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I and my husband have been married for 4 years.We married in September 2007But our marriage is far from a normal oneBefore marriage he was desperate to have a child, had already fixed a baby name even before our marriageHe's 32 and i am 30.and his job requires him to be out of home a lot.So he doesn't have enough time to care for his daughterHe is very good looking, very rich and famous.Hes really tall and has a 8 pack abs as wellWhere he works publicity involving girls affairs doesn't work so please don't say its publicity it doesn't take place in hotels, restaurants, parking lots etc .In public and on twitter he always shows or maintains that he s such a family guy, hes a family man through and through.When I go to watch him perform he kisses me in the crowds only when he can get down from the ramp way and when lots of people are seeing and when he can't get down from the ramp way i am supposed to sit backstage.He says family time is so important and so valuable and he needs time with family so he took break from work for 3 weeks, and writing such things mean who is his family and then he cheats??And then on twitter he keeps saying such nice things about me like I am back on twitter as people had said horrible things to me so I left showing my photo with friends on twitter that I went to a Saturday night showsaying happy birthday to me on twitter when we live together, time needed to be with family after he took a break from work everything on twitter Like spreading news that we are going to Bahamas for a family vacation when he took a break three weeks ago. On my birthday 11th Jan but didn't mention that we are going on my birthday, instead wrote happy birthday to me on twitter when we live together BUT THE REALITY IS THISI have seen pictures in which he was seen with a blond girl, with whom he was cuddling from behind, had his arms on her chest and neck, kissing her head at an almost empty restaurant and was laughing and joking. Enjoying himself thoroughly.He was also pictured intimately with his close friend of 5 years who is 7 years younger than him Then in June last year thrashed her publicly on radio for being a and the 10 men he knows. she slept with. And who she must be sleeping with while he s talking and was in a sexual affair with her other wise how did he know that she sleeps around when they were in different sections at their workplace?That same interview he mentioned me saying what he put me through while he stopped breathing after he overdosed on drugs 6 years ago,how much his in laws care for him.the girl either cheated on him or he found her kissing sleeping with some other guy or called it off that's why he became berserk had seen him jump up and down in happiness at his work placeI have seen pics of him staring at someone continuously or smiling and i am damn sure it was that girl as she works with him and he was at his workplace.In December before he took a break i saw her near him.he had a permanent reputation of a jerk a few years agoWhen we got married i saw a pic of him with a blond sitting on his lap he was shirtless and showing the wedding ring to the camera even though he got my name tattooed on his arm We met at a bar in 2004 where he saw me saying love at first sight, and asked for my phone number.I gave it to him saying if you can memorize it then call and then he called and we started dating but amidst all this he was never committed. Every time infatuated with blondes yet wanted a child desperately as no one was ready to date him because of his bad nature and ill treatment of women when they rejected him. Earlier before marriage he would hold hands in public, kiss in front of his friends but he would continue cheating too. And i have seen pictures of his various dates during our engagement period also.We also had to act in a documentary where we had to act out a few kissing scenes or scenes showing husband bonding with his family real but when the whole scene was shown everyone had one thing to comment that our chemistry looked contrived, boring fluff and unnatural.Because when hes with us he is always sitting with our daughter,teaching her,looking after her pre school studies,playing with her.On holidays again hes involved with her,teaching her swimming etcwhats his deal?all this fake tweets to show that he is a family man,writing happy birthday on twitter when we were together that day and then his playboy lifestyle?Is he staying because he needs a maid to look after the child?loves me or not?will he dump me as soon as he finds his real girl?

Why, in 2012, do women still "give up" their birth names after marriage?
The whole concept of stripping a woman of her identity is so " shut up and stay in the kitchen and bake" . I have little respect, none actually, for the " name" tradition.

What are the big NO-NOs of marriage communication?
I want to have a sane and happy marriage

How to get copy marriage license?
mona l amato to joseph r jankowski on april 10 1970

Love marriage arya samaj?
Dear sir, Me and my gf have done marriage from arya samaj mandir, chandigarh. we got a certificate from them. which is certified by arya samaj. in religion we are sikh. is this certificate valid? if not, than plz help to suggest, how we can register our marriage.because we already discussed with a advocate here, he is telling that it is very difficult to register marriage here in chandigarh. we already gave him Rs. 12000 for arya samaj marriage. it is too difficult to give him more money . because both of us are at the beginning of our carrier.

