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I need relationship advice.....?
I have a complicated thing going on with a guy that ive known since the 7th grade. I knew him for about a month, then we dated for a month and a half. I broke up with him because i decided i wasnt old enough to date anyone i was only 12 okay, so he moves a month after that and two and a half years later, i see him at my highschool. During those two and a half years i always wanted him back. But we didnt start talking to each other until about 3 months after the school year started. And then we were like best friends for a Year Until i moved. A week after i moved we hung out one night and i asked him if he would have dated me if i hadnt moved. It broke my heart when he said no, because from what i knew, i was in love with him. I asked him why, and he said because after we broke up in the 1st time, he had two really bad relationships and now he decided he wont trust a girl for a while. He kissed me good bye and we still talk, but i want to know how to get him to be with me now that im moving back.
Any relationship advice? Should I ask her out?
There's this girl who just started school last week start of semester because she was in a mental hospital for three months. She's been in our school for three years.She was in the hospital because she has clinical depression and is suicidal...she has attempted suicide before and she cuts herself. She's also a lesbian, as am I.I started talking to her Saturday night and she gave me her number, and we stayed up until 4 30 am texting that night. And we talked all day Sunday, and yesterday too.I asked her if she wanted to hangout sometime after school and she said yes with a smiley face. We also entertained the idea of skipping school together and doing something fun someday.I only just started talking to her this weekend. I mean, I've known her since freshman year we're juniors , but I was never friends with her or her group of friends. But we're really connecting. I found myself relating to her really well. I could comfortably talk about my sexuality, depression, and cutting, and she was really understanding. She told me about her own issues too.I think we could be really great friends, maybe something more. But I've never dated before and I don't know how to do it. Should I wait a while and ask her out?What do you guys think?
Confused... need relationship advice.?
Well, I'm going to apologize in advance, since I know this will be long. but I really do need the help, as I cannot figure this out on my own, and I figure that maybe someone from the outside can shed some light on it for me. So here it goes....I was dating a guy who is a sophomore in college I'm a senior in high school for about 9 months. He lived 20 minutes away, his college was a little under an hour away, but he'd always come home on the weekends. We started dating in March of my Junior year, and everything was perfect really, until the last month of our relationship. Right around homecoming. We worked together in the summer lifeguarding and he stayed over at my house a lot and we were just comfortable around each other. Sure, there were little things he did that bothered me, like swearing, or always wanted to lay around, or when I'd suggest doing something, he'd say that was " a poor college kid" and my parents or I would always end up paying for us when we went out. He ended up breaking up with me because we were fighting a lot because he felt like i was ignoring him and my phone was more important than him, which, i will admit, it was at times, because I was trying to set up homecoming and apply to colleges, etc. And I had suggested we take a break, because, even though i didnt tell him this, I was beginning to develop feelings for my best friend, and i wanted time to sort things out. Well, instead of a break, he broke up with me. About 3 days later, he started dating a girl, that we work with, who had dated two of his best friends. Needless to say, I was devastated. so, i started dating my best friend and its wonderful. He pays when we go out. He's always up for whatever, sometimes laying around, sometimes actually going on dinner dates, or Starbucks or whatever. He even got us tickets to see the black keys in philly He doesnt get along with my family as well as my first boyfriend did, but we've only been dating for 3 months, so i'm giving it time. also, he is in my grade and lives 5 minutes away from me, so that makes things a bit easier. So, about a month ago, my ex and his gf broke up. And he called me and told me that they broke up because he still loved me and couldnt stop thinking about me. and I felt the same. even though I was with this new guy, my ex constantly popped up in my mind. Like every little thing reminded me of him. He said he would always love me, and would do anything to get me back. so I secretly met him 3 times, after which I told my current boyfriend. Who wasn't mad, just confused as to why I wasnt over him. But then, so was I. Its like, I want to be over him, but I just cant. and people always tell me to pick one, but i feel like my heart is split right down the middle. but hen my ex started going on casual dates with another girl we work with, after he said he couldnt date anyone else. now, i know this should seem like a red flag, but i did tell him to try and move on. So I guess this is the end. I want your opinions on what to do. I'm torn and confused and losing WAY too much sleep over this. I dont want to go back to my ex and hurt my current bf, although I know it hurts him to know I still think about my ex a lot. But also i'm afraid that the same problems that happened with my ex will repeat themselves. No matter what I do, I'm going to hurt someone, and that bothers me. So who do I hurt? the ex, who I just cant seem to get over, or the new guy, who I know treats me like I should, but I just cant fully invest myself in?
