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Is my proposed visitation schedule for my child unreasonable?
Hello everyone,Let me start by giving a little background. My ex wife currently lives in germany with my 4 and 1 2 year old son, his 1 year old brother and her husband. My current visitation schedule has me seeing my son for 12 day periods three times per year in which they are reponsible for bringing him back to the US where he spends that time with me and all of his other family before I fly him home.He will be turning 5 this summer and starting kindergarten in the fall so it was my assumption that we would be changing visitation to a more school friendly schedule which would include a visit every year over spring break, a period of at least a month during the summer and then switching off every other Christmas.When I approached my ex wife with this idea however she immediately shot me down and depsite my best attempts to be patient and talk to her about it she refuses to budge at all. She claims that it is not in the best interest of our child that he is away from his primary home for any longer than 12 days at a time. She also said she would even prefer to go back to 4 shorter visits a year which is something I just cannot financially do as the trips back and forth three times a year to Germany already have me tapped out.I have a great relationship with my son. We talk on the phone every Tuesday and Thursday as well as see each other on webcam for around an hour every Sunday. Whenever he comes here he seems to transition seamlessly and from what I can tell truly enjoys his time with family. He has no trouble at all remembering even the smallest details about our home here as well as all of his family including my best friend who he calls Uncle Nik .I have searched the internet for hours trying to find something, anything, that will at least give me some validation in my thought that what I have proposed is not outrageous for our situation. In the past I have been bullied and guilted into thinking that what she says is best but I really do not think so this time. I really love my son and have been looking forward to summers together since my ex wife and I have divorced.I would truly appreciate any feedback that you would be willing to provide. Thank you all so much.Just as an additional update based on one response below regarding citizenship. Currently they both are US citizens who are living overseas due to my ex wife's husband being stationed there. I would assume that this would mean that any ruling made by a court here could then be enforced on the military bases there since they are deemed to be US soil. In addition they will be moving to a new base in the summer of 2013 which may or may not be in the US.Thank you all for the responses
Stepfather visitation rights?
Ok, Im divorced with a child, and now I am remarrying. Problem is, up until this point, my child's biological father has had almost no contact with my child for nearly 2 years. My fiance has been the man raising her for the past 2 years. Bio dad has has 2 visits in 2 years, no calls about her, no nothing. He was going to sign his rights away, but now he is not going to, and now he wants to start visiting with her. Which is fine with me, but my concern is, that even though he is her bio dad, he has only just now come around, my fiance has done EVERYTHING for my child. How can I protect him in case something happens to me? Can my ex husband and I draw up any kind of document or something that will allow my fiance to still be able to see her? It seems wrong to me that he can raise her, and then lose her and never see her again. She is right now too young to protest. My ex has no problem with my fiance seeing her, but my ex has a psycho mother in law that thinks that my fiance and I are white trash and I know she will try to influence my ex to not let my fiance see her. Any advice would help. I cant bear the thought that if I were to pass away that the man who has been raising my child might never see her again and there is nothing he can do about it except hope they let him see her.
Parents and grandchildren visitation?
i have a 15 month old son named Nikolas.at 6 7 months of age i left his biological father because i was being cheated on, i moved away, got a job, and so on. i let his biological father brian have him for weekends, and whenever he wanted, sometimes even into the week.that all stopped when after my son turned about 10 month old he started to return in my hands with problems, a yeast infection from his " dad" not changing his diaper all day.. to colds and so on.then i stopped caring when he returned him to me with his eczema red, oozing, bleeding and sticking to his clothes.my son was miserable. i took pictures, i took him to the doctor. and fixed it all up, it took about a month.now, i've told him and his parents that they can't see my child unless they come here because they can't take care of him properly. and they don't like these rules, i had a cop come to my door this morning and hand me these papers.. about how they are taking me to court so they can have visitation..if they can't listen to how he's to be taken care of, his creams aren't properly put on and his baths.... and i have proof of their inability to take care of him right do you think i should worry? or do you think i will win this easily? uuuuugh, help please.
Why is it when she wants money they are"his kids"but when he wants visitation or custody they are "her kids "?
" He won't support His Kids " " He wants to take My Kids " Why not , he won't support my kids and he wants to take his kids ? mizzshopper, I'm not paying any child support 'til I find out whose they are ?
What if a parent doesn't abide by the visitation order?
My friend male has had sole custody of his daughter for several years. The mother is a drug addict and lost custody. She was suppose to see her on weekends. The father moved out of state and the mother did not try for 2 years to visit her daughter. Then she started to try about a year ago. Father ignored the mother and hung up on her calls because he felt like it was disruptive to the young daughters life. I am not saying he's right wrong. Now mother has moved into state of the father and filing with the courts to enforce the visitation judgement. Perhaps the mother has cleaned up her act. In any case, what can happen to the father since for over a year he has dodged the mother's phone calls and ignored her efforts of visitation?