Is mine and my husbands jobs taking over our marriage?
ok so my husband and i are newly weds and we have be together for 4 yrs now and have a 3 yr old daughter so we have to work different times i work when hes home and he works when im home and we both put in over 40 a week but i think its effecting our marriage we only have one day of the week where we see eachother a full day but im starting to feel depressed and feel like we have no time for each other and i dont know how to fix this and PLEASE REAL ANSWERS...and we only say hi and bye thats it when i get home he has to leave and basically when he gets home in a few hours i have to leave

Would u stay in this marriage?
he is good dad hard working, never misses work always helpful around the house good guy in general cons dont think he really loves you but is very committed never does anything for anniversary birthday valentines doesnt say i love you doesnt cuddle doesnt ever give you his undivided attention, ever, for 6 years. always goes to someone else first, always. if there is a spare 20 mins, its always on a truck or one of hte kids glad he spends time w kids but i need some time too, as his wife i dont love him but are very committedcant lay out our whole life story, but regardless of why he doenst show it, it just matters that he doesnt show it. we've talked it to death, no advice please just if ude stay or notwe ve read that book, and read a million others. problem is u cant force 'love' feelings if they arent there.we are so committed just because we are both 'good' people, but not because we love each other. and no i dont love him, he's just thier dad to me

Real relationship or fake marriage?
I and my husband have been married for 4 years.We married in September 2007But our marriage is far from a normal oneBefore marriage he was desperate to have a child, had already fixed a baby name even before our marriageHe's 32.and his job requires him to be out of home a lot.So he doesn't have enough time to care for his daughterHe is very good looking, very rich and famous.Hes really tall and has a 8 pack abs as wellWhere he works publicity involving girls affairs doesn't work so please don't say its publicity it doesn't take place in hotels, restaurants, parking lots etc .In public and on twitter he always shows or maintains that he s such a family guy, hes a family man through and through.When I go to watch him perform he kisses me in the crowds only when he can get down from the ramp way and when lots of people are seeing and when he can't get down from the ramp way i am supposed to sit backstage.He says family time is so important and so valuable and he needs time with family so he took break from work for 3 weeks, and writing such things mean who is his family and then he cheats??And then on twitter he keeps saying such nice things about me like I am back on twitter as people had said horrible things to me so I left showing my photo with friends on twitter that I went to a Saturday night showsaying happy birthday to me on twitter when we live together, time needed to be with family after he took a break from work everything on twitter Like spreading news that we are going to Bahamas for a family vacation when he took a break three weeks ago. On my birthday 11th Jan but didn't mention that we are going on my birthday, instead wrote happy birthday to me on twitter when we live together BUT THE REALITY IS THISI have seen pictures in which he was seen with a blond girl, with whom he was cuddling from behind, had his arms on her chest and neck, kissing her head at an almost empty restaurant and was laughing and joking. Enjoying himself thoroughly.He was also pictured intimately with his close friend of 5 years who is 7 years younger than him Then in June last year thrashed her publicly on radio for being a and the 10 men he knows. she slept with. And who she must be sleeping with while he s talking and was in a sexual affair with her other wise how did he know that she sleeps around when they were in different sections at their workplace?That same interview he mentioned me saying what he put me through while he stopped breathing after he overdosed on drugs 6 years ago,how much his in laws care for him.the girl either cheated on him or he found her kissing sleeping with some other guy or called it off that's why he became berserk had seen him jump up and down in happiness at his work placehe had a permanent reputation of a jerk a few years agoWhen we got married i saw a pic of him with a blond sitting on his lap he was shirtless and showing the wedding ring to the camera even though he got my name tattooed on his arm We met at a bar in 2004 where he saw me saying love at first sight, and asked for my phone number.I gave it to him saying if you can memorize it then call and then he called and we started dating but amidst all this he was never committed. Every time infatuated with blondes yet wanted a child desperately as no one was ready to date him because of his bad nature and ill treatment of women when they rejected him. Earlier before marriage he would hold hands in public, kiss in front of his friends but he would continue cheating too. And i have seen pictures of his various dates during our engagement period also.We also had to act in a documentary where we had to act out a few kissing scenes or scenes showing husband bonding with his family real but when the whole scene was shown everyone had one thing to comment that our chemistry looked contrived, boring fluff and unnatural.Is he staying because he needs a maid to look after the child?Because when hes with us he is always sitting with our daughter,teaching her,looking after her pre school studies,playing with her.On holidays again hes involved with her,teaching her swimming etcwhats his deal?