Just need relationship advice?
Me and this girl were talking for about 5 months and today when i texted her she said she just wanted to be friends like she thought we basically were. i thought we were more than friends. its kind of my fault because i never made a move. she had told me numerous times that she liked me a lot. i asked her what or who led to this and she first said that we don't hang out enough and then she said that was her fault. then she said she kinda likes this other kid and that's what bothers me the most. i could see it coming. she seemed more interested in him then me. this makes me so jealous. now shes telling me that he has nothing to do with it and there is nothing going on between them. tonight i went to the school dance and tried to get her off my mind and it worked while i was there but now its driving me crazy. i didn't tell her i went to the dance and wasn't planning on going until she told me that she just wanted to be friends. my friend texted her and asked her if she would be mad if i had sex with another girl this weekend and she said yes and she also told him that i was all she could think about it. i have no idea what to say or do. i need help
Redo question..Needing serious relationship advice big. This is severely bad...?
I have been with my boyfriend a little over a year and a half now. well now it is getting very close to ending all because of me, i have lost his love, his trust, and i had kept two very big secrets from him and one of them was pretty bad. I don't want to lose him yet, i want to change his mind. but the one secret was a confession that i had done but the other well that we could have worked through. but now i want to regain his trust and his love before the relationship ends. I want to do whatever it takes to regain it and to bring the spark back. I am not ready for it to end because we live together and i cant go back to where i used to live because if i do i would lose my job and my car. I really do need some help. I have already told him how sorry i am and how bad i feel and how much guilt and regret that i have but what can i do to get him to change his mind and to save my relationship. I really do love my boyfriend a lot and we are both in our 20s i am just a year and five months younger then him if any of that helps. this is what i have done the confession was that i had went through his facebook messages around the time that we were separated between him and this one girl that he was with a while back because i had his username and password for the games that we use and the other secret was when i was going through my email one night and come across an old email from 4th of july that had a picture of me and one of my guy friends kissing and he saw it since i was just hanging out with some friends that kiss didnt mean a thing since it was out of pure depression and i was missing the love of my life, we could have worked through that one but the confession was worse and i was to make the relationship work. that is why i am asking for advice...I don't cheat and im very loyal. oh and by the way the things that i have done was during the time of our separation period. i really need all the advice yall can give and help me with...NO negativityI do love my boyfriend that is why i don't want it to end just yet. i want to do everything that it takes to make it work that is why i am asking everyone for adviceI want to regain his love, and his trust but i just need to know exactly how
Need relationship advice?
Ok theres a few things i need advice one First thing is my girlfriend too attached? She txts me almost every minute shes awake and if i dont reply she gets either worried angry or upset. She also tries to plan times for us to hang out everyday she gets off work and if iv got something on once again she gets angry or really upset. When we are at school i could be talking to my mates and its almost like she cant stand on her own legs she always needs to hug me or sit on my lap and when i tell her shes being clingy she gets upset again and acts like i dont love her. Second thing i dont feel the same about her sometimes.weve been going out for almost 4 years and I still love her but i dont feel the same about the whole relationship. Last thing we argue more than we used to and it gets worse every time and is always over the most stupid things and she always makes it seem like its my fault and when i argue back she gives me the guilt trip. Any advice on what to do would be great Thank you
Please give me some relationship advice?