HELP My sons father has visitation rights, he just left state do they still apply for the grandparents?
My 2yr old sons father left from DE to go to MN today & our visitation agreement states that he a well known adult can pick up our child we added that because he would send his mother at times and I would not left my son go because I know he would not be there. Now that he is on his way to another state does our CURRENT visitation agreement apply to her?
What can I do if he doesnt take his daughter for visitation?
My daughter is four now and her father hasnt spoken to or seen her for 6 months. He has done this before where he will go months without seeing her and then pop back in her life and Im sick of it because I deal with weeks of tears and questions from her about why daddy doesnt like her or why he doesnt wanna see her. I have placement and we share custody but is there anything I can do legally to stop this in and out relatioship? I would rather have him out of her life totally than puttng her through what he does? Anyone else experience this? I live in Wisconsin...and talking Isnt gonna work because I have NO way of contacting him. Thanks in advance.Yes, thank you for your totally pointless answer...going online and being a total jerkoff, I hope to be as cool as you someday.
Can my husband achieve visitation of his son who he hasn't got to see in 7 years?
OK heres the whole ugly story... My husband was with this lady that was on new meds for bipolar disorder and new hormones for a recent hysterectomy. Well she flipped out and pointed a gun at my husband and his son, my husband proceeded to kick her in the stomach and get the gun away from her. he dismantled the gun and locked him and his son in a room. well the cops got called, but she twisted it to where he was the one who pointed the gun on her There was witnesses but the prosecution managed to get their testimonies stricken. And Idaho is whats called a woman's state. So he got a felon Domestic charge on him for it. That involed no contact order a year in jail and five years probation. In that time the mother took off with the child, and the no contact order was not on the child. He had no way to find out any way to get her served with them being missing. Mind you he has No other domestic on his record at all he has NEVER laid a hand on me or my children. Well the no contact order is now lifted and we are filing for visitation so he can see his 11 year old son. He is a great dad and has adopted my kids and he see's his other two kids from his first marriage all the time. He pays his child support like clock work What would be his chances since the mother alienated him from his son? He really is a good man and We feel like him and his son are missing out on so much of each others company knowledge and love
He got 2 yr supervised visitation w/ his kid cause his ex accused him of pedophilia. Does it mean he guilty?
He got 2 yr supervised visitation w his kid cause his ex accused him of pedophilia. Does it mean he guilty?
Child support issues and visitation?
Hi, I am paying child support in Nevada and I have not been able to locate my ex so that I can at list know where she lives and how's my daughter doing... One last conversation we had was about 3 months ago and she said to just live them alone and to forget about her and my daughter, reson she might be hidding it's because she is an illegal immingrant and she is afraid that I may have her deported.. WHAT CAN I DO? CAN YOU GIVE ME ANY ADVICES ?? THX
When placing a father on child support is visitation immediately established?
Or do either parent have to start a custody case separately. in Louisiana
Why are there state agencies to collect child support but none forcing women to follow visitation orders?
Child Extended Summer Visitation?
Because i have been in korea with the miiltary for the past year is there anyway that i can ask for more than the alloted 42 days of visitation during the summerShe has had every holiday and has had all of last year i would like to ask for the entire summer
Restricting Father's Visitation in Texas?
Ok, I got divorced 2 years ago when my daughter was 6 months old because her father was so verbally abusive. He has never seen her for more than a few minutes, and no phone calls, no birthday or christmas presents, NOTHING. Now suddenly he calls me and says he wants to start seeing her, so he takes her for his first weekend EVER, and I see on Facebook that he has gone to the bar. So after nearly a year, our divorce was finalized feb. 16 2011 , he takes her and doesn't even finish out a 2 1 2 day visit. Can I take him to court to have his visitation restricted to maybe one weekend a month until he shows that he is responsible? My girl is only 2 and doesn't even know him, and he lives with 3 other gay men. He has nothing but pictures of himself at the bar, some of which show himself posing with sex toys. Can I make the argument that she needs time to get to know him before just being taken every other weekend with a father she doesn't know to a houseful of other men she doesn't know? Maybe for the next year, and then we can extend his visitation rights? We also had the problem that he not only goes to the bar the first time he ever has her, he refused to answer any of my calls or texts while he had her. Please do not reply with nasty comments about me being a bitter ex wife, you do not know me or him. If he truly wants to see her I am fine with that, but to just show up one day and take a small child that is still in diapers away for so much time cant be good for her. At least if he had been seeing her that much time throughout her life, she would know him and be used to it. I should add that I already have sole custody, and he does have a court order in place for visitation that is standard, like every other weekend. He is also not paying court ordered medical either.
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