Would you return to a marriage if...?
My husband and I are on a 6 month trial separation and have recently been separated by several thousand miles of land and ocean as well . This separation was a mutual decision. I'm not going to explain too much but we have had an extremely stressful couple of years and have fell out of love, and decided that we should have time apart.The kids are 2 and 4, and still have a strong sense of our family unit mummy, daddy and themselves . I'm a firm believer in family and have always wanted a happy family, but am conflicted because I know we could all live happily as a family, and will have the opportunity to do so in the next few months, but I'm not sure it would be right of us to move back under the same roof if their daddy and I are not truly in love with each other. At some point I would like to be in love with someone, and I honestly don't feel as though he and I will ever love one another, like we did, again. I just know that if I meet someone who I really connect with and develop feelings for, I don't want it to get messy with my children's dad... so better to be honest now and call it quits I think.I guess I'm seeking validation and perhaps other perspectives.. thanks.Well after 10 years of marriage I'm pretty sure I know it's not MTV LOL But thanks sweetheart.

Do you think marriage is overrated?

What is the use of marriage?
I am 18 male. I am talking about couples that have been living together for 10 years. In a situation like that what even changes after marriage since they were already living together. It seems like it has just become a title for social acceptance. Why do I need a title to love someone? Besides the tax benefits, what is the actual use of getting married when you can love someone equally without a piece of paper.

Please i need your sincere advice.should i go on with the marriage to him? ?
im dating this man from another tribe different from my own.he loves me so much and the love he has for me supercedes my own love for him but i dont even allow him to touch me always because i dont find him attractive enough but this man loves me so much,infact he worhips me and we have dated for seven years now.should i go on to marry him like that despite all this.i feel sorry for him. another issue is that my father didnt want me to marry him because he is from another tribe.

What makes a woman "marriage material"?
discuss

Isn't this a terrible/shallow relationship/marriage?
First this guy is really rich,really good looking and famous.Hes turning 32 this year.BUT he cheats.He takes pictures with women either kissing him on his cheeks or sometimes he repeatedly kisses another girl on her cheeks, head etc,also took pictures with three skimpy clad women all around him at a restaurant and one of those girls sit on his lap while he s shirtless, both closely posing for pictures, when he got married.cuddling another blond girl from behind, had his arms on her chest and neck, kissing her head at an almost empty restaurant and was laughing and joking.posing intimately with another blond friend at a parking lot in the dark then in last year June he thrashed her publicly on radio for being a and the 10 men he knows.she slept with.and who she must be sleeping with while hes talkingand his wife is unperturbed by it and spends her days getting photographed with her friends clearly showing no concern,enjoying his fame,luxury and status.who blatantly posts pictures of herself and her dozen girl friends in bars,restaurants,bedrooms,stadiums,beach all over social networking sites and is least bothered about what he does.always clicking her pictures.in weird postures.When they went to Bahamas 2 weeks ago she clicked her own pictures and one picture of the guy kissing his daughter which he must have asked her to click.as he loves getting photographed with his daughter.and is always dressed up and happy.and she went to watch him perform she moved away from him even though he wasn't even coming near her.Its really upsetting to see him ruin himself like this.When people call him a sex addict or a pervert i feel really bad.He holds wrong notions about love,affection and marriage.He loves his daughter no doubt but hes not seeing the real picture.He thinks buying the front row of a theater to watch his daughter's play is love,he thinks taking her to Bahamas is love.How long will he continue to view materialism as love?When he knew he wouldn't commit to his wife why did he marry?only because he wanted a kid desperately???on top of that he hides his real self under a cloak and constantly brags about himself as a family man in public and on twitterhes lived a dark life in which he did drugs too.but throughout the time his wife never did anything to help him.had friends who made him worse.he has a 3 year old kid whom he loves.he loves kids too.he wears goth clothes which have skulls printed on them.hes also fascinated by skull images,sometimes he behaves in an odd way,sometimes really happy sometimes really sad.and is really observant.whats happening?no foolish answers please