My boyfriend and I are high school seniors. We have been together for fourteen months. We really do love each other, would do anything for each other, and have a great relationship. If you're going to say things like 'No, you don't you're both too young,' then please just don't answer. However, he is going far away for college and I am staying in state. It's a 3 and 1 2 hour plane ride from where I will be to the college he'll be at. I know this is absolutely horrible, but I think long term. I can't help thinking that it's not going to work for us when we start college. It's way too much of a distance, too inconvenient to fly to and from that often, and would take two days if we drove to and from. I know I won't be able to handle it when he's 1500 miles away and I have no idea what's going on with him other girls trying to be with him. It's not that I don't trust him, but it would just be miserable for me. It would also be so difficult to keep the relationship strong when I can only see him over Skype, and I can't help thinking we would drift apart.So, my question is Should I end the relationship now? I know it sounds awful, but my reasoning is that I would rather be sad and get over it now then have to break up right as I move out and am trying to be on my own at college and be really sad about it then. It is a little early to be thinking about this since we don't graduate until June, but I'm really scared about it lately. I can't help but wonder, what's the point of keeping the relationship up although it is a great relationship and we do everything together if it's inevitable that it will end and I know it? My boyfriend and I haven't really talked about it, but I know he thinks it's going to work when we're separated.Do you guys have any advice as to what I should do? I'm really torn. I don't want to break up with him at all, but I also would rather be sad now than later. I have to pick my poison. Any help is appreciated Thank you so much
What do i do? relationship advice please...?
my fiance and i have been up and down lately, all my fault. I have HUGE jealousy issues stemming from past hurts, after he got out of boot camp medically discharged from the marines he swore he had changed and I saw it. I however, am still super jealous, and I worry about him looking at porn and other woman in movies and such, however i don't worry about him cheating considering I guess I trust him on that level. I am a miserable woman, not because of him but because I don't feel confident about myself, although people tell me i'm not fat at all and that i am beautiful, i just don't feel as when i was younger i was made fun for being bigger, although I have lost a ton of weight since then. I am ruining my relationship and I am terrified that I am ruining his life too. I don't know what else to do I am afraid I may be bi polar or something similar and I suffer from 2 types of severe depression...please help.Lost and Confused..
In need of some relationship advice... seriously!?
Backstory I was broken up with by a guy that I had been with for over a year... He had me wrapped around his finger. He started dating some girl the day after it ended..Also, it was the day after christmas that we broke up so I also got the joy of a ruined holiday and a lonely new years. I went into depression mode and I wouldn't eat, sleep, stop crying, etc for over two weeks. Anyway, when valentines day rolled around I was extremely vulnerable. My friend since forever that I really hadn't talked to in a while, lets call him, Jack, was super sweet to me and told me he had always wanted to be with me but never knew how. He is truly the sweetest guy I have ever met but I was going through a lot. We went out for two weeks, through v day, and I broke up with him.. I broke up with him because I just wasn't ready. He stopped talking to me altogether. Fast forward 3 years..He's been away at school and I've been in the longest relationship of my life, but we broke up. He texts me to ask me to come see him at school and stay a few days... I tried but due to miscommunication it fell through. We didnt talk for a month. Now we've been talking and he was being adorable hinting that he wants a relationship. Then I was supposed to go see him at school and he didnt text me back.. I found on the next morning when he texted me that it was because his mom came to see him and he ended up being prescribed xanax and zoloft so you can connect the dots.. He really is the best person I know so more than anything, I want to be there for him through a tough time. I was understanding and the epitome of heartwarming.. then sunday evening he was barely texting me which is understandable.. SUPER BOWL... then late sunday night at like midnight 1am he told me about all of the pain he is going through, i confronted him about not being adorable anymore but that i understand and he was like no I really want to see you soon you have no idea how bad i want to see you i need you more now than ever.. I know for sure this time that he is the one i want to be with but he has a lot going on. I don't want to make this all about me but I tend to be very needy and selfish in relationships. I understand that I need to be there for him and I have been very selfless with him since the first time it was all my fault that it didnt work.. but I don't know how to go about this. I want to go stay there but he has like 4 roommates all of whom were his friends when we dated in HS and spread rumors about me when we broke up.. it's awkward and I don't want to have to see them to see him. His school is like an hour and a half away and i have a few friends that would be up for the ride if i needed a wing girl. I don't know what to do.. I texted him last night saying supporting things for what he told me but also asking when he wants me to come there and that its hard being so far away from him knowing that he needs me so bad and that ill come there whenever any time day or night it doesnt matter and im positive he fell asleep and didnt get those texts but for MY comfort i would like to bring a friend for the long drive and not stay over night... but I know for a fact that I need to see him, bad. I think I'm back in love with him. He's all I can think about... How do I go about this.
