me shell bring her back once she can support herself. at least then i can see my little girl..but not if she falls for this guy.She also wants me to visit her next weekend. because she wants me to " re porve " my self to her. When I did nothing. shes the one that chose some guy she even barely knew When i used to roam from city to city to show her that i loved her and was willing to put our family back together.When i helped her pay her bills, cleaned her house , did her dishes, I did everything possible to get her back...but she ended doing this to me. Now she wants me to try again? she said i abandoned her.. when i didnt.Im just so afraid of getting that close to her again. All this happened in 3 months. It happened so soon it made me process feelings..and i never really had the chance to get over them. my questions are...should i get close to her again after what she did to me? she even told me " i cant promise a future relationship, im not saying it cant happen, but i just want to let you know im still single" . i just dont think ill be able to deal with this if the same thing happens again. its been so hard for me to move on. God knows i still love her... and i really want my family back. what do you guys think?Michelle , yes this is all about my daughter, Honestly...if she gave me my daughter i wouldnt even try to get back with her. Looks like court is the only answer here. i have a job, i have a two story town home. with her bedroom and all her furniture.She has nothing, shes about go go back to the shelter. This is the time to do things, I just never wanted to end this way. but my daughter is suffering..

Need an advice in a relationships matter.?
Searching for an intelligent and open minded person who is willing to chat with me for few minutes, about a personal little problem that i have. Anyone offers?Can we chat anywhere?

I need some advice in a relationship problem?
Hello,I have recently started going out with a girl who I've known for about a year. She is 17 and in high school and I'm 20 and in college. I've always considered myself a romantic and I think carefully before I do anything in a relationship maybe that's a problem . Last week I came up with a very interesting way to surprise her and give her flowers and she loved it. She told me it was really cute and she was so happy. I thought that would bring us closer to each other but afterwards when I asked her out she refused. That happened three times and she gave me an excuse for every time I asked. I don't know if I should persist asking or I should stop and wait for her to initiate anything I don't wanna be too pushy... ? Any Suggestions?

I need an advice in a relationship?
My finance and i have been together for over 3 years and have decided to get married very shortly. The thing is she has developed an issue where she is unable to work due to a mental condition panic and anxiety when at almost any work environment atmosphere .She is currently seeking psychological and soon spiritual help. We both love each other greatly but since her ability to be able to work or be independent from me is very important, i am left in a major deli ma. We have both decided not to live together only a few weeks ago until we are married. Should i accept her current situation and love her unconditionally and see what happens or do i wait till she is better?

I just need some advice in a relationship?
Well I'm 13 and in 7 grade and currently in a pretty strong relationship. I know it's young but we have been together for two months and talk a lot. She really is out of my league and I try really hard to be good to her. The other day she was being really different and calling baby and telling me that I was cute and sweet. Then she said " We have been together for a long time and I think it's time we move to the next level of our relationship." this is the first serious thing I have been in and I don't know what this means or what to do. Any advice?

Advice in a relationship?
So, me and this girl have been dating for about 10 months now, and it really hasn't gone anywhere nothing serious, i.e sex, or even groping . I really do like this girl, but lately she's been a bitch. When I call her out on it she tells me I'm overly sensitive. I'm ready to drop her, but I'm not sure if I should because we really do get along well, and I still have a lot of feelings for her. Suggestions?

Bedroom Advice. In a relationship for 4 years.?
When I'm getting ready to have an orgasm it fades away and I don't understand why. I've talked to my gyno but she didn't help either. Has this happen to anyone else and what can I do to get a complete orgasm?