Need some relationship advice please :) ?
I have a girlfriend, I'm 14. I can chat so much with her on my phone but like on the school grounds,movies or cafeteria I'm too shy ? Why am I so? What can I do? Please help me
Long distance relationship advice...?
Alright basically I met this girl online where I have been talking to her ever since October. She lives very far away and we constantly talk over webcam, instant messaging, text and phone call. We have both agreed to a long distance relationship and despite the fact that I haven't met this girl, she is way too special and I can clearly say I love her.Now the distance that separates us is 1635miles. Which is impossible for me to actually see her yet.. We are planning to meet in summer of next year 2013 which is really far away but both of us have agreed to wait. She considers me as her boyfriend and I consider her as my girlfriend.Now some people who know about our scenario led the believe that the relationship between us will NEVER work. Both of us in the relationship seem like it will work but this is the early stages yet. I really love this girl and I talk to her everyday. We even have a count down timer to when we will meet. So what do you think, as an opinion would it work?I couldn't care less for people who think it won't work your opinion won't change anything.The reason I'm asking this question is to see how many people can agree cope with a scenario like this.
I need some relationship advice?
I basically just needed a bit of advice. I'm dating this wonderful guy, and normally I'd follow my heart, but the thing is, I don't see it going anywhere. In all honesty, I like him as a friend, but I don't want to dump him and break his heart. I really like this other guy instead and when I say I like him, I really really like him, but be lives far away and I don't think he'd be interested in a lob distance relationship. What do you think I should do? No harsh comments please
I need relationship advice by you all?
Hi friends. Its been 2 years im in a serious relationship with a boy. 8 months back he break uped with me, i cried for him, crawled but he didnt listen me, 4 months back he came back to me, i forgave him and we again lived happily. Now a month back he told me that i should stop saying him to quit smoking. I told him that i cares for you and i will always talk about your good health . He got angry and told me " we should stay friends now" i told him i love you etc. But he didnt listen. Then few days after he texted me on facebook 'how are you?' but i didnt reply, i was too hurt so i deleted him from facebook and lastly texted him that " im leaving you forever. Now dont ever talk to me" he didnt reply. But now after 1 month he texted me and told me that he wants to meet me and resolve everything. He called me but i ignored and didnt reply him. I really love him and want him back. Is this right to ignore him ?By the way he's capricorn and im aries. He really loved me.Serious advices please < 3
Relationship advice, 2 and a half years old relationship.?
Im 22 I've been in a relationship for 2 and a half years with this girl, 21 and I feel like i probably should have not committed in this relationship. I dont regret anything, shes amazing always there for me and she helps me gives me support. I've only been with her sexually shes been with 2 other guys before not serious . Ive had this feeling of wanting back my freedom and meeting other people. I've never cheated on her and i respect her a lot and i consider myself like a good guy. Ive had the opportunity to cheat on her but didnt and im truly happy i didnt. But i feel like ive commited too much in this relationship. That there is too many ties, we're in a serious relationship, like if we were married or something. My parents told me im too involved with her family and that im too involved in my relationship and that i should live and meet different people and maybe ill find someone better than her. They say that not because they dont like her but because they feel like this relationship is draining too much energy from me when we fight and when things arent good. My dad said to go explore as much as i can or else i will regret it later on. And personally i feel like meeting new girls and get a different idea of things. I dont you guys to think that im being selfish or anything, thats why id rather get answers from older people 40s who have maybe been through what ive been. I also feel like it would be better for both of us, we're both in uni and i might actually move away different continent to study. If im gonna end this relationship its for the best for both of us, cause i feel like our relationship is holding us back from living if that makes any sense. well thank you for reading and for commenting.
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